Why do men rape and what do we do to eradicate rape completely?

ElishaThompson

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The news of rape everyday is getting out of hands. Rape cases spiking like the current pandemic. People are now protesting on social media and even out there on the streets against rape. But we fail to ask ourselves questions, who are the Victims of rape, Why do men rape, what do we do to eradicate rape?


Who are the Victims of rape?


Why won't men rape when our female teenagers are practicing broad daylight prostitution? Why won't men rape when our youth are walking half naked on the streets?

Imagine a young lady wearing clothes that exposes her cleavages and bums, and she is walking confidently on the streets, even at night lol! Why won't you be raped?

Low self esteem, that is the problem our new generation teenage ladies are battling with. Ladies now think they are not beautiful without excess makeup and exposable clothes. Some even go the extra mile of using enlargement products, why? Just to show off, just to show they are extremely gifted with assets, just to flaunt on social media.



There is no reasonable and sensible lady that will use her body to make money. Imagine this scenario, a lady visits a guy and follows him to his inner room, and the guy demands for sex and she is unwilling to oblige, why won't she be raped?

The reason our dear country is having a high number of rape cases every passing day is not as a result of unemployment or any other factor, it is solely centered on our ladies. No reasonable and sensible lady will dress indecently and even go ahead to move around with guys here and there.

A decent lady is not prone to rape, a careful lady is not prone to rape, a godly lady is not prone to rape.

Therefore the question "who are the Victims of rape" has been answered. They are the indecent and reckless ladies.



Why do men rape?


Whenever a man sees what he is not suppose to see under normal circumstance, his sexual urge topples. Men do not rape solely out of lust. Men rape because of what they see.

Indecency is everywhere, in the market, in school, in the internet, even in church. Everywhere is full of immorality and pornography. When a man sees the claevages, bums, thighs and other intriguing parts, he becomes sexually excited and therefore needs to satisfy himself , where there is no sex object available, he turns to rape.

In the market, our ladies dress like prostitutes, in school they turn to mermaids, in the internet, it is something else, and in church, it is like they are going to night club. They dress indecently with the sole aim of attracting men but they end up jeopardizing themselves.

When men lóok at them, they see them as sex object and are sexually heightened, if any opportunity is given, they turn to rape. That is why rape cases are spiking on a daily basis.

The question "why do men rape" is a trending question, it is high time ladies checked themselves before answering the question. It is only an indecent and reckless lady that is vulnerable and prone to rape.



What do we do to eradicate rape?


I will talk on it in the upcoming article. Meanwhile, drop your suggestions in the comment box.

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MODIFIED
To everyone out there, stereotyping and calling me out saying am trying to justify rape, you are all wrong, am not a rapist, neither do I like any, infact rapist should be partially castrated.
Please am just a writer, and that was my own views, you can share yours

Please share your views

1. Covik 1 9 pandemic lockdown. virile abled-bodied young men Indoors with constant sighting and close proximity with young nubile women. When they couldn't resist the temptation, this what results unfortunately. Men who should have been busy at the grind or studying at an institution.

2. Hormones at play. In biology, we were taught that when male and female attain sexual maturity they tend to display certain behavioural characteristics.

VeeVeeMyLuv:
Covik 1 9 pandemic lockdown

I don't get your point

Elistho:
Please share your views

Some are sick upstairs.

They rape unconditionally and indiscriminately, they go after young , old, naked and clothed etc

your view is great and valid,


but dat doesn't stop the fact that some certain people are rapist, despite the fact that the girl is decent and doesn't do what you mentioned above they will still rape her cus they're a "rapist"


other way to discover a rapist is "someone dat love talking about sex always , everything wey dey his or her head is sex talk, if you're discussing something reasonable he or she will definitely change it to sex talk, he or she is obsessed about sex talk, " such person is potential rapist cus if he or she find a way to secure a girl or boy in a private place he or she will try to rape him or her


potential rapist plenty for nairaland

our prayer should be we shouldn't jam a rapist, and we should be careful about our movement around boys lonely

all is well

You have solid points though the rapists themselves shouldn't be Absolved of the Blame

Elistho:
I don't get your point

1. Covik 1 9 pandemic lockdown. virile abled-bodied young men Indoors with constant sighting and close proximity with young nubile women. When they couldn't resist the temptation, this what results unfortunately. Men who should have been busy at the grind or studying at an institution. Idle mind is devils workshop.

2. Hormones at play. In biology, we were taught that when male and female attain sexual maturity they tend to display certain behavioural characteristics. There's a reason why the Bible ask us to put our bodies under subjection.

Then I wonder the rapist that wrote this piece of -------


How about Muslims that cover their whole body and still get raped?
How about babies that get raped?? Are their pampers so seducing?
How about chickens and dogs?
How about little boys in 5he street,were there penis big enough to seduce that big aunty??


Who ever wants to write on rape should cancel out dressing.
Cause rape victims I've come across had their full clothing on.

Why do I find this post very shallow as well as the op who posted it, and the commenters in favor of the op.

Fish brains everywhere.

Cutehector:
Why do I find this post very shallow as well as the op who posted it, and the commenters in favor of the op.

Fish brains everywhere.

oshey elephant brain


your head like unripe paw paw


didirin

Why do men rape?

1. It comes as a fetish to some
2. High sexual drive/libido- this can be worsened due to the provocative dressing of our nowadays female.
3. I think it could be some sort psychological issue.

Most rape cases are done by men for revenge like punishing a lady who didn't want to date then or who was forming yanga or who ate their money or who was way out of their league or snubbed them.

Only few rape cases are based on a guy seeing a poorly dressed lady, when porn is rampant these days men don't eye ladies as much as the old days.

Rape is a crime of passion and all crimes like this are born of hate, revenge, and to boost self esteem or they are psyco pervs with a rape fetish

My question?

Why do ladies love fifty shades series.

What her she dresses, decently or not. Once a rapist finds her sexually attractive, the devil in him will kick in.

And also Rape can be both ways

Op no matter how valid your point is, it doesn't justify rape, men who rape are monsters, most do it out of wickedness and pay back, if indecent dressing leads to rape that means 90% of nigeria ladies would have be victims of rape.

StacyO:
Then I wonder the rapist that wrote this piece of -------


How about Muslims that cover their whole body and still get raped?
How about babies that get raped?? Are their pampers so seducing?
How about chickens and dogs?
How about little boys in 5he street,were there penis big enough to seduce that big aunty??


Who ever wants to write on rape should cancel out dressing.
Cause rape victims I've come across had their full clothing on.

looking for a reason to dress indecently yeah its not dress that leads to rape but it trigger it to great extent

StacyO:
Then I wonder the rapist that wrote this piece of -------


How about Muslims that cover their whole body and still get raped?
How about babies that get raped?? Are their pampers so seducing?
How about chickens and dogs?
How about little boys in 5he street,were there penis big enough to seduce that big aunty??


Who ever wants to write on rape should cancel out dressing.
Cause rape victims I've come across had their full clothing on.

No mind the fool tactically justifying rape!

SILENTandSMART2:


oshey elephant brain


your head like unripe paw paw


didirin

This one is obviously a kid. Maybe teenager.

1..mentally down and chronic idleness

Dong2:

This one is obviously a kid. Maybe teenager.

lol

you're right jare I'm a small niggy with great future


i never old at all no think ham daddy anything for your small baby ?

Dong2:

This one is obviously a kid. Maybe teenager.

lol

you're right jare I'm a small niggy with great future


i never old at all no think ham daddy anything for your small baby ?

It's simple men rape cause they can, they have the power to rape.
People with power tend to use it to opress the ones below, like the whites keeping blacks as slaves.
Women don't rape often cause they can't pin down a man that's why women rape kids and teenagers cause those are the people they can show their power to or drugged men

virginprincess:
Op no matter how valid your point is, it doesn't justify rape, men who rape are monsters, most do it out of wickedness and pay back, if indecent dressing leads to rape that means 90% of nigeria ladies would have be victims of rape.

Not even Nigerian ladies cause,the ladies here don't dress provocatively.

How about a particular country in the abroad where you can wear underpants in the beach and men pass you by like they saw nothing.

Most, if not all Nigerians are hypocritical in nature.

When they see this same foreigners in thongs,they hail them for being woke.

When they see their ladies on a V shaped top,they shame her for being too revealing.

Even women are not left out. I remember going to the bank then for the freezing of acct. issue (I still don't get why they did that anyway)

A woman who should be in her early thirties saw me and started shouting. Started making some very silly comments
"Ahan if they rape her now she'll start crying"
She'll start seeking for mumu justice
Just look at what she's wearing

I just ignored and walked inside the bank,I guess that really got her angry and she started adding more words. Even others in the bank were seriously staring at her.


Mind you, that sort of woman have girls at home that are already into sex.

The dress I wore wasn't even too revealing to say the least.

I wonder why everyone thinks getting raped is caused by dressing.

If Op added time(walking about at night),that would have been much better.



So disappointed.

Lightangel65:
It's simple men rape cause they can, they have the power to rape.
People with power tend to use it to opress the ones below, like the whites keeping blacks as slaves.
Women don't rape often cause they can't pin down a man that's why women rape kids and teenagers cause those are the people they can show their power to or drugged men

I'll prefer going with this comment anyway.

aminu114:
looking for a reason to dress indecently yeah its not dress that leads to rape but it trigger it to great extent

Do you know what PORN is??

Have you ever come across nude pics before??











No one can dictate what I wear.

Even my family love it when we dress indecently(in the Nigerian English now).

They know our value, no slowpoke will ever try such and go scott free.




Why are rape apologists all over nairaland?

StacyO:


Not even Nigerian ladies cause,the ladies here don't dress provocatively.

How about a particular country in the abroad where you can wear underpants in the beach and men pass you by like they saw nothing.

Most, if not all Nigerians are hypocritical in nature.

When they see this same foreigners in thongs,they hail them for being woke.

When they see their ladies on a V shaped top,they shame her for being too revealing.

Even women are not left out. I remember going to the bank then for the freezing of acct. issue (I still don't get why they did that anyway)

A woman who should be in her early thirties saw me and started shouting. Started making some very silly comments
"Ahan if they rape her now she'll start crying"
She'll start seeking for mumu justice
Just look at what she's wearing

I just ignored and walked inside the bank,I guess that really got her angry and she started adding more words. Even others in the bank were seriously staring at her.


Mind you, that sort of woman have girls at home that are already into sex.

The dress I wore wasn't even too revealing to say the least.

I wonder why everyone thinks getting raped is caused by dressing.

If Op added time(walking about at night),that would have been much better.



So disappointed.

There are so many dumb women in Nigeria I can fully understand why it's easy for males to do so much oppressive stuff to females and keep them down.
Just imagine what the idiot woman was saying, justifying rape because she didn't like your dressing.
Complete moron_ of a person.
I wish more African women will have sense and stop enforcing misogyny on themselves.

CHoccolaTE:


There are so many dumb women in Nigeria I can fully understand why it's easy for males to do so much oppressive stuff to females and keep them down.
Just imagine what the idiot woman was saying, justifying rape because she didn't like your dressing.
Complete moron_ of a person.
I wish more African women will have sense and stop enforcing misogyny on themselves.

See this mumu, rape and mysogyny are two different things. Did she justify rape use your head she said dressing like a prostitute can cause rape.

What is wrong with ladies of this days someone is telling you how to avoid rape and you are insulting that person. Bad people will always exist and rapists will always exist if you like keep blaming men or mysogyny that won't change the facts that rapists will always exist.

If you like walk naked, pass lonely roads at night and if you get raped don't say we did not warn you

Elistho:
Please share your views

Rape is a crime against man and humanity, nothing they or wear will justify rape , this is free world and I think our woman should be free to wear what makes them feel comfortable

CHoccolaTE:


There are so many dumb women in Nigeria I can fully understand why it's easy for males to do so much oppressive stuff to females and keep them down.
Just imagine what the idiot woman was saying, justifying rape because she didn't like your dressing.
Complete moron_ of a person.
I wish more African women will have sense and stop enforcing misogyny on themselves.

But she never justified rape, abi you have a personal vendetta with her