BeigJawnson:



when a system of government isnt working in a country, leads to all what you mentioned not child's beating

Don't mind them. Ppl who were disciplined in Nigeria go ahead to become somebody when they go abroad bcoz the system works.

Ulunne777:


Don't mind them. Ppl who were disciplined in Nigeria go ahead to become somebody when they go abroad bcoz the system works.

yes ooo... you are very very correct ... bless your heart...

bizme:
Visit Google and do a search yourself. If you cannot do that, then I am not interested in engaging you. Take care.

Google will be the one to tell me what YOU think works and defend it for you?

You should not engage me when you cannot defend arguments you make is the point.

Next time don't open threads to make such arguments.

Ulunne777:
Yes on a good day after you've been warned several times.
This year alone I had bought up to 3 slippers for them and they'd throw it over the next compound while playing.costly kiddies footwearsoo. They usually land in a big gutter there which means no retrieval. I talked, threatened yet when I buy another one the same story.

I have had enough and after flogging them very well presented a new one. The one called bathroom slippers�.each #150

OMG,6 months after they are still intact to be washed every Saturday. If you see the carefulness. Lol

Exactly, sometimes i will talk and talk no change, but once i bring out the cane even without flogging they will start behaving normal

Okay mr.

Gamesmart:


Google will be the one to tell me what YOU think works and defend it for you?

You should not engage me when you cannot defend arguments you make is the point.

Next time don't open threads to make such arguments.

blesoh:

Exactly, sometimes i will talk and talk no change, but once i bring out the cane even without flogging they will start behaving normal

No mind them.

Dem go dey talk nonsense with confidence.

bizme:
You're a perfect example of how not to raise a child. Instead of countering my points you would rather abuse me. This kind of aggression is pretty common in Nigeria: now you know why. Too much beating by mum ad dad made you wanna attack anyone with contrary opinion. It is a form of trying to beat dissenting opinion into submission. I hope you heal though.

U made no point to counter sir.

I train leaders .....

Beating is part of Discipline...

Reason why migration to Obodo oyinbo scares me ... Because I don't want to be thinking twice when I "have to" spank my own children in moulding them becoming a better person especially on issues that requires spanking in order to facilitate necessary corrections and controls !

Nonetheless, there is a thin line between Beating a child and Abuse of a Child .... Most parents do cross this line because they do not have child administration skills themselves and they also lack leadership qualities .....

Your child will behave like you (It's DNA) .... why beating them for what you are doing wrong ...

One Surest way discipline for a child is to establish a clear cut responsibilities for them and convince them on the merit of fulfilling such responsibilities and the consequences of being irresponsible...... Imbibe in them leadership qualities and challenge them when they erred as if they are an Adult ..... There sense of maturity get developed as earlier as possible ....

you see your kids having more reasonableness and maturity than someone like 10years ahead of them in age !

Children's brain is Open Source ... they learn from what they see and are all subjected to their parent's DNA ... whatever you do today will surely affect your offspring ceteris paribus !!

We were told that morality in Nigeria is much better than in the developed world....and it's all because we beat our children like goats. :-)

dre11:


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