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Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by Gilbertase: 12:11am On Jan 23
StacyO:


When I mean pro,I mean a male virgin.

Male virgins have a higher tendency of becoming freaks cause,they have taken their time to study everything about bedmatics.
this is actually accurate oo. Take me for example, wasnt sexually active till i was 21, but in all that time i had wide theoretical knowledge on everything sex. O boy, once i started na sotey lash i dey lash o, almost to the point of sexual addiction. Libido insanely high even till now, and bedmatics skills on point..i had tons of lady friends back in my whoring days due to this (nickname was banger)...lol. I know that waiting a while before having sex coupled with the porn i was consuming in all that time def played a role in how i'm wired sexually now
Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by MrCodeSolo: 5:46am On Jan 23
If she like lose interest I really don't care becuz nothing last forever.....d most important goal is to leave legacy behind....we move.

Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by Nobody: 9:46am On Jan 23
Gilbertase:
this is actually accurate oo. Take me for example, wasnt sexually active till i was 21, but in all that time i had wide theoretical knowledge on everything sex. O boy, once i started na sotey lash i dey lash o, almost to the point of sexual addiction. Libido insanely high even till now, and bedmatics skills on point..i had tons of lady friends back in my whoring days due to this (nickname was banger)...lol. I know that waiting a while before having sex coupled with the porn i was consuming in all that time def played a role in how i'm wired sexually now

At least, someone that understood what I meant.
Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by Evolutionlove: 10:08pm On Jan 23
bizme:
Let's not go down that particular rabbit hole. It is only people without a good knowledge of history that tries to idolize the past and paint the present in grimmer hue. In the past there were utility values for polygamy that were peculiar to that time. First, most of the households were farmers with hundreds and thousands of acres to till. The fact that there was no organized labour as it were (sometimes community arrangements existed), each man literally had to produce his own workforce in-house. In other words, there was a specific need for having several children.
Secondly, diseases like malaria, sickle disease, polio, and many communicable diseases that were not understood, were killing children in particular in droves. And surviving to adulthood literally became a game of numbers. You might start out with 10 children under the age of 5 and only 1 or 2 survived to adulthood. It is not uncommon for most grandmothers 90 years and above to tell stories of how many children they gave birth to and how many actually survived. This in particular, together with the first point, necessitated the polygamous arrangement.

Lastly, mortality rate for men was much terrible at the time, many dying from communal clashes and wars or getting raided by slave-traders. More women, much fewer men.

Polygamy served specific societal purposes and it wasn't because of sex or waning desire for sex. Most wives were circumcised, and it was generally frowned upon for a wife to enjoy sex any way.

I am setting the record straight here because that guy was incorrectly trying to paint a lofty picture of the past.


Hmmmm so much fact and Intelligence packaged In this wonderful post. Nice I give It you. I'm never and will never be a Fan of Polygamy In this modern world. The Eve's Offsprings go Just kill person like Chicken lol.....

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Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by Nobody: 6:38pm On Jan 24
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Thanks a lot. You are very kind.

Evolutionlove:


Hmmmm so much fact and Intelligence packaged In this wonderful post. Nice I give It you. I'm never and will never be a Fan of Polygamy In this modern world. The Eve's Offsprings go Just kill person like Chicken lol.....

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Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by Luminary1: 8:33pm On Jan 24
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Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by egobetatoday: 7:15pm On Jan 25
Hassanmaye:

20years!!! Chai man you dont know what God has done for you, my uncle divorce his wife 2weeks after marriage! What is happening with marriage this times

you saw in his post where he compromised. it is hard for such kind of people not to have long sweet marriages. He understood with his wife and took up some chore around the house. The wife sees this and reciprocates. I'm sure they will count several yrs together. This days we have alpha males/ males who know everything/assistant gods, what do you think will happen? Divorce after few days of course.

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Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by egobetatoday: 9:01pm On Jan 25
yeman1:
Honestly ,it's only God can save us in this marriage. I remembered my neighbor fights almost everyday , wife do complain body pains every time cos of house chores which made her to reject her husband every time. So husband decided to be doing all the house chores but she still denied him of sex, then the man employ house help to do everything at home, but she refused the man still. She said she doesn't have urge , then the man said sometimes she gives her head , romance her and all sorts just to let her calm but she refused oh. So the man said he wants to divorce her with 2 children. So what do you think about this one ?

How did you know this much in another mans marriage? cheesy
Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by yeman1(m): 9:08pm On Jan 25
egobetatoday:


How did you know this much in another mans marriage? cheesy

Because he's my neighbor and a friend .
Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by Nobody: 10:30am On Jan 26
Very important question. I was wondering if this person was a marriage counselor or something. :-D

egobetatoday:


How did you know this much in another mans marriage? cheesy
Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by Lari03r(m): 5:35pm On Jan 26
Spirit of polygamy at play, because you can't eat your cake and have it. If you stop your hubby from having sex with you, your stupid action will lead him to other women.

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