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Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by solonubinho(m): 3:34pm On Jan 22, 2021 |
BusinessCity: You are wrong Sir. There are two types of marriage recognized by law in Nigeria. a. Statutory marriage; and b. Customary marriage. What you call white wedding or church wedding is just a celebration. It is at the point of the registry that the marriage is made official. Usually after the celebration, they head to the registry. On the other hand, there is customary marriage. This is marriage according to the custom of the people as it has been done by their fathers and those before them. It is also worthy of note that marriage under customary law has nothing to do with the gods or deities of your village. It is totally incorrect to ascribe such belief to customary marriage. This would lead me to give you a brief description of custom as "the acceptable practices of a particular group of people bound together by blood or ethnicity". This means that if a large group of people bound together by blood or ethnicity decide to slap their foreheads as a means of greeting, it becomes a custom once it has been widely accepted and passed down to other generations. Also, please note that it is duplicity to have both customary and statutory or white wedding as most would call it. However, one would not blame them as it is what society has expected of them. That is not to say that each is not mutually exclusive of the other. |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by Enugupikin: 3:35pm On Jan 22, 2021 |
Tonytonex:That's what I'm saying, only if she's a virgin 1 Like |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by Nitah1: 3:36pm On Jan 22, 2021 |
mezico96:Oga fear God and depart from lies,na you do the traditional marriage y you come the lie here say na your friend? OK,what's your friend name? |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by Enugupikin: 3:38pm On Jan 22, 2021 |
Obynolee:Same testing you lots have been testing and having 20 exes, I just corrected you at the emboldened, ask your mother if your dad did not marry her as a virgin and is your mother worst off with it? No but you that have had sex with 20 women which one u Don marry Small boys who don't know how to even clean nyash de come talk |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by Obynolee(f): 3:42pm On Jan 22, 2021 |
Enugupikin: I would have taken you serious if you're a virgin or marry as a virgin, but you're one of those hypocrites who are too religious but don't know God. |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by BeigJawnson(m): 3:48pm On Jan 22, 2021 |
BusinessCity: what is all this, so you think traditional marriage ceremony is always done infront of a shrine or what...? that marriage ceremony where Jesus change water to wine, was it a church wedding or tha jews traditional wedding? i am asking you mr all knowing christain. |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by toprealman: 3:50pm On Jan 22, 2021 |
mezico96:Two months not two years/ 2 decades or 2 centuries. I'm sure the husband involved can cope. |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by Hugoboi(m): 3:51pm On Jan 22, 2021 |
IamAtikulate: So from your analogy, a father can willingly collect dowry and willingly refuse to hand over the bride over conditions best known to him? Do you see how stupid you sound? Have you ever heard of breach of contract? 1 Like |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by BusinessCity: 3:51pm On Jan 22, 2021 |
BeigJawnson: It's your headache if you judge me calling me all knowing Christian. You better one stick with your convictions and let me be. |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by frozen70(f): 3:51pm On Jan 22, 2021 |
mezico96: The father is right until the whole formalities are done, especially if she is a virgin woman |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by BusinessCity: 3:53pm On Jan 22, 2021 |
KushLyon: Your head ache. I should stay on a thread for 24 hours to give you the spiritual education you didn't receive all your life. Una go tire. I'm at work. Pay my family work rate and I'll help treat your ignorance. Till then vamanos |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by BusinessCity: 3:53pm On Jan 22, 2021 |
DeRay98: Nope. I don't know it's origins. Only you do. |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by focus7: 3:55pm On Jan 22, 2021 |
BusinessCity: Obviously you are following from far behind and you are single having not experience wedding demand from the committee appointed by GO or daddy. We have been there, talking from experience. Ask those that have been there, ask the alter boys, inner caucus associates they will tell you about the wedding business in the church |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by KushLyon(m): 3:58pm On Jan 22, 2021 |
BusinessCity: Someone that claims he is at work is still having the time to reply comments....when it comes to dropping scriptural references, then you're at work... Hypocrite 1 Like |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by BusinessCity: 4:00pm On Jan 22, 2021 |
focus7: Is that one wedding or a cultist practice. Is that what I mentioned through out the course of my debate Did I not say that even a pastor can stand and intercede with just the two parties they pray before God and it's upheld as Christian wedding Did I not tentatively say Christian wedding is a simple admonition or statement saying God we want to marry and that 15 minutes was okay for such an activity Keep arguing with yourself. I'm extremely busy. You guys plz |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by BusinessCity: 4:00pm On Jan 22, 2021 |
KushLyon: Yen yen yen na u sabi. Free me |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by marvin906(m): 4:06pm On Jan 22, 2021 |
Sixfeetbelle: So everybody that sticks to traditional marriage is doing it on the alter of the devil.. |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by Greatuzoewulu: 4:09pm On Jan 22, 2021 |
Does the white do traditional weddings? Yes,the church wedding is the white man traditional wedding but an African man will do his own traditional wedding and regard it as if it is not a wedding. Let me ask a question, is it curse or incantations that is done on the traditional wedding day? Does it mean that prayers said by the parents is irrelevant?. We often say God is omnipresent meaning God is everywhere, is God a witness to our traditional wedding. Is there anything wrong in inviting our pastors/Reverends to bless the couple on the said date? We just give ourselves unnecessary pressure. I believe the young groom may not have much fund to sponsor his African traditional wedding and Oyinbo traditional wedding at the same time. |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by mezico96(m): 4:10pm On Jan 22, 2021 |
Nitah1: His name is friend, do you believe its not me now? |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by BusinessCity: 4:12pm On Jan 22, 2021 |
Sixfeetbelle: . If I begin to dig deep into spiritual matters and say for kola or alcoholic drinks the number of demons that comes to such occasion they won't comprehend. It's beyond their thinking. They think anything traditional is anything goes After they marry all sorts of troubles start to appear. Health, Finance and they don't know that on that day contracts are sealed in the spiritual realm to perpetuate issues Mehn I wonder who pastors many of the young breed of Christians. What a pity. By the way, you gave an excellent answer. What does the traditional marriage tie to/stand upon None of my kids will ever be wedded traditionally. Never. |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by mezico96(m): 4:13pm On Jan 22, 2021 |
frozen70: Virgin my leg The madam is even pregnant |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by frozen70(f): 4:16pm On Jan 22, 2021 |
mezico96: Good for them, don't be surprise she will go to her parents to have her delivery |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by bizhop01: 4:54pm On Jan 22, 2021 |
Enugupikin:Nollywood virgin wife |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by Tjah: 4:56pm On Jan 22, 2021 |
BusinessCity:That means u mistake marriage for wedding. |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by BusinessCity: 4:57pm On Jan 22, 2021 |
Tjah: Smh. What's marriage what's wedding. Plz guys let's drop it abeg. My mind is racy with work |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by bluediesel03: 5:02pm On Jan 22, 2021 |
I don't have any problem with the lady staying with the father until church wedding...but my anger is if anything bad happened to the lady while the father's house and the family needs money to sought the thing out,they won't hesitate to remind you that the lady is your wife.....so who is fooling who now..? |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by Tjah: 5:04pm On Jan 22, 2021 |
BusinessCity:Now i get ur confusion, MARRIAGE is not WEDDING. carry out a little more research. Thanks sir |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by BusinessCity: 5:06pm On Jan 22, 2021 |
Tjah: Go educate yourself first. Stop dragging me back to a subject that has been done with. Let's work. Keep your perspectives, I'll do the same with mine. |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by Tjah: 5:08pm On Jan 22, 2021 |
BusinessCity:No way,Mr man. I refuse to let u b wen u have refused to learn. |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by BeigJawnson(m): 5:33pm On Jan 22, 2021 |
BusinessCity: tha facts still remain. no church wedding in tha bible. and it is not compulsory. period. and you can never dispute tha facts. |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by MummyD2020(f): 5:52pm On Jan 22, 2021 |
Saao: What if they have been having sex prior to the trad? |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by Goldie50: 5:55pm On Jan 22, 2021 |
The wedding that Jesus attended and changed water to wine was a TRADITIONAL WEDDING. It wasn't in the synagogue. Ruth and Boaz didn't do church wedding. Isaac and Rebekah didn't. It was a gift exchange, a form of dowry. God recognises traditional weddings. It is not evil. Let's stop being unnecessarily religious. If your bride price has been paid, you are as good as married. Appearing before a priest in church will not validate the union. Every culture has a way of conducting weddings. |
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