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Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by BusinessCity: 12:40pm On Jan 22, 2021
edoairways:

There is no Christian wedding to start with. No bible verses supporting wedding in the church.


Your perspective

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Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by FashionCookie(f): 12:42pm On Jan 22, 2021
galek:


WHAT YOU STRONGLY WISH FOR OTHERS, WILL COME TO YOU.. Like me or NOT

What did I wish for others you sense-kolo? That a man after paying the dowry of his wife is not allowed to go home with her because the church wedding is yet to take place?
May the Devil give you in-laws that will frustrate the living daylights out of you so that you'll know what the young man is facing.
Una go just dey use religion dey deceive unaselves. So those that did only traditional Marriage, are their homes not intact?

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Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by Funkybabee(f): 12:42pm On Jan 22, 2021
some people should mind their response with some agent of s!n here called atheists. mind who you are replying before they drag you to their s!nful thoughts amd way
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by edoairways: 12:43pm On Jan 22, 2021
BusinessCity:



Your perspective
It is from the Bible not me
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by BusinessCity: 12:44pm On Jan 22, 2021
edoairways:

It is from the Bible not me


My time to comment on this issue is up. If you want points. Refer to my comments throughout the thread.
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by edoairways: 12:46pm On Jan 22, 2021
joey150:


If you are a Christian how can you say church wedding is borrowed? The white or church wedding is part of the Christian tradition. It's not a "white man's" thing, it's a Christian thing.

Oh, Jesus was a Jew while he was on earth?

Why aren't you Jew? Since Jesus wasn't a Christian in the Bible.

Church wedding is borrowed culture, go and read the history
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by KushLyon(m): 12:47pm On Jan 22, 2021
BusinessCity:



Your perspective
Let me still ask again

Drop a single bible reference to back up your claims, you can't. You have been spewing rubbish ever since without a single scriptural reference, even the devil can quote bible references to back up his lies....just give a single biblical reference that supports your claim that the white wedding is the one true marriage ceremony....now let me watch you spew more thrash without a single bible verse as reference

Drop your perspective with scriptural reference to prove you aren't a blind follower
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by niri(m): 12:50pm On Jan 22, 2021
Pertaining marrying in church, I have not yet found it anywhere in the Bible that the Church shall conduct marriage. The authority to marry off children is vested in the parents and this is a divine authority which cannot be substituted by man’s law.
Take a good look at d marriage certificate u will see it's written on it CELEBRATION OF MARRIAGE at so and so church not wedding

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Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by BusinessCity: 12:50pm On Jan 22, 2021
KushLyon:

Let me still ask again

Drop a single bible reference to back up your claims, you can't. You have been spewing rubbish ever since without a single scriptural reference, even the devil can quote bible references to back up his lies....just give a single biblical reference that supports your claim that the white wedding is the one true marriage ceremony....now let me watch you spew more thrash without a single bible verse as reference

Drop your perspective with scriptural reference to prove you aren't a blind follower



Sorry I'm now in work mode. 3 hours on the thread is okay. Check my previous comments on my stance


Thanks and good day
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by edoairways: 12:51pm On Jan 22, 2021
mosesdejaviano:


I don't know what is required for traditional marriage in the part where you came from. But from my own part, the traditional marriage that was done by my younger sister (blood sister) last December. We didn't ask for alcoholic drinks or kolanut or any diabolical items.

We asked for just normal items and dowry. And on that day. On that day, after prayers from both parents (both parents are pastors). More than 70 pastors were on ground too, where they prayed for the couple.

What I want you to know is that, traditional marriage is what the Bible instructs. And before God, after traditional marriage, they have consummated their union.

White wedding is good but not should be placed above the traditional marriage.

Any decision concerning sexual intimacy should be between the couple. The father of the wife has no authority or hand in it again.

Thanks.
This was what Reno said last year. The church wedding is unnecessary
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by simplesearch: 12:52pm On Jan 22, 2021
alexvic12:
'Church wedding' isn't a part of our culture. The pastors can be called to add their own blessings during the traditional wedding, and then a marriage certificate Issued. Simple.



Is court marriage part of your culture? Was the first marriage in the garden of Eden traditional, court or ecclesiastic? It was ecclesiastic and by extension Churchy. This is because everything that was done is just a shadow of the main substance which is Christ. God said this is my beloved son in whom I am well pleased hear ye him. Ordinarily only Christ teachings should be binding on all, most of this other teachings are unnecessary deviations. Once parental consent is sought a joining in a holy wedlock in the presence of witnesses and prayer by spirit filled ministers of God should be enough. Our desire to stick to unnecessary traditions other than those expressed and approved by Christ in name of tradition by many communities and nations of the world, is the reason why occultic practices are common place. Just look at the traditional marriage requirements in every community and see all the nonsense included in their list and you'll know they are not serving God's intended purpose for marriage. God invented marriage not traditional people, and the true Church is the only body representing God on earth and recognized by him.
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by Nobody: 12:53pm On Jan 22, 2021
BusinessCity:
The father is the father until after the marriage.. That's in God's presence, He that giveth the blessing in the marriage. Not in front of some ancestors in a traditional system. If some traditional elders are honored by presenting the intending couples before them, should God not get even greater honour?


Smh atheists and liberalised would do anything to attack Christian faith




Why it's so hard for them to take in is atheists and liberalised want to attack any concept of God to anything goes.


The sheer hypocrisy is what I find appalling. If they hate Christian marriage, they should leave Christian ladies and families alone simple.


If you won't marry a Christian lady the Christian way, please marry your kinds. Go for the traditional woman and after the traditional rites or even before, you can have your way

Immediately I saw your reply I stopped looking for other comments. Your wisdom is high. I'm the only man that's more wiser than you in all the earth wink

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Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by Hangulsaram: 12:55pm On Jan 22, 2021
Saao:
The father is helping the groom and the bride to have a clean marriage without sex. Let him hold body small
Like say you are sure they never chop the apple tire long ago.
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by alexvic12: 12:57pm On Jan 22, 2021
We are saying the same thing, man. The wedding ceremony should be simple and void of unnecessary issues. I'm said in my first post that they can simply call a pastor to bless them during the traditional marriage and the is it. Even in the Bible, there is no record of a church wedding as we know it. Once witnesses are available, consent given and a minister present, the wedding can hold.



simplesearch:


Is court marriage part of your culture? Was the first marriage in the garden of Eden traditional, court or ecclesiastic? It was ecclesiastic and by extension Churchy. This is because everything that was done is just a shadow of the main substance which is Christ. God said this is my beloved son in whom I am well pleased hear ye him. Ordinary only Christ teachings should be binding on all, most of this other teachings are unnecessary deviations. Once parental consent is sought a joining in a holy wedlock in the presence of witnesses and prayer by spirit filled ministers of God should be enough. Our desire to stick to unnecessary traditions other than Christ in the name of many nations and the attendant delving into occultic practices here and there in the name of tradition. Just look at the traditional marriage requirements in every community and see all the nonsense included in their list and you'll know they are not serving God's intended purpose for marriage. God invented marriage not traditional people, and the true Church is the only body representing God on earth and recognized by him.
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by BusinessCity: 12:57pm On Jan 22, 2021
prekumohtim:


Immediately I saw your reply I stopped looking for other comments. Your wisdom is high. I'm the only man that's more wiser than you in all the earth wink

... You'll be shocked. People have stopped calling me by name and rather call me " Walking Wisdom" Wisdom in human

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Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by Nobody: 1:01pm On Jan 22, 2021
FashionCookie:


What did I wish for others you sense-kolo? That a man after paying the dowry of his wife is not allowed to go home with her because the church wedding is yet to take place?
May the Devil give you in-laws that will frustrate the living daylights out of you so that you'll know what the young man is facing.
Una go just dey use religion dey deceive unaselves. So those that did only traditional Marriage, are their homes not intact?

YOU SEE, YOU ARE "SUDDENLY AGITATED AND AFRAID OF THE NICE PRAYER or WISH I GAVE YOU?
HYPOCRITES
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by edoairways: 1:01pm On Jan 22, 2021
Reno Omokri Condemns "White Wedding".with strong bible verses.
He said "The power a priest or pastor has to say ‘I now pronounce you man and wife’, comes from man, not God. There is no Scriptural authority for that. God Himself pronounces you married once your parents consent to your union! This is how God defines marriage-“a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and they shall become one”-Genesis 2:24. I have read Scripture from cover to cover in multiple languages. Scripture has no instance of a wedding being done in a church, temple, or synagogue. Isaac married at home (Gen 24:67). Christ attended a wedding at a HOME (John 2:2-10). Isaiah was a prophet. When he wanted to marry a fellow prophetess, all he did was invite 2 witnesses. And immediately the woman moved into his home (Isaiah 8:2-3). No ceremony at all. Are you holier than Isaiah? Hosea’s marriage was captured in only 1 verse-Hosea 1:3. God made marriage EASY. It is humans who made it complicated. Church has no business with wedding

The ONLY people involved are

* A man
* A woman
* Parents

No pastor or church is involved! It is a family affair"

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Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by Nobody: 1:02pm On Jan 22, 2021
BusinessCity:


... You'll be shocked. People have stopped calling me by name and rather call me " Walking Wisdom" Wisdom in human

grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by Nobody: 1:03pm On Jan 22, 2021
edoairways:
Reno Omokri Condemns "White Wedding".with strong bible verses.
He said "The power a priest or pastor has to say ‘I now pronounce you man and wife’, comes from man, not God. There is no Scriptural authority for that. God Himself pronounces you married once your parents consent to your union! This is how God defines marriage-“a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and they shall become one”-Genesis 2:24. I have read Scripture from cover to cover in multiple languages. Scripture has no instance of a wedding being done in a church, temple, or synagogue. Isaac married at home (Gen 24:67). Christ attended a wedding at a HOME (John 2:2-10). Isaiah was a prophet. When he wanted to marry a fellow prophetess, all he did was invite 2 witnesses. And immediately the woman moved into his home (Isaiah 8:2-3). No ceremony at all. Are you holier than Isaiah? Hosea’s marriage was captured in only 1 verse-Hosea 1:3. God made marriage EASY. It is humans who made it complicated. Church has no business with wedding

The ONLY people involved are

* A man
* A woman
* Parents

No pastor or church is involved! It is a family affair"

REMO IS NOW YOUR PASTOR... Mtcheeeewww!! If he tells you to catch fire, you will
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by edoairways: 1:06pm On Jan 22, 2021
galek:


REMO IS NOW YOUR PASTOR... Mtcheeeewww!! If he tells you to catch fire, you will
He gave a strong argument with bible verses. You bring yours to refute this claim
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by FruitCakes(f): 1:07pm On Jan 22, 2021
Sixfeetbelle:
Preachers of the Bible but lovers of the world are here again. You claim you're a Christian but when it doesn't suit you, you become a traditionalist.

Instead of your friend to arrange only traditional marriage and carry his wife home, or better still, marry the daughter of a traditionalist, he carried his leg to go to the house of a Church goer and look for wife. Now that he's been requested to follow the directives issued by the church, he suddenly remembered he has a tradition.

Tell your friend, your self and everybody who agreed with you that you're all loosing a neurone or two in your brain.
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by FashionCookie(f): 1:07pm On Jan 22, 2021
galek:


YOU SEE, YOU ARE "SUDDENLY AGITATED AND AFRAID OF THE NICE PRAYER or WISH I GAVE YOU?
HYPOCRITES

You my friend are the hypocrite here. Afraid if what? I laugh you.
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by Oshokalo: 1:12pm On Jan 22, 2021
Enugupikin:

He should relax for the two months, if he has waited this far why can't he wait more,
There is this joy of making love to your virgin wife on the wedding night
my broda that feeling,imagine that girl don they post the guy since their courtship
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by TJMighty(m): 1:14pm On Jan 22, 2021
God bless you, you've said it. Either traditional or nontraditional(religious), any form of function/occasion/sitting/gathering which involves the parents of an adult female child giving her hand out witnessed by people or group of people is known as wedding.
Softboy001:
What are you guys even saying self. The marriage has already been done. Bride price has already been paid and as far as anyone is concern she is already his wife.

White wedding is only the traditional marriage of the white man.

Wetin dey do Africans self. Who do una like this?
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by Nobody: 1:22pm On Jan 22, 2021
edoairways:

He gave a strong argument with bible verses. You bring yours to refute this claim

BE THERE FOLLOWING HIM, AND WAITING FOR PEOPLE TO ARGUE OUT SCRIPTURES WITH SOMEBODY WHO HAS VOWED TO STICK TO HIS BELIEFS AT ALL COST.
DONT GO AND STUDY THE SCRIPTURE IN-DEPTH "yourself!

No Sound Bible Student supports REMO.. If you know, you know!!
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by Nobody: 1:24pm On Jan 22, 2021
BusinessCity:


... You'll be shocked. People have stopped calling me by name and rather call me " Walking Wisdom" Wisdom in human

grin grin
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by SweetDipBenny(m): 1:27pm On Jan 22, 2021
He sud chill. 2 months no far. She can still visit him
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by BusinessCity: 1:31pm On Jan 22, 2021

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Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by laluski(m): 1:44pm On Jan 22, 2021
Humanoid01:
Two months, just two months and he's already losing patience? Tell that friend not to let two months sabotage a possible lifetime of happiness.

After all he's been banging that punanni so what's he's problem
Oh by the way
And If he says he hasn't tasted that puni, then he's either lying or a simp grin
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by weslay: 1:45pm On Jan 22, 2021
BusinessCity:
The father is the father until after the marriage.. That's in God's presence, He that giveth the blessing in the marriage. Not in front of some ancestors in a traditional system. If some traditional elders are honored by presenting the intending couples before them, should God not get even greater honour?


Smh atheists and liberalists would do anything to attack Christian faith




Why it's so hard for them to take in is atheists and liberalised want to attack any concept of God to anything goes.


The sheer hypocrisy is what I find appalling. If they hate Christian marriage, they should leave Christian ladies and families alone simple.


If you won't marry a Christian lady the Christian way, please marry your kinds. Go for the traditional woman and after the traditional rites or even before, you can have your way

Please expatiate on what you mean by "Christian way" with biblical references
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by KushLyon(m): 1:52pm On Jan 22, 2021
BusinessCity:




Sorry I'm now in work mode. 3 hours on the thread is okay. Check my previous comments on my stance


Thanks and good day
just as expected, you have no proof....we should just follow the words of a brainwashed and blind Christian stuck in an illusion

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