mezico96:


You've spoken well sir, for me the father of the bride should have spoken to them in form of advice and not make it look like they are doing something illegal

Humanoid01:
Two months, just two months and he's already losing patience? Tell that friend not to let two months sabotage a possible lifetime of happiness.

PrinxArthur1:
simp

BusinessCity:
The father is the father until after the marriage

mezico96:
Good day cuties and gentlemen men of NL

Lemme just go straight to the point

I attended a friend's traditional wedding last year December and after all the stress and struggles to settle the bride price, the father of the lady forbade she stays with the husband until after their church/white wedding which is two months from now

So guys, is he right to say that?
What is your opinion?

Enugupikin:

He should relax for the two months, if he has waited this far why can't he wait more,
There is this joy of making love to your virgin wife on the wedding night

Softboy001:
What are you guys even saying self. The marriage has already been done. Bride price has already been paid and as far as anyone is concern she is already his wife.

White wedding is only the traditional marriage of the white man.

Wetin dey do Africans self. Who do una like this?

Saao:
The father is helping the groom and the bride to have a clean marriage without sex. Let him hold body small

BusinessCity:
The father is the father until after the marriage

BusinessCity:
The father is the father until after the marriage

Enugupikin:

He should relax for the two months, if he has waited this far why can't he wait more,
There is this joy of making love to your virgin wife on the wedding night

BusinessCity:
The father is the father until after the marriage

Humanoid01:

I know, but the father may have his reasons. Flouting his order may create an unnecessary issue if not adhered to. So it's better to be patient since the wedding is in just two months time.

rajiedreez:

So what did they do, traditional divorce abi?

LoveJesus87:
so the traditional wedding is not the 'marriage' abi?

12345baba:
If na me be ur guy I go even increase am to four months. He suppose thank the man and use the two months for mad grooving

BusinessCity:
The father is the father until after the marriage

Tjah:

Wat do u understand by d word marriage??

Minjim:


I believe you meant after the wedding.

But which wedding again.

The only acceptable an compulsory wedding in the Bible is the Traditional, and he had done that already.

So after which wedding exactly are you talking about.

I didn't even have a church wedding. My wife and I had concluded on that

Michelle55:
They are officially married na. Church wedding is simply a borrowed culture besides the Bible didn't say Jesus attended a white wedding.

We overdo things here in Nigeria.

Humanoid01:

If he's not ready to renege on that, then let him be. Respect his decision for peace to exist. Two months is too short to stir up a disagreement.