Nazgul:

To make matters worse, it's not even her pot, her gas and her kitchen.

I can't even imagine taking my girlfriend to see my mom and dad, then she cooks for them in the kitchen, using the utensils she meets there, only for her to reprimand my mom because of food.

Na that minute such relationship will end, cos you can't disrespect my mom in her own house, for a food you didn't prepare with your money. A girlfriend for that matter, like who does that?

Honestly the kind of girls we have these days would make you wonder if marriage is worth the stress.

Well I'm not surprised, when a girl spends all her life uploading pics on social media, her IQ level automatically becomes below average because she'll begin to feel that the world revolves around her, no thanks to the hundreds of simps bugging her inbox with disgusting love messages, so decency, respect, morality becomes non-existent in her life.

very true.....

Will you say same to your mom

SaintXto:
Admin please hide my identity

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I am this kind of lady that hates pretense. They said what you won't tolerate in marriage,don't tolerate in courtship.

I have known my boyfriend for a year, but this is my first time of coming in contact with his family.

Because of my long holiday at work, I visited him and met his mum and siblings. They were so happy to see me and they welcomed me so well.

Yesterday, I cooked and served everybody.. I later noticed that his mum went to my pot and took more food. I calmly told her that I don't like people going to my kitchen and pot.

I fold her that if she needs more food, she should notify me and I will serve her more... If you see the way the woman looked at me. So disgusting.

Later on, my boyfriend told me that my action was wrong and that I should go apologize to his mum.

For the records, I didn't tell my boyfriend, so invariably, the mum reported me.

I gently told my boyfriend that I won't tolerate that, even after our marriage. I told him it is better they get use to the real me so they won't say I changed after marriage.

Since yesterday, the mum and siblings have refused to talk to me even when I greet them.

WHAT'S YOUR VERDICT?

Did you buy any ingredient? Did u buy anything there? You shot yourself in the foot before even starting. Ur parents no train you well noni.

tosaino95:
You ladies are just growing in fool and nuisance every day by day

Na all those useless nollywood channel many of them dull their IQ watching

you are wrong my sister....Authority, strictness n i too sabi for office no suppose reach house or family. ..you go your guy family house to cook n come they warn the mother Make she no enter or touch your food pot....since when?
is the kitchen yours,the pot or the food?
my dear you went far, Abeg to make everything return to normal in that house, apologize to the woman n let her not carry you for mind.

and my advice, be calm n play cool them kwa nu, dem never marry you oo..just boyfriend n girlfriend you won begin ginger to your future mother in law!

SaintXto:
Admin please hide my identity

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I am this kind of lady that hates pretense. They said what you won't tolerate in marriage,don't tolerate in courtship.

I have known my boyfriend for a year, but this is my first time of coming in contact with his family.

Because of my long holiday at work, I visited him and met his mum and siblings. They were so happy to see me and they welcomed me so well.

Yesterday, I cooked and served everybody.. I later noticed that his mum went to my pot and took more food. I calmly told her that I don't like people going to my kitchen and pot.

I fold her that if she needs more food, she should notify me and I will serve her more... If you see the way the woman looked at me. So disgusting.

Later on, my boyfriend told me that my action was wrong and that I should go apologize to his mum.

For the records, I didn't tell my boyfriend, so invariably, the mum reported me.

I gently told my boyfriend that I won't tolerate that, even after our marriage. I told him it is better they get use to the real me so they won't say I changed after marriage.

Since yesterday, the mum and siblings have refused to talk to me even when I greet them.

WHAT'S YOUR VERDICT?

a very foolish girl. You are lucky your boyfriend is foolish too. I would have thrown you out through the window the moment you refused to apologise. Idiot. No respect for elders. If you talk to any elderly person like that in my presence you will surely regret it

gentlestdude:
rubbish, she for don land you slap immediately, then you won't be making mumu threads here.

very foolish girl. the boyfriend is even a bigger fool. he should have thrown her out like a piece of tissue paper

Lol, one man's food is another man's poison, i grew up in a home where everyone serves themselves, the only person we serve is my dad, nobody serves you, you go to the pot and take as much as you want, it's only food Miss. I don't see the big deal there, talking to the mum was outrageously disrespectful. They've not yet married you and you've started displaying your tyranny

SaintXto:
Admin please hide my identity

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I am this kind of lady that hates pretense. They said what you won't tolerate in marriage,don't tolerate in courtship.

I have known my boyfriend for a year, but this is my first time of coming in contact with his family.

Because of my long holiday at work, I visited him and met his mum and siblings. They were so happy to see me and they welcomed me so well.

Yesterday, I cooked and served everybody.. I later noticed that his mum went to my pot and took more food. I calmly told her that I don't like people going to my kitchen and pot.

I fold her that if she needs more food, she should notify me and I will serve her more... If you see the way the woman looked at me. So disgusting.

Later on, my boyfriend told me that my action was wrong and that I should go apologize to his mum.

For the records, I didn't tell my boyfriend, so invariably, the mum reported me.

I gently told my boyfriend that I won't tolerate that, even after our marriage. I told him it is better they get use to the real me so they won't say I changed after marriage.

Since yesterday, the mum and siblings have refused to talk to me even when I greet them.

WHAT'S YOUR VERDICT?

U be Idiot u went to thier family house, probably u cook in her mom's kitchen, using her pots and everything. You can only say that when u are in your husband house. Think young lady think

SweetCunt97:
Na all those useless nollywood channel many of them dull their IQ watching

That an excuse but all i know is that they are growing fools and nuisance every day by day...

Some thing is very wrong with you.
I truly think you need psychiatric attention

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If this write up is real, then you didn't do anything bad just that you'll continue keeping it real in your father's house. Courtesy demands that you respect your bf's mom,without being told.

To 'calmly' confront the mom shows your complete lack of discretion. It was absolutely unnecessary. Maybe that's her own way of showing approval, and that her son won't go hungry.
Just calmly go and apologize and tell your bf to intercede for you.
If na me, you are calmly gone for good.
M'o r'aye oshi!

How can you mark territory in a house you visited for the first time ?

Nawa for you. You thought you did one big thing by cooking for them. What they have been doing for themselves.

all the yeye girls done avoid this thread .. zzor and the rest ... very shallow thinking nitwits

SeniorGee:
To 'calmly' confront the mom shows your complete lack of discretion. It was absolutely unnecessary. Maybe that's her own way of showing approval, and that her son won't go hungry.
Just calmly go and apologize and tell your bf to intercede for you.
If na me, you are calmly gone for good.
M'o r'aye oshi!

Apologize ke? Naaa, na this type go distance her husband from family members. Youll visit ur siblings house and wont b comfortable

400billionman:
How can you mark territory in a house you visited for the first time ?

Nawa for you. You thought you did one big thing by cooking for them. What they have been doing for themselves.

She be Agama lizard. Not being an hypocrite no means say make person dey too forward.

SweetCunt97:
Apologize ke? Naaa, na this type go distance her husband from family members. Youll visit ur siblings house and wont b comfortable

my thoughts exactly

SILENTandSMART2:
God which type of girls are we raising nowadays,

See as dis one is so stupid as forkkk,

So senseless ,

They don't go to your kitchen and pot bla bla bla, aswear werey dey your body , all this stupid legacy that won't take you anywhere in life

They can't go into your pot but yaaa body nah public latrine, werey girls everywhere,

If i am your boyfriend aswear to God the relationship is over I don't care about the amount of years we've spent together ,

Werey !!!!!

I doubt the story is true. But even if its not true I still dey vex. The idiot boyfriend still dey ask her to apologize. How can you apologize to someone you wouldn't be seeing again. I will just tell her not to bother coming to my house again when she is leaving. what audacity.

99thEnemy:
And she said, "After our marriage" as if the guy will marry her.

9japride:
Approaching her was wrong. You could have reported her to your man, so that he can kindly advise her not to touch your pot. Me I would not be happy if someone else goes to my pot without my consent. The mother in law might be a troublesome person, I don't believe in the saying that the mother in law is testing her.

What's this one saying.

fattprince:

I doubt the story is true. But even if its not true I still dey vex. The idiot boyfriend still dey ask her to apologize. How can you apologize to someone you wouldn't be seeing again. I will just tell her not to bother coming to my house again when she is leaving. what audacity.

Aswear you're right man

Those werey girls wey always have stupid legacy are mostly hoes , they will jusss be creating problem for their potential boyfriend


Nah dat boy forkkkk up , if he's a real nigga he suppose leave dat werey but if he's a simp he will coutinue with that retarrded bastard claiming love while he's not comfortable at all

valentineuwakwe:
you are wrong my sister....Authority, strictness n i too sabi for office no suppose reach house or family. ..you go your guy family house to cook n come they warn the mother Make she no enter or touch your food pot....since when?
is the kitchen yours,the pot or the food?
my dear you went far, Abeg to make everything return to normal in that house, apologize to the woman n let her not carry you for mind.

and my advice, be calm n play cool them kwa nu, dem never marry you oo..just boyfriend n girlfriend you won begin ginger to your future mother in law!

If the guy is a Yoruba, the Mum and the guy's siblings can never support the marriage. She's already a goner from that... Ordinary girlfriend wants to be dominating her in-laws in their own house, that is nonsense.

Make she beg till eternity, den no go a accept am.

9japride:
Approaching her was wrong. You could have reported her to your man, so that he can kindly advise her not to touch your pot. Me I would not be happy if someone else goes to my pot without my consent. The mother in law might be a troublesome person, I don't believe in the saying that the mother in law is testing her.

Please could you reread the nonsense you typed? She went to visit them in their house for the first time, she was creating a territory for herself. Did she build the house or buy the pot? an ordinary girlfriend for that matter... Her only saving grace was that the boyfriend was more foolish than her. If any girlfriend tries that with my mom, once she leaves my house, she should just go forever.

I'm sure this is a fiction story made to receive abundant reactions cos nobody in her right sense can behave that way. Nice imaginable story tho

Jamest162:
hanty wat u said was very wrong, u went 2 ur guy huz 2 cook, did u bring pot wen coming.
D huz u cooked was it urs, learn to respect elders.

Op I commend your frankness, honestly if I was your boyfriend I would understand (I bet he did) but you see, you can ONLY exercise such audacity in your own(husband's) home which is yours too.
My submission is that this reply of James is apt.

it is better to have problems with your boyfriend but still have the love of his family than to have problems with the family and still have the love of your boyfriend. if you try that shit with my mum, 2 seconds everywhere burst, before you say beans and akamu, you go done dey your father house

U be male now

9japride:
Approaching her was wrong. You could have reported her to your man, so that he can kindly advise her not to touch your pot. Me I would not be happy if someone else goes to my pot without my consent. The mother in law might be a troublesome person, I don't believe in the saying that the mother in law is testing her.

What exactly make the pot her pot

oluwaseyi0:

What exactly make the pot her pot

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The pot is hers because she cooked the food by herself and she's solely responsible for anything that concerns that food and also she's the girlfriend of the man.

zealousayo:


Please could you reread the nonsense you typed? She went to visit them in their house for the first time, she was creating a territory for herself. Did she build the house or buy the pot? an ordinary girlfriend for that matter... Her only saving grace was that the boyfriend was more foolish than her. If any girlfriend tries that with my mom, once she leaves my house, she should just go forever.

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I didn't see anywhere in the post that she visited their family house. She stated that she went to visit him which is in the guy's house and met he's family members there. So please kindly reread the post again.