| Re: My Hot Tempered Colleague by makemillions: 7:01pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
All ur fault bro. I dont think the woman is really I'll tempered. I just think you Bleep up to allow them go away with the car without seeing the real owner. Sorry no vex but the truth might be bitter. |
| Re: My Hot Tempered Colleague by Vulcan24(m): 8:01pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
VIO once arrested one of my clients car and luckily it was close to my office
I spoke with the vio officer on fone to hold on and I ll be there, he refused and issue a ticket
I scatter the place when I got there, one naira we nor pay!
Most of these touts don't know jack about traffic laws, u av to be smart and confident when circumstances outweighs ur offense
Pick up a law book and be educated |
| Re: My Hot Tempered Colleague by caesymore(m): 8:18pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
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| Re: My Hot Tempered Colleague by nini007(m): 9:03pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
maikbanj:
Good evening fam. I just want to drop this here even though I feel it's not the right thread. I like the romance forum.
I have a colleague at the office and she lives not too far from me. I have a good relationship with her husband as he's a Yoruba man. It happens she's still a learner and isn't too good driving. Although,she tries and I kinda supervise her but she never listens. She just wants to do her own thing. I end up driving almost every time
On our way back from work today she drove and she wanted to branch at a market to purchase some groceries so she was looking for where to park her car. I showed her a place and she said no that the place was too deep. But cars were parked there. I left her alone and she parked close to a bus stop. When she left,I was just in the car pressing my phone and Task force came and impounded the car. I tried pleading but to no avail. They asked if I was the owner of the car and I said no that it's for a colleague and she was going to be with us soon. The plea fell on deaf ears and they drove me and the car to the police station close by.
I tried calling my dad to know if he knew anyone there as he usually have lil connect but he said no. So I tried going back to where we parked so I could tell her what happend and where the car was. Fortunately, before I got to the gate of the station she was walking like a soldier angry saying why did I let them carry the car and all. And I told her how I pleaded and how they wanted to lessen the tire if I didn't give them the key. Still she was furious and was talking plenty things that got me annoyed that if it was my car would I have allowed them carry it that wasn't I a man to handle them.
The people said for violating I was going to pay 120k. And I just didn't know what to say. So I was like let's call Baba(her husband ), just to know if he had a connect. And she flared up saying what kinda talk was that and all like I was her baby or something. She said things that got me angry and I told her it's indeed not her fault and I kept quiet.
In the end I did some transfers and she gave some amount too.
I have made my decision not to drive her again because I was really hurt with the kind of things she said. And when we were heading home I called her attention to it gently. Yet she was saying why would I have allowed them carry the car that if it was my car nko. And lots of things.
I don't want to ruin the relationship I have with her husband
Please I need to be advised because I have crossed my mind not to drive nor go with her anymore
Idiot |
| Re: My Hot Tempered Colleague by eziezi90(m): 10:57pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
Go to work on your own and focus on you Self Respect maikbanj:
Good evening fam. I just want to drop this here even though I feel it's not the right thread. I like the romance forum.
I have a colleague at the office and she lives not too far from me. I have a good relationship with her husband as he's a Yoruba man. It happens she's still a learner and isn't too good driving. Although,she tries and I kinda supervise her but she never listens. She just wants to do her own thing. I end up driving almost every time
On our way back from work today she drove and she wanted to branch at a market to purchase some groceries so she was looking for where to park her car. I showed her a place and she said no that the place was too deep. But cars were parked there. I left her alone and she parked close to a bus stop. When she left,I was just in the car pressing my phone and Task force came and impounded the car. I tried pleading but to no avail. They asked if I was the owner of the car and I said no that it's for a colleague and she was going to be with us soon. The plea fell on deaf ears and they drove me and the car to the police station close by.
I tried calling my dad to know if he knew anyone there as he usually have lil connect but he said no. So I tried going back to where we parked so I could tell her what happend and where the car was. Fortunately, before I got to the gate of the station she was walking like a soldier angry saying why did I let them carry the car and all. And I told her how I pleaded and how they wanted to lessen the tire if I didn't give them the key. Still she was furious and was talking plenty things that got me annoyed that if it was my car would I have allowed them carry it that wasn't I a man to handle them.
The people said for violating I was going to pay 120k. And I just didn't know what to say. So I was like let's call Baba(her husband ), just to know if he had a connect. And she flared up saying what kinda talk was that and all like I was her baby or something. She said things that got me angry and I told her it's indeed not her fault and I kept quiet.
In the end I did some transfers and she gave some amount too.
I have made my decision not to drive her again because I was really hurt with the kind of things she said. And when we were heading home I called her attention to it gently. Yet she was saying why would I have allowed them carry the car that if it was my car nko. And lots of things.
I don't want to ruin the relationship I have with her husband
Please I need to be advised because I have crossed my mind not to drive nor go with her anymore
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| Re: My Hot Tempered Colleague by kaywon: 3:19am On Mar 04, 2021 |
You shouldn't have given someone else's car keys to them. When the situation ensued, what you should have done immediately was to call the lady on phone. It's very likely she would quickly run out to face them herself and that should spare you the insults. At worse, she'd come out after they'd deflated the tires.
As for contributing money to the car's rescue, it's only reasonable to do so... Because if this hadn't happened, you would've enjoyed the car all the way home free of charge, as has been the case so far. I would even be the one to offer her my monetary contribution when something goes wrong, even if she didn't ask. It shows I'm mature and responsible.
It's OK to resolve never to go with her again, out of self-respect. But still communicate with her as your colleague when you need to. Don't keep malice. If the hubby asks, don't be shy to explain. Nothing secret. Be bold about your decision. He will respect that too, having been enduring her arrogance himself.
My kind of person would've loved the freedom of sharing what happened between us (provided I don't lie against her) when our colleagues ask why I no longer let her drop me off. But her hubby whom you have good relationship with, may see that as unnecessary bad image for her wife at the workplace. So I'll leave that one to you |
| Re: My Hot Tempered Colleague by elmagnifico411(m): 8:03am On Mar 04, 2021 |
Iatrogen:
Where pesin go come park for this Lagos so?
Fear don even begin catch me to drive for this Lagos sef. Be like na only inside person compound pesin go fit park so
there's always a place to park. Na to look well and ask questions if need be. |
| Re: My Hot Tempered Colleague by Iatrogen: 12:33pm On Mar 04, 2021 |
elmagnifico411:
there's always a place to park. Na to look well and ask questions if need be. Is there a signpost that warns people not to park in a particular spot, and are parking spots designated? |
| Re: My Hot Tempered Colleague by Traininghub(f): 4:00pm On Mar 04, 2021 |
Iamzik:
Wow.... So sweet and soothing thoughts
You head dey there nne Daalu my brother. God bless you. Do enjoy the rest of your day. |
| Re: My Hot Tempered Colleague by MrMacinterchi1: 10:52pm On Mar 04, 2021 |
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| Re: My Hot Tempered Colleague by Thunday1005(m): 3:13pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
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