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Re: The Benefits Of Marrying Young Even If You Are Poor by HacheNoire: 1:07am On Mar 23, 2021 |
Electrochemistry: False! |
Re: The Benefits Of Marrying Young Even If You Are Poor by Karleb(m): 1:13am On Mar 23, 2021 |
You may never blow till you die. |
Re: The Benefits Of Marrying Young Even If You Are Poor by Judybash93(m): 1:16am On Mar 23, 2021 |
This one na for white people o 2 Likes |
Re: The Benefits Of Marrying Young Even If You Are Poor by Coolmagy: 1:18am On Mar 23, 2021 |
Guys pls DNT try marriage oooo if money Neva dey ooooo forget motivational speakers oooo A word is enough for the wise oooo. E go shock u say that woman wey u know wen everything dey sweet go change 360 degrees wen tins change ooo 4 Likes |
Re: The Benefits Of Marrying Young Even If You Are Poor by Icekyng: 1:33am On Mar 23, 2021 |
Electrochemistry:Perfect !!!! Cause I don’t get how people will use thier opinion to infect other people’s thinking making them depressed by trying to prove that their point is a fact! 2 Likes |
Re: The Benefits Of Marrying Young Even If You Are Poor by Icekyng: 1:34am On Mar 23, 2021 |
HacheNoire:Bring your opinion let’s see them |
Re: The Benefits Of Marrying Young Even If You Are Poor by Tannhauser(m): 1:40am On Mar 23, 2021 |
mofedamijo: The first sensible comment here...don't know why these young pups think money makes a good marriage. Although I was quite comfortable prior to getting married, the kind of money I made after marriage eenh? Just 8 months after my wife moved in with me, I looked at my account balances and I was like Wish I had married earlier Just pray for good wife who will bring you good fortune and stabilise your finances. Stop patronising olosho una no go hear... 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Benefits Of Marrying Young Even If You Are Poor by Noregretz07: 1:52am On Mar 23, 2021 |
gbami:that battle charge got me I still de draw the ear ooooo 1 Like |
Re: The Benefits Of Marrying Young Even If You Are Poor by micxwell(m): 2:03am On Mar 23, 2021 |
helpyom: 1 Like |
Re: The Benefits Of Marrying Young Even If You Are Poor by PAWG(m): 2:31am On Mar 23, 2021 |
GloryGlory01:Adding ‘even if you are poor’ was a big fail, I disagree totally 2 Likes |
Re: The Benefits Of Marrying Young Even If You Are Poor by KingZaddy(m): 2:54am On Mar 23, 2021 |
Why Will Anyone In Their Right Senses Advice Someone To Marry In Poverty? Are You Sure You Have Experienced Poverty Before? 2 Likes |
Re: The Benefits Of Marrying Young Even If You Are Poor by Mummymahdi(f): 2:56am On Mar 23, 2021 |
gbami: So true but funny |
Re: The Benefits Of Marrying Young Even If You Are Poor by SweetVibe: 3:04am On Mar 23, 2021 |
Is this the new plot to spread poverty?
God no go shame us. . 3 Likes |
Re: The Benefits Of Marrying Young Even If You Are Poor by Jibabs2(m): 3:11am On Mar 23, 2021 |
And you no go pay school fees with pension. |
Re: The Benefits Of Marrying Young Even If You Are Poor by Cocao(f): 3:30am On Mar 23, 2021 |
Most people don't even realize that this article was talking about the relationship of people in a Western country. It is not so much applicable to the Nigerian clime. The points are well written and thoughtful, but may not fit the Nigerian narrative. 5 Likes |
Re: The Benefits Of Marrying Young Even If You Are Poor by showafrica(m): 3:46am On Mar 23, 2021 |
James4358: Yes but money no dey beleful, as far as you both have a skill and outlet... You guys are good to go. I only pity 8-6 workers. |
Re: The Benefits Of Marrying Young Even If You Are Poor by showafrica(m): 3:57am On Mar 23, 2021 |
GloryGlory01: Lol, that's the point. I know of woman, her upkeep and house bills are 1m and another woman is 50k. But the later has a better marriage than the 1m naira woman and i was asking myself how manage. The only difference is the slay queen goes out with good and clean car but always bitter and angry at everybody. Sometimes, the husband go run, you won't see him for 2 months, always fighting with madam. But what i know, with plenty money, and good woman, marriage dey sweet. If you no get plenty money, as far as you are above average, you are good to go. Average income for running a home should be at least 200k(500$)per month...poor but workable. 1 Like |
Re: The Benefits Of Marrying Young Even If You Are Poor by Hangulsaram: 4:09am On Mar 23, 2021 |
GloryGlory01:It’s not about money to satisfy a woman but to carter for family responsibilities( He who fails to provide for his household is worse than an infidel) |
Re: The Benefits Of Marrying Young Even If You Are Poor by lexy2014: 4:16am On Mar 23, 2021 |
GloryGlory01: Did u marry at 50? |
Re: The Benefits Of Marrying Young Even If You Are Poor by Kirinwa: 4:17am On Mar 23, 2021 |
GloryGlory01: How many people are financially secure at that time It's ideal but is it realistic in Nigeria, most of the courses in the university should be scrapped for lack of job prospects,.how can one.stay.5.years in university only to.start.learning.sewing and barbing when frustration sets in.only to open.Nairaland with free basics to see threads on.small.children of.politicians living large |
Re: The Benefits Of Marrying Young Even If You Are Poor by micflo28(m): 4:17am On Mar 23, 2021 |
Women are partly the reason why guys marry late. A girl wants it all but nothing to contribute. You get a hard-working lady, she is stingy and unfaithful. The lazy ones are not willing to work. A woman's contribution to the success of marriage is as important as that of a man. Our mothers took to jobs to support their husbands and got to enjoy wealth from the man at later age. Girls now want already made men. Those category of men are either married or just want to play around. Women needs to table contributions as much as their male folks do in marriage. Life is hard now for one to carry it all. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: The Benefits Of Marrying Young Even If You Are Poor by Kirinwa: 4:21am On Mar 23, 2021 |
showafrica: 200k monthly you call it 'poor'? How many people earn up to #50 000 monthly in Nigeria? 4 Likes |
Re: The Benefits Of Marrying Young Even If You Are Poor by Kirinwa: 4:25am On Mar 23, 2021 |
Cocao: *Kisses You understand well |
Re: The Benefits Of Marrying Young Even If You Are Poor by showafrica(m): 4:28am On Mar 23, 2021 |
Kirinwa: I tell you, but 50k na just 100$... Imagine what Nigeria has done to our brain that we gladly accept 100$ per month job and still go do thanks giving on top. Very sad indeed. 1 Like |
Re: The Benefits Of Marrying Young Even If You Are Poor by atheistandproud(m): 4:34am On Mar 23, 2021 |
Lies. Never...I repeat...Never marry a Nigerian woman without money! She will frustrate you to an early grave. My two cents. 2 Likes |
Re: The Benefits Of Marrying Young Even If You Are Poor by choicesam(m): 4:35am On Mar 23, 2021 |
gbami:My guy marriage is sweet when you are with the right companion, be it rich or poor it doesn't matter as far as both of you are willing to take the journey together, and yes this is coming from a happily married man. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: The Benefits Of Marrying Young Even If You Are Poor by wirinet(m): 5:10am On Mar 23, 2021 |
gbami: If that is your mind set, then I am sorry to say that you started your marriage on a wrong premise. Financial stability does not depend on the amount of money you have at the moment. It can change like the British weather. Throughout your life you will pass through the highs and lows of financial stability. When I got married, I was living in a 3 bedroom flat in surulere and driving an almost brand new BMW 5 series. 3 years into marriage, I had some series of bad deals and all my financial security went south. I left surulere and moved to a much cheaper 3 bedroom flat in Ikorodu. Did my wive's love turn to resentment or the bleeped my landlord? No. She contributed in helping the family. By the time our first child came, she was the one doing business and I was taking care of our son. In less than 5 years I was able to pick up again and things has been on an upward trajectory since. Imagine how things would have turn out if I married the type of woman you are used to. As I said, financial stability does not depend on the amount of cash you have at the moment. When Elon Musk was starting out, he slept at his office, showered at YMCA and lived (eat) on $1 a day. His girlfriend lived with him in his office. Today, he is the richest man in the world. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Benefits Of Marrying Young Even If You Are Poor by b0rn2fuck(m): 5:15am On Mar 23, 2021 |
GloryGlory01:you would have known the pro and con of living with a woman , imagine me go steal meat wey I use my money buy tonight inside soup after taking two strikers butter late night. I just have to walk secretly into the kitchen while she was asleep. |
Re: The Benefits Of Marrying Young Even If You Are Poor by donbrowser(m): 5:22am On Mar 23, 2021 |
James4358: If you marry at 35, your first child might be 20 when you are 55. |
Re: The Benefits Of Marrying Young Even If You Are Poor by wirinet(m): 5:32am On Mar 23, 2021 |
gbami: Are you serious? A woman is not expected to contribute a penny in marriage? And you got 261 likes. I now see that Nigeria is in deep shit with this stupid mindset. You mean to tell me that you expect over half the Nigerian population of women to rely only on the men to be productiv? So what do you think women can offer to men in marriage? Only sex and child bearing? In that case why waste money educating and training female children, when they will only end up in the bedroom and kitchen. I teach my daughter to be independent and not rely on anyone. That's the way we raise our daughters in the Niger Delta. 3 Likes |
Re: The Benefits Of Marrying Young Even If You Are Poor by mofedamijo(m): 5:32am On Mar 23, 2021 |
Tannhauser: Am happy for you bro. I pray your marriage becomes a model for this dying generation. God bless your home till you both wax old together. People don't understand the importance of a good woman, so they understand estimate the power of a good woman/man. |
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