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Re: I'm In Love With My Boss At The Office by Nobody: 2:30pm On Mar 21, 2021

MufasaLion:

That's the guy's problem!

Love no dey there. He should go watch porn or something

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Re: I'm In Love With My Boss At The Office by exsodus: 2:31pm On Mar 21, 2021

OnlyDeCapPlease:

In those type of situations, especially considering the power balance, you don't chase her. She chases you. You have to borrow a leaf from women. Just make yourself as sexy and attractive as you can - tight clothes to show off your assests (muscles, thick rod, big chest etc). Stay well groomed and smell nice. Always have a smile on your face when talking to her. Use innuendo where possible. Hold her gaze and look deep into her eyes when talking to her. If the opportunity comes up, pay her respectful comments and go out of your way (without grovelling) to be of assistance to her. Try and observe the sort of things that she likes, you need to study her. Get yourself in her head, and if you notice that she is softening towards you (green light), then start making some small calculated bold moves. However, of you notice rejection, disdain or indifference, then pull back because you have a job to think about. This is where some Nigerian guys get it wrong because they think the female is playing hard to get. Even if she is playing hard to get, sudden withdrawal of all your attention and just acting extremely formal around her will definitely spark a reaction from her. On the other hand if she really didn't want you, then you have backed down respectfully and maturely without actually showing your hand because surely you were not chasing her. You were only being nice to her because she's your boss.

Thanks for this, I'll definitely give it a try

Re: I'm In Love With My Boss At The Office by Sterope(f): 2:32pm On Mar 21, 2021

pocohantas:
You are in love with her poise. In that your coconut head, you are already imagining your boss moaning under you.

The minute she agrees to date you, the Nigerian man in you will come out. You will start looking for how to “tame” her and knack “submission” into her head. You will start controlling her expenses, giving her headache and complaining of how she isn’t respecting you because she has money or is richer. She would start walking on eggshells, trying to satisfy your ever-needy-ego. 70% of the glow that attracted you would be gone in 60seconds.

Better go focus on your sub-for-me girlfriend.

Re: I'm In Love With My Boss At The Office by Mikelarteta(m): 2:33pm On Mar 21, 2021

DaddyRochie1642:
Oga to slap you dey hungry me

Go and profess your undying love to her and see if you'll still be working there in the next couple of days

But seriously is there any big deal in professing your love to your boss cos I dont understand the big deal in doing that. Is she not human abi no be still knack dem go knack her?

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Re: I'm In Love With My Boss At The Office by Nobody: 2:33pm On Mar 21, 2021

exsodus:
I honestly don't know where to start from, but all I can say is that I'm madly in love with my boss at the office. I always think of her any time I see her pass by.
Sometimes I think I should just walk up to her office and confess my love for her but I know this might cost me my job. Please advise me on how to get her attention and also convey my feelings to her

Oga U Start Madly Love Or Love Of Madness With Her Biko, Consider Ur Job 1st. No Go Let Dat Love Madness Make U Lose Ur Job Ooo.

Re: I'm In Love With My Boss At The Office by Angelfrost(m): 2:34pm On Mar 21, 2021

That's not Love... That's something called Lust and/or Infatuation!

I can almost bet that if by some stroke of fate, she gives you her body for a night or two, such "hunger" would permanently cease or at least dampen considerably.

You should learn some self control, quit watching porn if you are into it (I suspect you are), and try as much as possible to avoid her as much as feasible! Where these fail to cure your misguided longings, then changing jobs ought to be in the agenda.

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Re: I'm In Love With My Boss At The Office by prciouschika(f): 2:34pm On Mar 21, 2021

It's a new week

please dear nairalanders help a sister out with a job.

Re: I'm In Love With My Boss At The Office by dollytino4real(f): 2:34pm On Mar 21, 2021

all these fresh graduate dem wen hunger no beat b4 work come can cari do sef!! u beta fast n pray b4 u embark on it

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Re: I'm In Love With My Boss At The Office by Maj196(m): 2:34pm On Mar 21, 2021

Rubbish, that kind of love is bound to fail

Re: I'm In Love With My Boss At The Office by wallarwallar(m): 2:36pm On Mar 21, 2021

exsodus:
I honestly don't know where to start from, but all I can say is that I'm madly in love with my boss at the office. I always think of her any time I see her pass by.
Sometimes I think I should just walk up to her office and confess my love for her but I know this might cost me my job. Please advise me on how to get her attention and also convey my feelings to her

Destruction Activated ...

Re: I'm In Love With My Boss At The Office by BSF: 2:36pm On Mar 21, 2021

exsodus:
I honestly don't know where to start from, but all I can say is that I'm madly in love with my boss at the office. I always think of her any time I see her pass by.
Sometimes I think I should just walk up to her office and confess my love for her but I know this might cost me my job. Please advise me on how to get her attention and also convey my feelings to her

History always repeats itself. cry

Re: I'm In Love With My Boss At The Office by Boss13: 2:36pm On Mar 21, 2021

Women are hypergamous in nature - they prefer sexual partners who are above them. This is one reason many women prefer financial stable men and often times, older men.

In your situation, your Boss sees herself as an authority over you. Hence, you are beneath her. While there may be exceptional cases, the probability of both of you being together is close to none.

However, if she is single, older (35 - 40) and with a slim chance of ever getting married. You can take the risk. At that age, potential suitors who catches her fancy no longer pursue her because she is old. Also, most of her female friends are married, have kids and well settled in their martial home. She would be horribly lonely, irritated with her relationship status, under pressure from family, friends, society, and herself on the reason why she can't get a man. This age also comes with baby rabies (the urgent need to be a mother) and with the slim choices of available men, she may settle for lesser preference - like you.

If she is not within that age range, don't attempt it. Brush those emotional feelings off your head, focus on your job and look at other potential ladies around you especially those who consider you attractive.

The alternative option is to leave your job. Work six (6) times harder to be financially attractive and then try to woo her. During this period, keep in touch briefly by sending pleasant messages on special days like birthdays and public holidays. Don't be evasive and intrusive with the messages. The sad part with this option is her being attractive and pleasant. If she has such qualities, she would be off the market before you become attractive to her.

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Re: I'm In Love With My Boss At The Office by Originalsly: 2:36pm On Mar 21, 2021

Hmmm...... where is the location?.... your position and salary?... and do they pay on time? Let me know and I'll give you very good advice.

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Re: I'm In Love With My Boss At The Office by Angelfrost(m): 2:36pm On Mar 21, 2021

MufasaLion:
Bro, You're Just HORN.Y!.

Seriously h0rny with psychological "Mummy Issues"! Nigga needs counseling and some!

Re: I'm In Love With My Boss At The Office by Never4getU: 2:37pm On Mar 21, 2021

Village people are wicked! I presume this is ur livelihood and source of living? If it's right, then it's either u're dreaming or u're prepared to lose ur job.

Re: I'm In Love With My Boss At The Office by MufasaLion: 2:37pm On Mar 21, 2021

Someone7:

Love no dey there. He should go watch porn or something

No he shouldn't. It was definitely porn that led to it and it can't quench unless he smash her or someone exactly like her. Nigga is a porn addict!.

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Re: I'm In Love With My Boss At The Office by ikllbrokehoes(m): 2:38pm On Mar 21, 2021

exsodus:
I honestly don't know where to start from, but all I can say is that I'm madly in love with my boss at the office. I always think of her any time I see her pass by.
Sometimes I think I should just walk up to her office and confess my love for her but I know this might cost me my job. Please advise me on how to get her attention and also convey my feelings to her

It seems you don't love your job anymore

Re: I'm In Love With My Boss At The Office by GrandFinale2021(m): 2:38pm On Mar 21, 2021

Sibtygarr:

Better prepare your sack letter before you approach her.
if the gender was exchanged, it would have been easier.
Remember women on white collar like to proof what is not.

The only hope you get is to act like a her kinda man(if even you know what that mean), pay close attention to signals, if the signals are there you would see it and act accordingly. if they are not then just gracefully kill that demonic voice that want you to loose the job you wrote like 200 application letter before you got.

LIVINGICON:
Don't try it, you might loose your job. If it were the other way round, that is your boss giving you the "strong" green light then you can make your move. And make sure it is purely on SEX BASIS. No commitment, no attachment, not even a relationship. I was able to do this without getting my fingers burnt.

OnlyDeCapPlease:

In those type of situations, especially considering the power balance, you don't chase her. She chases you. You have to borrow a leaf from women. Just make yourself as sexy and attractive as you can - tight clothes to show off your assests (muscles, thick rod, big chest etc). Stay well groomed and smell nice. Always have a smile on your face when talking to her. Use innuendo where possible. Hold her gaze and look deep into her eyes when talking to her. If the opportunity comes up, pay her respectful comments and go out of your way (without grovelling) to be of assistance to her. Try and observe the sort of things that she likes, you need to study her. Get yourself in her head, and if you notice that she is softening towards you (green light), then start making some small calculated bold moves. However, of you notice rejection, disdain or indifference, then pull back because you have a job to think about. This is where some Nigerian guys get it wrong because they think the female is playing hard to get. Even if she is playing hard to get, sudden withdrawal of all your attention and just acting extremely formal around her will definitely spark a reaction from her. On the other hand if she really didn't want you, then you have backed down respectfully and maturely without actually showing your hand because surely you were not chasing her. You were only being nice to her because she's your boss.

correct.
ubunja would advise "No green light from the opposite sex, no approach"
read more below
https://www.nairaland.com/5520169/ubunjas-miseducation-no-green-lights

Re: I'm In Love With My Boss At The Office by bukatyne(f): 2:39pm On Mar 21, 2021

OnlyDeCapPlease:

In those type of situations, especially considering the power balance, you don't chase her. She chases you. You have to borrow a leaf from women. Just make yourself as sexy and attractive as you can - tight clothes to show off your assests (muscles, thick rod, big chest etc). Stay well groomed and smell nice. Always have a smile on your face when talking to her. Use innuendo where possible. Hold her gaze and look deep into her eyes when talking to her. If the opportunity comes up, pay her respectful comments and go out of your way (without grovelling) to be of assistance to her. Try and observe the sort of things that she likes, you need to study her. Get yourself in her head, and if you notice that she is softening towards you (green light), then start making some small calculated bold moves. However, of you notice rejection, disdain or indifference, then pull back because you have a job to think about. This is where some Nigerian guys get it wrong because they think the female is playing hard to get. Even if she is playing hard to get, sudden withdrawal of all your attention and just acting extremely formal around her will definitely spark a reaction from her. On the other hand if she really didn't want you, then you have backed down respectfully and maturely without actually showing your hand because surely you were not chasing her. You were only being nice to her because she's your boss.

See subtle moves.

Re: I'm In Love With My Boss At The Office by GrandFinale2021(m): 2:39pm On Mar 21, 2021

smartty68:
There's no harm in trying... Try it and give us feedback.

if he lose he job na you we go catch

Re: I'm In Love With My Boss At The Office by micflo28(m): 2:40pm On Mar 21, 2021

You are only permitted to look. If you wish to continue. Substitute your slot with a jobbless nairalander here so it doesn't waste.

Re: I'm In Love With My Boss At The Office by Nobody: 2:41pm On Mar 21, 2021

Don't let your dick rule your mind at work. Masturbate before you go to work, if your lady boss is to hot for you at work, try look for a safe place at work to masturbate so that you can clear your mind. It is better your boss is the one chassing you and not the other way round.

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Re: I'm In Love With My Boss At The Office by PoliteActivist: 2:41pm On Mar 21, 2021

exsodus:

Thanks for this, I'll definitely give it a try

You'd give wha a try? Don't you think by now we know this is made up?? Relax let's just enjoy discussing it

Re: I'm In Love With My Boss At The Office by BarrElChapo(m): 2:43pm On Mar 21, 2021

Emu4u2c:

Which mumu luck be that?

You be wicked person

You want him back in the labour market...Just be honest even if it kills you

Me ? But what's the crime in liking or having a crush on your unmarried boss ?..

Re: I'm In Love With My Boss At The Office by MufasaLion: 2:43pm On Mar 21, 2021

Angelfrost:

Seriously h0rny with psychological "Mummy Issues"! Nigga needs counseling and some!

Yeah you're right!.

Re: I'm In Love With My Boss At The Office by kingreign(m): 2:44pm On Mar 21, 2021

SouthSouth1914:

Go to her office first thing tomorrow morning. Tell her that you have something to tell her that would cost you your job, she would ask why? Just pour your heart into her..

Mad oooo

Re: I'm In Love With My Boss At The Office by generalwo(m): 2:46pm On Mar 21, 2021

exsodus:
I honestly don't know where to start from, but all I can say is that I'm madly in love with my boss at the office. I always think of her any time I see her pass by.
Sometimes I think I should just walk up to her office and confess my love for her but I know this might cost me my job. Please advise me on how to get her attention and also convey my feelings to her

..... Bros it's not right to bring emotions into your job..... I suggest you do your job as professionally as you can...... Don't let things of the flesh take food off your table.......face what took you to the office which is work.... Work and Romance have never been a great pairing....... A word is enough for the wise

Re: I'm In Love With My Boss At The Office by Femeto: 2:49pm On Mar 21, 2021

You done find work for filling station. Good luck.

Re: I'm In Love With My Boss At The Office by Emu4u2c: 2:50pm On Mar 21, 2021

BarrElChapo:

Me ? But what's the crime in liking or having a crush on your unmarried boss ?..

For a female boss?

Bro it’s suicide mission

And you know for the Nigerian constitution Suicide attempt Na big crime

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Re: I'm In Love With My Boss At The Office by kingjooo(m): 2:51pm On Mar 21, 2021

MISSCONGENIALITY:
When you people are doing general meeting in your office, stand up and tell her infront of everyone that love love her and can't hold it back anymore. She will be too shocked to react in in a negative way. Be courageous, you are a man.

thank u my sister,u sabi motivate people.U knw how many people<YOU'RE A MAN>don kill?

Re: I'm In Love With My Boss At The Office by Tomilola360: 2:51pm On Mar 21, 2021

exsodus:
I honestly don't know where to start from, but all I can say is that I'm madly in love with my boss at the office. I always think of her any time I see her pass by.
Sometimes I think I should just walk up to her office and confess my love for her but I know this might cost me my job. Please advise me on how to get her attention and also convey my feelings to her

It will end in frustration and tears.

Re: I'm In Love With My Boss At The Office by Peterosky(m): 2:51pm On Mar 21, 2021

exsodus:
I honestly don't know where to start from, but all I can say is that I'm madly in love with my boss at the office. I always think of her any time I see her pass by.
Sometimes I think I should just walk up to her office and confess my love for her but I know this might cost me my job. Please advise me on how to get her attention and also convey my feelings to her

.You can achieve that.
Rule no1. You must always dress your best. Rule no 2.Learn to always compliment her dressing style.
Rule no 3. Learn also to always compliment her beauty. My brother women like compliments like craze.
Rule no 4. Never tell her you love her.
Rule no 5. Always tell her that she is hard Woking.
Rule no 6.Make sure you stair at her in such a way she will notice that you are always starring.
Rule no 7. Don't always find yourself around her.
Rule no 8.Be reasonable in your discussions whenever you are with her.
Rule no 9. Once in a while just get her a gift, not too expensive gifts anyway. Remember the Bible even says that the gift of a man maketh way for him.
Rule no 10.Make sure you are perfect on your job.
Rule no 11.Commit your desire and efforts to the hands of God.
Trust me, if you follow this rules well, you may be her next lover boy.

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