| Re: Cheated With A Church Girl! I Have Finished Myself, What Do I Do Now? by realray(m): 9:39pm On May 05, 2021 |
maybe is hepatitis which I know is currently dealing with young people most especially youths of this days who sleeps with different gals, but is treatable..... quickly go for the test don't waste time.... |
| Re: Cheated With A Church Girl! I Have Finished Myself, What Do I Do Now? by Zenithpeak(m): 9:40pm On May 05, 2021 |
JungleJustice01:
I'll be succinct. I've messed up and I take full responsibility for my actions. All I'm trying to do now is save those close to my heart.
I'm married 2 years with an 8 month baby. I'm a faithful husband at heart but I just lost focus and landed in this deep mess.
My first stinct at adultery was late into my wife's pregnancy when I could not hold body. This situation was further compounded when I relocated due to work and come home every 3 weeks or so. My carefree attitude also contributed to this but I'm not staying them as excuses. I did what I did.
I met this deeper life young girl about a month ago. She was about 23, good looking and has an innocent air around her. Last week thereabout we met up and made out after weeks of chatting. In the process, my contraceptive broke and it happened raw for a minute or two before I replaced it.
Now one week later and I having strong symptoms of HIV exposure. Had I known, I would have gone for Pep. I am 75% sure of infection at this point.
I'm home now and I don't want to touch my wife who is constantly on my neck since I returned. I don't want to infect her or my child....and I can't come to terms with telling her everything right now.
This is someone who is so faithful and she has expressly stated that she will not entertain any hint of infidelity.
I'm so done for, I need advice Don't be a fool mr man. HIV won't show any symptoms in fees weeks. Go to any general hospital and talk to a doctor who may eventually recommend you for series tests and appropriate treatment afterwards. A coward will die ten times before he encounter a real death. |
| Re: Cheated With A Church Girl! I Have Finished Myself, What Do I Do Now? by pek(m): 9:40pm On May 05, 2021 |
The5DME:
You no get sense op at this your old age. Is this an advise? |
| Re: Cheated With A Church Girl! I Have Finished Myself, What Do I Do Now? by Nobody: 9:41pm On May 05, 2021 |
2elliot:
Does it cause lymph nodes to enlarge? Lolll, many illness can cause that even bacteria. As a man provided you don't have injury on your manhood, your chance of getting the virus is slim but it begins to get higher once you keep visiting the infested area. |
| Re: Cheated With A Church Girl! I Have Finished Myself, What Do I Do Now? by drightguy(m): 9:42pm On May 05, 2021 |
JungleJustice01:
I'll be succinct. I've messed up and I take full responsibility for my actions. All I'm trying to do now is save those close to my heart.
I'm married 2 years with an 8 month baby. I'm a faithful husband at heart but I just lost focus and landed in this deep mess.
My first stinct at adultery was late into my wife's pregnancy when I could not hold body. This situation was further compounded when I relocated due to work and come home every 3 weeks or so. My carefree attitude also contributed to this but I'm not staying them as excuses. I did what I did.
I met this deeper life young girl about a month ago. She was about 23, good looking and has an innocent air around her. Last week thereabout we met up and made out after weeks of chatting. In the process, my contraceptive broke and it happened raw for a minute or two before I replaced it.
Now one week later and I having strong symptoms of HIV exposure. Had I known, I would have gone for Pep. I am 75% sure of infection at this point.
I'm home now and I don't want to touch my wife who is constantly on my neck since I returned. I don't want to infect her or my child....and I can't come to terms with telling her everything right now.
This is someone who is so faithful and she has expressly stated that she will not entertain any hint of infidelity.
I'm so done for, I need advice Op still messing up. The Mod that moved this to FP without removing the name of the church. Mmmm don't know what to say to you. |
| Re: Cheated With A Church Girl! I Have Finished Myself, What Do I Do Now? by ShawnT(m): 9:42pm On May 05, 2021 |
Choi buh you're a very good liar lol...Accident victim indeed michlins:
Bro my advice to you now is because you owned your shit and that means you're on the road to responsibility.
Go to lab and get tested. The mind has a way of projecting illnesses that are non-existent into the body. If you confirm that you're a carrier, let your wife know. Your means of exposure can remain a secret. Tell her you helped an accident victim or anything |
| Re: Cheated With A Church Girl! I Have Finished Myself, What Do I Do Now? by osazsky(m): 9:42pm On May 05, 2021 |
Vyolet:
He's feeling remorse because he feels he has HIV, the thought of the disease alone has a way of humbling people especially adulterers.
Once he confirms that he is negative he will go back to the lady or find someone else to do it with.
I only feel pity for the wife. there are STDs that are worst than hiv...i just dey laff..he go spend 4m no improvement shey hiv na free drugs..staph stage 2 victims begin to urinate blood once it gets to the organs oga just rest 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Cheated With A Church Girl! I Have Finished Myself, What Do I Do Now? by mekuso89(m): 9:42pm On May 05, 2021 |
Abeg go hospital joor, You are quick to Bleep but you are not to quick to get tested |
| Re: Cheated With A Church Girl! I Have Finished Myself, What Do I Do Now? by Bluntemperor: 9:42pm On May 05, 2021 |
Karleb:
You are not even serious!
Do you know you can exhibit all this symptoms by merely thinking you have the virus.
It could be anything. Don't conclude until you go for the test. How could someone come up with such a conclusion,yet no test.Did O P called the girl to confront her on this sickness or don't you think is important. Is OP a labman or why is he saying the negatives to his life? Is it eriokan worrying him. When you value your wife at home,why then looking outside? |
| Re: Cheated With A Church Girl! I Have Finished Myself, What Do I Do Now? by Nobody: 9:43pm On May 05, 2021 |
JungleJustice01:
I'll be succinct. I've messed up and I take full responsibility for my actions. All I'm trying to do now is save those close to my heart.
Wouldn't mince words with you. You deserve whatever infection you contract from cheating. Now, bottle up your fears, go get yourself tested. If positive, start arv.
My advice..if you still value your marriage, never ever tell your wife you cheated. NEVER⁵ |
| Re: Cheated With A Church Girl! I Have Finished Myself, What Do I Do Now? by akanbiaa(m): 9:43pm On May 05, 2021 |
Last post by OP is April 7th 2021 almost a month ago, I just pray he has not committed suicide over fear of the unknown which a test would have cleared after 3 months. |
| Re: Cheated With A Church Girl! I Have Finished Myself, What Do I Do Now? by Newboss(m): 9:44pm On May 05, 2021 |
JungleJustice01:
Sore throat, flu, muscle aches, lymph node enlargement. These are signs of a viral infection and they show up 1 -2 weeks after exposure.
I'll go for a test tomorrow, secretly. I've made peace with myself, it's telling my wife that's the issue. This home I hold dear will definitely scatter over a 5 minute one day stand. You don't have to tell her. Na man you be. 1 Like |
| Re: Cheated With A Church Girl! I Have Finished Myself, What Do I Do Now? by Elzakzaky: 9:44pm On May 05, 2021 |
JovialJune:
Look at you, searching for a meek and reserved lady to commit adultery with, such a shame. Yea, I am like that also. I prefer getting down with decent churchy ladies. |
| Re: Cheated With A Church Girl! I Have Finished Myself, What Do I Do Now? by livinglifemgr: 9:45pm On May 05, 2021 |
Had same experience bro. The mind and the body are somehow connected than you can imagine. If you want inner peace, just go for the test, and do a confirmation test after three months. What you're having is just panic attack and an anxiety attack. JungleJustice01:
Sore throat, flu, muscle aches, lymph node enlargement. These are signs of a viral infection and they show up 1 -2 weeks after exposure.
I'll go for a test tomorrow, secretly. I've made peace with myself, it's telling my wife that's the issue. This home I hold dear will definitely scatter over a 5 minute one day stand. 2 Likes |
| Re: Cheated With A Church Girl! I Have Finished Myself, What Do I Do Now? by candygist: 9:46pm On May 05, 2021 |
JungleJustice01:
I'll be succinct. I've messed up and I take full responsibility for my actions. All I'm trying to do now is save those close to my heart.
I'm married 2 years with an 8 month baby. I'm a faithful husband at heart but I just lost focus and landed in this deep mess.
My first stinct at adultery was late into my wife's pregnancy when I could not hold body. This situation was further compounded when I relocated due to work and come home every 3 weeks or so. My carefree attitude also contributed to this but I'm not staying them as excuses. I did what I did.
I met this deeper life young girl about a month ago. She was about 23, good looking and has an innocent air around her. Last week thereabout we met up and made out after weeks of chatting. In the process, my contraceptive broke and it happened raw for a minute or two before I replaced it.
Now one week later and I having strong symptoms of HIV exposure. Had I known, I would have gone for Pep. I am 75% sure of infection at this point.
I'm home now and I don't want to touch my wife who is constantly on my neck since I returned. I don't want to infect her or my child....and I can't come to terms with telling her everything right now.
This is someone who is so faithful and she has expressly stated that she will not entertain any hint of infidelity.
I'm so done for, I need advice Simple thing, you people will just come here and be telling us your life story...... yen yen yen yen yen. Instead of coming here, why can't you just go for a simple HIV test. Meanwhile, can you pass that deeper life girl to me ? I done dey hear about their exploit for bed. |
| Re: Cheated With A Church Girl! I Have Finished Myself, What Do I Do Now? by osazsky(m): 9:46pm On May 05, 2021 |
Bluntemperor:
How could someone come up with such a conclusion,yet no test.Did O P called the girl to confront her on this sickness or don't you think is important.
Is OP a labman or why is he saying the negatives to his life? Is it eriokan worrying him.
When you value your wife at home,why then looking outside? funny enough the girl may not be awear.girls fit carry prob for 5 years them nor go know but immediately man penetrates within 3 days he must know even without visiting a chemist.i dont know how this happens o |
| Re: Cheated With A Church Girl! I Have Finished Myself, What Do I Do Now? by DSC7: 9:47pm On May 05, 2021 |
Paxxcarl:
Lol he hasn’t be online since April 8
He probably committed suicide lol Lolsss..... Maybe he dey isolation center.... |
| Re: Cheated With A Church Girl! I Have Finished Myself, What Do I Do Now? by osazsky(m): 9:48pm On May 05, 2021 |
candygist:
Simple thing, you people will just come here and be telling us your life story...... yen yen yen yen yen. Instead of coming here, why can't you just go for a simple HIV test. Meanwhile, can you pass that deeper life girl to me ? I done dey hear about their exploit for bed. y must he go for only hiv test hiv is nothing..he should go for culture test..private part swab..mscs...urine to check for protein then the last one which is d least of the prob hiv |
| Re: Cheated With A Church Girl! I Have Finished Myself, What Do I Do Now? by zabuur: 9:48pm On May 05, 2021 |
michlins:
Bro my advice to you now is because you owned your shit and that means you're on the road to responsibility.
Go to lab and get tested. The mind has a way of projecting illnesses that are non-existent into the body. If you confirm that you're a carrier, let your wife know. Your means of exposure can remain a secret. Tell her you helped an accident victim or anything Experience is the best teacher |
| Re: Cheated With A Church Girl! I Have Finished Myself, What Do I Do Now? by Subonbon(m): 9:50pm On May 05, 2021 |
extol1:
why insulting him what he needs right now is advice. he is feeling remorseful leave the wise man wey dey perfect.... Yeye dey smell |
| Re: Cheated With A Church Girl! I Have Finished Myself, What Do I Do Now? by Nobody: 9:51pm On May 05, 2021 |
JungleJustice01:
I'll be succinct. I've messed up and I take full responsibility for my actions. All I'm trying to do now is save those close to my heart.
I'm married 2 years with an 8 month baby. I'm a faithful husband at heart but I just lost focus and landed in this deep mess.
My first stinct at adultery was late into my wife's pregnancy when I could not hold body. This situation was further compounded when I relocated due to work and come home every 3 weeks or so. My carefree attitude also contributed to this but I'm not staying them as excuses. I did what I did.
I met this deeper life young girl about a month ago. She was about 23, good looking and has an innocent air around her. Last week thereabout we met up and made out after weeks of chatting. In the process, my contraceptive broke and it happened raw for a minute or two before I replaced it.
Now one week later and I having strong symptoms of HIV exposure. Had I known, I would have gone for Pep. I am 75% sure of infection at this point.
I'm home now and I don't want to touch my wife who is constantly on my neck since I returned. I don't want to infect her or my child....and I can't come to terms with telling her everything right now.
This is someone who is so faithful and she has expressly stated that she will not entertain any hint of infidelity.
I'm so done for, I need advice Go to the hospital and run a test, in the mean time,I you shouldn't be at home with your wife and child just in case. if the test comes out Positive please LET YOUR WIFE KNOW AS SOON AS POSSIBLE |
| Re: Cheated With A Church Girl! I Have Finished Myself, What Do I Do Now? by nedekid: 9:51pm On May 05, 2021 |
JungleJustice01:
Sore throat, flu, muscle aches, lymph node enlargement. These are signs of a viral infection and they show up 1 -2 weeks after exposure.
I'll go for a test tomorrow, secretly. I've made peace with myself, it's telling my wife that's the issue. This home I hold dear will definitely scatter over a 5 minute one day stand. Bros your mind is playing tricks on you. If the story is as you said, then you have nothing to fear jare. Seems you are a learner in this aspect. Well it's just 2 years in the marriage so it is expected. Most of us have gone through this stage you are in. The fact you chook does does mean hiv automatically. Abi was she bleeding and raw blood was in your dick? I think say na belle matter you Wan talk sef when I saw the title of your writeup. 1 Like |
| Re: Cheated With A Church Girl! I Have Finished Myself, What Do I Do Now? by drightguy(m): 9:51pm On May 05, 2021 |
West2019:
It's not a death sentence. Go for test and believe in God , if it's hiv go to the Lord choresn.you will be heal and after that don't go back to sin again . Do they specialize on healing HIV patients? |
| Re: Cheated With A Church Girl! I Have Finished Myself, What Do I Do Now? by drightguy(m): 9:53pm On May 05, 2021 |
nedekid:
Bros your mind is playing tricks on you. If the story is as you said, then you have nothing to fear jare. Seems you are a learner in this aspect. Well it's just 2 years in the marriage so it is expected. Most of us have gone through this stage you are in.
The fact you chook does does mean hiv automatically. Abi was she bleeding and raw blood was in your dick?
I think say na belle matter you Wan talk sef when I saw the title of your writeup. Hands up 1 Like |
| Re: Cheated With A Church Girl! I Have Finished Myself, What Do I Do Now? by dochenaj: 9:55pm On May 05, 2021 |
Who else read this and felt, "this must be a fabrication"? |
| Re: Cheated With A Church Girl! I Have Finished Myself, What Do I Do Now? by Ezmans: 9:56pm On May 05, 2021 |
Karleb:
How did you know you have HIV?  fake people everywhere |
| Re: Cheated With A Church Girl! I Have Finished Myself, What Do I Do Now? by KosiGee(m): 9:57pm On May 05, 2021 |
Jeon:
carry your cross Sometimes you need a Simon of Cyrene. Nothing wrong in looking for him here. |
| Re: Cheated With A Church Girl! I Have Finished Myself, What Do I Do Now? by Angelacruz: 9:57pm On May 05, 2021 |
JungleJustice01:
I'm sorry but no. My actions have no justification...and I rate my family above every other thing. I don't think I'll be going back to such risky endeavors. The pains far outweigh the rewards. ur moniker is d answer |
| Re: Cheated With A Church Girl! I Have Finished Myself, What Do I Do Now? by Simplythebest: 9:57pm On May 05, 2021 |
You have learned fron ur mistakes. Just go to hospital and get tested. HIV test is less than 20 minutes the result will be out. Stop putting fear in ur self. |
| Re: Cheated With A Church Girl! I Have Finished Myself, What Do I Do Now? by Nobody: 9:58pm On May 05, 2021 |
JungleJustice01:
I'll be succinct. I've messed up and I take full responsibility for my actions. All I'm trying to do now is save those close to my heart.
I'm married 2 years with an 8 month baby. I'm a faithful husband at heart but I just lost focus and landed in this deep mess.
My first stinct at adultery was late into my wife's pregnancy when I could not hold body. This situation was further compounded when I relocated due to work and come home every 3 weeks or so. My carefree attitude also contributed to this but I'm not staying them as excuses. I did what I did.
I met this deeper life young girl about a month ago. She was about 23, good looking and has an innocent air around her. Last week thereabout we met up and made out after weeks of chatting. In the process, my contraceptive broke and it happened raw for a minute or two before I replaced it.
Now one week later and I having strong symptoms of HIV exposure. Had I known, I would have gone for Pep. I am 75% sure of infection at this point.
I'm home now and I don't want to touch my wife who is constantly on my neck since I returned. I don't want to infect her or my child....and I can't come to terms with telling her everything right now.
This is someone who is so faithful and she has expressly stated that she will not entertain any hint of infidelity.
I'm so done for, I need advice You see the bolded part? Na the reason why soapy good be that. |
| Re: Cheated With A Church Girl! I Have Finished Myself, What Do I Do Now? by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 9:59pm On May 05, 2021 |
When God decides to bless an adulterer.........
Your church babe is a distributor if all kinds of infections and you happened to patronize her.
Sorry bro. You will be fine. |
| Re: Cheated With A Church Girl! I Have Finished Myself, What Do I Do Now? by onosbaba3310: 9:59pm On May 05, 2021 |
osazsky:
if a man has unprotected sex..he should know if there is ingection no matter how mild within 3 days. Ur sys must change ur mind is not telling u anything na you get your body before sex na u get ur body after sex..but women can carry these things for year without knowing hence they dont go for treatment dont blame them they dont know..but y should a grown up man have unprotected sex in this our generation when girls at 14 diff Yahoo boys don dey knack them.go to a lab get treated and thread with care nxt time.best of luck.remember there is a window period..so after 3 months go back to the same lab to repeat the test hope this help Thanks bro, but is not actually unprotected sex,am I mad? The condom broke,and I felt it and immediately pulled out, I was even fully inside yet, but she kept telling me she is safe, but I don't believe her. |
