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Re: Men Are Scarce (A Misconstrued Statement). by Joromi1: 8:47pm On Apr 24
All noise no action. Put yourself in the level of Ngozi "Oko"njo Iweala without using dicks as ladder let's see.
Linda Ikeji preached against men too and got impregnated by the holy ghost.

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Re: Men Are Scarce (A Misconstrued Statement). by mrksquare: 8:48pm On Apr 24
slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Good write up from baby girl op

Well-done baby girl op...perused through your article while putting on my intellectual cap as I read between lines and blazing my weed simultaneously or rather concurrently....I must confess your article is not devoid of intellect....



Like your style joor. More wisdom weed to your medula oblongata
Re: Men Are Scarce (A Misconstrued Statement). by emonis88: 9:23pm On Apr 24
Well u r right on d part of a woman developing herself, but on d part of men being scarce I leave it for d ladies to judge , not only from one persons point of view. But I must say I ve seen women of value ,who men can't even approach for a relationship if they r not ready for marriage, roasting , abeg r they not women of value? Abi them value no reach? Well make una enlighten me abeg.

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Re: Men Are Scarce (A Misconstrued Statement). by beehivedata(m): 9:24pm On Apr 24
Faber:


BTW you are scammer. You and nonipe2935 two of you guys claim to be data vendors. Your own is Triple D there is also Bee Hive Data you guys are scammers.

So you are asking me to learn to give you benefits of doubt and patronize you so that you rip me off.

Get out
bros, whoever ripped you off isn't me. Stop bringing my innocent and clean slate into your sh1t. Tackle your scammer exclusively please. I am a LEGIT business man...and may name/brand speaks for me.
Re: Men Are Scarce (A Misconstrued Statement). by beehivedata(m): 9:25pm On Apr 24
Catfishing:

The moniker I quoted accused you of scam and I brought your attention to it, and here you're spitting trash.

Go fight your attacker and leave me alone!!

Cheap scammer. Defamatory my black azz angry
Sincere apologies. I no dey use ear hear say them call my name for wetin no concern me. I really appreciate your bringing my attention to this. Please forgive my misunderstanding. I wish to chat with u more. Please reach out to me or tell me how I can reach u. Thanks and God bless you.
Re: Men Are Scarce (A Misconstrued Statement). by Faber(m): 9:42pm On Apr 24
beehivedata:
bros, whoever ripped you off isn't me. Stop bringing my innocent and clean slate into your sh1t. Tackle your scammer exclusively please. I am a LEGIT business man...and may name/brand speaks for me.

Ok let me prove you wrong. All of you data vendors here are scammers. Someone you actually scammed complained to me. And I have prove. He paid you for data just ordinary 600 you no send the data reach today. If he is online now, he form come here now come attack. It happened last week
Re: Men Are Scarce (A Misconstrued Statement). by ugonna1054(m): 9:46pm On Apr 24
StacyO:
YES
It is all a lie. A very BIG one at that.
Men are not scarce, the genuine men are only seeking for ladies with value.

It's not about you being beautiful my sister ever noticed that cheap products have the highest customer base in markets??
Forget the saying that bad girls get married every Sunday. We all know the divorce rate and troubles in every home nowadays.

Men are still in the olden era. Forget 21st century, men are in search of women with worth.


Develop yourself first cause if you don't, you'll depend on men for anything and definitely you know that'll mean opening your legs at any given opportunity.

It's your body, you're free to use it any how you deem fit.
But, you just know that men love ladies with value, ladies with goals & future ambitions, ladies who exercise authority over their bodies and doesn't allow mere words move them.

At age 19, I had suitors coming to see my dad. I mean, men with clean rides.
I was definitely young and I had no big ass nor boobs.

Then, I began to wonder what drew this men to me?
Till I got to discover that I disciplined myself that way. Any man that comes to me, must be in for something serious else, he leaves the relationship disappointed.
My only prayer now is that I get to make a good choice when the time is right.


To those ladies complaining of not meeting any man for marriage,
WHATS YOUR VALUE?
You need to set rules and boundaries when it comes to relationships.
Mind you, the FIRST thing a man will look out for when he starts with you is your body.
THE BALL DURING ALL THIS IS ACTUALLY IN YOUR COURT.
Are you in for sex as well? If no, make it known and make sure you close those legs. Practice, even if you must cause that will be your only saving grace.

Develop yourself
You might not be like Ngozi Okonjo Iweala but, make yourself a woman with worth.
Place yourself even far above your own value. Na men go dey rush you ooo

Men are not scarce. The question is, are you a liability or a woman of substance??

A wise man once said "Do not marry a liability" - and I think it goes both ways for both sexes, but it feels more like the advice is for the male gender cry

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Re: Men Are Scarce (A Misconstrued Statement). by beehivedata(m): 9:56pm On Apr 24
Faber:


Ok let me prove you wrong. All of you data vendors here are scammers. Someone you actually scammed complained to me. And I have prove. He paid you for data just ordinary 600 you no send the data reach today. If he is online now, he form come here now come attack. It happened last week
Please provide all the proofs here.. I am waiting. Let him drop everything. I am not going anywhere. Thank you.
Re: Men Are Scarce (A Misconstrued Statement). by beehivedata(m): 9:59pm On Apr 24
I've been doing data and Bill services for over a year and beehive_data + Eburaya Udah have been a household name. I have nothing to hide like I always say... Provide proofs biko let us settle this once and for all.
Re: Men Are Scarce (A Misconstrued Statement). by rolexino(m): 10:05pm On Apr 24
This days, how will a guy ask a beautiful lady about;

1. Her short & long term goals


She will reply ; I don't know ooo


2. Have you read any book about relationship & marriage


This one na big problem. They don't even have any idea except those that know how to use GOOGLE.COM



3. What is your view/opinions about dating/relationship ?


Heee! They will call you Lecturer


Suooo!!!


But


Switch the topic and start talking about material, vain things, be talking about clubbing , partying , flexing things, traveling



You will see their mouth running like speedometer



Looking at it critically, mothers are the closest to children at home cuz the father will be alway to cater for the family



As a woman, it's the mother responsibility to teach the children....


.... Norms that guide them till become of age



The next generation to come, I pray God help them or else , it shall be well


In a world were mothers and daughters are befriending one man


Women doesn't see anything sacred in them anymore


This is bad.

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Re: Men Are Scarce (A Misconstrued Statement). by beehivedata(m): 10:12pm On Apr 24
Faber:


Ok let me prove you wrong. All of you data vendors here are scammers. Someone you actually scammed complained to me. And I have prove. He paid you for data just ordinary 600 you no send the data reach today. If he is online now, he form come here now come attack. It happened last week
I am still waiting because u will pay dearly for this libellous act. The person u claim I scammed didn't express his displeasure to me who u claim scammed him...but to you àbí? You can not make an attempt to dent my character and go free like that smiley
Re: Men Are Scarce (A Misconstrued Statement). by Nobody: 10:19pm On Apr 24
This op na correct babe. I nor know say sensible babe when go fit create this kind thread dey for this forum. Please try to advise the ladies around you in your everyday life

Re: Men Are Scarce (A Misconstrued Statement). by Faber(m): 10:30pm On Apr 24
He sent me those chats on April 19th and told me he just tried you with 600 Naira that he wanted to patronize you with like 2k but said let him wait first.

I just told him to forget about that. And buy data from network providers.
Re: Men Are Scarce (A Misconstrued Statement). by Faber(m): 10:37pm On Apr 24
beehivedata:
lwkmd. Which beehivedata is that one? Check Eburaya Udah on Facebook and LinkedIn. Na you know your brother wey u call BeehiveData o. Which account did he pay to? Incase you don't know, your guy is a victim of imitation and sheer ignorance.. That's if this isn't all scripted because it reeks of rubbish. The image below is and has been my flyer for a some time now. The person you claim scammed him is not me. Stop being so gullible. Go to bed bro. You're just looking for someone to. Play with.

I no get time for any scripted stuff here. This actually happened. He still have the account he paid the money into. I rest my case. I no get time to scatter people Hustle.

Very sad the guy no dey online now. But I hope before end of tomorrow he go show face. Me I wanted patronizing the other guy nonipe2935 but another guy warned me how he chop his money also.

As you dey so. If you are legit I will come here and do campaign for you. But there's only one beehivedata on Nairaland which is you. I no get time for play play stuff.
Re: Men Are Scarce (A Misconstrued Statement). by beehivedata(m): 11:03pm On Apr 24
Faber:


Actually when he contacted me about how he kept calling you and didn't received the data, I was surprised. I doubted it but he sent me some screenshots. I will drop the one he sent me. He has the full chats with you. All data vendors here are not legit. I think adverts of selling of data needs to be banned here.
The pricelist is not mine. You are taking a screenshot from the scammer's point of view. You're the scammer I reported to the mods that's why you're angry. Hahahahaha. Scammer Oshi... Thief! You will never succeed. Olè see you below.

Re: Men Are Scarce (A Misconstrued Statement). by beehivedata(m): 11:06pm On Apr 24
Beware of imitation people.

If it is not Eburaya Udah Sunday's beehivedata, it's counterfeit.

Thieves are everywhere lurking, seeking for whom to devour.
Hahaha.

God pass you Faber and you will reap what you sow. smiley
Re: Men Are Scarce (A Misconstrued Statement). by Akuruoulo(m): 11:20pm On Apr 24
StacyO:
YES
It is all a lie. A very BIG one at that.
Men are not scarce, the genuine men are only seeking for ladies with value.

It's not about you being beautiful my sister ever noticed that cheap products have the highest customer base in markets??
Forget the saying that bad girls get married every Sunday. We all know the divorce rate and troubles in every home nowadays.

Men are still in the olden era. Forget 21st century, men are in search of women with worth.


Develop yourself first cause if you don't, you'll depend on men for anything and definitely you know that'll mean opening your legs at any given opportunity.

It's your body, you're free to use it any how you deem fit.
But, you just know that men love ladies with value, ladies with goals & future ambitions, ladies who exercise authority over their bodies and doesn't allow mere words move them.

At age 19, I had suitors coming to see my dad. I mean, men with clean rides.
I was definitely young and I had no big ass nor boobs.

Then, I began to wonder what drew this men to me?
Till I got to discover that I disciplined myself that way. Any man that comes to me, must be in for something serious else, he leaves the relationship disappointed.
My only prayer now is that I get to make a good choice when the time is right.


To those ladies complaining of not meeting any man for marriage,
WHATS YOUR VALUE?
You need to set rules and boundaries when it comes to relationships.
Mind you, the FIRST thing a man will look out for when he starts with you is your body.
THE BALL DURING ALL THIS IS ACTUALLY IN YOUR COURT.
Are you in for sex as well? If no, make it known and make sure you close those legs. Practice, even if you must cause that will be your only saving grace.

Develop yourself
You might not be like Ngozi Okonjo Iweala but, make yourself a woman with worth.
Place yourself even far above your own value. Na men go dey rush you ooo

Men are not scarce. The question is, are you a liability or a woman of substance??


U ARE VERY BRAINY DEAR.


BUT U DIDN'T TELL THEM NEVER TO DEPEND ON HIM FOR ANY DINE UNTILL MARRIAGE. U ARE WRONG THERE.

CREATE A THREAD TO TELL THEM TO NEVER START FRUSTRATING ANY MAN FINANCIALLY IN ANY SITUATION.

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Re: Men Are Scarce (A Misconstrued Statement). by Akuruoulo(m): 11:21pm On Apr 24
Truvel:
Guy, Nawa 4 U Ooo. U Use Style Harsh Na. She Only Gave Her Opinion. Besides, Na Elderly Mother U Dey Talk To So.

Elderly Gini ?
Re: Men Are Scarce (A Misconstrued Statement). by Lilphat: 11:44pm On Apr 24
Yeah
Re: Men Are Scarce (A Misconstrued Statement). by BabaIbo: 11:47pm On Apr 24
StacyO:


When I finish with guys offline, I might consider seeking for love on an anonymous forum.


Men are not scarce and yet none of them has found you.
Re: Men Are Scarce (A Misconstrued Statement). by pacespot(m): 3:09am On Apr 25
Today's world: you get rejected at any given chance because you are not rich, you are desserted, scorned and embarrassed. Someone might even try to kill you because of your financial status, have you noticed that most victims of insecurities today are poor people (at least 95% of them). Nigerian police are more trigger happy against a poor man, being poor in Nigeria is like living in prison of fear everyday because your life is worth nothing to people, any moment can be your last with a slightest provocation. Nobody cares to look at the body of a poor man lying on the street. Now you excelled and scaled through these hurdles and overcame the greatest fear that ever existed against man, the fear of coming to this world and leaving no path (because if you died as a poor man in this country nobody cares to remember you for a second), the same people who have vilified you all your life want to come and spend time with you enjoying your fortunes in the name of marriage and friendship.

Summary of an average Nigerian man today.
Re: Men Are Scarce (A Misconstrued Statement). by ema2020: 3:52am On Apr 25
StacyO:


Horrible state of the country??


People still get married even during the time war. Lol

Anyway, this thread is targeting the ladies.


marriage is not by force
Re: Men Are Scarce (A Misconstrued Statement). by CaptainFM1: 3:55am On Apr 25
StacyO:
YES
It is all a lie. A very BIG one at that.
Men are not scarce, the genuine men are only seeking for ladies with value.

It's not about you being beautiful my sister ever noticed that cheap products have the highest customer base in markets??
Forget the saying that bad girls get married every Sunday. We all know the divorce rate and troubles in every home nowadays.

Men are still in the olden era. Forget 21st century, men are in search of women with worth.


Develop yourself first cause if you don't, you'll depend on men for anything and definitely you know that'll mean opening your legs at any given opportunity.

It's your body, you're free to use it any how you deem fit.
But, you just know that men love ladies with value, ladies with goals & future ambitions, ladies who exercise authority over their bodies and doesn't allow mere words move them.

At age 19, I had suitors coming to see my dad. I mean, men with clean rides.
I was definitely young and I had no big ass nor boobs.

Then, I began to wonder what drew this men to me?
Till I got to discover that I disciplined myself that way. Any man that comes to me, must be in for something serious else, he leaves the relationship disappointed.
My only prayer now is that I get to make a good choice when the time is right.


To those ladies complaining of not meeting any man for marriage,
WHATS YOUR VALUE?
You need to set rules and boundaries when it comes to relationships.
Mind you, the FIRST thing a man will look out for when he starts with you is your body.
THE BALL DURING ALL THIS IS ACTUALLY IN YOUR COURT.
Are you in for sex as well? If no, make it known and make sure you close those legs. Practice, even if you must cause that will be your only saving grace.

Develop yourself
You might not be like Ngozi Okonjo Iweala but, make yourself a woman with worth.
Place yourself even far above your own value. Na men go dey rush you ooo

Men are not scarce. The question is, are you a liability or a woman of substance??

Very nice write-up.

But why do good girls turn bad? I'm sure you must have heard that saying before?

Nobody ever thought Linda I. was baddest until she got kpenched out of wedlock.

The truth is when it comes to relationship and marriage. You must pray very well over it.

Most presumed good girls change their attitudes when the clock has reached 10pm.
Re: Men Are Scarce (A Misconstrued Statement). by MrCuteking(m): 6:05am On Apr 25
Men are simple creatures. A man doesn't need so much from a woman when it comes to value. A little effort is just enough.

Most women of high standard or value also have pride which men hate.

What men truly value aside being an asset is RESPECT.

Little asset, plenty respect is the ultimate a man wants.

Men knock at the doors of some extremely low level ladies as well.

It's your opinion albeit, I second with the last sentence. Thanks.

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Re: Men Are Scarce (A Misconstrued Statement). by excessmon(m): 6:11am On Apr 25
What Sony u know? Ur iq is explained in ur writwup
Faber:

A relationship advice, opinion or whatever you call it from a lady is just like a coward advicing you on war.

So get it. Cheap popularity is the terminus ad quem, nothing else
Re: Men Are Scarce (A Misconstrued Statement). by nams77: 7:03am On Apr 25
K
StacyO:


Horrible state of the country??


People still get married even during the time war. Lol

Anyway, this thread is targeting the ladies.


Truvel made a valid point. As I sit here this morning, I can count four young men whom I know very well that is still single cos of finance.
One of them is of extra concern to me. He is a younger friend, in relationship with a wonderful girl, was supposed to do a very small trad wedding this may but ..... The mother in law said dude must leave his family house first( I support that too). If dude uses fund with him to rent a new apartment, business/ marriage is canceled.
So as it stands, the month of May is off.
Dem plenty full everywhere. I'm shocked you are disputing what truvel is saying. With these horrible financial state of Nigeria?

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