| Re: My Girlfriend's Past Disgusts Me by olamide0147: 3:37pm On Apr 29, 2021 |
VTJN:
just hear yourself out?
You intend to use someone as the ends to your means!
I don't think poverty is the root cause of all these
It's in you, just like peak! Bro who did I use, you or any of your people u better wake up from your slumber. No one is using anyone this a case of survival to be able to survive is Nigeria �� is to get out of Nigeria and the best way for now is to tag along with a beautiful matured white woman and am blessed she's much understanding she knew I have to leave here by all means so I can get a better life... Lol she even said I should makes sure I don't marry any of these naija girls because they can't help that after few years I can look for younger lady and start new life. she practically plan it all out, so bro what's your headache |
| Re: My Girlfriend's Past Disgusts Me by Chyma231(m): 4:09pm On Apr 29, 2021 |
U be mumu , how many times will they tell u that Nigeria is not for you !!!! Oluku |
| Re: My Girlfriend's Past Disgusts Me by kpolli(m): 4:35pm On Apr 29, 2021 |
Lifeisnotfair:
I hope everyone is having a good day. Here's my story and I'd try to be brief as much as I can.
About four months ago I met this white girl on Instagram and since then we've been talking day in day out. I'm surprised af how quick we both connected in a very short time and to be honest I can tell that she's crazy about me and I'm as well. As a matter of fact she broke up with her ex boyfriend so she could focus on our relationship because according to her she hasn't met someone as sweet as me and I was actually cool with it since no girl has shown me such love in my entire life.
We are both in our early 20s (24 years old) and we 've both promised each other a lot, we plan on seeing for the first time in Nigeria very soon but after last night's conversation, I actually don't feel the same way I felt for her when we started talking.
She confessed to have been with 8 guys after I asked her how many guys she's dated in the past, then she said 9 and later 10 and said she has lost count of how many times she's had sexx. And oh I haven't asked her to be my girlfriend yet though but last night I was about to and after hearing all of her confessions I had to go offline and she's been begging me for forgiveness but I've been ignoring her.
I'm confused and I don't know what to do. I'm deeply in love with her and I see a future with her as well but her past disgusts me so much and I don't feel sexx with her would be something special when we finally decide to get married in the future. Should I continue to lead her on till when I get a green card and just ditch her afterwards or should I just cut ties with her now that I have the opportunity to?
Ps: She's based in America while I'm in Nigeria and for those that would say I'm not a saint, oh well I'm sorry to burst your bubble but I'm still a virgin and haven't had sex in my entire life. I'm not saying she should be a virgin but I feel like 10 guys in the past is a bit on the high side. Please NL members, I need advice on what to do. Thank you in advance.
Update:
I've been reading all of the comments and I appreciate everyone of you that took out time to advice me on what to do.
First I'd like to say that my intentions of talking to her was pure and genuine. I wasn't thinking of using her to get a green card. And second I didn't say I was looking for a virgin but it's all good now.
I actually did followed my heart like most persons here suggested and we are both cool now. We hope to see where this leads us in the future. Thank you again. As you grow older you'll realize it's not about how many times your wife has had sex before she met you but about marrying a woman who gives you peace of mind. Judge her from what she does the day you became/become serious with her, forget the past. God forgives your past and looks at you from the day you give your life to Him |
| Re: My Girlfriend's Past Disgusts Me by cococandy(f): 4:42pm On Apr 29, 2021 |
So it’s cool for white girls to be promiscuous but Nigerian girls are olosho if they attempt it ? See what inferiority complex can cause 1 Like |
| Re: My Girlfriend's Past Disgusts Me by kechywillz(m): 4:54pm On Apr 29, 2021 |
How Una take they catch oyibos sef,bros if u go cut me small soap ,I wan oyibo babe bad bad |
| Re: My Girlfriend's Past Disgusts Me by Richthekid: 5:02pm On Apr 29, 2021 |
Then don’t date coz no saint |
| Re: My Girlfriend's Past Disgusts Me by Kevinbide(m): 5:38pm On Apr 29, 2021 |
nedekid:
Op, you no serious.
And what is wrong in asking a lady her body count? Sometimes it just amazed me how most of you female folks has no dignity anymore, and with some of the guys that see nothing wrong on it.
Note any reasonable man that wants to end up with you and chooses to ignore this question or you not telling him that means that marriage will never last cause weather you like it or not the truth must come out.
How will you ask a lady her body count?
Obviously it seems you are not matured enough to date or marry. Those are issue you avoid discussing.
Honestly do not generalise cause I have actually dated just one so speak for your self that is how you guys has thrown away morals on the floor and later you start looking for gentle men that will let go of everything meanwhile you already know your left from your right
Which lady or guy at the age of 25 wount have dated atleast 5-10 people?
Then you take a pause a while not jumping from different dicks
That is even conservative. Is it every man a lady dates that will lead to marriage?
I don't think so cause the OP is literally more moral than her and she should be calm period..
(I think the lady should be the one ignoring you for )
I really hate the fact that when a guy choose to fellow the right direction you females folks tag them as immature anyway just learn how to abstain from dirty life styles that is my take here thank you. |
| Re: My Girlfriend's Past Disgusts Me by darichlife: 5:57pm On Apr 29, 2021 |
Many boys won't mind marrying a porn star from Europe or America. guy what does the body count mean to you anyways as long as you no be virgin forget man. |
| Re: My Girlfriend's Past Disgusts Me by PrinceGallant: 6:46pm On Apr 29, 2021 |
If truly you are a virgin, you are not compatible with that girl. If you go ahead, many bumps are waiting for you to cross in the future. Believe me, it may sweet in the morning, it is sour in the evening. Don't let your passion lead you astray... lest your lust last you in lost |
| Re: My Girlfriend's Past Disgusts Me by Curiouscity(m): 7:31pm On Apr 29, 2021 |
Lifeisnotfair:
I hope everyone is having a good day. Here's my story and I'd try to be brief as much as I can.
About four months ago I met this white girl on Instagram and since then we've been talking day in day out. I'm surprised af how quick we both connected in a very short time and to be honest I can tell that she's crazy about me and I'm as well. As a matter of fact she broke up with her ex boyfriend so she could focus on our relationship because according to her she hasn't met someone as sweet as me and I was actually cool with it since no girl has shown me such love in my entire life.
We are both in our early 20s (24 years old) and we 've both promised each other a lot, we plan on seeing for the first time in Nigeria very soon but after last night's conversation, I actually don't feel the same way I felt for her when we started talking.
She confessed to have been with 8 guys after I asked her how many guys she's dated in the past, then she said 9 and later 10 and said she has lost count of how many times she's had sexx. And oh I haven't asked her to be my girlfriend yet though but last night I was about to and after hearing all of her confessions I had to go offline and she's been begging me for forgiveness but I've been ignoring her.
I'm confused and I don't know what to do. I'm deeply in love with her and I see a future with her as well but her past disgusts me so much and I don't feel sexx with her would be something special when we finally decide to get married in the future. Should I continue to lead her on till when I get a green card and just ditch her afterwards or should I just cut ties with her now that I have the opportunity to?
Ps: She's based in America while I'm in Nigeria and for those that would say I'm not a saint, oh well I'm sorry to burst your bubble but I'm still a virgin and haven't had sex in my entire life. I'm not saying she should be a virgin but I feel like 10 guys in the past is a bit on the high side. Please NL members, I need advice on what to do. Thank you in advance.
Update:
I've been reading all of the comments and I appreciate everyone of you that took out time to advice me on what to do.
First I'd like to say that my intentions of talking to her was pure and genuine. I wasn't thinking of using her to get a green card. And second I didn't say I was looking for a virgin but it's all good now.
I actually did followed my heart like most persons here suggested and we are both cool now. We hope to see where this leads us in the future. Thank you again. If you're a virgin, look for a virgin in the age range of 18-20 to date. You have seen a girl who is sincere and open to you, you're here ranting. Would you appreciate if she told you that she is a virgin, only for you to find out the truth after commitment? I dated different women for about 10 years, before getting married 10 years ago, I can tell you that such open and sincere girls are rare, and they are always faithful and honest. Dey there dey count body!! |
| Re: My Girlfriend's Past Disgusts Me by esperon25: 8:57pm On Apr 29, 2021 |
AsherAmari:
I'll advise you face your studies but If you're done with schooling, face your job, keep your virginity and seek God's face for a good and Godly wife.
Just be friends with the white girl and stop having intimate and personal discuss with her. Best advice here. Please heed. |
| Re: My Girlfriend's Past Disgusts Me by esperon25: 8:58pm On Apr 29, 2021 |
AsherAmari:
I'll advise you face your studies but If you're done with schooling, face your job, keep your virginity and seek God's face for a good and Godly wife.
Just be friends with the white girl and stop having intimate and personal discuss with her. Best advice here. Please heed. |
| Re: My Girlfriend's Past Disgusts Me by esperon25: 9:07pm On Apr 29, 2021 |
AsherAmari:
I'll advise you face your studies but If you're done with schooling, face your job, keep your virginity and seek God's face for a good and Godly wife.
Just be friends with the white girl and stop having intimate and personal discuss with her. Best advice here. Please heed. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: My Girlfriend's Past Disgusts Me by drgideon: 10:22pm On Apr 29, 2021 |
If you love her, don't judge her past. No one is perfect. |
| Re: My Girlfriend's Past Disgusts Me by SweetyZinta(f): 10:50pm On Apr 29, 2021 |
Lifeisnotfair:
I hope everyone is having a good day. Here's my story and I'd try to be brief as much as I can.
About four months ago I met this white girl on Instagram and since then we've been talking day in day out. I'm surprised af how quick we both connected in a very short time and to be honest I can tell that she's crazy about me and I'm as well. As a matter of fact she broke up with her ex boyfriend so she could focus on our relationship because according to her she hasn't met someone as sweet as me and I was actually cool with it since no girl has shown me such love in my entire life.
We are both in our early 20s (24 years old) and we 've both promised each other a lot, we plan on seeing for the first time in Nigeria very soon but after last night's conversation, I actually don't feel the same way I felt for her when we started talking.
She confessed to have been with 8 guys after I asked her how many guys she's dated in the past, then she said 9 and later 10 and said she has lost count of how many times she's had sexx. And oh I haven't asked her to be my girlfriend yet though but last night I was about to and after hearing all of her confessions I had to go offline and she's been begging me for forgiveness but I've been ignoring her.
I'm confused and I don't know what to do. I'm deeply in love with her and I see a future with her as well but her past disgusts me so much and I don't feel sexx with her would be something special when we finally decide to get married in the future. Should I continue to lead her on till when I get a green card and just ditch her afterwards or should I just cut ties with her now that I have the opportunity to?
Ps: She's based in America while I'm in Nigeria and for those that would say I'm not a saint, oh well I'm sorry to burst your bubble but I'm still a virgin and haven't had sex in my entire life. I'm not saying she should be a virgin but I feel like 10 guys in the past is a bit on the high side. Please NL members, I need advice on what to do. Thank you in advance.
Update:
I've been reading all of the comments and I appreciate everyone of you that took out time to advice me on what to do.
First I'd like to say that my intentions of talking to her was pure and genuine. I wasn't thinking of using her to get a green card. And second I didn't say I was looking for a virgin but it's all good now.
I actually did followed my heart like most persons here suggested and we are both cool now. We hope to see where this leads us in the future. Thank you again. It is because your paths didn't cross early enough that was why she has been involved with 10 guys. Imagine if you met you 5 years ago, you would probably be her 2nd or 3rd guy. Don't be too judgemental everyone deserves a chance. |
| Re: My Girlfriend's Past Disgusts Me by Emperor88(m): 12:44am On Apr 30, 2021 |
Kandeed:
Lifeisnotfair you should expect that from any American babe you'd be oppurtuned to meet and it's rather funny cuz guys over there don't see that stuff as anything
Anyways OP choose yee this day between billing Re-tarded idiots parading themselves as 9ja girls who sees you as connected ATM and after it all break ur heart or a chick who would prolly add positively to ur life aside her past life with a prospective future. choose yee this day man You dey mind the Op ni?....9ja girls wey go don lose their abortion count at 20 not even body count and will still be forming virgin for you till you marry them only to tell you she was raped by Patanmi. |
| Re: My Girlfriend's Past Disgusts Me by Kandeed: 1:23am On Apr 30, 2021 |
Emperor88:
You dey mind the Op ni?....9ja girls wey go don lose their abortion count at 20 not even body count and will still be forming virgin for you till you marry them only to tell you she was raped by Patanmi. lol  |
| Re: My Girlfriend's Past Disgusts Me by divineappo(m): 7:54pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
You are a certified muzuzu
So, her body count is now your problem?
I hope she can add you to her list of body counts, Bleep that ur stupid masturbated virgin penis, and then dump you flat
Nonsense |
