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Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by marwanafrica: 10:14pm On May 06, 2021
You are not working yet you are paying for an expensive apartment in this Economy Bross how?

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Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by akanbiaa(m): 10:15pm On May 06, 2021
BetBuilder365:


How old are you bro? Bringing this on a public space shows you can't think in a strategic way. As a matured man this is something you will just tell the wife with no quarrels, why bringing it here?
Maybe they are not on cordial /talking terms with his brother's wife and she visit Nairaland regularly.
Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by brownemmanuel43(m): 10:16pm On May 06, 2021
vickydevoka:

Ogau never Marry. Na normal thing.
Na only men way get strong spirit de overcome am.
Them go use ur head sotey u go hate all ur siblings, especially if na only u get money for de House
U are absolutely right my brother, its just painful that we only have few men with balls, majority of men this days na weakling and SIMPs all over. Bcs no woman born of a woman dare try that rubbish around me

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Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by Richy4(m): 10:16pm On May 06, 2021
akanbiaa:
Where do you get money to pay for the apartment since you said you are not working, if you want her to respect you then she must be convinced you are working or doing business and not draining your brother of resources and also occasionally buy her things she will cherish as present and with some cash also(the cash is best given when they have a child, just say it's for the child)

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Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by Nobody: 10:17pm On May 06, 2021
CountVersailles:
Maybe "confront" is the wrong word to use here, but let me explain.

My brother and I had been sharing an apartment for a few months before he got married. He recently left to take a separate place with his new wife, who I'm friends with. No issues between us. Since my brother left I have been staying in the old apartment alone and paying the rent all my myself. Now, my brother's wife who is quite sensitive about their finances thinks that my brother is still paying for the apartment. This is because he was the one paying before, since he had been staying there for months before I moved in.

Now, I can understand her concerns. The reason she is thinking this is because,
1. I am not working, and she knows. So, she cannot believe I can pay for the apartment which is quite expensive
2. she knows my brother was the only paying before I moved in.

She doesn't realize I have taken over the payment since last two months, and has been nagging my brother to stop paying for the apartment even after he insists he is no longer paying. Maybe, she thinks he's lying to him.

I hate that this is going on. Maybe it's my ego, but I feel like talking to her directly and telling her that her husband is no longer paying for the apartment. Is this something I should do?
Leave Her Alone. Just Pretend As If U Don't Know What Is Going Wrong.
Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by AfroKnight: 10:17pm On May 06, 2021
CountVersailles She still won’t believe you. You don’t owe her any explanation and you don’t need her validation. You’re taking care of your accommodation by yourself and that should be enough for you.

If she cannot believe her husband, that’s her headache.

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Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by Kubernetes: 10:17pm On May 06, 2021
The fact that she did not believe your brother speaks volumes. Marriage that's not based on trust will eventually collapse.

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Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by luluosas(m): 10:18pm On May 06, 2021
Go to your brother's house, politely ask him in the Presence of his wife why he refused to pay for your apartment in the past 2 months. His reaction will settle the matter amicably. Don't be angry at your brother's wife please, because you may be accusing her wrongly. Cheers

CountVersailles:
Maybe "confront" is the wrong word to use here, but let me explain.

My brother and I had been sharing an apartment for a few months before he got married. He recently left to take a separate place with his new wife, who I'm friends with. No issues between us. Since my brother left I have been staying in the old apartment alone and paying the rent all my myself. Now, my brother's wife who is quite sensitive about their finances thinks that my brother is still paying for the apartment. This is because he was the one paying before, since he had been staying there for months before I moved in.

Now, I can understand her concerns. The reason she is thinking this is because,
1. I am not working, and she knows. So, she cannot believe I can pay for the apartment which is quite expensive
2. she knows my brother was the only paying before I moved in.

She doesn't realize I have taken over the payment since last two months, and has been nagging my brother to stop paying for the apartment even after he insists he is no longer paying. Maybe, she thinks he's lying to him.

I hate that this is going on. Maybe it's my ego, but I feel like talking to her directly and telling her that her husband is no longer paying for the apartment. Is this something I should do?
Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by Ekugbeh(m): 10:18pm On May 06, 2021
CountVersailles:
Maybe "confront" is the wrong word to use here, but let me explain.

My brother and I had been sharing an apartment for a few months before he got married. He recently left to take a separate place with his new wife, who I'm friends with. No issues between us. Since my brother left I have been staying in the old apartment alone and paying the rent all my myself. Now, my brother's wife who is quite sensitive about their finances thinks that my brother is still paying for the apartment. This is because he was the one paying before, since he had been staying there for months before I moved in.

Now, I can understand her concerns. The reason she is thinking this is because,
1. I am not working, and she knows. So, she cannot believe I can pay for the apartment which is quite expensive
2. she knows my brother was the only paying before I moved in.

She doesn't realize I have taken over the payment since last two months, and has been nagging my brother to stop paying for the apartment even after he insists he is no longer paying. Maybe, she thinks he's lying to him.

I hate that this is going on. Maybe it's my ego, but I feel like talking to her directly and telling her that her husband is no longer paying for the apartment. Is this something I should do?
confront who? Seems u guys ve a lot of time to give o. Me and my "I don't care"

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Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by ngwababe(f): 10:18pm On May 06, 2021
Even if na your brother dey pay the rent, how e take concern her? What kind of evil dey fill people mind sef?!

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Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by georgedaniel01(m): 10:19pm On May 06, 2021
You suppose dey work with CIA.
spinna:
Just casually mention it in conversation..tell her you just came from seeing the landlord.Dont confront her
Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by marwanafrica: 10:20pm On May 06, 2021
brownemmanuel43:
Sometimes I just wonder how a man will allow a woman to bring division in the family. I don't just understand the kind of men we have this days, no guts, no boldness to confront a woman.
Imagine living happily with your brother for months or years all of a sudden one useless woman will come and divide the brothers in the name of marriage
I don't blame the woman, I only blame that your simp brother, what were they discussing that could warrant such ranting from her.
I don't know why I no dey jam such idiot women me wey my head no correct u wan come separate me from my blood brother.
No woman born of a woman shall try that nonsense for my side, if u dare try that nonsense na straight to your papa house, I hate nonsense


Bross be calming Down most of this Men that are now control by women were once like you, what then happen should be your concerned not bragging Sir, Women are very manipulative especialy when they know you love them more than they love you.
Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by IYANGBALI: 10:20pm On May 06, 2021
JagabanDesign:
Let's wait for the elders
the elders are hungry

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Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by NiklauseFred(m): 10:22pm On May 06, 2021
Brother's wife always causing problem for the brother inlaws since the days of Adam


Seriously battling a bitter one right now. cry
Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by archbishop007(m): 10:25pm On May 06, 2021
Pierocash:
Why confronting or discussing the issue ? Forget it and move on like nothing happened.people like making issues out of nothing

You've said it all bro...wetin concern me make she dey nag now. Life is easy for people wey Sabi how to face der own business

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Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by winner37(m): 10:25pm On May 06, 2021
I don't put mouth on any issue about people's family... my advice is do what you think is right
Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by georgedaniel01(m): 10:26pm On May 06, 2021
Family rift can be extended to children. Don't confront her.

Tell your brother in her presence how difficult it is to pay rent.

"we all lose when the family feuds"... Jay-Z
Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by brownemmanuel43(m): 10:26pm On May 06, 2021
marwanafrica:



Bross be calming Down most of this Men that are now control by women were once like you, what then happen should be your concerned not bragging Sir, Women are very manipulative especialy when they know you love them more than they love you.
Lolssssss, I know that bross, jungle man like me does not believe in that shit bro.
The few ladies I HV mingled with keep telling me how tough and rough I will handle any woman that will come across me.
The issue is that what we have this day are SIMPs and weaklings parading as men, men without balls and guts
Me wey my head no correct

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Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by Nobody: 10:27pm On May 06, 2021
CountVersailles:
Maybe "confront" is the wrong word to use here, but let me explain.

My brother and I had been sharing an apartment for a few months before he got married. He recently left to take a separate place with his new wife, who I'm friends with. No issues between us. Since my brother left I have been staying in the old apartment alone and paying the rent all my myself. Now, my brother's wife who is quite sensitive about their finances thinks that my brother is still paying for the apartment. This is because he was the one paying before, since he had been staying there for months before I moved in.

Now, I can understand her concerns. The reason she is thinking this is because,
1. I am not working, and she knows. So, she cannot believe I can pay for the apartment which is quite expensive
2. she knows my brother was the only paying before I moved in.

She doesn't realize I have taken over the payment since last two months, and has been nagging my brother to stop paying for the apartment even after he insists he is no longer paying. Maybe, she thinks he's lying to him.

I hate that this is going on. Maybe it's my ego, but I feel like talking to her directly and telling her that her husband is no longer paying for the apartment. Is this something I should do?

Yes, there is something you can do.

First of, your brother has the right to pay for your residence if he has money, a woman can show concern about family finance, but has no right to 'ensure' that ber bro-inlaw is super homeless even when she knows she is the x in the equation that has now become less quadratic.

This is what you must do:
>>>>>>NOTHING>>>>>>>

Let her wallow in her ignorance, until your brother becomes fed up and land her a solid slap.

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Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by Heavensent01(m): 10:31pm On May 06, 2021
if what you said is true about her nagging then I can say it confidently that you and your brothers are too soft to manage a lady



ladies are meant to be handle with both soft and hard hands, if your brother is financially capable and he's still paying for the apartments so fúcking what?


I'm married and I still support my brothers in my little way, which woman will come and dictate how to spend my cash for me


you Nigeria men have turned these Nigeria ladies who God made a subject in our hands demigod! nonsense

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Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by Nobody: 10:33pm On May 06, 2021
akanbiaa:
Maybe they are not on cordial /talking terms with his brother's wife and she visit Nairaland regularly.

yeye, what is maybe? you don't even know the person.
Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by marwanafrica: 10:34pm On May 06, 2021
brownemmanuel43:

Lolssssss, I know that bross, jungle man like me does not believe in that shit bro.
The few ladies I HV mingled with keep telling me how tough and rough I will handle any woman that will come across me.
The issue is that what we have this day are SIMPs and weaklings parading as men, men without balls and guts
Me wey my head no correct

I wish i know you in real life, i don't intrude in other peoples life but in your own case i wont mind to monitor you when you are married and see if ypu will really not end up as such men.
Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by Kobicove(m): 10:34pm On May 06, 2021
I don't think you owe her any explanation besides I are nothing wrong if your brother decides to continue paying the rent until you find your feet undecided
Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by Nobody: 10:40pm On May 06, 2021
The other gender and wahala are like 5and6.


No need to waste your time explaining things to her, even if you do she will not believe you because you are not working


Just ignore her

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Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by FarahAideed: 10:42pm On May 06, 2021
spinna:
Just casually mention it in conversation..tell her you just came from seeing the landlord.Dont confront her

Old tortoise cheesy
Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by drLammy(m): 10:42pm On May 06, 2021
Firstly your sister in law is madd
Let her think whatever she likes na her wahala

I only wish your brother go tell her na him dey pay and make she do her worst

Nonsense!

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Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by andyanders: 10:42pm On May 06, 2021
Op, if I were you, I'll take the under mentioned steps; do not confront her. reduce ur presence to ur brother's place. Stop taking any form of food or drink anytime u go their house and she offers u. Do not show any form of annoyance. Any day she ask u ur reason of not taking anything at her house, tell her that u have had enough for the day. Watch her reaction anytime that question comes up. From her response, if she tries to act holly, u can now spill the beans and walk away from her and do that in the presence of ur brother.

After demon, wicked woman comes next.

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Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by abdabass: 10:45pm On May 06, 2021
Good day my brother,
You don't need to do that, because the matter is between you and your brother, nothing concerns her.
Let your brother manage his family/affairs nothing concerns you too about what transpires between them. I wander why he should be telling you what's going on in his family.
Just be patient, tolerants and be looking.
Best regards.

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Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by Nobody: 10:48pm On May 06, 2021
georgedaniel01:
Family rift can be extended to children. Don't confront her.

Tell your brother in her presence how difficult it is to pay rent.

"we all lose when the family feuds"... Jay-Z


You nailed it!
Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by SweetDipBenny(m): 10:49pm On May 06, 2021
She sud piss off angry

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