isale_gan2:

Are you serious?  I find the reason is quite transparent and cogent.  Except for those determined to have an endless and fruitless debate.  There is no society in the world where female promiscuity is encouraged.  

To borrow a girl's line from a popular script: "You see how picky I am about my shoes and they only go on my feet."  Think about it.  

49cents:

To the last two posters am so glad with your line of reasoning: pre-marital has more unpleasant consequences than benefits. The have-all-the-sex-you-want-cos-is-your-right people dont like to hear of an opposing stance as they think because they are hooked on sex everyone else is,   

49cents:

Virginity should not be reduced to to not have had sex thats pretty narrow. An expanded perception of virginity is basically about a culture of love;  about the irreduceability of the act of sex to a mere sport , pastime or an ego trip; about true commitment and not  just (strong) fleeting  feelings. It is very possible for our 'traditional' not to have this aawareness but the practice of pre-marital celibacy makes it more likely to possess an elevated view of sex.

souldust:

how can we ask girls to remain virgins and do not tell our boys to remain virgins
the boys are not going to have sex with themselves.
they must have sex with girls.
asking girls to remain virgins and boys to be sexually active is paradoxical
except you want the boys to be gay

Crude Oil:

First of all, I think the term 'virginity' can only be applied to females. Men dont have hymens, hence there are no male virgins.

Crude Oil:

Please, how can you prove that a man is a virgin?

Crude Oil:

Since you cant prove that a man is virgin or not, then a man cannot be a virgin.
Etymologically, the word virginity refers to a woman who has never had sexual intercourse.
And if a woman loses her hymen, she has lost her virginity.

SexyDuby:

@ Inked, i understand your point clearly but d fact still remains that a woman's virginity can be proven by a man but a woman can never tell if d guy's really a virgin even if he claims he's never had sex, u cannot confirm he's saying d truth & im sure dats wat crude oil's also tryn 2 let u know.

Crude Oil:

Even if there are male virgins, what would be essence of being one, when you cannot prove (physically) to your partner that you are indeed a virgin.

SexyDuby:

@ Inked, ure taking dis issue too personal like uve gat some  Nywaiz,  a woman's virginity can be proven by a man so your point's jus so confusing. Its either a woman's a virgin or not. Dere's no staying in-between!

jaephoenix:

@inked,once again am not d one dat made d rules:society expects d man 2 b promiscous n not d woman.am not in support of it.people should do whatever dat rocks their boat.if u wan screw d world,na your own.if u wan b virgin,your own.i just expressed my views n other girls i talked 2.Once again u cant tell me virgin guys r good sexually,its almost impossible,but u can say a guy dat has had sexual experience for  at least 5 yr knows a little bit of what he s doing.And dats y some ladies(excluding u,since u like male virgins) want these guys,not some fumbler.
Also @inked.u may never determine whether a guy is a virgin,but u may in females.yes d hymen can rupture in nonsexual acts but at least in some virgins u ll still have them
@jiah.this is d first time i have mentioned that case(since dis s a faceless forum)n am not laughing at anyone.i cant go about giving sex education 2 people on d road,street,joint n church since some religions n sects abhor it.so shut your trap if u dont know anything.i helped d way I can