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Re: Can You Date Someone You Can't Marry? by randy(m): 1:02pm On Mar 27, 2008
i will not date a girl i CANNOT marry

it will b dangerous for me
Re: Can You Date Someone You Can't Marry? by tRoOE(f): 6:08pm On Mar 27, 2008
yemivictor:

The catch is, how would you even know you don't have a future with him when you've not dated him & barely know him!?

Could you please enlighten us on this!?
Please stop quoting me!!!Okay
Re: Can You Date Someone You Can't Marry? by tommyex(m): 6:10pm On Mar 27, 2008
MAYBE yes
But it will be a quick 1
Re: Can You Date Someone You Can't Marry? by yemivictor: 6:22pm On Mar 27, 2008
tRoOE:

Please stop quoting me!!!Okay





What are you smoking!? grin
Re: Can You Date Someone You Can't Marry? by kojeiwa(m): 9:55pm On Mar 27, 2008
It easier for a guy to date a girl they can't marry than for a girl to date a guy they can' t marry.

It also depend on their stage in life. Most girl at 25 and above wouldn't want to date someone

they can't marry. I can then, but not now.
Re: Can You Date Someone You Can't Marry? by bluesky4(f): 9:59pm On Mar 27, 2008
if they havent got the qualities for marriage, then they havent got the qualties for dating.
Re: Can You Date Someone You Can't Marry? by ariblaze(m): 10:22pm On Mar 27, 2008
awhile back i wont have minded

as a matter of fact i would have welcomed it

but now

past/time is catching up with me

am searching for that one now cry
Re: Can You Date Someone You Can't Marry? by Nobody: 10:35pm On Mar 27, 2008
No.
Re: Can You Date Someone You Can't Marry? by iz2much: 12:22pm On Jul 11, 2008
Hmmm!!!
Re: Can You Date Someone You Can't Marry? by Nobody: 12:23pm On Jul 11, 2008
@topic
NO
Re: Can You Date Someone You Can't Marry? by Gamine(f): 12:29pm On Jul 11, 2008
i dont see the point.

Why stress?

I go out a lot on dates with no strings attached.

i think thats better.

but if it turns to a "date" situation

i have to think of the future
Re: Can You Date Someone You Can't Marry? by yemivictor: 12:32pm On Jul 11, 2008
ibkaye:

@topic
NO

How do you know/tell who you can or can't marry, dearie!? tongue

Cc: Gamine
Re: Can You Date Someone You Can't Marry? by Gamine(f): 12:37pm On Jul 11, 2008
duh!!!
Re: Can You Date Someone You Can't Marry? by coolier(f): 12:37pm On Jul 11, 2008
No.
Re: Can You Date Someone You Can't Marry? by lucabrasi(m): 12:39pm On Jul 11, 2008
hell no,wats the point, unless its a booty call and you both know wassup
Re: Can You Date Someone You Can't Marry? by Nobody: 12:40pm On Jul 11, 2008
yemivictor:

How do you know/tell who you can or can't marry, dearie!? tongue

Cc: Gamine
i just do, i can observe him can't i tongue
Re: Can You Date Someone You Can't Marry? by yemivictor: 12:53pm On Jul 11, 2008
ibkaye:

i just do, i can observe him can't i tongue

Didn't they say one cannot judge a book by its cover!? grin
Re: Can You Date Someone You Can't Marry? by Reese1: 1:01pm On Jul 11, 2008
No, I can't date anyone I can't marry. There is no point in even begin dating someone you know right off the bat that you can't marry. Why waste each other's time when you know your desire is to get married someday?

But of course, if no red flag comes up the first time you meet that person, (e.g., he or she is a devil worsipper  shocked ), then you can begin dating the person just to get to know each other more and then make that decision as you go along.

But if you don't see marriage in your future at all, then I guess you can just date around for fun. But you would have to tell your potential dates that you're just having fun, and are not trying to marry anybody now or ever lol  grin
Re: Can You Date Someone You Can't Marry? by smooooooth: 1:04pm On Jul 11, 2008
how are u supposed to get the experienced before marriage. i think from the dates that wont be marriages. grin
Re: Can You Date Someone You Can't Marry? by tollu: 1:07pm On Jul 11, 2008
Not at this old age of mine.
Re: Can You Date Someone You Can't Marry? by Pataki: 1:09pm On Jul 11, 2008
YES I can.
Re: Can You Date Someone You Can't Marry? by smooooooth: 1:14pm On Jul 11, 2008
tollu:

Not at this old age of mine.
hey tollu, how oooooooooooooooooooooooooooooold are u.
Re: Can You Date Someone You Can't Marry? by Nobody: 1:34pm On Jul 11, 2008
yemivictor:

Didn't they say one cannot judge a book by its cover!? grin
huh? when i say observe i don't mean only the physical smiley
Re: Can You Date Someone You Can't Marry? by yemivictor: 1:47pm On Jul 11, 2008
ibkaye:

huh? when i say observe i don't mean only the physical smiley

So why don't you expatiate, for the benefit of us all! tongue

BTW, when did you move to Guadeloupe from Kano!? grin grin grin
Re: Can You Date Someone You Can't Marry? by Nobody: 1:49pm On Jul 11, 2008
yemivictor:

So why don't you expatiate, for the benefit of us all! tongue

BTW, when did you move to Guadeloupe from Kano!? grin grin grin
benefit ko

Guadeloupe? ooh, few days ago tongue
will be in iraq tomorrow tongue
Re: Can You Date Someone You Can't Marry? by yemivictor: 1:56pm On Jul 11, 2008
ibkaye:

benefit ko

Guadeloupe? ooh, few days ago tongue
will be in iraq tomorrow tongue

LOL . . . i'm loving this babe! C'mon now, don't be stingy o! grin
Re: Can You Date Someone You Can't Marry? by Nobody: 1:58pm On Jul 11, 2008
yeesh, don't you know? the usual like personality, beliefs etc lipsrsealed
Re: Can You Date Someone You Can't Marry? by sistajay(f): 1:58pm On Jul 11, 2008
Can't say, cos not every date ends in marriage.
Re: Can You Date Someone You Can't Marry? by yemivictor: 2:00pm On Jul 11, 2008
sista-jay:

Can't say, because not every date ends in marriage.

Brilliant!!! You deserve a medal!
Re: Can You Date Someone You Can't Marry? by Nobody: 2:03pm On Jul 11, 2008
yes you can, as in only date those you see as a potential wife/husband, he/she may not be the one but it doesn't hurt to observe indept and more closely
Re: Can You Date Someone You Can't Marry? by yemivictor: 2:07pm On Jul 11, 2008
ibkaye:

yeesh, don't you know? the usual like personality, beliefs etc lipsrsealed

If marriageability is based on these, how come many relationships never get to the alter, in spite of the fact that the couple(s) share same beliefs, like personality, e.t.c.!? undecided
Re: Can You Date Someone You Can't Marry? by jekkad: 2:09pm On Jul 11, 2008
@topic

sometimes we get into a relationship thinking it will end up in marriage,but along d line everything goes sour

so we just cant know cos not every relationship leads to d altar or brings out d "i do" word from our mouths

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