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Re: Are You A Feminist Or Do You Believe In Feminism? by Nobody: 3:24pm On Jun 09, 2021 |
budaatum: Women want Men to pedestalize them for their gender without them actually creating any value , they want to be treated with special privilege just for existing, since they are given the same legal rights like Men , they must be held to the same standard Period 2 Likes |
Re: Are You A Feminist Or Do You Believe In Feminism? by budaatum: 3:25pm On Jun 09, 2021 |
BLOODYSPERM: It's not like the man lied to get into her knickers or anything. He just told her she was the sun in the sky and the sugar in his tea and even death will not part us and please be my wife until he got her pregnant and dumped her when it was too late for a condom or an abortion! Some people are really smelly! |
Re: Are You A Feminist Or Do You Believe In Feminism? by DEMZEE(m): 3:26pm On Jun 09, 2021 |
budaatum: SMH! Feminism is failure and it's anti-God, anti-Man, anti-children, anti-marriage and anti-love. Feminism is a female supremacist movement period!!! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Are You A Feminist Or Do You Believe In Feminism? by budaatum: 3:27pm On Jun 09, 2021 |
BLOODYSPERM:Is being the woman in your house and the woman beside you not a pedestal? Or are you just not pedestal enough? |
Re: Are You A Feminist Or Do You Believe In Feminism? by DEMZEE(m): 3:28pm On Jun 09, 2021 |
budaatum: So women are so stupid and dumb not to discern wen men are lying to them or not Interesting.. 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: Are You A Feminist Or Do You Believe In Feminism? by budaatum: 3:29pm On Jun 09, 2021 |
DEMZEE: With their lie detector, right? |
Re: Are You A Feminist Or Do You Believe In Feminism? by DEMZEE(m): 3:30pm On Jun 09, 2021 |
budaatum: So women are dumb, that's what u are trying to say ryt 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: Are You A Feminist Or Do You Believe In Feminism? by Nobody: 3:31pm On Jun 09, 2021 |
budaatum: Why can't they do it the right institutionalized way of marriage which has been tried for many centuries, I'm not against them having premarital sex but the woman knowing that the burden of performance of raising a child should be smart enough to always have protective sex and must have children the proper traditional manner in marriage, sure some men are definitely scums but why would such women even have unprotected sex with any man , scums or not 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Are You A Feminist Or Do You Believe In Feminism? by wagzy37: 3:32pm On Jun 09, 2021 |
budaatum: Hang on, feminism is equal rights and opportunities right? But when men are deceived and cajoled into doing something, they take 100% responsibility irrespective of the outcome right? So, why can’t the females take responsibility for their action albeit deceived into taking it? Your thoughts… 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Are You A Feminist Or Do You Believe In Feminism? by budaatum: 3:58pm On Jun 09, 2021 |
wagzy37: Please! Only if you are new here would you claim men take responsibility for themselves . The truth is, some men and some women take responsibility for themselves while many men and many women don't take any responsibility at all. Responsibility requires honesty. An example is here. |
Re: Are You A Feminist Or Do You Believe In Feminism? by budaatum: 4:00pm On Jun 09, 2021 |
BLOODYSPERM: Because, to err is buda. If I were perfect I would be perfect. Have compassion for my imperfections please. |
Re: Are You A Feminist Or Do You Believe In Feminism? by budaatum: 4:02pm On Jun 09, 2021 |
DEMZEE: No. That's not what I am saying at all. Please be responsible for your own inability to understand! |
Re: Are You A Feminist Or Do You Believe In Feminism? by DEMZEE(m): 4:02pm On Jun 09, 2021 |
budaatum: Those bitches don't give u a Bleep about ur masculine problems though so I don't know why u are white knighting them bitches, anyways I see wat u are doing tho Playing the beta game, wehdone sir! |
Re: Are You A Feminist Or Do You Believe In Feminism? by DEMZEE(m): 4:04pm On Jun 09, 2021 |
budaatum: Who gave u the right to b the moral judge of all humans, stop this ur weaponizing of compassion and pity. The world is not fair and u should get used to it period!! |
Re: Are You A Feminist Or Do You Believe In Feminism? by DEMZEE(m): 4:06pm On Jun 09, 2021 |
budaatum: Women are making money from men's lack of sexual access via onlyfans, pornography. Bad things happen to both genders and every gender should deal with their actions, choices and consequences.... Period! |
Re: Are You A Feminist Or Do You Believe In Feminism? by Nobody: 4:06pm On Jun 09, 2021 |
budaatum: Men and women are fundamentally different Women knowing that they are the only sex capable of being pregnant should take precaution during sex Social constructs doesn't adhere to Reality Our psychological differences is instinctively hardwired into us due to Biology ( genetics) If they are rationale , then single motherhood rate should be very minimal, but statistically, 1/3 of households in USA ( using a western Society) are single mothers, 2/3 of African American households are single mothers , showing women with all the liberalization ( alimony, child support, abortion, welfarism) are not as logical as men for them to be making these stupid mistake of getting pregnant out of wedlock in masses 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Are You A Feminist Or Do You Believe In Feminism? by wagzy37: 4:32pm On Jun 09, 2021 |
budaatum: Quick question, what is (or is supposed to be) a man’s value and responsibility to a woman and society? 1 Like |
Re: Are You A Feminist Or Do You Believe In Feminism? by budaatum: 6:58pm On Jun 09, 2021 |
wagzy37: Everyone's value and responsibility is to themselves. I value myself, so I take full responsibility for myself and my actions and for ensuring I am highly valued by those whose value is worthy of consideration. That said, we do not all place value in the same things I value, so some might value things that differ to what I value and be responsible for and to those things as opposed to themselves. Like beauty, value and responsibility is in the beholders eye. |
Re: Are You A Feminist Or Do You Believe In Feminism? by wagzy37: 7:30pm On Jun 09, 2021 |
budaatum: There’s a reason why parents are responsible for children. There’s a reason why a country expects its citizens to be responsible for certain things. I am asking what the value a man brings to a woman when they get married or are in a relationship. If you had said you don’t believe in marriages and relationships, that’s understandable. However, if you believe in those, there are values that are being shared. By the way, you’ve proven my point in your previous posts. You say a right can’t be given by someone else. If that’s true, then you have the full right to give birth and the full responsibility for the child if you give birth. Let’s take this example, a man hits a jackpot. He buys his ‘girlfriend’ the gift she has always wanted. Built a house for her and her parents. Flew her to 6 countries in 2 weeks in a private jet and was planning a wedding with her. Then, all the money was lost. He became extremely broke and was even owing the bank. They have an argument and she breaks up with him and calls off the wedding. Who’s to blame for the loss of the money? Honestly! 1 Like |
Re: Are You A Feminist Or Do You Believe In Feminism? by budaatum: 8:37pm On Jun 09, 2021 |
wagzy37:The man is to blame for the loss of his money because he did not wisely invest the money he won. The woman on the other hand gained by wisely getting the unwise man to unwisely invest his money in building her parents a house and by unwisely investing in her getting an experience in private jets and in 6 countries that she never would have gotten. You can easily tell by the fact that man will suffer to pay back what he now owes instead of wisely investing the money that he won while the woman would just move on to the next unwise man who might unwisely buy her parents another house. The lesson from your example is, men be wise and do not invest in hookers whose only interest is in your money! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Are You A Feminist Or Do You Believe In Feminism? by DrFunmisticGlow: 8:50pm On Jun 09, 2021 |
I don't believe in feminism. I believe in what works for me, not some random movement that turns you into a social justice warrior 2 Likes |
Re: Are You A Feminist Or Do You Believe In Feminism? by wagzy37: 8:56pm On Jun 09, 2021 |
budaatum: Exactly ma’am! You nailed my point. That’s the same thing with a woman having a kid on the basis of affection and promises by a man. Putting it into context, The man gained by having sex over and over with the woman and the woman lost by having a child. Therefore, the man is absolved of any blame since he did not help to carry the child for 9 months. Is it fair? Nope! But the world has never been fair. The world doesn’t owe you nor me any explanation for our outcomes in life. No one cares. While no one gives a sh*t about a man not making something of himself during his life, a woman can sit down, not have college education, not hold a job and marry a rich man and have access to his money. When she decides she’s tired of the marriage, she can divorce and get half of the rich man’s wealth. Something she didn’t contribute a dime to. Is that fair? Nope! But that’s the way the world works. Men don’t shrug and complain about that, they deal with it. Because if men shrug, women will die. Men built this world, the tech, the construction, the laws and the onlyfans that make women millionaires today. Survival of women largely depends on the men. See?? Most ‘feminists’ don’t want that ‘responsibility’ and ‘accountability’ outcome. They just want equal opportunities, forgetting that the men take accountability everyday for their actions. No one takes a man who doesn’t take responsibility seriously. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Are You A Feminist Or Do You Believe In Feminism? by budaatum: 9:12pm On Jun 09, 2021 |
wagzy37: Sorry wagzy, but you seem to think I think feminism is about educating pigs when it really is about educating women to know and avoid pigs! Read what I've written about responsibility please.
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Re: Are You A Feminist Or Do You Believe In Feminism? by wagzy37: 9:27pm On Jun 09, 2021 |
budaatum: Ah! Perfect! Then we are both in agreement 2 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: Are You A Feminist Or Do You Believe In Feminism? by budaatum: 9:31pm On Jun 09, 2021 |
wagzy37: Daughters will be amongst your children and they will make you very proud to have had them. And your sons too. 1 Like 1 Share
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Re: Are You A Feminist Or Do You Believe In Feminism? by Silentgroper(m): 10:12pm On Jun 09, 2021 |
*Peeps*
*searches 4 magnoliaa*
cant be found. shakes head while walking out of thread. |
Re: Are You A Feminist Or Do You Believe In Feminism? by Vinnie2000(m): 10:46pm On Jun 09, 2021 |
DrFunmisticGlow: Thank you very much!! God bless you!! Feminism is not a bad idea in itself. According to d Founders, It wants better opportunities for Women!! But currently, It is something different esp in Nigeria.. Divorcees, Babymamas, Old Spinsters, Heart-broken ladies, etc who feels Life has been Unfair to Dem n blames the Men in dier lives for it!! Most becomes Feminists consciously or unconsciously!! Men-Haters, so to speak!! 90% of Feminists in Nigeria n even the world fall in d Above category!! Let's not Lie!! Dats y Whenever I see a Feminist, I always pray she gets a Cool Guy n Marry ASAP!! because No HAPPILY MARRIED WOMAN can be a Feminist!! 1 Like |
Re: Are You A Feminist Or Do You Believe In Feminism? by kazyhm(m): 11:06pm On Jun 09, 2021 |
budaatum: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t7JFDM7Ojuk 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Are You A Feminist Or Do You Believe In Feminism? by kazyhm(m): 11:07pm On Jun 09, 2021 |
iExplore: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t7JFDM7Ojuk This can be of help 1 Like 1 Share |
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