Tell him that love triangle kills more than covid

It will be better to breach/break his trust and extract him from the mess he's immersed himself into, than leave him to drown further into destruction.
He may not know it now, cos he's momentarily blinded buhh later when the scales falls off his damn eyes, he would see into your actions of saving him.

Nothing kills a young man as fast as dating a married woman.

Your brother is gradually sitting and digging his own grave yard by himself

It will be better to breach/break his trust and extract him from the mess he's immersed himself into, than leave him to drown further into destruction.
He may not know it now, cos he's momentarily blinded buhh later when the scales falls off his eyes, he would see into your actions of saving him.

Guys have already killed your brother and buried him already with their advice and comments...... Imagine this thread was reversed like a girl dating a married man.... Nobody will even speak of death about her instead she will be hailed....Why the double standard...... People killing your brother here are mostly insecure married men who enjoy girls outside and can't stand the thought of another man banging their wife......Let me enlighten you guys Abit..... Married women have long overtaken married men in the game.....This kind of relationship the op is talking about is as common as pure water this days..... Majority of married women have boyfriends and it's happening very silently unlike the way the married men go about their own......BOTTOM LINE.....your brother will live his ordained number of years on Earth Even longer than the idiots that have be wishing him dead on this thread.

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So what?

Igbankpa:
My younger brother is dating a married woman.

I've tried talking him out of that unholy relationship, whenever we have such conversations, he retracts for a while and then goes back to her.

He thinks he is in love, But I keep reminding him that what ever he feels about her is all bolllocks and can put him in harms way.

I sincerely understand why he feels the way he does towards her, considering the love and affection he gets from this woman. No stress, no drama. just attention, care and good sex and she also spoils him with gifts as well. she is a business woman and her husband lives and work in a different continent and only visits once in a while. This days he is barely around, as all they do is go from one hotel to another having fun.

I'm scared for him. The other day at work, I and my colleagues where having a conversation about African traditions and repercussions for cheating in marriage and my boss who happens to be from the same region as the woman was telling us about the punishment for cheating as obtainable in their culture which puts my brother in grave danger.

He is my immediate younger brother and he is closest to me, I'm the only one in the family that knows about this relationship, I'm thinking of informing my mum, maybe that will help in putting a stop to their affair, But that would be a breach of trust. I don't know what to do!

Let me also add that he is just 24 and she is 40

Tell your brother to read this Bible portion and see the end of a man like him.

Proverbs 7:16-‬27 AMP


"I have spread my couch with coverings and cushions of tapestry, With colored fine linen of Egypt. I have perfumed my bed With myrrh, aloes, and cinnamon. Come, let us drink our fill of love until morning; Let us console and delight ourselves with love. For my husband is not at home. He has gone on a long journey; He has taken a bag of money with him, And he will come home on the appointed day.” With her many persuasions she caused him to yield; With her flattering lips she seduced him. Suddenly he went after her, as an ox goes to the slaughter [not knowing the outcome], Or as one in stocks going to the correction [to be given] to a fool, Until an arrow pierced his liver [with a mortal wound]; Like a bird fluttering straight into the net, He did not know that it would cost him his life. Now therefore, my sons, listen to me, And pay attention to the words of my mouth. Do not let your heart turn aside to her ways, Do not stray into her [evil, immoral] paths. For she has cast down many [mortally] wounded; Indeed, all who were killed by her were strong. Her house is the way to Sheol, Descending to the chambers of death"

https://bible.com/bible/1588/pro.7.16-27.AMP

dhameelare:
Nothing u say is going to make him stop.

U shld mind ur own business or he'll see u as an enemy in the long run

how can you ask him to mind his business, when it's his brother that's involved? Ever heard of being your brothers keeper? Pls, stop all this nonsense of mind your business, it's unafrican.

You want to cut his job and die his die ?

He should be careful, that way leads to destruction. Let your family elders or his religion leader know about it and sit him down. Pray for him too.

The only repercussion is KARMAL IS A B.I.T.C.H...

Pictures or I don't believe it BTW are u a Yoruba?

if you do not help your blood who will

do everything to stop him

Hope the gifts are landed properties anything short is not worth the sacrifice

He should stop that relationship, if her husband is in the know of it, the consequences of his actions won't be funny

I think you have to recognize that when people marry and must be apart like this, sometimes they agree to look the other way. It's likely the husband has a girlfriend and he probably knows his wife has a guy. They just agree to ignore it and not let each other know about the bf/gf.

And, regardless of how outsiders view it, the husband and wife are still people. They need companionship and support. It's technically not okay, but is it terrible? Maybe the husband needs to be away to provide. And this is just how it is. It's better than a suffering family all in one place.

adedehinbo:
the thing just killed a notable person In my street recently, unfortunately I don't think it has cure

It does actually, Ask Elders around you... Though the antidote is quite DISGUSTING like the ACT......

Igbankpa:
My younger brother is dating a married woman.

I've tried talking him out of that unholy relationship, whenever we have such conversations, he retracts for a while and then goes back to her.

He thinks he is in love, But I keep reminding him that what ever he feels about her is all bolllocks and can put him in harms way.

I sincerely understand why he feels the way he does towards her, considering the love and affection he gets from this woman. No stress, no drama. just attention, care and good sex and she also spoils him with gifts as well. she is a business woman and her husband lives and work in a different continent and only visits once in a while. This days he is barely around, as all they do is go from one hotel to another having fun.

I'm scared for him. The other day at work, I and my colleagues where having a conversation about African traditions and repercussions for cheating in marriage and my boss who happens to be from the same region as the woman was telling us about the punishment for cheating as obtainable in their culture which puts my brother in grave danger.

He is my immediate younger brother and he is closest to me, I'm the only one in the family that knows about this relationship, I'm thinking of informing my mum, maybe that will help in putting a stop to their affair, But that would be a breach of trust. I don't know what to do!

Let me also add that he is just 24 and she is 40

I don’t have much to say to him.. please tell him to be careful the owner is coming very soon..

Some Woman are evil" if u trance the genesis, nah the woman go find the guy.

Igbankpa:
He is my business sir. Can't watch him bring destruction upon himself. even if he fails to take my advice, I'll keep pushing till I exhaust all my options.

You will have to do something extreme to put paid to that unholy relationship once and for all!

Better inform your parents and also threaten to expose both of them to her husband.
Put yourself in her husbands shoes!

Igbankpa:
My younger brother is dating a married woman.

I've tried talking him out of that unholy relationship, whenever we have such conversations, he retracts for a while and then goes back to her.

He thinks he is in love, But I keep reminding him that what ever he feels about her is all bolllocks and can put him in harms way.

I sincerely understand why he feels the way he does towards her, considering the love and affection he gets from this woman. No stress, no drama. just attention, care and good sex and she also spoils him with gifts as well. she is a business woman and her husband lives and work in a different continent and only visits once in a while. This days he is barely around, as all they do is go from one hotel to another having fun.

I'm scared for him. The other day at work, I and my colleagues where having a conversation about African traditions and repercussions for cheating in marriage and my boss who happens to be from the same region as the woman was telling us about the punishment for cheating as obtainable in their culture which puts my brother in grave danger.

He is my immediate younger brother and he is closest to me, I'm the only one in the family that knows about this relationship, I'm thinking of informing my mum, maybe that will help in putting a stop to their affair, But that would be a breach of trust. I don't know what to do!

Let me also add that he is just 24 and she is 40

very dangerous, I've seen someone die this year as a result

Agbebakun22:




Hope u know what's call magun for Yoruba, na wetin kill my nigga be that oo, they place magun ontop his gf, na earlier this month this stuff happen weh nigga weh dey healthy sleep no wake up again when they find out say na magun weh dey place on top the girl she dey yansh kill am

That is not how magun work ...if he doesn't have existing heart illness, then he was remoted. Magun will always lead to your death during the act not after the act .

It can't end well

Nawa o, that is Child abuse.

Igbankpa:
My younger brother is dating a married woman.

I've tried talking him out of that unholy relationship, whenever we have such conversations, he retracts for a while and then goes back to her.

He thinks he is in love, But I keep reminding him that what ever he feels about her is all bolllocks and can put him in harms way.

I sincerely understand why he feels the way he does towards her, considering the love and affection he gets from this woman. No stress, no drama. just attention, care and good sex and she also spoils him with gifts as well. she is a business woman and her husband lives and work in a different continent and only visits once in a while. This days he is barely around, as all they do is go from one hotel to another having fun.

I'm scared for him. The other day at work, I and my colleagues where having a conversation about African traditions and repercussions for cheating in marriage and my boss who happens to be from the same region as the woman was telling us about the punishment for cheating as obtainable in their culture which puts my brother in grave danger.

He is my immediate younger brother and he is closest to me, I'm the only one in the family that knows about this relationship, I'm thinking of informing my mum, maybe that will help in putting a stop to their affair, But that would be a breach of trust. I don't know what to do!

Let me also add that he is just 24 and she is 40

Report to the husband and that will be the end of that satanic relationship.

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My brother, this is my advice. If u hv the woman's number or collect the her number from ur brothers phone, hide number and call or text her. Let her know that you knows everything going on and that you will expose her if she doesn't retrace her steps. Mind you she must not know who you are but you knows her husband very well.

It is not a taboo if your brother is in love with an older lady. If its love, age aint nothing but number.Although i am not in support of him servicing another man's wife. He should back out of such act for Gods sake.