I have been on her case for sometime now b4 she finally agreed...

It is cool n I love her so much but then, last night she told me she prefers a no s*x relationship. I don't really have problem with that but to me, I feel it may kill the relationship. Like how would I be dating someone and there won't be any romance flings attach to it. I would kinda feel she don't like me.

Help, what can I do to change this mentality of hers? Mind u, I love her so much n sees my future with her if God wishes.

MODIFIED:
I have read all the replies and I have done lot of research on my own. I got to understand that s*x is an important aspect of almost every healthy relationship (married/unmarried). no s*x relationships work when both partners agree not to unlike mine where it is one sided. I shall sit her down today to see how we go over the whole thing.
The future of our relationship will depend on how our discussion goes today. I love her so much but then, I won't be able to tolerate the no s*x stuff. We even need s*x to get together more sef.
Anyways, thanks guys

Cut your losses and move on. The blue balls ain't worth it.

Kpekus go soon land this one in trouble

salvationproject:


Help, what can I do to change this mentality of hers? Mind u, I love her so much n sees my future with her if God wishes.

How about you change your own mentality?

How about you respect her decision or move on.

If you are really love her and planning on having a future with her then sex should be the least of your worries.

Sincerity, character and godliness should be paramount. In that future you see with her, sex go tire you ah swear

Tell her you also want a no bills relationship: she shouldn't ask for money for anything, and when you go out together the expenses should be shared 50/50

Buy her more gifts and give her more money since she’s the only girl left in the world.

You need hot slap to keep your sense working

Maybe she is not sweet in the middle

She is getting it from somewhere, abi she nor get sexual urge.

salvationproject:
I have been on her case for sometime now b4 she finally agreed...

It is cool n I love her so much but then, last night she told me she prefers a no s*x relationship. I don't really have problem with that but to me, I feel it may kill the relationship. Like how would I be dating someone and there won't be any romance flings attach to it. I would kinda feel she don't like me.

Help, what can I do to change this mentality of hers? Mind u, I love her so much n sees my future with her if God wishes.

just tell her that you'll go into the relationship with no money involve too.

Give her sometime.

The rains are here. Body & soul needs to keep warm with a partner.

Just give little more time for this your "new girlfriend" to TRUST you & LOVE You and everyother thing will fall in place

Must u have sex with your girlfriend before believing that she loves you?
That's why Nigerian girls have loose pússy, because u guys are already expanding the pússy in the relationship.
He will later dump her and marry a virgin.

thesicilian:
Tell her you also want a no bills relationship: she shouldn't ask for money for anything, and when you go out together the expenses should be shared 50/50

My nigga, I remember one bitch that told me smno sex relationship and I told her no spending relationship and she called me a devil. I trashed her in the dust bin where she belongs.

thesicilian:
Tell her you also want a no bills relationship: she shouldn't ask for money for anything, and when you go out together the expenses should be shared 50/50

He can't, he chased her so she's the one with the power and she's the one to decide. She'd the alpha in the relationship.

she is getting it somewhere while your expected to foot the bills.

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U are dating yourself....

thesicilian:
Tell her you also want a no bills relationship: she shouldn't ask for money for anything, and when you go out together the expenses should be shared 50/50

Nigga you're reasoning like an OG. I owe you some bottles.
No knacking,no billing, period.

Put spanish fly in her drink...
Nd thank me later

You're not her priority. You are just one of her options. Move on.

Must you have sex in a relationship ? Mtcheeeew


werey con come nairaland and started crying.....

Just stick to the believe

Must you have sex with someone's daugther?. . . If yes, then marry her . . Most guys normally eat, wipe mouth and move on dumping them. . . Perhaps she's kinda feeling insecure

9ja girls are out to add more burden to your life instead of softening it.

In mosdii voice: They are all useless..... All of them!

Doesn't call for quarrel or fight....she gave u conditions then u do the same...no sex no billing..best relationship ever..even God sef go clap for u...must u be told?.anamu.

salvationproject:
I have been on her case for sometime now b4 she finally agreed...

It is cool n I love her so much but then, last night she told me she prefers a no s*x relationship. I don't really have problem with that but to me, I feel it may kill the relationship. Like how would I be dating someone and there won't be any romance flings attach to it. I would kinda feel she don't like me.

Help, what can I do to change this mentality of hers? Mind u, I love her so much n sees my future with her if God wishes.

Also tell her NO MONEY/MATERIAL relationship.

I wonder when generation will start raising girls, ladies, women who can foot their bills, an independent people.. A time when females won't have substitute their vaginas(sex) for money.

salvationproject:
I have been on her case for sometime now b4 she finally agreed...

It is cool n I love her so much but then, last night she told me she prefers a no s*x relationship. I don't really have problem with that but to me, I feel it may kill the relationship. Like how would I be dating someone and there won't be any romance flings attach to it. I would kinda feel she don't like me.

Help, what can I do to change this mentality of hers? Mind u, I love her so much n sees my future with her if God wishes.

Why exactly do you want to have sex with her if you want a good future with her?
You just want to smash and go baba
Find your level go front

Like other OGs have said before me, no sex no billing, let’s be looking at ourselves na and if God say we go marry we go marry

Please leave that girl alone!
If she doesn't want to do respect her decision and leave her the fvck alone, not every body responds to their sexual urges like animals

That is no relationship.
Ball out as fast as possible.

masterchi:


How about you change your own mentality?

How about you respect her decision or move on.

If you are really love her and planning on having a future with her then sex should be the least of your worries.

Sincerity, character and godliness should be paramount. In that future you see with her, sex go tire you ah swear

Stupid simpy response