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My Boyfriend Is Boring: Am I Crazy For Wanting To Dump Him? by ageraGT: 6:08am On Jul 23
A little history…I’m 28, divorced with two young kids, they live at home. He is 37, divorced with one teenage. Here is my dilemma…. I can’t figure out if I’m attracted to him or the fact that he’s a good guy.

You wait and pray for there to be a good guy left on this earth and finally one comes along and you find him boring or at least not challenging.

What is that? Am I crazy? undecided

He is completely into me. Calls, writes me letters, texts, takes me out, does family outings, asks about my day, washes my car, is clean, is fit, responsible, understanding, compliments me, etc, etc. We’ve been dating two months. We don’t get too much opportunity to spend alone time so we’ve only slept with each other twice. It was okay, not mind-blowing or anything. I’ve had much better, but I’ve had much worse with the wrong guys too. He’s relatively attractive but not my usual type or taste.

Am I being picky because I think my boyfriend is boring? Any other woman would think he is a great catch. I think so as well but just…I don’t know why I can’t get into him.

He’s completely fallen for me, thinks I’m strong, independent, beautiful, good mom, etc. wants to make me happy and for me to be his “girlfriend” and I can just tell the L word is coming along any day now. I can just tell and trust me, I’m not wrong on this.

Another bit of history…

So he usually gets involved with psychos that latch on to him. That is – the complete opposite of me. I like my space and I don’t care if I never see you again. Guys come and go but my family, especially my kids, are forever. It’s one of the mottos I live by. I don’t need anyone to take care of me. A guy in my life is “nice to have” but by no means a need. I think I’m a challenge for him, which is fine. But on my side of things it’s too easy.

From experience, happily ever after doesn’t exist. Sure everyone puts their best foot forward when they’re dating but who’s to say he’ll stay like that? Am I just confused and not giving him a real chance? Or is just the reverse that I’m just not into him? Then the dilemma becomes do I let this great guy go and regret it afterward?

Can you give some advice on this? I have no idea what to do.
No insults please.
Thank you.

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Re: My Boyfriend Is Boring: Am I Crazy For Wanting To Dump Him? by SarutobiEky(m): 6:13am On Jul 23
Please let that brother go. You're a selfish human being. cry Let him go! Let him meet one who would appreciate him for real

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Re: My Boyfriend Is Boring: Am I Crazy For Wanting To Dump Him? by Hezzyluv: 6:15am On Jul 23
ageraGT:
He is completely into me. Calls, writes me letters, texts, takes me out, does family outings, asks about my day, washes my car, is clean, is fit, responsible, understanding, compliments me, etc, etc
That guy is a simp undecided and if after all this you still want to dump him, and u gat 2kindz not from him, "na u know wetin u dey look for."

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Re: My Boyfriend Is Boring: Am I Crazy For Wanting To Dump Him? by Juliusmomoh: 6:15am On Jul 23
@hungerbad may your soul rest in peace. We nairalanders loves you, but God love you most... Rest on

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Re: My Boyfriend Is Boring: Am I Crazy For Wanting To Dump Him? by general111: 6:40am On Jul 23
I have dealt with a lot of ladies and their relationship life.one thing i can confidently say about women, is that they often make bad choices.
They want to date a good man that is bad.or a bad man that is good.
Before the op will know what is happening to her, she has lost this good man.then she will start crying..
Op, leave that man alone, he is too good for you.
I thought a lady who was married would kmow better.

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Re: My Boyfriend Is Boring: Am I Crazy For Wanting To Dump Him? by talk2hb1(m): 6:51am On Jul 23
If I understand, street still dey your eye.
Continue!!!



ageraGT:
A little history…I’m 28, divorced with two young kids, they live at home. He is 37, divorced with one teenage. Here is my dilemma…. I can’t figure out if I’m attracted to him or the fact that he’s a good guy.

You wait and pray for there to be a good guy left on this earth and finally one comes along and you find him boring or at least not challenging.

What is that? Am I crazy? undecided

He is completely into me. Calls, writes me letters, texts, takes me out, does family outings, asks about my day, washes my car, is clean, is fit, responsible, understanding, compliments me, etc, etc. We’ve been dating two months. We don’t get too much opportunity to spend alone time so we’ve only slept with each other twice. It was okay, not mind-blowing or anything. I’ve had much better, but I’ve had much worse with the wrong guys too. He’s relatively attractive but not my usual type or taste.

Am I being picky because I think my boyfriend is boring? Any other woman would think he is a great catch. I think so as well but just…I don’t know why I can’t get into him.

He’s completely fallen for me, thinks I’m strong, independent, beautiful, good mom, etc. wants to make me happy and for me to be his “girlfriend” and I can just tell the L word is coming along any day now. I can just tell and trust me, I’m not wrong on this.

Another bit of history…

So he usually gets involved with psychos that latch on to him. That is – the complete opposite of me. I like my space and I don’t care if I never see you again. Guys come and go but my family, especially my kids, are forever. It’s one of the mottos I live by. I don’t need anyone to take care of me. A guy in my life is “nice to have” but by no means a need. I think I’m a challenge for him, which is fine. But on my side of things it’s too easy.

From experience, happily ever after doesn’t exist. Sure everyone puts their best foot forward when they’re dating but who’s to say he’ll stay like that? Am I just confused and not giving him a real chance? Or is just the reverse that I’m just not into him? Then the dilemma becomes do I let this great guy go and regret it afterward?

Can you give some advice on this? I have no idea what to do.
No insults please.
Thank you.

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Re: My Boyfriend Is Boring: Am I Crazy For Wanting To Dump Him? by Skyfornia(m): 6:54am On Jul 23
ageraGT:
A little history…I’m 28, divorced with two young kids, they live at home. He is 37, divorced with one teenage. Here is my dilemma…. I can’t figure out if I’m attracted to him or the fact that he’s a good guy.

You wait and pray for there to be a good guy left on this earth and finally one comes along and you find him boring or at least not challenging.

What is that? Am I crazy? undecided

He is completely into me. Calls, writes me letters, texts, takes me out, does family outings, asks about my day, washes my car, is clean, is fit, responsible, understanding, compliments me, etc, etc. We’ve been dating two months. We don’t get too much opportunity to spend alone time so we’ve only slept with each other twice. It was okay, not mind-blowing or anything. I’ve had much better, but I’ve had much worse with the wrong guys too. He’s relatively attractive but not my usual type or taste.

Am I being picky because I think my boyfriend is boring? Any other woman would think he is a great catch. I think so as well but just…I don’t know why I can’t get into him.

He’s completely fallen for me, thinks I’m strong, independent, beautiful, good mom, etc. wants to make me happy and for me to be his “girlfriend” and I can just tell the L word is coming along any day now. I can just tell and trust me, I’m not wrong on this.

Another bit of history…

So he usually gets involved with psychos that latch on to him. That is – the complete opposite of me. I like my space and I don’t care if I never see you again. Guys come and go but my family, especially my kids, are forever. It’s one of the mottos I live by. I don’t need anyone to take care of me. A guy in my life is “nice to have” but by no means a need. I think I’m a challenge for him, which is fine. But on my side of things it’s too easy.

From experience, happily ever after doesn’t exist. Sure everyone puts their best foot forward when they’re dating but who’s to say he’ll stay like that? Am I just confused and not giving him a real chance? Or is just the reverse that I’m just not into him? Then the dilemma becomes do I let this great guy go and regret it afterward?

Can you give some advice on this? I have no idea what to do.
No insults please.
Thank you.

What do you want?
Re: My Boyfriend Is Boring: Am I Crazy For Wanting To Dump Him? by blinking001(m): 6:59am On Jul 23
Wait oh, the op is divorced with two kids and she still thinks she has a choice? I blame the stupid men giving this stupid women the platform to be useless. Can you imagine the Hubris?
I pray that man realises that he's making a big mistake being with a sick expired evening newspaper like you. Spits

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Re: My Boyfriend Is Boring: Am I Crazy For Wanting To Dump Him? by StPete: 7:03am On Jul 23
You're made for the streets. You like them tough. It's a choice and it's not your fault. No matter how hard you keep trying to accept him, it'll never work. Just let him go and find someone that ticks the right boxes for you. If you tarry to keep on with him, you'd waste precious time

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Re: My Boyfriend Is Boring: Am I Crazy For Wanting To Dump Him? by Dalil8: 7:04am On Jul 23
Divorced with 2 kids at just 28. Do you need anyone to tell you that you're already expired and an evening newspaper?

ageraGT:


Another bit of history…

So he usually gets involved with psychos that latch on to him. That is – the complete opposite of me. I like my space and I don’t care if I never see you again. Guys come and go but my family, especially my kids, are forever. It’s one of the mottos I live by. I don’t need anyone to take care of me. A guy in my life is “nice to have” but by no means a need. I think I’m a challenge for him, which is fine. But on my side of things it’s too easy.


Why don't you just stay single, since you don't need any man. Stop bothering us!

You keep searching for good men when you're not a good woman yourself. You don't deserve that good man, you deserve men who would treat you like a rag, use and dump your ass.

You belong to the streets!

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Re: My Boyfriend Is Boring: Am I Crazy For Wanting To Dump Him? by Akwaibomdude(m): 7:10am On Jul 23
You belong to the streets... simple

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Re: My Boyfriend Is Boring: Am I Crazy For Wanting To Dump Him? by HarunaWest(m): 7:10am On Jul 23
ageraGT:
A little history…I’m 28, divorced with two young kids, they live at home. He is 37, divorced with one teenage. Here is my dilemma…. I can’t figure out if I’m attracted to him or the fact that he’s a good guy.

You wait and pray for there to be a good guy left on this earth and finally one comes along and you find him boring or at least not challenging.

What is that? Am I crazy? undecided

He is completely into me. Calls, writes me letters, texts, takes me out, does family outings, asks about my day, washes my car, is clean, is fit, responsible, understanding, compliments me, etc, etc. We’ve been dating two months. We don’t get too much opportunity to spend alone time so we’ve only slept with each other twice. It was okay, not mind-blowing or anything. I’ve had much better, but I’ve had much worse with the wrong guys too. He’s relatively attractive but not my usual type or taste.

Am I being picky because I think my boyfriend is boring? Any other woman would think he is a great catch. I think so as well but just…I don’t know why I can’t get into him.

He’s completely fallen for me, thinks I’m strong, independent, beautiful, good mom, etc. wants to make me happy and for me to be his “girlfriend” and I can just tell the L word is coming along any day now. I can just tell and trust me, I’m not wrong on this.

Another bit of history…

So he usually gets involved with psychos that latch on to him. That is – the complete opposite of me. I like my space and I don’t care if I never see you again. Guys come and go but my family, especially my kids, are forever. It’s one of the mottos I live by. I don’t need anyone to take care of me. A guy in my life is “nice to have” but by no means a need. I think I’m a challenge for him, which is fine. But on my side of things it’s too easy.

From experience, happily ever after doesn’t exist. Sure everyone puts their best foot forward when they’re dating but who’s to say he’ll stay like that? Am I just confused and not giving him a real chance? Or is just the reverse that I’m just not into him? Then the dilemma becomes do I let this great guy go and regret it afterward?

Can you give some advice on this? I have no idea what to do.
No insults please.
Thank you.
Wow are you sure you aint for the streets?
Am sure your dude is a SIMP ..Always tryna please you and all that..
Ditch him and find a ruggedy baba asap. You will be alright.

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Re: My Boyfriend Is Boring: Am I Crazy For Wanting To Dump Him? by DaddyRochie1642(f): 7:13am On Jul 23
Madam you're for the Street.

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Re: My Boyfriend Is Boring: Am I Crazy For Wanting To Dump Him? by siofra(f): 7:15am On Jul 23
ageraGT:
A little history…I’m 28, divorced with two young kids, they live at home. He is 37, divorced with one teenage. Here is my dilemma…. I can’t figure out if I’m attracted to him or the fact that he’s a good guy.

You wait and pray for there to be a good guy left on this earth and finally one comes along and you find him boring or at least not challenging.

What is that? Am I crazy? undecided

He is completely into me. Calls, writes me letters, texts, takes me out, does family outings, asks about my day, washes my car, is clean, is fit, responsible, understanding, compliments me, etc, etc. We’ve been dating two months. We don’t get too much opportunity to spend alone time so we’ve only slept with each other twice. It was okay, not mind-blowing or anything. I’ve had much better, but I’ve had much worse with the wrong guys too. He’s relatively attractive but not my usual type or taste.

Am I being picky because I think my boyfriend is boring? Any other woman would think he is a great catch. I think so as well but just…I don’t know why I can’t get into him.

He’s completely fallen for me, thinks I’m strong, independent, beautiful, good mom, etc. wants to make me happy and for me to be his “girlfriend” and I can just tell the L word is coming along any day now. I can just tell and trust me, I’m not wrong on this.

Another bit of history…

So he usually gets involved with psychos that latch on to him. That is – the complete opposite of me. I like my space and I don’t care if I never see you again. Guys come and go but my family, especially my kids, are forever. It’s one of the mottos I live by. I don’t need anyone to take care of me. A guy in my life is “nice to have” but by no means a need. I think I’m a challenge for him, which is fine. But on my side of things it’s too easy.

From experience, happily ever after doesn’t exist. Sure everyone puts their best foot forward when they’re dating but who’s to say he’ll stay like that? Am I just confused and not giving him a real chance? Or is just the reverse that I’m just not into him? Then the dilemma becomes do I let this great guy go and regret it afterward?

Can you give some advice on this? I have no idea what to do.
No insults please.
Thank you.

Do you really want to leave this man?
Because sometimes you don't what you have, till it's gone.

It took me about a year to realize I was in love with someone I broke up with.

Or maybe you're not like that.

But OP follow your heart and break up with him, if not trust me you'll not rest until you do so.
Re: My Boyfriend Is Boring: Am I Crazy For Wanting To Dump Him? by Eroms4life17(m): 7:18am On Jul 23
We know your type. You are the ones that don't appreciate what you have until you lose it. Please let him go since he's not your type. And I hope you remain lonely and happy at the same time. You want to treat men like trash and make your kids happy and u think u will be happy? You cannot eat your cake and have it. You are not getting any younger. Build a home with this guy so u and your family can be happy. Shikena!

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Re: My Boyfriend Is Boring: Am I Crazy For Wanting To Dump Him? by Stevebamdex(m): 7:19am On Jul 23
I Always Tell Guys, Dont Be Too Emotionally Available To This Gender.
Reason Being That, They Are Emotionally Unstabled And Always Known To Be Making Bad Choices Even When They Have Already Choosing The Man They Want To Love.
Most Women Tends Not To Value Men That Makes Themselves Too Available To Their Love And Demands..They Might Be Telling You They Love You But Trust Me,They Would Hardly Respects You.
Sometimes Its Good For A Guy To Let Your Woman Chase You(even When You Truly Love Her) To Avoid "See Finish"
Women Folks Only Love What They Can't Have.

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Re: My Boyfriend Is Boring: Am I Crazy For Wanting To Dump Him? by Fiscus105(m): 7:21am On Jul 23
ageraGT:
A little history…I’m 28, divorced with two young kids, they live at home. He is 37, divorced with one teenage. Here is my dilemma…. I can’t figure out if I’m attracted to him or the fact that he’s a good guy.

You wait and pray for there to be a good guy left on this earth and finally one comes along and you find him boring or at least not challenging.

What is that? Am I crazy? undecided

He is completely into me. Calls, writes me letters, texts, takes me out, does family outings, asks about my day, washes my car, is clean, is fit, responsible, understanding, compliments me, etc, etc. We’ve been dating two months. We don’t get too much opportunity to spend alone time so we’ve only slept with each other twice. It was okay, not mind-blowing or anything. I’ve had much better, but I’ve had much worse with the wrong guys too. He’s relatively attractive but not my usual type or taste.

Am I being picky because I think my boyfriend is boring? Any other woman would think he is a great catch. I think so as well but just…I don’t know why I can’t get into him.

He’s completely fallen for me, thinks I’m strong, independent, beautiful, good mom, etc. wants to make me happy and for me to be his “girlfriend” and I can just tell the L word is coming along any day now. I can just tell and trust me, I’m not wrong on this.

Another bit of history…

So he usually gets involved with psychos that latch on to him. That is – the complete opposite of me. I like my space and I don’t care if I never see you again. Guys come and go but my family, especially my kids, are forever. It’s one of the mottos I live by. I don’t need anyone to take care of me. A guy in my life is “nice to have” but by no means a need. I think I’m a challenge for him, which is fine. But on my side of things it’s too easy.

From experience, happily ever after doesn’t exist. Sure everyone puts their best foot forward when they’re dating but who’s to say he’ll stay like that? Am I just confused and not giving him a real chance? Or is just the reverse that I’m just not into him? Then the dilemma becomes do I let this great guy go and regret it afterward?

Can you give some advice on this? I have no idea what to do.
No insults please.
Thank you.


My advice for the character in ur script is to remain single mother,a single mum who will pick any random guy anytime and discharge him at will.

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Re: My Boyfriend Is Boring: Am I Crazy For Wanting To Dump Him? by critic007(m): 7:50am On Jul 23
It will be interesting to know how she ended up getting divorced at 28 yrs old. The reason as to why she is so confused and unstable will come from that.

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Re: My Boyfriend Is Boring: Am I Crazy For Wanting To Dump Him? by Marcy45marcy: 7:52am On Jul 23
Hi

Re: My Boyfriend Is Boring: Am I Crazy For Wanting To Dump Him? by BlueAir: 7:56am On Jul 23
sad It's obvious why she's someone's ex wife. She obviously threw the last marriage out of the window.
general111:
I have dealt with a lot of ladies and their relationship life.one thing i can confidently say about women, is that they often make bad choices.
They want to date a good man that is bad.or a bad man that is good.
Before the op will know what is happening to her, she has lost this good man.then she will start crying..
Op, leave that man alone, he is too good for you.
I thought a lady who was married would kmow better.

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Re: My Boyfriend Is Boring: Am I Crazy For Wanting To Dump Him? by Nobody: 7:57am On Jul 23
Free the man Biko.

Abi which one is all these grammar back and forth? grin
Re: My Boyfriend Is Boring: Am I Crazy For Wanting To Dump Him? by phemmyfour: 8:05am On Jul 23
ageraGT:
A little history…I’m 28, divorced with two young kids, they live at home. He is 37, divorced with one teenage. Here is my dilemma…. I can’t figure out if I’m attracted to him or the fact that he’s a good guy.

You wait and pray for there to be a good guy left on this earth and finally one comes along and you find him boring or at least not challenging.

What is that? Am I crazy? undecided

He is completely into me. Calls, writes me letters, texts, takes me out, does family outings, asks about my day, washes my car, is clean, is fit, responsible, understanding, compliments me, etc, etc. We’ve been dating two months. We don’t get too much opportunity to spend alone time so we’ve only slept with each other twice. It was okay, not mind-blowing or anything. I’ve had much better, but I’ve had much worse with the wrong guys too. He’s relatively attractive but not my usual type or taste.

Am I being picky because I think my boyfriend is boring? Any other woman would think he is a great catch. I think so as well but just…I don’t know why I can’t get into him.

He’s completely fallen for me, thinks I’m strong, independent, beautiful, good mom, etc. wants to make me happy and for me to be his “girlfriend” and I can just tell the L word is coming along any day now. I can just tell and trust me, I’m not wrong on this.

Another bit of history…

So he usually gets involved with psychos that latch on to him. That is – the complete opposite of me. I like my space and I don’t care if I never see you again. Guys come and go but my family, especially my kids, are forever. It’s one of the mottos I live by. I don’t need anyone to take care of me. A guy in my life is “nice to have” but by no means a need. I think I’m a challenge for him, which is fine. But on my side of things it’s too easy.

From experience, happily ever after doesn’t exist. Sure everyone puts their best foot forward when they’re dating but who’s to say he’ll stay like that? Am I just confused and not giving him a real chance? Or is just the reverse that I’m just not into him? Then the dilemma becomes do I let this great guy go and regret it afterward?

Can you give some advice on this? I have no idea what to do.
No insults please.
Thank you.
Please let the man be. You're selfish, self centered, immature and full of pride. Relationship is about "give n take". Please don't near relationship again until you are mature emotionally and accommodating

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Re: My Boyfriend Is Boring: Am I Crazy For Wanting To Dump Him? by techWriter3: 8:07am On Jul 23
@hungerbad may your spirit whole in peaceful. We nairalanders adores you, but God hate you most... recuperate on
Re: My Boyfriend Is Boring: Am I Crazy For Wanting To Dump Him? by ForestHill: 8:09am On Jul 23
ageraGT:

What is that? Am I crazy? undecided





I think you've HSP syndrome. Not a bad trait; mostly for intelligent personalities.
Re: My Boyfriend Is Boring: Am I Crazy For Wanting To Dump Him? by TheGidRedpiller(m): 8:32am On Jul 23
That Guys Is A Stupid SIMP!!! And you on the other hand is an ungrateful biittch!! fvvck you!

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Re: My Boyfriend Is Boring: Am I Crazy For Wanting To Dump Him? by OKOATA(m): 8:35am On Jul 23
techWriter3:
@hungerbad may your spirit whole in peaceful. We nairalanders adores you, but God hate you most... recuperate on
The guys gone, whys he been mentioned? Is today is birthday/Death day.

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Re: My Boyfriend Is Boring: Am I Crazy For Wanting To Dump Him? by slaypapa: 8:50am On Jul 23
What do women want sef.. Fools

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Re: My Boyfriend Is Boring: Am I Crazy For Wanting To Dump Him? by ruggedtimi(m): 8:58am On Jul 23
Divorced at 28....smh...d wash ur galfrnd car grin..awon car wash grin
Re: My Boyfriend Is Boring: Am I Crazy For Wanting To Dump Him? by CheedyJ(m): 8:59am On Jul 23
I wish you well
Re: My Boyfriend Is Boring: Am I Crazy For Wanting To Dump Him? by Theboy21(m): 9:04am On Jul 23
Pussy ass niggas everywhere, a real nigga won't even want to have anything to do with you except maybe to hit and run cheesy cheesy But here you are with a nice one but you still ungrateful..... You deserve those bad guys that treated you badly cheesy cheesy

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Re: My Boyfriend Is Boring: Am I Crazy For Wanting To Dump Him? by dan9ice(m): 9:14am On Jul 23
You're using him as your pain killer
Re: My Boyfriend Is Boring: Am I Crazy For Wanting To Dump Him? by Sonnobax15(m): 9:16am On Jul 23
shocked
It's a very foolish idea to cut off your leg simply because you're having pain in a toe.....

If being boring is the only problem you're encountering with your bf,then I must tell you this--"madam,you be like confused navy"

Truly you can't satisfy a woman......Just imagine the kind nonsense wey this one dey spill..

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