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Re: Please Help! My Brother Is Sleeping With His Daughter by wendixx(f): 9:01pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
Kedoty: Dear Poster, Are you a Christian? Please go on your knees now and pray. Pray for your brother, his wife, their daughter and that family. ASK God for mercy and intervention. Also pray for yourself. That God should give yiu wisdom on how to handle this situation. Go and visit them, pray with the family and then tell your brother that you are led to take his daughter with you for holidays (discuss this with the mother first) so that she can learn a trade this period. Going to the police will only traumatise the girl because she will be asked different questions and also victimised. Take her out of that house and also take time to pray with and for her. Let her talk to you and open up, so that she can let go of that burden. Let her know that it is not her fault at all as the father is evil and not her. Let her heal away from her father. Don't allow her to enter into her shell. Let her join groups in church that will keep her busy and active, so the devil will not take advantage of the situation to destroy her life. Take her for deliverance prayers without exposing her. Let her feel safe with you. Then confront your brother. Know why. Perhaps he has joined a cult or something. Things like this are not normal at all.. His response to your questions will enable make informed decisions on the next line of action. I pray that God give you wisdom to do right and remedy the situation in Jesus name. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Help! My Brother Is Sleeping With His Daughter by Nobody: 9:17pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
onojaford:it's all about your dick, isn't it? 1 Like |
Re: Please Help! My Brother Is Sleeping With His Daughter by onojaford(m): 9:56pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
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Re: Please Help! My Brother Is Sleeping With His Daughter by Nobody: 10:18pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
onojaford:no, no I'm thoroughly disgusted. Did you actually write this or fart this out? You are a pervert. And one day, your turn will come. BRATISLAVA see this 1 Like |
Re: Please Help! My Brother Is Sleeping With His Daughter by wirinet(m): 10:20pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
Image123: You are just confusing and conflating issues in order to justify your depraved view that the 17 year old has some blame in her rape by her father. Yes when an adult have sex with a minor - whether consensual or not, it is considered rape. Then the rape was by her father who should be her most trusted authority on this earth. That you even suggested that the man was tempted to rape his minor daughter because she did not sleep well or sit appropriately is the height of depravity. In most homes, adult girls walk around the house in only wrapper or towel when around only close family members like their father, brothers or even uncle (I advice against this nowadays). I am still trying to figure out why you think a man should ever be sexually attractive to his daughter even if she is stark naked. Not just I but many people here find it repugnant. You seem to project all men as sexual perverts who get aroused by every woman they see, be it daughters, sisters, family relations, and even mothers. You fail to acknowledge that most African families prior to westernisation and urbanisation lived in large family units all crammed in one or few rooms, mostly semi naked, and men were not raping their daughers or other family members. I hope you are not projecting your personal experience on everyone else. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Please Help! My Brother Is Sleeping With His Daughter by onojaford(m): 3:06am On Aug 09, 2021 |
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Re: Please Help! My Brother Is Sleeping With His Daughter by onojaford(m): 3:13am On Aug 09, 2021 |
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Re: Please Help! My Brother Is Sleeping With His Daughter by FreeIgboho: 3:18am On Aug 09, 2021 |
onojaford: What dio you think is the genesis or cause of your illness? 1 Like |
Re: Please Help! My Brother Is Sleeping With His Daughter by wirinet(m): 5:14am On Aug 09, 2021 |
Image123: You lie, bare face. Yes i started out here in the religious section, and I agree I was notorious according to you, but to try to convince people on why they should not be religious? NEVER. Then I was passionate about correcting all scientific falsehood you guys propagate. I found peace in myself. I don't need to convince anyone on my beliefs or lack of thereof to find peace. Instead it allowed me to expand my mind to accommodate everybody and accept them on the basis of who they really are and not on what the portend to believe. I have muslim friends and staff, pentecostal Christian friends and staff, a strong traditionalist as a good friend, etc. |
Re: Please Help! My Brother Is Sleeping With His Daughter by BRATISLAVA: 6:22am On Aug 09, 2021 |
Lollittaa: I didn't even read it beyond the first few lines. That is the mindset of a large number of men. They walk in human skin, yet are anything but. That is why whenever a case comes up you'll see them struggling to defend it. That guy image must be one of them, hiding behind Christianity, pseudo-logic and whatever else they can delude themselves with. These are some of the perpetrators of such sex crimes. It's only a matter of time before they act on their dirty preferences and end up publicly known. But with such men, nothing is a deterrent. It's all about them. What they can get away with, within the confines of their warped reason. Once they can get away with it, it must be right and something they will fight tooth and nail for. A very disgusting post. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Please Help! My Brother Is Sleeping With His Daughter by onojaford(m): 6:53am On Aug 09, 2021 |
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Re: Please Help! My Brother Is Sleeping With His Daughter by Nobody: 8:58am On Aug 09, 2021 |
BRATISLAVA:so so disgusting. The Idi.ot guy is even telling me he's a pervert and he's accepted it. One day, he will be paraded on NL front page. |
Re: Please Help! My Brother Is Sleeping With His Daughter by Pat081: 9:19am On Aug 09, 2021 |
Biglittlelois:good talk just like the one that happen in osun state the man sleep with his daughter still the gal dead saying that is devil work some men are just useless how much will he pay to carry runs gals |
Re: Please Help! My Brother Is Sleeping With His Daughter by wirinet(m): 10:09am On Aug 09, 2021 |
Pat081:Typical excuse of a black man " the devil made me do it". I am sure this father will blame the devil if he is caught red handed raping his daughter. Christianity and Islam has the devil as the fall guy for all their horrific crimes and actions. In the end they will "confess their sins and give their life to christ" and voila, their conscience is whipped clean. No responsibility, no consequences and no karma for their sins. 2 Likes |
Re: Please Help! My Brother Is Sleeping With His Daughter by Pat081: 10:12am On Aug 09, 2021 |
Bros that is life if they are killing them ntin like that will happen again wirinet: |
Re: Please Help! My Brother Is Sleeping With His Daughter by BRATISLAVA: 10:51am On Aug 09, 2021 |
Lollittaa: Give it time. Most of them feel that because they can argue it with pseudo-logic that they have a point and must be right. There are a lot of deranged men roaming Nigeria. Because this is a faceless forum, some of them can spill out the ugliest reaches of their minds. It's too bad Seun doesn't censor posts of insane and sick men on the forum. If only the police do their jobs, so many of them would've been reported. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Help! My Brother Is Sleeping With His Daughter by Nobody: 11:23am On Aug 09, 2021 |
onojaford:not on your miserable life. One day, God will catch you. Smello! |
Re: Please Help! My Brother Is Sleeping With His Daughter by onojaford(m): 1:33pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
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Re: Please Help! My Brother Is Sleeping With His Daughter by FreeIgboho: 2:01pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
onojaford: Believe me, it's an illness. Albeit one that's curable with strong deterant. If fucking minors were legalized you'd be surprised how the number of pedos will explode. It's the illegality that is keeping it in check |
Re: Please Help! My Brother Is Sleeping With His Daughter by Nobody: 5:18pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
FreeIgboho:leave the fo.ol to be talking nonsense. One day, his 12 year old daughter will be "ripe" enough for penetrative sex by another pervert, like him. 1 Like |
Re: Please Help! My Brother Is Sleeping With His Daughter by Image123(m): 11:01pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
wirinet: How can you say you NEVER try or tried to convince people not to be religious? What is then the point of your posts, you are submitting assignments? Keep your posts to yourself or go speak them in the bush, people are convinced by what they read. So my dear weary one, by auto, you are convincing people anytime you or anyone posts on forums. Good to see your tolerance, it's better for your existence and sanity, really. Imagine having everyone around and close to you believing in God/gods. You were intelligent enough to tolerate them, don't know if you'll do same if you had Hitler's powers in future though. |
Re: Please Help! My Brother Is Sleeping With His Daughter by Image123(m): 11:26pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
wirinet: Wearyone, i read you ironically lamenting that "No responsibility, no consequences and no karma". But i ask people to be responsible and you have a problem with it. You have been shown that a 17year old has more responsibility than a 6year old. You have been unable to answer if the age is the problem for you or the relationship. Again, does the girl automatically get responsible after she's no more a minor according to law? Is it okay for the dad of a 40year old to sleep with her? You've shyed away from this. i don't think a man should ever be sexually attractive to his daughter, i know that unfortunately, many men are sexually attracted to unclothedness including daughters and 17year olds. Except you are blind and deaf, you will easily see that from the news, right here on NL and maybe even experience with people around. It is sadly, not shocking to hear men sleep with young girls or marry them. You must have being in the higher institution before as a 100L student. You must have seen/heard what your female mates did. Many of them were 17year olds. The unfortunate point is that our particular OP says that his brother is SLEEPING with, not RAPING his daughter. Say whatever else in court, but there is a physical and terrible difference that you refuse to see between a 17year old daughter being forced by her father, and one sleeping with her father. make all the excuses for her, but she has some blame. For God's sake, her mother was in the NEXT ROOM. Like they say, it's fool me once shame on you, fool me twice it's shame on me. Religion or Bible aside, i will reexplain to you that all men are not like you or the same. That you find it disgusting and are not moved doesn't mean many others are not. And stop this silliness about people were not sleeping with their daughters before. That it was an abomination and had a law is a valid suggestion that some people were doing it. Maybe not rampant or open, but hey there was no social media. Man has always being a sinner, though waxing worse. A male gynecologist, or a love-vendor or a notorious club guy may not get the "hardon" you guys are asking for like a virgin 15year old boy, that doesn't mean the boy is more lewd than them. You seem to parallel/equate 'hardons' with depravity. If there will be a solution, everyone involved have to take responsibility. If you like keep spitting and vomiting like the pregnant woman in nollywood movies. |
Re: Please Help! My Brother Is Sleeping With His Daughter by Image123(m): 11:28pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
Lollittaa: Disgusted mummy GO ma, cursing and negative affirmation does not solve this matter. It only makes you a sinner like the OP's brother, different sins same sinners. |
Re: Please Help! My Brother Is Sleeping With His Daughter by insightful01(m): 11:47pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
slawormiir: Damn nigar, na this kind phone you dey take update client? |
Re: Please Help! My Brother Is Sleeping With His Daughter by Originalsly: 5:59am On Aug 10, 2021 |
If true... the guy needs to be locked up.... this is more than a family matter. Such a predator knows no boundary .... any female is game. When in Abuja... find out if there are reports of rape of teenaged girls . If yes..... do the needful. |
Re: Please Help! My Brother Is Sleeping With His Daughter by Nobody: 8:30am On Aug 10, 2021 |
Image123:you're the real definition of a hypocrite. Don't quote me again, dirty religious (potential) child molester |
Re: Please Help! My Brother Is Sleeping With His Daughter by Image123(m): 9:31am On Aug 10, 2021 |
Lollittaa: i am here to declare your sins and show you your transgressions, whether you are mummy GO or 17year old. Blame God i think, not me. i don't do partial judgements. |
Re: Please Help! My Brother Is Sleeping With His Daughter by Image123(m): 3:08pm On Aug 10, 2021 |
Lollittaa: You had to go and quote my name and falsely accused me on another thread, hian. Fear God ma. Be reasonable. |
Re: Please Help! My Brother Is Sleeping With His Daughter by Tobest94: 5:35pm On Aug 10, 2021 |
I’m sure you’ve a dad and you’re as well saying he’s an animal, probably a wild one |
Re: Please Help! My Brother Is Sleeping With His Daughter by 77star: 2:44am On Aug 16, 2021 |
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