Nonybb:
[b]But to be very sincere with you. Some of these things were oftentimes caused by two individuals: the mother of that child and the daughter itself. For example, I went to one family like that at one certain time and I discover one girl like that, aged maybe around 15-17 years, undressing in front of his dad. This girl I'm telling you about has developed every part of her womanhood. Some wives look at such and wave it aside. You see, men are not built that way, to fight every now and then on this serious temptation. A little sight can provoke a man and he doesn't reason entirely when it comes to penile erection. The degree of temptation are different. Some fall easily, some withheld it and cry Jesus but it do comes.

Men are disorganized by sight and sensual seduction; women might be emotions and physical touch. Let us understand that. Secondly, how the wife caused it was how complacent she was. Whenever you see that your daughter is being naked in front of your husband, put her aside and talk to her. She could have prevented this incestuous act[/b]

notttty:
Simple something, invite the girl for a holiday to your house or travel down n pretend u heard nothing while there tell your brother you want to take her with u for holiday n after you arrive, burst the story open to your brother. If he gets abusive or angry simply tell him u won't mind involving the authority but treat as mature as possible n within family , the wife will divorce las las though n be ready to raise that girl. Don't take that girl back else she will be lost to the world. Speaking from experience

FORWARDEVERLY:




I guess that is a NO in your village or local government.. where I come from and where I have been to, it is an express YES..

So don't use your own yardstick or your immeidiate environment as a moral template for others.. it should be for you but not for others.

Have a good night rest..

Kedoty:
My brother's wife called me yesterday to report my brother, she said their daughter called her two days ago about what her dad has been doing to her.

She told her that, her dad has slept with her twice, so the mother called me to report the case that she's confused and doesn't know how to confront her husband.

The daughter said the first day he slept with her was when her mother went on night vigil in the church. The second time he left his room at the middle of the night pretend to go and urinate and went to daughter's room to sleep with her for the second time. He has threatening her not to tell anyone.

Honestly for the past 2 days I couldn't sleep, was just thinking on how to approach the situation and how to rescue the inocent girl from abusive father.

The girl is around 17 years old.

Please your urgent advice needed. ( They are in Abuja while I'm in Lagos)

Ikwerelastborn:

Hahahahaha,I can see much frustration. You expected me to say yes to justify your sacrilegious tendencies . Control your third leg nnam before it sends you to your early grave like your grandfather

Image123:


My dear, this is not a affirmation or confession thread. Calling people sick continously doesn't make them sick. You couldn't answer basic questions due to emotions.

Naybahood:
I’m not trying to support the man o infact he should be castrated self

But
On a lighter note

He fit be like say bros don go do DNA for back , come see say the pikin no be him own.

He fit be him version of Payback.

I might be wrong tho .

Nonybb:
But to be very sincere with you. Some of these things were oftentimes caused by two individuals: the mother of that child and the daughter itself. For example, I went to one family like that at one certain time and I discover one girl like that, aged maybe around 15-17 years, undressing in front of his dad. This girl I'm telling you about has developed every part of her womanhood. Some wives look at such and wave it aside. You see, men are not built that way, to fight every now and then on this serious temptation. A little sight can provoke a man and he doesn't reason entirely when it comes to penile erection. The degree of temptation are different. Some fall easily, some withheld it and cry Jesus but it do comes.

Men are disorganized by sight and sensual seduction; women might be emotions and physical touch. Let us understand that. Secondly, how the wife caused it was how complacent she was. Whenever you see tha

juman:


A lot of foolishness.

Kedoty:
My brother's wife called me yesterday to report my brother, she said their daughter called her two days ago about what her dad has been doing to her.

She told her that, her dad has slept with her twice, so the mother called me to report the case that she's confused and doesn't know how to confront her husband.

The daughter said the first day he slept with her was when her mother went on night vigil in the church. The second time he left his room at the middle of the night pretend to go and urinate and went to daughter's room to sleep with her for the second time. He has threatening her not to tell anyone.

Honestly for the past 2 days I couldn't sleep, was just thinking on how to approach the situation and how to rescue the inocent girl from abusive father.

The girl is around 17 years old.

Please your urgent advice needed. ( They are in Abuja while I'm in Lagos)

UDUJ:


It's actually 2 possible causes and not 3 as you mentioned because Spell or Curse or Fetish are the same, but valid points though

FORWARDEVERLY:




Your MODA is a Phoool...

I guess it is your MODA's leaking hoe that sent her to grave and your FADA 3leg that got him killed in a brothel ...

Ewu hausa..

Karlzy01:

Abeg shift,
So because one person did something it now means all Naija men are the same,I don't have anything to say to you.

spiceadole:
A man is sleeping with his biological daughter and his wife (the mother of the girl ) doesn't know what to do.


Nigerian women.. tueh!
Las Las, the failure of a mother will continue to marry a man who defiled their daughter

Divinehealer:


Na dem. That was what this man commented weeks before his hypocrisy got exposed. It's a shame naija women have to marry you sexual deviants . Animals.

Kedoty:
My brother's wife called me yesterday to report my brother, she said their daughter called her two days ago about what her dad has been doing to her.

She told her that, her dad has slept with her twice, so the mother called me to report the case that she's confused and doesn't know how to confront her husband.

The daughter said the first day he slept with her was when her mother went on night vigil in the church. The second time he left his room at the middle of the night pretend to go and urinate and went to daughter's room to sleep with her for the second time. He has threatening her not to tell anyone.

Honestly for the past 2 days I couldn't sleep, was just thinking on how to approach the situation and how to rescue the inocent girl from abusive father.

The girl is around 17 years old.

Please your urgent advice needed. ( They are in Abuja while I'm in Lagos)

TuFab:



In fact I'm so disgusted!!!!
They must remain married at all cost no matter what's at stake.
The foolish mother still wants to remain in the marriage as a virtuous woman that's why she's confused if not how hard is it to call the police on the animal husband?
I'm just so mad rn gosh!!!
And the silly sister asking for opinions is trying to protect her brother forgetting that a pedophile doesn't change, even if the daughter is taken away from him, other innocent girls would fall victim sooner or later.
Nigerian men, aren't you guys lucky?
You're always given excuses for all your rubbish, congrats o.
Cos I'm sure if a woman committed half of this atrocity, nobody will need suggestions from nairaland before she's disgraced and punished.
Nonsense!!!

Kedoty:
My brother's wife called me yesterday to report my brother, she said their daughter called her two days ago about what her dad has been doing to her.

She told her that, her dad has slept with her twice, so the mother called me to report the case that she's confused and doesn't know how to confront her husband.

The daughter said the first day he slept with her was when her mother went on night vigil in the church. The second time he left his room at the middle of the night pretend to go and urinate and went to daughter's room to sleep with her for the second time. He has threatening her not to tell anyone.

Honestly for the past 2 days I couldn't sleep, was just thinking on how to approach the situation and how to rescue the inocent girl from abusive father.

The girl is around 17 years old.

Please your urgent advice needed. ( They are in Abuja while I'm in Lagos)

Elzakzaky:

Not ideal but no biggie. I wonder what madamthemadam will think about this

Righteousness2:
Boldly call your Brother and tell him he is an abominable fellow and that if he does not Desist from such Wickedness, you will Have no Choice but to open up His atrocities.

Kedoty:
My brother's wife called me yesterday to report my brother, she said their daughter called her two days ago about what her dad has been doing to her.

She told her that, her dad has slept with her twice, so the mother called me to report the case that she's confused and doesn't know how to confront her husband.

The daughter said the first day he slept with her was when her mother went on night vigil in the church. The second time he left his room at the middle of the night pretend to go and urinate and went to daughter's room to sleep with her for the second time. He has threatening her not to tell anyone.

Honestly for the past 2 days I couldn't sleep, was just thinking on how to approach the situation and how to rescue the inocent girl from abusive father.

The girl is around 17 years old.

Please your urgent advice needed. ( They are in Abuja while I'm in Lagos)

FreeStuffsNG:


Your comment tells me your age. You are still young yet come off as very rude and arrogant. You could have just patiently and politely requested me to explain myself better or bring it down to your level of understanding and I will do so sir.

Don't worry sir. You will soon learn to save yourself from the embarrassment of listening to one side and then judging . You just started life, you ain't seen much yet so please calm down and learn. You will be shocked when it may later turns out false. Leadership demands that you give a fair hearing to everyone. Giving a fair hearing does not mean you are enabling the perpetrator, it gives you a clear basis to make your report when you eventually escalate it because you will be invited too to give your account. So why do we have families if the preliminary groundwork can't be handled? Even police will do same, investigate before charging your brother to court. How will you feel before your brother if he turns out innocent? That's why I believe you are young and intemperate.

noble2faith:


Corrected!