abercrombie:
Like the topic says, this lady and I have been dating for a year now, and we are both in our final year due to my expertise in withdrawal method i always stay focused when about to cum, we had our last sex on 18 of july. Just a months back after we went for semester break,she called that's she feeling uneasy and that her breast is getting bigger.

To cut the story..... that' she's pregnant and she won't abort anything, me as a street wise already know where she's driving at "Marriage Talks"

But she later called and apologize yesterday that she is testing and trying to see if I would deny or start avoiding her,in my mind have already broke up with her.

So guys what do you think she's up to,I need some mature advice and contribution

Mod please move it to front page

abercrombie:
A lady of 25 still behaving childishly,well I don zero my mind for her matter

Godada:




This is a really big accusation here. Do you have proofs? At 25, a woman needs to know where her life is going. So cut her some slack. You can be rest assured that she will be getting lots of offers. She is at the flower of her youth. If you mean well for her, which I feel you do, you need to set her mind at rest.
I understand you,am doing well with my business already even planning on coming to see her mom after her final exams, why am saying all this is that an ex did this some years back and we ended breaking up due to her insecure and childish games


Now for the ever present elephant in the room: Are you financially capable? It's a expensive affair running an affair as well as feeding and maintenance. Marriage expenses and looking after your kids.

Arrange yourself well. Marriage is not for the slothful

abercrombie:
Like the topic says, this lady and I have been dating for a year now, and we are both in our final year due to my expertise in withdrawal method i always stay focused when about to cum, we had our last sex on 18 of july. Just a months back after we went for semester break,she called that's she feeling uneasy and that her breast is getting bigger.

To cut the story..... that' she's pregnant and she won't abort anything, me as a street wise already know where she's driving at "Marriage Talks"

But she later called and apologize yesterday that she is testing and trying to see if I would deny or start avoiding her,in my mind have already broke up with her.

So guys what do you think she's up to,I need some mature advice and contribution

Mod please move it to front page

SimplyFacts:
Girls can disappoint ehn.
Dem go leave good guys like me,,, dey run after bad boys like this OP.

debbydams:
u are saying your gf can't joke with you abi..well i did that to my man, I told him I missed my period nd I sent one trip I collected from my friend to disguise,I told him im gonna abort that I can't keep a child now,he persuade me not to that we can work things out, I told him I'm not pregnant that I was just trying to know how much he love nd we continue our relationship..that's love, she might not even be thinking about marriage I did mine because I want to know how much my man love me..u can test her nd she can test you, if the love is geninue I don't see anything bad in that tho

goodheart02:
"Due to my expertise in withdrawal method i always stay focused when about to cum"

That above statement by the OP got me laughing

yemi1504:


What do you expect when they want big gbola even if the owner is a child, that one no consign them!

yemi1504:


What do you expect when they want big gbola even if the owner is a child, that one no consign them!

abercrombie:
just so you know you can't force a guy to marry you just because you got pregnant for him, ladies should get this mindset of staying truthful because a little mistake might bring the relationship down
And I don't have to test her,once I feel she's cheating or seeing someone else I get to confront her about it and if I found out she won't change then I break up for good!!

abercrombie:
Just leave child talk from this,you better don't allow some unfaithful specie to trap someone else child on you

Kondomatic:
Withdrawal method will fail you one day. This is known.

E get level wey they thing go enter you reach, that time when the sweetness go too much e go come be like your cap wan fall, you know am bah? That is when you will loseguard and shoot inside.

At least he knows he's the one responsible... Thanks tho

Sometime in 2015, a lady told my friend that she was preg for him. Dude handled it calmly and was secretly making preparations for the girl to move in with him when she told him that she just wanted to know how he would react.

Dude told me what happened and I told him to stop sleeping with her for the time being and prepare to end the relationship because she will either get preg for him or pin one on him.

Bros no listen, she born for am in 2017.

He who get ear make he hear

CharisEleos:
You need advice on what exactly?

To tell you to break up with her or continue the childish relationship you nearly Chickened out of at the mere mention of pregnancy?

My advice for you is to face your studies. You're clearly not responsible and ready for a relationship or the outcome, before you halt your career and hers like our intending Nairaland clergyman who posted his ordeal about something similar last month.

abercrombie:
Like the topic says, this lady and I have been dating for a year now, and we are both in our final year due to my expertise in withdrawal method i always stay focused when about to cum, we had our last sex on 18 of july. Just a months back after we went for semester break,she called that's she feeling uneasy and that her breast is getting bigger.

To cut the story..... that' she's pregnant and she won't abort anything, me as a street wise already know where she's driving at "Marriage Talks"

But she later called and apologize yesterday that she is testing and trying to see if I would deny or start avoiding her,in my mind have already broke up with her.

So guys what do you think she's up to,I need some mature advice and contribution

Mod please move it to front page

abercrombie:
Like the topic says, this lady and I have been dating for a year now, and we are both in our final year due to my expertise in withdrawal method i always stay focused when about to cum, we had our last sex on 18 of july. Just a months back after we went for semester break,she called that's she feeling uneasy and that her breast is getting bigger.

TheOldGods:


you talk like a child

As long as you're having sex raw and she becomes pregnant it is irrelevant if she was seeing another person, as long as you have not caught her sleeping with someone else ooo. You have to take responsibility to either have the baby or abort it.

When I mean responsibility, I mean everything including her vomiting and you help her and clean it. And be buying her all those things she craves

Righteousness2:


So you are an expert in Immorality and you are Focused when In the act and Path of destroying your Destiny.
What an Expertise!

FATHER, Show this young Mercy, so he does not come here to tell us how he needs advice for a Destroyed Destiny.

CharisEleos:


And who are the you ladies??
Abeg count me out.

Both of you are not ready. Period!