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Re: Please help!! My sister is being used. by Nobody: 5:17am On Sep 05, 2021 |
.. 3 Likes |
Re: Please help!! My sister is being used. by phemmyfour: 5:19am On Sep 05, 2021 |
Doradorwa:That's the part of stuff school teach us. Learn to look after yourself and identifying and separating yourself from leeches 2 Likes |
Re: Please help!! My sister is being used. by BinamRex: 5:21am On Sep 05, 2021 |
SeriouslySense: True, thanks a lot. |
Re: Please help!! My sister is being used. by true2god: 5:42am On Sep 05, 2021 |
I have a similar experience but in another dimension. I have a car which I used when going to and fro work. I also used to pick 'customers' on the road whose offices are towards my direction. This helps me make small change to fuel my car. However there are 2 people I do pick for free. When the car got faulty and was at the mechanic for almost 2months they never call me again; they literarily made new alternatives ASAP. When I got my car back they started greeting me again and one of them even had the effontry to ask me why I am not picking her again. I kuku ignore then 100% and decide not to make my car free for public use again. People will come around when/if things are rossy but will leave you to your own fate when things are not going the right way. The OP should stop sending money to his sister for one month, and let her understand why you took that decision. Women' are funny because if you cut the financial aid completely BIG DADDIES will assist her conditionally. 1 Like |
Re: Please help!! My sister is being used. by cutepaul(m): 5:48am On Sep 05, 2021 |
They come to charge phone abi........it's very simple.....collect her generator.....it's an unnecessary luxury....... CR777: 1 Like |
Re: Please help!! My sister is being used. by stabilizer: 5:49am On Sep 05, 2021 |
Joysticks: And she wont ever go back.home with her complete money most of time. She would probably have regular customers fighting over her for being a cheerful giver. Her own runs girl fit dey do monthly promo. So don't try to starve her pleae 1 Like |
Re: Please help!! My sister is being used. by optimismlaz(m): 5:58am On Sep 05, 2021 |
Disconnect the solar for one or two weeks, don't send her money immediately then those her friends will run away and they will be avoiding her from there her brain will be reset 1 Like |
Re: Please help!! My sister is being used. by Nobody: 6:10am On Sep 05, 2021 |
phemmyfour:That's just it. Experience and mistakes are teachers for those willing to learn. The girl in question must not continue to be shielded from life at all time. Especially now. Higher Institutions are freedom land. She should enjoy her new founded freedom and have a story to tell. |
Re: Please help!! My sister is being used. by EricSmallz(m): 6:12am On Sep 05, 2021 |
Can I marry Her Please? |
Re: Please help!! My sister is being used. by amaks: 6:21am On Sep 05, 2021 |
Try to tell her that you think she's naive and not tough enough and people are taking advantage of her, and this can't continue, you are going to have to change her school for her. And put her to where she'll be going from home or where she will have to be staying with a guardian. Cos it seems she can't handle herself where she is. If this fear or nice threat doesn't change her then either go ahead and change her school or leave her to hunger when broke. She can't continue to be a woman-child in this present harsh world, full of economic hardship and manipulative exploitative people. You may be saving her life by doing this, before she falls victim to something worse in future. 1 Like |
Re: Please help!! My sister is being used. by dj5naira(m): 6:42am On Sep 05, 2021 |
Makanaki127: LMYO!!! |
Re: Please help!! My sister is being used. by IamKizzbrown10(m): 6:45am On Sep 05, 2021 |
Just let the hunger hit her for two weeks or so then after then u can help her and talk sense into her brain. Am sure her brain will reset. But trust if u keep sending her stuff wenever she lacks, she wont understand and learn. Who kind hearted help again in this country |
Re: Please help!! My sister is being used. by kelmicheal: 6:50am On Sep 05, 2021 |
Greediness dey worry some people no be who like you go chop your food? Who be your enemy no go come your house come chop. You can also visit your friends too and eat food with them is a simple world |
Re: Please help!! My sister is being used. by eyinjuege: 6:54am On Sep 05, 2021 |
CR777: Send her money weekly upkeep till she's able to sort herself out. If it finishes before the week runs out, then too bad 1 Like |
Re: Please help!! My sister is being used. by JesusDWay(m): 7:02am On Sep 05, 2021 |
CR777: Tell her to not buy foodstuff for a while and that when the one she has is about to finish, she should tell the friends that she will be coming to eat at their place for a while. Their response will let her know how to handle them thereafter |
Re: Please help!! My sister is being used. by Clonexy: 7:02am On Sep 05, 2021 |
You don't have to be hard on her..beside she is a female child..you know female can go extreme to survive..if you allow hunger beat her, she fit turn low-key prostitute..and nah your fault be that ..it only a male child you can treat hard..the best thing to do is to change her environment..she has become too familiar with people around there that's why..make she go far away from those people..new accommodation, new people, and new face.. before she go start to relate you go don warn her of her new environment..if not..female child ..hmmm |
Re: Please help!! My sister is being used. by Willy123(m): 7:06am On Sep 05, 2021 |
[color=#006600][/color]. CR777:Your worries have not started. Wait till one bad ass of a boyfriend enter her life.... |
Re: Please help!! My sister is being used. by Olumighty123(m): 7:13am On Sep 05, 2021 |
stabilizer: Ibo latun jasi bai
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Re: Please help!! My sister is being used. by Olam09(m): 7:16am On Sep 05, 2021 |
yomi007k:Lol.... |
Re: Please help!! My sister is being used. by IgweBUIKE1(m): 7:31am On Sep 05, 2021 |
CR777:Bro your sis is already creating a path for herself and her unborn kids cos this her kind gesture will never go unrewarded. ..it may seems hard but I swear she be more favoured then people will start thinking is juju....I am a living witNess of my mom benevolent act...even my Bro in UK can't seems to get over mom ...cos when he had issues people from no where came to his rescue, then a man saw and told him in Manchester that he should be grateful to God for blessing him with a mom you has paid the dues for him...meekness is not weekness |
Re: Please help!! My sister is being used. by Nobody: 7:40am On Sep 05, 2021 |
Op forget people taking about prostitution. It's so crazy what people think about females nowadays. As if some males are any different. The poor girl is just tasting freedom and yes, the feeling can be intoxicating. 2 weeks hunger is not enough for anyone to go into any form of prostitution or else such feelings has been nursed before. Who even dey patronize ashewo for school, is it your male colleagues wey their papa still dey feed or what. Sex is on mutual consent there. Abi the same guys wey go use their money play betnaija, con dey beg garri from you. 2 Likes |
Re: Please help!! My sister is being used. by Pharmjossy(m): 7:42am On Sep 05, 2021 |
Cr777, u know what advice to give her. Say the truth. |
Re: Please help!! My sister is being used. by bigjackass: 7:53am On Sep 05, 2021 |
CR777:You have to leave her to go hungry at least one week. That is the only way she will learn. Trust me that's how parents handle this kind of situation |
Re: Please help!! My sister is being used. by eagleonearth(m): 8:06am On Sep 05, 2021 |
FuturelsFemale:reason almost everyone is a tiger/tigress in Lagos because if you form nice people see you as a very big village fool 3 Likes |
Re: Please help!! My sister is being used. by Suremikky(m): 8:23am On Sep 05, 2021 |
If u are her sole guardian or even if not, u should place her on monthly stipends and let her be aware of it..so the way and manner she manages her resource for one month is entirely her business. |
Re: Please help!! My sister is being used. by engrben25: 8:50am On Sep 05, 2021 |
you can't change people from their nature expect they decide to change by themselves just keep doing it no p I have a aunty like that and she us still living till day |
Re: Please help!! My sister is being used. by hahn(m): 9:36am On Sep 05, 2021 |
CR777: Stop sending her money. When her friends see she is broke they will abandon her and she will learn who are her true friends. When her brain don reformat then you can send her money. Don't worry, she won't die 1 Like |
Re: Please help!! My sister is being used. by Dheco(m): 9:39am On Sep 05, 2021 |
yomi007k: Lead to prostitution Just advise her that life no balance. Stingy be life |
Re: Please help!! My sister is being used. by Babatea360: 10:03am On Sep 05, 2021 |
DropsMic: Which kind weight lifting and cruel style during sex/ ? You sure say no be u dey do the girl so? I need details ooo...Thats why I nor dey pity all em girls back them..big boy go just dey use em anyhow |
Re: Please help!! My sister is being used. by yomi007k(m): 10:43am On Sep 05, 2021 |
Dheco: My brother woman wey go do prostitution go still do am oo even if she get everything on earth. 1 Like |
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