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Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by Ugandatales: 7:08pm On Sep 12, 2021
Ninejaywon:
I have a large fertile land for cultivation. By the time you do better weeding/clearing non stop for like 3 weeks, masturbation will run away. U are simply idle.

HAHAHAHA!
Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by PriceNow(m): 7:12pm On Sep 12, 2021
Some fools will be talking down on him while virtually almost every guy on this thread masturbates, saints grin

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Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by Joshdboss(m): 7:18pm On Sep 12, 2021
Ur case is still very redeemable. U're still young, you can recover all the damages so far, and besides 5 years is not bad, compared to some people who've been addicts for 10 or more. Mine was almost 7 years, and I can tell you, the benefits of quitting that shit is just mind-blowing. If u can send me a DM, please do. It's not something you quit all on your own. You need help, steady help, at least from God, or from someone who has God, cause only God can deliver you. Trust me.
Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by MikeofKd(m): 7:42pm On Sep 12, 2021
Oga first of all whenever u indulge in d act ,stop feeling guilt ,d more guilt u feel, d more u would indulge in it.
If you truly want to stop it ,acknowledge the fact that uve been doin dis act and u truly wish to stop it . don't mind pple bashing u ,No body holy for this life.

Take your time, all the time you need
Start trying to see a bigger picture something above masturbation
Start chasing a goal or a dream , picture yourself in a benz with the finest chick on campus and picture urself with a hand on your dick strokin it to a beautify girls pics , now compare both, which one do u truly desire .
Make money moves and have real sex there s no amount of soapy that is as cool as smashing a pretty babe think about it .
Work on yourself , like I said earlier see d bigger picture.

Lastly don't pressurize urself, take all the time u need to stop the act ,trust me if u follow this steps , u gonna be a big boy and when you re a big boy , u would feel too big to indulge in the act
Good luck my nigga.

And don't forget to talk to God tell him about all ur worries ,he cares trust me.
Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by Lemonade2019: 8:07pm On Sep 12, 2021
Ninejaywon:
I have a large fertile land for cultivation. By the time you do better weeding/clearing non stop for like 3 weeks, masturbation will run away. U are simply idle.
grin you are very wicked
Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by Lekan239(m): 8:17pm On Sep 12, 2021
Xenry:
Stop admiring women, no matter how attractive or sexy they dressed . . . Look only at their faces. And also stop anything pornography.
this could also turn u to a millionaire
Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by Guyman111: 8:27pm On Sep 12, 2021
bodybuilder:
It's simple, you are not having sex that's why you masturbate alot. Just having sex once or twice a week can keep you away from daily masturbation. Get girl or girls. Make sure to always use condom.

You are right.
Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by Aladdin1(m): 8:35pm On Sep 12, 2021
SeyiFargo:
20 yrs
If you are 20yrs then i can emphatically tell you that you cant stop it.you still have a long way to go so enjoy your penis while it lasts.stoping masturbation is a spiritual battle that can only be won spiritually and gradually. for now you may reduce the act and spend time in studying Gods word.avoid all forms of pornorgraphy like craze 4 therein lies the problem of masturbation.avoid idleness,privacy,loneliness,spend time with friends or doing what you love to do to get busy.then pray,pray and pray and ask the holyspirit to help you defeat the urge to masturbate.marriage may also help to reduce it but maybe u not ready at 20.so when u change your lifestyle to a godly one you would see how God would help you to overcome the habit.
Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by EvangelistChuks(m): 8:37pm On Sep 12, 2021
Jesus Christ to the rescue. He will circumcise your heart removing your old affections and giving you new ones.
Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by AmbassadoR100(m): 8:37pm On Sep 12, 2021
Stop watching pornography bro. Masturbation can destroy your future totally and make you physically weak/unproductive. It will make you an easy prey to danger and enemies. Pray and ask God to deliver you. Your Future is at stake because of temporary pleasure. Stop giving the Devil the chance to mess you up. Your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit and if you violate it, there's big consequence.
SeyiFargo:
I started masturbating while I was 15yrs old, hence I have been trying on how to stop it.. All has been fruitless embarassed embarassed..
Anyone with a solid way of stopping this shiit, am tired of it..
All comments are welcomed
Let's push this to the fp so every Nl monikers can help me out ��
Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by badboyTee(m): 8:39pm On Sep 12, 2021
am even doing it right now as I speak bruh � grin this thing is good oo it allows you to be able to control your urges
Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by taibod: 9:05pm On Sep 12, 2021
SeyiFargo:
I started masturbating while I was 15yrs old, hence I have been trying on how to stop it.. All has been fruitless embarassed embarassed..
Anyone with a solid way of stopping this shiit, am tired of it..
All comments are welcomed
Let's push this to the fp so every Nl monikers can help me out ��

Hmm masturbation is something very hard to overcome buh you can overcome it if you can try this
Say to yourself that you want to stop it
Masturbation is the main cause to shyness you have to overcome the spirit of shyness start with making friend with guys that aren't scared to utter words mind you positive words then you'll see d courage in you after that don't be scared to talk where ladies are even if dey make jest of you laugh with them
Get yourself a girl you'll be free with no matter how shy you're there will surely be a girl you chat freely with bring d topic to her dat you're shy sometimes trust me girls have ways of talking to guys dat it will stick to ur brain trust me she will motivate you dat anytime you want to feel shy you will remember her words it will ginger you
With this you will see changes
Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by Adande3310(m): 10:54pm On Sep 12, 2021
SeyiFargo:
I started masturbating while I was 15yrs old, hence I have been trying on how to stop it.. All has been fruitless embarassed embarassed..
Anyone with a solid way of stopping this shiit, am tired of it..
All comments are welcomed
Let's push this to the fp so every Nl monikers can help me out ��

Guy you have to challenge your self
in the aspect of
*lust about women
*Stop watching pornography
*Give your self assignment i.e try to fast and pray to God.
Masturbation can ruin one carer if care is not taking am a living example.

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Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by aramidebaba: 11:43pm On Sep 12, 2021
The only solution is to get marry. After you married when the spirit of masturbation comes. Just approach your wife for sex.
Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by icankel: 11:44pm On Sep 12, 2021
Reading bible and other stuffs will help u but just get a job that would take much of time from Monday to Sunday then have a control over ur mind. Before then avoid being alone in ur house just go out. Goodluck
Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by Nobody: 11:48pm On Sep 12, 2021
I hate hypocrisy

Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by Kennyking1234: 1:59am On Sep 13, 2021
what the name of the app?
Lordgudline:
Bro, we are quite similar both in problem and age, masturbation has really affected my life negatively in so many ways. I've tried to stop countless, prayed about it, tried everything. But what I've come to find out that it takes major commitment and discipline to get over this shameful act.

i found this app online, it's free and well put together.

It's been over a week now since i started using it, as you can see it shows 7 days on the count down.

You can do it bro!
Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by syntekelite(m): 8:42am On Sep 13, 2021
Masturbation masturbation, everyone with confusing opinions. But handjob and Mouth Gig frm a chick is better right?? @op just reduce the frequency and then gradually u will lose interest especially when you start more important activities.. there is no certain solution..just search inside of you and find what suits ur character to make it easy to stop.
Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by Izaya3(m): 2:56pm On Sep 13, 2021
Xenry:
Stop admiring women, no matter how attractive or sexy they dressed . . . Look only at their faces. And also stop anything pornography.
And when the urges come, keep your phone away from you, stay out of bed, force yourself to go and take a bath, go out, take a walk, exercise, (just do anything that will be able to cause enough distraction to you and shift your Focus away from fapping).
This will be able to help you. Good luck.


AMAZING
Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by peachesandroses(f): 4:16pm On Sep 13, 2021
SeyiFargo:
I started masturbating while I was 15yrs old, hence I have been trying on how to stop it.. All has been fruitless embarassed embarassed..
Anyone with a solid way of stopping this shiit, am tired of it..
All comments are welcomed
Let's push this to the fp so every Nl monikers can help me out ��

When you invite Christ into your heart and genuinely repent, you will receive power to break this chain of masturbation.
Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by zaxbash: 9:21pm On Sep 29, 2021
Champneys:


Married folks masturbate, you dumbo!
U shit hole why quoting me akuya
Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by KrazzyAndy(m): 8:31am On Dec 07, 2021
SeyiFargo:

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