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Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by nairabacks(f): 10:09am On Sep 12, 2021 |
1 Like |
Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by Ochecanny2(m): 10:09am On Sep 12, 2021 |
SeyiFargo:Send me an email' that shit must go' it aint gon frustrate you no more |
Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by DropsMic(m): 10:10am On Sep 12, 2021 |
SeyiFargo: hmm |
Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by harley88(m): 10:10am On Sep 12, 2021 |
Bro get a job or get very busy and also get a girlfriend, you will forget masturbation in no time. To do it will seem like a task 1 Like |
Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by Kaiser20: 10:11am On Sep 12, 2021 |
SeyiFargo:Just imagine at 20 years when your mates are building their career and investing in their future, Your own is pornography and masturbation. Tomorrow when you become a useless man at 30,40,& 50 you say naa PDP and APC or your village people do you. |
Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by caesymore(m): 10:12am On Sep 12, 2021 |
Experience they say is the best teacher |
Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by Microwhy: 10:12am On Sep 12, 2021 |
No addiction is small or should be overlooked. Work on your addiction yourself. Think about the health implications. Do you want to see free toto with big butty on your bed (your wife) and you're not able to satisfy her because the strength,power,stamina and ability that takes to satisfy a woman is what you're loosing now It won't be funny bro.. when deep in your heart you know you're just caging your wife without able to sexually satisfy her. Sometimes you will wish she cheat on you with a big gbola that has strength and stamina you can't offer once in a very long while. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by Nobody: 10:12am On Sep 12, 2021 |
SeyiFargo:Give yourself time, you will outgrow it, eventually 1 Like |
Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by caesymore(m): 10:13am On Sep 12, 2021 |
nairabacks: |
Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by Taejimin(f): 10:14am On Sep 12, 2021 |
Telegram234:So how did you do it? Share some tips |
Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by Freezeman: 10:14am On Sep 12, 2021 |
SeyiFargo: 1) Understand the reason why you masturbate Your body reacts to hormones and those are the urges which prompts you to masturbate, having these urges are not bad but therefore they ought to be controlled. Therefore not controlling them is the wrong thing. By grace learning to control the urge by distracting your mind when such thoughts come in your mind. 2) Understand the triggers Identify the triggers and avoid them, avoid pornographic contents, the thought is the trigger and it is influenced by what you have seen, heard etc, do away with them. 4 Likes |
Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by Nobody: 10:14am On Sep 12, 2021 |
join masturbation qutting challenge thread on romance section of nairaland 2 Likes |
Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by bolabadmus38: 10:15am On Sep 12, 2021 |
Avoid anything porn. Zero your mind towards porn. Make up your mind. You can also contact any psychotherapist if you can it is thing of the mind. Bros,please,also pray over it. 4 Likes |
Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by Eaglesence: 10:15am On Sep 12, 2021 |
SeyiFargo: When you think of how dirty the act is in the sight of God (impurity), and because of it you cannot get any tangible blessings from God because you displease him by your actions, when you know it that people who engage in the act will end up in the hottest part of hell fire. When you realise that masturbation will soon start having adverse effects on your eye sight, you will stop it. 1 Like |
Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by hovatech2018: 10:15am On Sep 12, 2021 |
Stay away from phonographic pictures because each time you watch it through your phone or any other means you must do it. Channel your imagination to productive ventures. |
Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by babadee1(m): 10:17am On Sep 12, 2021 |
SeyiFargo: You must be born again. Only Jesus Christ can save you so give your life to Him and make Him the Lord and Saviour of your soul. God bless you. 2 Likes |
Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by Tolma: 10:17am On Sep 12, 2021 |
Avoid being alone... 1 Like |
Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by labelle123(f): 10:18am On Sep 12, 2021 |
Let's wait for the elders |
Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by Eaglesence: 10:19am On Sep 12, 2021 |
tesseract: No need to find anything. He has been told here, what he needs to know. Before he go go jam worse situation while searching |
Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by okoroemeka(m): 10:19am On Sep 12, 2021 |
Vinnie2000:he may do all those things but still can it control nature,the early morning rising of the dick will be invitable in such individual and thats when the urge will come,he cannot stop masturbating until he gets a sexy girlfriend that can drain the excess juice from his body,then he can reduce it but not stop,at his age he cannot stop masturbating,can be reduced but cannot stop entirely not possible,the distraction and images that trigger masturbation is now more than ever,even married men and old men still masturbates these days. 2 Likes |
Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by omoadeleye(m): 10:20am On Sep 12, 2021 |
SeyiFargo: Okay, keep masturbating. 1. You will look more than your age(like you will look older) 2. Feeling weak every time 3. Early discharge when you are about to have real sex 4. Low self-esteem 5. Later on nocturnal emissions (wet dreaming) 6. Frequent urination. Just continue. This are your future gift. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by LisaAnneMia: 10:21am On Sep 12, 2021 |
SeyiFargo:Hello dear, I have a very easy solution for you that is stress-free and won't wear you out. Pls read the below. If you're born again, try this very simple thing. 1 Like |
Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by Jefferyhi86(m): 10:28am On Sep 12, 2021 |
Nairaland with mastubation, I don't understand dis era of careless gals ur still mastubating when sex is like handshake |
Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by Polyol(m): 10:28am On Sep 12, 2021 |
SeyiFargo: Just 5 years into masturbating and you're looking for solution to a problem that doesn't exist I stopped worrying about masturbation and the addiction reduced drastically. I still masturbate for the record. No harm, no fear, just cum and sleep It's healthy for me if you ask me, it's my own little vice as expected for every man. I don't smoke, I don't drink, I don't fvck olosho, I only fvck myself and I love me for it. Masturbation will be healthy once you stop worrying yourself about stopping it. I last long with my GF, she cums first, I'm healthy. Masturbation relieves me of stress and I feel more relaxed after climax. God will bless the first day I masturbated, my life took a better turn from that day. I can't be sex starved anymore, I control sex and not the other way round. I don't know when I started masturbating though, I just know I was in my junior secondary class and I'm 2years post nysc now so do the math. I'm very healthy. My little advice. Please eat well, boost your immune system. Take blood capsules on a regular, eat well. Masturbation, just like sex, fvcks your immune system up. Supplement it with synthesised drugs for immune system buildup and eat very well too. And most importantly, worry less about it, you'll be fine. |
Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by jclassiq(m): 10:32am On Sep 12, 2021 |
Kantebets: Spoken like a complete idiot who doesn't know how real life works. 4 Likes |
Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by brainhgeek(m): 10:34am On Sep 12, 2021 |
When you are idle, the devil takes over your mind and hands. Your testosterone levels spikes higher-up with every episode of masturbating. Ultimate advice I will give you is to become more responsible. Pick a job that will drain pleasure out of your system, stop pornography,stay away from unhealthy relationships (having a girlfriend or being married is not the solution to masturbation, I have met married men still battling with it), have a physical male mentor that can monitor your progress and not condemn you, finally and most importantly, GIVE YOUR LIFE TO CHRIST....do these and I promise you won't even have an erection in as long as you desire. 1 Like |
Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by Kennybh: 10:36am On Sep 12, 2021 |
Repent, give your life to Christ and abstain from watching pornography. I was once like you. But now I'm free. My case started went I met a lady I so much admire and love, which I propose to her to marry her, which she accepted, but the marriage could not hold, because of her wayward life, I left her, But when ever I remember her I will start masturbating, even though I have not known woman, I remove my mind from her and also call a pastor that pray for me. That was how God delivered me. |
Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by Draslo(m): 10:38am On Sep 12, 2021 |
SeyiFargo:Get a fuvking girlfriend 1 Like |
Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by Memberclub(m): 10:38am On Sep 12, 2021 |
No cure |
Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by Joecrane(f): 10:39am On Sep 12, 2021 |
Please watch this on YouTube and you will get help. Masturbation is a killer. This video will solve your problem https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-3Vdg7oIg4A SeyiFargo: |
Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by Lawmak: 10:40am On Sep 12, 2021 |
SeyiFargo: *Set achievable goals and be focused *Stop being alone most often *Be focused in life *Stop pornography - this shit is demonic *Ask God for grace all the time *Watch Joseph Okechukwu videos on pornography on you tube. Helpfully indeed. Your eyes will open. You will stop it. I pray that God who saved me from it will as well save you too. Finally, Incase you are a Catholic, say your Rosary daily. The Blessed Virgin Mary knows how to deal with such things. If you are not I advise that you respectfully acknowledge her and talk to her concerning pornography. She will help you. BEAR IT IN MIND THAT MASTURBATION JUST LIKE ANYOTHER ADDICTION CAN BE STOPPED. MANY PEOPLE STOPPED THEIRS. I STOPPED MINE BY HIS GRACE. SO BEAR IN MIND THAT YIU CAN STOP IT TOO. THAT SHIT IS DEMONIC, I BECAME A CONSOLIDATED MILLIONAIRE WHEN I STOPPED IT. 1 Like |
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