anastasius:

Kudos but
why not a guy? I am not comfortable with you adopting a female. Make thunder strike you to death if you ever molest her

TMTR:


Yes she is already in primary one , she is doing great

Limassol:
Chilax lady! Did you notice in another thread where this guy is boasting he earns in $$? His ways are dubius. Let him come clean else no one will take him seriously. Not even in the US young people adopt kids(op was 25 when he made the move), it's odd and questionable. Do you even know the cost of succesfully raising a child and giving that child a memorable childhood? Even people in rich people countries think twice about this before making the move. Think about this. Being gullibe leads to regrets!

I wish y'all can see how I am laughing real hard over here because of this comment.

So because I earn in dollars ,then I must be dubious. Mehn come on and I don't what you are yapping about me coming clean , come clean about what exactly

And don't worry about my financial capabilities of raising her cause that's the least of my worries

WUdec:


Good to hear. Daddies like us love stories like these.

Keep us posted. Never mind the childish morons in here that make the majority

Kobojunkie:
1. Marriage is not for everyone, even God said this.

2. What is so special about having your own kids?

3. There are children out here already in need of the same exact love and attention you intend to give your own kids. Why not give to these one's already here instead? Are they nor worth it?

WoundedLamb:


That's a noble cause. I wish you the success you desire!

Mrsoft3:
1.When did God ever said don't marry?
God said multiple and replenish

pocohantas:


After all the hearts you done break? You must marry and collect enough breakfast o. You must marry Zicoraads.

WoundedLamb:


Getting married is a choice and if you don't want to, it's perfectly okay. However, whatever you do, don't be a wayward father. The child's self esteem will stem from how you treat women. Let her know that there's more to life that being a good wife. Tell her that regardless of her gender, she can be anything she wants to be in life. Tell her that it's not cool to refer to women as "bitches", "vagina people" or "that gender" cause they are human as we are. Tell her to always voice her opinion even in a society where it doesn't seem to count. Tell her to look beyond the stigmatization of Nigerian girls and pursue her dreams head-on. Tell her to be careful with the boy child but know that he's not an enemy.

TMTR:


I wish y'all can see how I am laughing real hard over here because of this comment.

So because I earn in dollars ,then I must be dubious. Mehn come on and I don't what you are yapping about me coming clean , come clean about what exactly

And don't worry about my financial capabilities of raising her cause that's the least of my worries

Imustnottalk:
Op can we see her picture you can blur her face .I will love to adopt one day maybe African Americans kids I love them .lol

FarmTech:

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This isn't a good idea oo. [b]Sinners can't differentiate many rights from wrong. It takes maturity in Christ to do that. [/b]Eg many sinners sees nothing wrong with immodesty, seductive behaviors, dirty songs, jokes and movies etc. Argue with them all u like, they don't see these as wrong.
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That girl will soon grow and controlling her will become difficult or impossible. No matter how much she loves u, she won't listen to ur advice and warnings. And she will dabble into sex.
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Look around and see all the bad influence in the society today. U need Christ to train her the right way.
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Hebrews 5:14: But solid food is for the mature, who by constant use have trained themselves to distinguish good from evil.

Mrsoft3:




When did God ever said don't marry?



God said multiple and replenish

TMTR:


Lol, I was expecting a comment like this and I wasn't disappointed, like I said in my earlier thread,
'I no fit for baby mama wahala'

Well I considered that option but I thought about it and was like nah, maybe later in the future but definitely not now.

And about my thing not working hahaha
Bring ya sister to come spend a night with me, she go testify give you in the morning about the marvelous work of my thing

TMTR:


Lol, I was expecting a comment like this and I wasn't disappointed, like I said in my earlier thread,
'I no fit for baby mama wahala'

Well I considered that option but I thought about it and was like nah, maybe later in the future but definitely not now.

And about my thing not working hahaha
Bring ya sister to come spend a night with me, she go testify give you in the morning about the marvelous work of my thing

Remag666:
No man I just took that picture in BOOA
Do I look familiar? Perhaps we've met on campus

anastasius:

Na... Just recognised the surrounding. Stupid school

TMTR:


yeah right but I did it , though it wasn't easy
Sometimes though the orphanage pays us a visit to check up on her and they can testify that she is doing great.

Put her in the best school I can find in my state, the school that she attends is also being attented by children and relatives of politicians in my state of residence , trust me she is living the life of a princess

The orphanage are now the ones telling me to adopt more but I am like nah for now maybe later in the future

So no stress

WoundedLamb:


Getting married is a choice and if you don't want to, it's perfectly okay. However, whatever you do, don't be a wayward father. The child's self esteem will stem from how you treat women. Let her know that there's more to life that being a good wife. Tell her that regardless of her gender, she can be anything she wants to be in life. Tell her that it's not cool to refer to women as "bitches", "vagina people" or "that gender" cause they are human as we are. Tell her to always voice her opinion even in a society where it doesn't seem to count. Tell her to look beyond the stigmatization of Nigerian girls and pursue her dreams head-on. Tell her to be careful with the boy child but know that he's not an enemy.

Kobojunkie:
Which civilized society would that be?

mariahAngel:
Are you the same as Kobojunkiee?

Kobojunkiee:
Yep!

TMTR:


I wish y'all can see how I am laughing real hard over here because of this comment.

So because I earn in dollars ,then I must be dubious. Mehn come on and I don't what you are yapping about me coming clean , come clean about what exactly

And don't worry about my financial capabilities of raising her cause that's the least of my worries

TMTR:

Hello, good day ,

https://www.nairaland.com/4538476/want-adopt-child

y'all remember the thread I created back in 2018 ,well I did succeed adopting a child, I adopted her from a orphanage and I will say my experience during the process of adopting her was really difficult than I Imagined, first I was a single young guy not even in my mid twenties yet and I had tattoos and lil tjay and lil baby kind of hair styles (those familiar with them will know the kind of hair style I am talking about ) oh mhen the stereotyping was off the roof, what did they not say, is it been called a ritualist , mhen I was suffered by the abusive words that was unleashed on me by all those women but I didn't relent and finally after everything I succeeded,

At one point , I wanted to go with my mum at least to show that I had no ulterior motive but then again I thought to myself, you can do this on your own and I am glad I overcame.

I began the process in mid 2018 and it was not until it late 2018 that my application was granted, I then proceeded with the rest formalities and I took my daughter home, she was 3 when I adopted her .

The first thing I did when we got home was to change her wardrobe, I took her shopping and bought two big boxes filled with clothes and shoes, also bought some female toys and other stuffs.

She was shy at first around me but with time ,she got used to me and became more free with me.

Mehn I must say so far adopting her was one of the best decision I have ever made in my life , I even tattooed her name on my arm, made me more responble in a way

And also in addition, chicks dig babies, like babies are like ladies' magnet. I never believe those statements to be true till I got my baby, like mehn you need to see the attention I get because of her, I mean we get because of her.

Don't get me wrong, ladies trip and drool over me before she came into my life but the amount of attention I get before her more than doubled . Before y'all start thinking this is the major reason I am happy I adopted her , let it be known that this is the least reason why I am happy..

All-in all she is God's blessings to me and I bless the day that I made the decision in adopting her.

She is such an Angel and a darling

I love her so much

Fatherhood is sweet

KIDDRICAsHAWK:
Munzy14 and Zicoraads

Zicoraads, I don pick asoebi for your wedding. I dey wait for you to bring the bride

Mrsoft3:



Why don't you want to get married?
Why don't you want to have your own child?


Why choosing to adopt?