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Re: Should I Wait For My Girlfriend Who's In 300L To Finish While Am Already 34yrs ? by Ramanto(m): 7:17am On Sep 12, 2021 |
Kadejo:Please, don't waste your time with her. Everybody is selfish in this life, she'll leave you when she sees a better man. She can be married while schooling, many ladies do that for men they love. Try and have a backup plan 1 Like |
Re: Should I Wait For My Girlfriend Who's In 300L To Finish While Am Already 34yrs ? by Sirmuel1(m): 8:03am On Sep 12, 2021 |
BigBashiru: Younger Girls are good and sweet...but they are only good as a Girlfriend or side chick... Even if he needs to marry a 25yrs, She should be out of School and working already |
Re: Should I Wait For My Girlfriend Who's In 300L To Finish While Am Already 34yrs ? by Nobody: 8:23am On Sep 12, 2021 |
Parizz: says who, from the earlies till 80's most of our mothers married before 25yrs and they make a wonder wife and maintain their homes till date. moreover, omotola married captain b4 she was 20yrs and amara married kanu when she was merely 18yrs. I am not advocating for child/teen marriage, buh my notion remains maturity for ladies no be by age or independence. what are the things women do in a man's house that requires mental capacity, is it chores, breastfeeding & nursing a baby or bedmatics ... all these are natural capacity that why a mad woman can still nurse her baby and not kill the baby The requisite to survive in a marriage is commitment, contentment and tolerance. 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Wait For My Girlfriend Who's In 300L To Finish While Am Already 34yrs ? by Nobody: 8:36am On Sep 12, 2021 |
Raalsalghul: whether poverty level is high or not, the poor will marry just as the rich also marry ... time wait for nobody just don't carry weytin pass you as a man. moreover no condition is permanent so many super rich couples started off with nothing. in 2010 i av a bros that got married without a job, his parent were the ones sorting him, i go look am do tufiakwa buh today the bro owns two houses in lagos plus cars. one can never say just have a means to carter for responsibility @least |
Re: Should I Wait For My Girlfriend Who's In 300L To Finish While Am Already 34yrs ? by Kaluoko: 8:44am On Sep 12, 2021 |
Marriage no be for everybody.marrying at 29 30 is late.jux say country hard na why naija men dey marry late. Vinnie2000: |
Re: Should I Wait For My Girlfriend Who's In 300L To Finish While Am Already 34yrs ? by sandra50(f): 8:56am On Sep 12, 2021 |
My dear you are very wrong..why are you asking me if he should pick any girl from the street and marry?did you mention that he wants to pick just any girl?how can you advice a man of 34 years to wait so such a girl?with strikes he has like 5 years to wait for this girl which will make him 39 to 40 years then?what is it about the girl really?a girl that wants to do girls things(what ever that means)before getting married.. I don't blame the girl for wanting these things but she is not the right person for this guy at the moment..if you had advised the guy to get something that pays more before getting married it would have been better but the guy mentioned that he does business too so the salary is not a problem..he should get involved with someone else.. Vinnie2000: 1 Like |
Re: Should I Wait For My Girlfriend Who's In 300L To Finish While Am Already 34yrs ? by Ynix(m): 8:58am On Sep 12, 2021 |
Kadejo:forget about her and move on |
Re: Should I Wait For My Girlfriend Who's In 300L To Finish While Am Already 34yrs ? by Parizz: 8:59am On Sep 12, 2021 |
dominique:probably |
Re: Should I Wait For My Girlfriend Who's In 300L To Finish While Am Already 34yrs ? by EzePaschal(m): 9:09am On Sep 12, 2021 |
Kadejo:From my experience with women, she's not ready because she feels you aren't ready. She's giving you time to develop and build yourself which is very okay. She doesn't want to pressure you. You are the one pressuring yourself. Less than 70k is too low to start a family in Nigeria now except you live in the far north. She knows you earn below what she really want. Believe me if you are very comfortable and earn well she won't say that. She will marry you tomorrow if you want. Don't think she doesn't love you or only concern about money. Her refusal shows she does. She doesn't want you to run mad. I don't know where you live but earning below 70k and making attempt to marry a student that doesn't earn anything; a total responsibility her parents would hand over to you once you pay her pride price is suicidal |
Re: Should I Wait For My Girlfriend Who's In 300L To Finish While Am Already 34yrs ? by Raalsalghul: 9:45am On Sep 12, 2021 |
VTJN: I like your thought process. |
Re: Should I Wait For My Girlfriend Who's In 300L To Finish While Am Already 34yrs ? by Blackdisciple(m): 9:45am On Sep 12, 2021 |
Well I hope she will come to you after she complete her school, cos girls feels vultron on their guy after school . May God help you. |
Re: Should I Wait For My Girlfriend Who's In 300L To Finish While Am Already 34yrs ? by Blackdisciple(m): 9:49am On Sep 12, 2021 |
Iyaebe: Am telling you bro after school she will be forming Vultron on him, he better move on oo 1 Like |
Re: Should I Wait For My Girlfriend Who's In 300L To Finish While Am Already 34yrs ? by Kraytur: 9:50am On Sep 12, 2021 |
I have never and will Never marry a Nigerian My mindset has always been to Marry an American And that’s what happened some days back Congrats to me I’m a Nigerian American now |
Re: Should I Wait For My Girlfriend Who's In 300L To Finish While Am Already 34yrs ? by Nobody: 9:51am On Sep 12, 2021 |
Kadejo:I really pity you my bro. Scarcity mentality is heavy upon you because of your financial situation. A woman who loves you is EAGER. Always remember that. The person you are with right now values you as low as your income is but you are attached to her because you're scared about losing her, knowing how women these days are objects that gravitate towards the best source of financial incentives. I would advice you to accept your reality and stop looking for love from Nigerian women. They have none to give. Work hard on yourself to secure a bag and acquire a better and more submissive version of this your girl who you can control with your money and who will show you EAGERNESS. A woman giving you conditions is never the way to go |
Re: Should I Wait For My Girlfriend Who's In 300L To Finish While Am Already 34yrs ? by Nobody: 9:52am On Sep 12, 2021 |
Kraytur:If this is true you're blessed. I keep saying I can never marry a Nigerian woman. Never ever |
Re: Should I Wait For My Girlfriend Who's In 300L To Finish While Am Already 34yrs ? by Raalsalghul: 9:57am On Sep 12, 2021 |
pocohantas: What do you mean by "The major attraction to an older man is his FINANCIAL CAPABILITY"? Why are you twisting the obvious? |
Re: Should I Wait For My Girlfriend Who's In 300L To Finish While Am Already 34yrs ? by MummyD2020(f): 10:00am On Sep 12, 2021 |
Parizz: I beg to defer. It is not rocket science to know that being old is relative. A 40 year old woman will give birth to 10 kids if not careful. While the 20 year old lady will find it difficult to conceive. Age slows down fertility quite alright but, it is not a guarantee to have sex recklessly just cos one might not conceive due to age. Some people whether we like it or not are more fertile. A fifty year old that still menstruate will conceive than someone mush more younger. FERTILITY DOES NOT RESPECT AGE |
Re: Should I Wait For My Girlfriend Who's In 300L To Finish While Am Already 34yrs ? by Cudjoe360(m): 10:03am On Sep 12, 2021 |
no be juju be that |
Re: Should I Wait For My Girlfriend Who's In 300L To Finish While Am Already 34yrs ? by Kraytur: 10:12am On Sep 12, 2021 |
crownedrookie: I’m talking September 3 2021 I got married to my American fiancé here in Nigeria |
Re: Should I Wait For My Girlfriend Who's In 300L To Finish While Am Already 34yrs ? by VTJN(m): 10:21am On Sep 12, 2021 |
Raalsalghul:Thanks bro |
Re: Should I Wait For My Girlfriend Who's In 300L To Finish While Am Already 34yrs ? by iamL(f): 6:53pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
Kraytur: Same with me. I always known I will never marry a Nigerian man. Thank God am already on the path I just pray God finalize everything. |
Re: Should I Wait For My Girlfriend Who's In 300L To Finish While Am Already 34yrs ? by BigBashiru: 7:13pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
Ramanto:you are right... and many girls have back up plans too... thats why once they end things with one guy next week you will hear she has her wedding coming up... cos she had had a back up plan all along. |
Re: Should I Wait For My Girlfriend Who's In 300L To Finish While Am Already 34yrs ? by Alexandre7: 1:23am On Sep 13, 2021 |
pocohantas: You no well… |
Re: Should I Wait For My Girlfriend Who's In 300L To Finish While Am Already 34yrs ? by cathodekazim: 1:26am On Sep 13, 2021 |
Yes ooo But what are you waiting for when we have loads of babes here in E n V https://www.nairaland.com/6410473/hottest-whatsapp-group-nigeria-200#98963227 |
Re: Should I Wait For My Girlfriend Who's In 300L To Finish While Am Already 34yrs ? by asunmoGGMU(m): 6:09am On Sep 13, 2021 |
Raalsalghul: Go and dissolve the marriage of those that married collecting 50k salary. Even those ones that have grown to now be collecting times ten of that. While you are at it, start from your own people before the outside world. By the way, I don't know where you got your 30k salary. Is it that you've someone earning that amount that is married? |
Re: Should I Wait For My Girlfriend Who's In 300L To Finish While Am Already 34yrs ? by pocohantas(f): 8:44am On Sep 13, 2021 |
Alexandre7: I don’t trust this your laugh. |
Re: Should I Wait For My Girlfriend Who's In 300L To Finish While Am Already 34yrs ? by Kraytur: 8:50am On Sep 13, 2021 |
iamL: No no the men are ok is the Women that are terrible I haven’t met you o but if you’re seeking love overseas then good for you but Nigerian women in general omooooo X 100 |
Re: Should I Wait For My Girlfriend Who's In 300L To Finish While Am Already 34yrs ? by Nobody: 9:01am On Sep 13, 2021 |
dominique: Honestly we should have just stuck to our parent's old ways of arranged marriage. This thing called keeping options open is good & bad at the same time. This is what I have noticed, you meet a lady around 21 - 28, you ask her if she is single, she says Yes. 99% of the time they are never single, they are in a relationship / situationship but just waiting for someone richer & better to come along. 99% of Lekki Rich boys aren't interested in settling down too, they keep their eyes open for ladies that are exploring a more financially stable man. In reality, we all end up dating about 3 to 5 Men or Women at the same time. Then disappointing all of them & choosing one to settle with. 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Wait For My Girlfriend Who's In 300L To Finish While Am Already 34yrs ? by iamL(f): 4:31pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
Kraytur: I rather marry an Afghanistan man than a Nigerian man, the men here generally are are 0-0. |
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