Are You Still Doing This Bad Thing?

Calm down, my good friend.

Are you still complaining about lots of things? If yes, my advice is for you to stop and start taking actions to better your life.

Complaint is noise, but action is progress.

Though, there are some progress you can only make after you've complained. Like bad leadership, dirtiness of someone close to you, etc.

Things concerning your life, lack of money, academic stress, rejection, relationship, physique, health, failures in different things, etc. don't complain.

You're not the only one who has failed in several things. Just tell yourself it will be fine one day and keep pushing without beating yourself.

Failure is an opportunity for a big success with lots of past experiences as bonus.

Success without experience is luck. Don't live your life hoping on luck. Let luck be a bonus to your good and bad experiences.

Some people have written movies curled from their past stories of multiple failures in different endeavors that generated them millions of Dollars.

Some have even written books or songs from their past failures. They put the stories together and turn them to captivating books or songs and from there, money starts coming. Timaya use this approach.

Captivate the people with your past, pains, or wisdom which ends up solving their problems and money will come. Problem solved could be something simple like moodiness.

A song like "I Can't Kill Myself," could come up and boom, you start singing along and forget about your worries for now. Timaya will end up making money for temporarily taking you off your bad mood.

Rejection, failure, or oppression does not exist. Don't get me wrong — they do exist, but your mindset can make them not to exist and this is strength.

Without strength, you can't make progress. It could be mental or physical strength.

Complaining too much drains your strength, except it's a strategy to get attention and convert the attention to money. Confession: I use this type myself, but deep down, nothing is bothering me.

Did you see how Laycon kept quiet when Erica was complaining? That is strength.

When you finally don't see rejection, failure, or oppression, you've started SEEING CLEARLY and this leads to wealth.

I was having a chat with someone on my previous post and he talked about going into fraud because of oppression, but I told him something and I'd like you to read it and enlighten yourself.

Below is what he said:

Typing...

ThinkForMyself:

I can't, the oppression is too much here

And below is what I replied him.

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Read this short story and have a rethink. Lemme type fast and focus on this Arsenal match that's about to start.

Listen, even when I was broke, I don't notice oppression. In fact, it doesn't exist. When I was abroad, I also don't notice racism.

I'm so confident in my myself even when I'm broke, the dumbest, or the ugliest among others.

I don't look down or belittle myself except I'm just using it to catch cruise.

I guess I have superiority complex and that's why what others do don't move me. I always have "better days ahead," mentality.

Some years ago, I went to the beach in this particular country (we were expecting Akon to come perform) and I saw this pretty Asian girl (dressed like Liquorose of BBNaija) with no ass.

She was with younger and prettier girls of about 18 and above and I had interest in one of them, but I need to win the tomboy over first.

I started by requesting to take a picture with her group of gorgeous girls.

While we were taking the pictures, she didn't want my body to touch hers. It was too obvious.

After the picture, I tried to break into her group, but she protected her girls and the way she did it, a black man with low self-esteem will see her as a racist and someone who doesn't like black people.

To me, I didn't see her as a racist, but a butch lesbian who is protecting her haram and she's doing the right thing. If I was in her shoe, I'd do the same no matter your race.

If a girl rejects me, I don't feel bad. I always put myself in the current boyfriend's shoe. If I was him, will I be happy my girl accepts everyone who approaches her? No. I'm good at finding peace in a hot environment.

So, there are ways not to feel bad when it seems you're being oppressed, rejected, sidelined, etc.

It's all about mindset. I knew I'll be rich and wealthy one day, even though I was currently broke. So, I started acting as if I'm already living my future life today and it skyrocketed my confidence and this confidence is what I use to push through obstacles and challenging moments.

Mind you, I'm not rich and wealthy yet (maybe I am) but knowing that I'll be is more than enough to keep me focused and unbothered about other people's riches and flaunting. Instead, I see them as my colleagues, not oppressors or competitors.

Mindset matters, it bring you peace of mind and wealth. Every other things is a distraction

It's not bad to complain once in a while, but complaining too much is bad. If you must complain too much, then put it in a song like Timaya, put them in a book like Joe Cléf, or convert them to movies. Simple.

You sabi advice.. but everything go still end with your book matter..

Longsleeve:
You sabi advice.. but everything go still end with your book matter..

Where would you want it to end? Searching for a job?

iLegendd:


Where would you want it to end? Searching for a job?

Instead of keeping us in suspense or wasting our reading time.. Sir
Just go straight to advertise the book so we can rest .

So, thanks for your indirect compliment. I appreciate, but unfortunately, you can't afford any of my books. Use that money to buy food. A hungry man is an angry lion.

Lol

Longsleeve:

Instead of keeping us in suspense or wasting our reading time.. Sir
Just go straight to advertise the book so we can rest .

Oh, I didn't know I forced you to read my post. Sorry for forcing you. In advanced countries, you have the right to sue me for forcing you to do what you didn't want to do.

By the way, it's an honor to know you always read my posts from start to finish. It means my copywriting skill is topnotch. My books are even more addictive to read.

Getting lazy Nigerians hooked to read a long post is not easy. Most will prefer to watch porn or football to reading a long post online. I consider getting you hooked as an achievement. It's not easy, especially in this new age filled with too many fun distractions that are better than reading.

So, thanks for your indirect compliment. I appreciate, but unfortunately, you can't afford any of my books. Use that money to buy food. A hungry man is an angry lion.

You don't even know deliberating on my books is another form of advertisement. I don't intend to advertise anything on this post — it's purely an advice thread, but replying you alone is already an advertisement.

Please note, I'm watching football — I won't reply you again.

Download link of the free versions.

1. https://shop.wetclef.com/download-chatdìcted/

2. https://shop.wetclef.com/download-lasticle/

3. https://shop.wetclef.com/blog/2019/05/30/download-mr-friendzone/

Ilegend, which coin will u advice someone to buy now?

iLegendd:


And below is what I replied him.

...

Read this short story and have a rethink. Lemme type fast and focus on this Arsenal match that's about to start.

Listen, even when I was broke, I don't notice oppression. In fact, it doesn't exist. When I was abroad, I also don't notice racism.

I'm so confident in my myself even when I'm broke, the dumbest, or the ugliest among others.

I don't look down or belittle myself except I'm just using it to catch cruise.

I guess I have superiority complex and that's why what others do don't move me. I always have "better days ahead," mentality.

Some years ago, I went to the beach in this particular country (we were expecting Akon to come perform) and I saw this pretty Asian girl (dressed like Liquorose of BBNaija) with no ass.

She was with younger and prettier girls of about 18 and above and I had interest in one of them, but I need to win the tomboy over first.

I started by requesting to take a picture with her group of gorgeous girls.

While we were taking the pictures, she didn't want my body to touch hers. It was too obvious.

After the picture, I tried to break into her group, but she protected her girls and the way she did it, a black man with low self-esteem will see her as a racist and someone who doesn't like black people.

To me, I didn't see her as a racist, but a butch lesbian who is protecting her haram and she's doing the right thing. If I was in her shoe, I'd do the same no matter your race.

If a girl rejects me, I don't feel bad. I always put myself in the current boyfriend's shoe. If I was him, will I be happy my girl accepts everyone who approaches her? No. I'm good at finding peace in a hot environment.

So, there are ways not to feel bad when it seems you're being oppressed, rejected, sidelined, etc.

It's all about mindset. I knew I'll be rich and wealthy one day, even though I was currently broke. So, I started acting as if I'm already living my future life today and it skyrocketed my confidence and this confidence is what I use to push through obstacles and challenging moments.

Mind you, I'm not rich and wealthy yet (maybe I am) but knowing that I'll be is more than enough to keep me focused and unbothered about other people's riches and flaunting. Instead, I see them as my colleagues, not oppressors or competitors.

Mindset matters, it bring you peace of mind and wealth. Every other things is a distraction

Think4Myself:

I know why you're laughing.

You know, since I wrote it, I have the right to copy and paste as many times as I want without permission. That's the power of creating content from scratching (intellectual property).

everglaze01:
Ilegend, which coin will u advice someone to buy now?

Buy now? I don't like advising people on that, so I'll skip, but buy later, the answer is here https://www.nairaland.com/6809683/crypto-20-cryptocurrency-buy-during

Above, I told a story of how I didn't see what the Asian girl did as racism. Some minutes ago, I was watching some short videos on YouTube and a video of Lil Wayne popped up and he said he doesn't know what racism is.

Wow! This is exactly the kind of mindset I have. Lack of confidence or inferiority complex is the reason some blacks see any little rejection from a white person as racism.

So, it's all about mindset. Even though we all know racism exists, your mindset will make it not to exist and you'll have peace of mind without malevolence against other races. Peace of mind is expensive, so do everything possible to afford it.

Wait a minute! It seems Google is spying on me. Whatever I'm thinking, even without typing it on my browser, Google and YouTube seem suggest videos or posts relating to that thing. This is not about cookies or using my browsing history or FB feeds.

Artificial intelligence will cause trouble soon.

So, to me, racism does not exist — wicked or frustrated people do.

iLegendd:


Artificial intelligence will cause trouble soon.

AI is going crazy bro. It's amazing though. But, I think we have this chip or bug in our devices that reads our mind. Coupled with the fact that websites and app collect our data and more.

Then, companies like Google and all use the data collected to serve us or spy on us.

By the way, did you see my last post on aurox on your last thread?

@iLegend, please can one send money from naira bank account, or a debit/credit card to transferwise?

SportsHD:

AI is going crazy bro. It's amazing though. But, I think we have this chip or bug in our devices that reads our mind. Coupled with the fact that websites and app collect our data and more.

Then, companies like Google and all use the data collected to serve us or spy on us.

By the way, did you see my last post on aurox on your last thread?

No, I didn't.

FunNoStrings:
@iLegend, please can one send money from naira bank account, or a debit/credit card to transferwise?

Yes