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Re: My Wife Is Always Sad Whenever I Send Money To My Family by Imoobot(m): 11:35am On Oct 28, 2021 |
Guy Try and act matured Maturity is the ability not to lie but not to tell the truth. So in order to avoid issues and complications, keep quiet were neccessary. |
Re: My Wife Is Always Sad Whenever I Send Money To My Family by hope4nigeria(m): 11:35am On Oct 28, 2021 |
officialmario:those women you see, you don't love them to the extent of stupidity, why will you as a man allow woman to know your financial status? Who thus that? Only simps, even your mother won't be happy spending much cash on your wife, that's how God created those creature. It's you who need to act like a man. If I send money to my mum, my wife will never know, if I'm doing something for my wife, I don't tell my family. Enjoy a happy home, you need to be smart about it. Even if my wife give me fund to do business, I'm still the Man, I'm not under any obligation to give her details of how I spent, all I need is to manage resources well 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Always Sad Whenever I Send Money To My Family by Lacash: 11:36am On Oct 28, 2021 |
officialmario:Well since it’s like that, my advise is that You must learn to practice hide and seek game, I believe you should be able to decode that |
Re: My Wife Is Always Sad Whenever I Send Money To My Family by Mach16: 11:37am On Oct 28, 2021 |
garriAndsugar: This ain't greed, I would have said witchcraft but she's his woman and it's not my place to disrespect her 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Always Sad Whenever I Send Money To My Family by Munzy14(m): 11:38am On Oct 28, 2021 |
tyup:Lol...Some women do over step boundaries atimes... |
Re: My Wife Is Always Sad Whenever I Send Money To My Family by Blackdisciple(m): 11:39am On Oct 28, 2021 |
Hmmmm, so even as you do send to her mum too she's still frowning when you send to your mum.... Am telling you when ever your mum visits she will want to treat ya mum bad. Then you will have to hide some things from her like sending cash home and so on. Na her type they say mother inlaw na winch 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Always Sad Whenever I Send Money To My Family by sunnyphem(m): 11:40am On Oct 28, 2021 |
Who knows... May be your mother is also reaping what she did many years ago... Life drama .. karma is bitc 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Always Sad Whenever I Send Money To My Family by CSTR2: 11:42am On Oct 28, 2021 |
JustforMen:She is wicked. She gives to her own people, but does not want you to give to yours. She wants the husband family to lack. That is wickedness. There are no two names to call it. The option is to ignore her and do what you want to do. Personally I can't marry any woman with traces of wickedness and selfishness. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Always Sad Whenever I Send Money To My Family by brownemmanuel43(m): 11:42am On Oct 28, 2021 |
officialmario:No wonder they say, name represent one. Your name alone shows how simp u are 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Always Sad Whenever I Send Money To My Family by tyup(m): 11:43am On Oct 28, 2021 |
TheOnlyUyai: Funny enough I'm among those guys that condemn beating women in a strong Lang. from experience and past relationship of my guys and mine, I've come to understand Ladies don't respect/rate guys who would give their all to make their woman happy or satisfy her needs on ur assertion that no woman will stay with me, Lmao I've got like three on my neck and it's just my principles they have to abide to. and over time, each parties have always learn respected themselves. Besides, I'm not as Rude as you feel 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Always Sad Whenever I Send Money To My Family by CSTR2: 11:44am On Oct 28, 2021 |
There are kind and lovely women out there. Women with the heart of Angels. But you say na karashika you want marry because she get big nyansh. Well, that is the result. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Always Sad Whenever I Send Money To My Family by QuickStandard: 11:46am On Oct 28, 2021 |
officialmario: I didn't want to comment, but everything you're saying is irritating me to be honest. Just pause for a second and read what you wrote above. I don't want to take it personal, cos it's none of my business. But stop behaving like a SIMP. You are not the first to be married and love their wives. We all do, but don't be a slave. Ask yourself this question, if your wife was the one working and the equation was turned. Will she send money to your parents or give you upkeep? Without telling the whole world how useless of a husband you are? 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Always Sad Whenever I Send Money To My Family by Brunosamel(m): 11:46am On Oct 28, 2021 |
officialmario:Don't be a weak man don't be manipulated by her accum you are her husband you are in charge don't let your wife ruin your relationship with your family. Had it mean it her family will she will act the same way... This how a rich man who has been in the US didn't empowered any of his family members and was able to take everyone of his wife family members out to united states at the end the wife dumb him and chase him out of his house in US now he is back in village and now a laughing stock he doesn't have a say in the village... Stop telling your wife every thing especially your finances 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Always Sad Whenever I Send Money To My Family by einsteine(m): 11:47am On Oct 28, 2021 |
These days, na mumu dey marry because what kind of thing is this? You want to say you didn't notice this attitude of hers before marrying her? These are the type of women who prefer to marry a man whose mother is late. They forget they will be mother in law's some days. You even send her family money. Wow. No wonder people steal these days. It's not your responsibility to send her parents money. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Always Sad Whenever I Send Money To My Family by AbijaJ: 11:47am On Oct 28, 2021 |
officialmario: The solution to your problem is this (I've been in your shoes so I know what I'm saying). Develop a habit of having what I would call 'ME' money (that is, money that is your own money that you can freely spend without even your wife knowing about). It can be set aside in a separate bank account that your wife has no access to. It should also be money that is part of your own financial contribution to the family. You can also encourage your wife to also have her own ME money even, for the sake of peace. You are a man and the head of your household, which ordinarily confers on you certain privileges and right to such privacy. You must first ensure that you meet all your financial obligations to your wife and kids though; after settling all such bills, she should have no business knowing how you choose to spend your ME money. Put your foot down if you must, to assert your right to spending that ME money at your own discretion without her prying eyes. It is from such money you should be sending money to your mom. Problem solved. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Always Sad Whenever I Send Money To My Family by redcliff: 11:49am On Oct 28, 2021 |
some men are simps. hear wetin person dey talk.... 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Always Sad Whenever I Send Money To My Family by Yadid(m): 11:49am On Oct 28, 2021 |
How do you think your mum will feel if she knows that your wife is always aware of whatever you send to her? How will you feel if you ask one of your siblings for money and he tells you he needs to inform his wife firstly? There is no one size fits all principle here though. Whatever works for each couple. I know couples who send money to their parents without keeping each other in the dark. Looks like your wife is the type that is best kept in the dark though. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Always Sad Whenever I Send Money To My Family by Sleekfingers: 11:49am On Oct 28, 2021 |
officialmario: Then don't tell her...simple as ABC........no woman can tell me, how to spend my money......she can be sending money to her parents too.......that's her business...... |
Re: My Wife Is Always Sad Whenever I Send Money To My Family by morule20(m): 11:50am On Oct 28, 2021 |
Some men go just dey behave like babies, u sent money to ur mother or ur siblings, u come they tell ur wife, say wetin happen? U must not tell ur wife everything.. forget about those married theories, there are things u keep for urself as man... |
Re: My Wife Is Always Sad Whenever I Send Money To My Family by toblosky(m): 11:51am On Oct 28, 2021 |
If your wife knew that you transferred money to your mum, not only you are a fool and simp, you are a complete idiot. You are not a man at all. We are not talking about your side chick or your sister sef, your mum. OMG, if only I can trace you I will give you a slap that can resurrect a dead man and reset a damaged brain. Anu 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Always Sad Whenever I Send Money To My Family by Bahamas95(m): 11:51am On Oct 28, 2021 |
Only a foolish man will say "I don't hide anything from my wife" Women are wired to be jealous, most of them just pretend about it.....No matter how you love your wife don't disclose everything to her to avoid problem. God gave us brains for a reason. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Always Sad Whenever I Send Money To My Family by Angrymode: 11:52am On Oct 28, 2021 |
You are married to a bad wife that wants to tear you out of your family to preferably hers. Don't secumb to that rubbish women of nowadays are fund of doing! Women must understand that a man clinging to his wife doesn't mean he is no longer part of his family. A man married a woman to form a family of his own that is still part of his father's family. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Always Sad Whenever I Send Money To My Family by Sleekfingers: 11:53am On Oct 28, 2021 |
officialmario: What responsibility....that's a wrong and poor mentality.....I can assist voluntarily....but demanding for money....kobo dem no go get.....anyway, my wife knows me....she can't bring that kinda craps on my table...... 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Always Sad Whenever I Send Money To My Family by Munzy14(m): 11:53am On Oct 28, 2021 |
OKOATA:There are times a man is blessed and he decides to be a blessing...To our old people..at least be a relief...it is not a must o, but I am pissed as to why the wife is carrying face. And if you check na full time house wife with entitlement mentality....God guide us biko.. Before you know it now, na I am not in the mood for bedroom just to frustrate the OP...smh 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Always Sad Whenever I Send Money To My Family by wizard01(m): 11:53am On Oct 28, 2021 |
officialmario: My brother it depends on how you started it, you have to live with it. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Always Sad Whenever I Send Money To My Family by Mgtow8: 11:53am On Oct 28, 2021 |
You deserve it all ,only simps let their wife know their Capital base.how can your wife even know you sent money to your siblings/parents not to even talk of challenging it. You deserve no pity ..DEATH TO SIMPS officialmario: 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Always Sad Whenever I Send Money To My Family by Munzy14(m): 11:55am On Oct 28, 2021 |
Sleekfingers: No be here we read where a family mandated a Son in-law to contribute money for one of their sons to marry..lmao Nothing we no go see for entitlements. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Always Sad Whenever I Send Money To My Family by Oluwasaudy(m): 11:57am On Oct 28, 2021 |
If your wife is always sad whenever you send money to your family members....it's not her fault bro..it's your fault...cos at a point in time you don downgrade your family for her face...and given her a bad notion or impression about your family....my wife dare not try it with me..even if she is sad...she keeps it to her inner self .....and if reverse is the car bro.... This is a sign that she will soon die if she keeps getting sad you sending money to your family.... Am sure she isn't only sad...she is depressed also ... officialmario: 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Always Sad Whenever I Send Money To My Family by sampsonub100: 11:57am On Oct 28, 2021 |
officialmario:Oga, it is not your responsibility to take care of your mother-in-law. You are just been generous,which is okay. As a man, you should be able to assert your authority in the home. Make your wife know that your mother is still your mother ,hence you are obligated to take care of her, her (your wife) feelings notwithstanding. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Always Sad Whenever I Send Money To My Family by brownemmanuel43(m): 11:58am On Oct 28, 2021 |
KimberlyWest:Op never u listen to this advice abeg, I take any God or God's beg u. If u should take this advice, your wife will lord u over and over. 3 Likes |
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