poweredcom:
Do you think Nigerian ladies have the audacity to propose to their lover....story when they are broke and purposeless and always in a relationship to milk the guy and jakpa to the next available man that can provide more

@womenareapess

Pataricatering:
lol - so she should wait for ten years with a man so that tou hypocrites will not be doing body count ? Apparently in your childish mind penis doesn't suffer only vagina ? Lol

Hyerin:


The question of reverse marriage proposal should be thrown at men so their opinions on that matter will be gauged. It has everything to do with gender roles because I'm pretty sure most men will not buy the idea and the potential for a change in dynamics in that marriage. Let's not act obtuse.

folake4u:


Abegi, Una too dey overdo.

Piptocoin:


on the bolded, this is why you miss the point again. not everything is always categorized either black or white...or either gender role or not.

BadRadio:
This is the Jet age, New discoveries are been made because people are deliberately choosing to think outside the box.

In my humble opinion I believe it is wrong to be in a relationship for too long, if you are ready for marriage as a lady and the person you are dating is too relaxed being in that relationship after 2 years without popping the question... you have two options

1. It's either you abandon that relationship and try it with someone else who's more purposeful

Or

2. Propose to him if you really like him and want u both to get married. It's not something to be shy about, life dosent give you what u want, life gives you what you demand. Go ahead and ask for it.

If he turns down your proposal without any cogent reason pls feel free to go.



My 2cents

cbrass:

well if something is of no value then no one will talk about it.
So you ladies are of great value and we just want to make things easier for you

Differentiate:

BadTv abi na badradio be your name this one no change the fact say you still stupid. I see wetin you do that day O but no worry we gather dey

Piptocoin:


oh...didn't realize that. thought you meant it in another sense. well, barring no impediments she may propose to him. guys and ladies of today have learnt to adapt in the shoes of each other if it facilitates attaining a common goal. if their common goal is to get married, why not? doesn't matter who does the proposal...she also has the choice of abandoning the relationship altogether if money will pose a major setback...and it will. no time to waste time.

BadRadio:
agboro how far

Differentiate:

Agboro kee you there weyrey

BadRadio:
alaye bawó?

bepositive11:


That lady was gambling. There are stories of women getting dumped after 8 years. It's better for a woman to value her time

hismerhill:
U dump him after 2yrs, start with anoda and the cycle continues. last last na ur body go hear am

bepositive11:


Exactly. Men and women are not and will never be the same

Opeyemiextra:
I understand and I'm just saying that there are those whose long term relationships still lead to marriage. But like you said, time is important for a lady. For most people, they stay because of what they have invested, whatever that is.

pocohantas:
The way una carry women matter for head ehn.

The only thing remaining is to tie double wrapper and start attending August Meeting.

Tufiakwa!

pansophist:


Why you come get sense today ?

DMerciful:
Men carry work for head, men carry football for head, men carry women for head, men carry children for head, men carry family for head.

You want dem to carry something for head?

Ok, wetin women carry for head only if not men?

By the way it seems for the first time you nor get wetin to say because you know say the Op is right!

pocohantas:


There is nothing right about his post because creating a thread on Nairaland is different from reality. How many men actually want to be proposed to? Is it not this same Nigeria we hear “na the wife marry am”? And this is not even a compliment, but an insult. Did your wife propose to you? If she did, can you say it with your full chest outside? Plz!

If you are tired of carrying those things, please drop them let us hear word.

DMerciful:
Una say una want equality, dem support una for it, una say una nor want.

You cannot approbate and reprobate at the same time!

pocohantas:


You should be telling yourselves that. The same way you all keep telling women to take over the mantle of provision, but will go ahead to give examples of virtuous women that bought family cars and told people their husbands bought it.

Monkey they work, baboon dey chop.

anoda:
why you gonna start with me!!!!

folake4u:


Nor be only

Pataricatering:
iys sad and gross becos you want it o be sad and gross .

TheUndercover:
They would rather waste their time in the relationship than propose to the man. Factors that would make a woman propose to a man:

- Menopause
- Societal discrimination
- High value man
- Over investment from the lady's part (she has much to lose in the relationship if it crashes)
- Lack of options



LOL! why should they? Isn't this all about equality? What a man can do, a woman can do better, eh?