ezugegere:


I don't have to like it. I don't have to do everything to please my wife, and she knows and accepts that. No matter how self-cleansing you think the vagina is, infection is still very common among ladies, not because they're promiscuous most times but because the chemistry of that region can very easily change. I don't play with what goes into my mouth.

I see your point bro

sisisioge:




Abi fa

Wallaihi fa.
You and MISSunderstand use the word 'fa' alot

Another advantage of dating before marriage.

Iyaebe:
Don't back off,it is your right to ask to be licked,cajole him into doing it,he will become an expert. Don't let this boys here talk you down.

Iyaebe can you calm down ? Wetin happen, you just carry the matter like gala..

To the Op she has made a huge mistake marrying that man (sorry for my bluntness) during courtship that’s when you test all systems not after saying I do..

Solution??

Just buy a Love Machine/sextoy seems she can afford it since you don’t wanna cheat only down side she won’t be ravaged: kisses sucking etc like she wants…

Unpopular opinion- if he has a good healthy heart and is not on any medication she should spike his food/drink with viagra in “normal” doses to see if he will improve

Parting shots careful asking him to eat you out all the time o b4 he begin put and 1& 2 together.. where this church girl learn all this bad bad things from

Well, sex is actually a two way street. If your husband isn’t doing something right, you can take charge and teach him a few things. You’re married, so there’s no need to play shy.

Try to kiss him as he’s never been kissed before. Next time tear off his undies, jump on top of him and give him the rides of his life. Trust me, he’ll try to improve once you begin to up your games. The problem with an average Naija woman is that they tend to be docile and expect the man to do all the work. It doesn’t work that way, babe.

Most men’s dream wife is a lady on the street and a slut in the bedroom. Go try it out and you’ll come back to thank me later.


O pari

Maryliola:
to me it’s not all about sex. It’s the kissing, touching, things you say, all the things that build up to the sex that makes it worthwhile. My body is not a rock I have needs and feelings, I work hard and take care of my home. But I want to be satisfied.

My dear, to start with you've insulted your husband by bringing this to the public with the 10 seconds talk that's absolutely wrong for a woman to say if she really wants to be with her husband, like you said you've never cheated on him and don't have the intention to do such.
You are to protect him and look for a solution privately.
Look for and mature and responsible lady and seek advise... Also your husband should avoid sugar.
Stick to him with time you'll enjoy him.

Should I tell you who created this thread?


The creator is zzzzoooor.....Iyaaaaebeee

She's also the first commenter and she has taken over the thread in the first page.

Since she no more gets attention, she decided to create a thread just for the attention.

I declare this thread fake, null and void!!!

SMFH spits!!!

juri:
Not wanting to mock you, but hoping others will learn a thin or two. Some important issues you raised are issues to have been addressed before marriage, such as MouthAction and whether a partner likes or detaste same.

Also, it is very important in a relationship that parties are sexually attracted to each other. Where this is absent in a relationship, there is no need going forward into a marital relationship with such a person. In a business or professional relationship, the romantic attraction will not be necessary and should be even Discouraged. It seems to me that the sexual attraction has not really been there from the start.

Giving you discription of sexual unatractivness, I also hope this person is not your blood relative like a brother etc that both of you may not yet even know. In our world today, this is very possible.

If you are sure the above is not true, backed with scientific evidence, then concerning your present situation, you need to stop the fantasizing, that is already infidelity on your part. There are natural ways your partner can be helped to last longer including the change of diets like stop taking suger, counting the number of trust/penetration as he pounds. For example, he does 10 shallow trust/penetrations with his cap/just the edge of the penis going inside only and then 1 full trust/penetration with the entire penis going in fully. Then 9 shallow trust followed by 2 full trust, then 8 shallow trust followed by 3 full trust, all in that revers order until you get to 10. You both need to discuss this and more options including exercises.

I believe a lot needs to be understood though. Like before you met him, what was your sexual past like. Bcs for example, someone who has slept with brick layer, several sexual drugs enhancement partners, in some cases even dogs or horses etc, should not expect her partner to match such a resume. I am just giving an instance here.

Hello Sir. You sound so versed in this subject. Are you a professional?

Athemisia:

Not lasting long in bed is more physiological. Most men don't know are to control their climax hence ending too soon.

Actually the most common cause of premature ejaculation is low levels of serotonin in the brain, a completely natural situation that occurs in certain people. But ignorant nairalanders will be talking about avoiding sugar and doing exercises when there are fit bodybuilders who experience PE.

Valuc:
Another advantage of dating before marriage.

Did she state that she didn't date before marriage.

Iyaebe:
Marriage is indeed complicated,this your story makes premarital sex looks important but however it's against God's commandments which brings the question on how do we know the sexual compatibility of a partner before marriage? I don't know what to say.

People need to realized that God that did not permit premarital sex is not a fool. God can cure all problems including that 10 seconds that she talked about to how she want it to. Because I have seen it happened before. What you need is a miracle.

It is for this reason that i wrote it but i guess maybe it is too erotic to make front page i dont know.

https://www.nairaland.com/3372650/satisfy-spouse-mind-blowing-intimacy-strictly#49695096

Lalasticlala is this thread not ideal for front page? If it is then no wahala[/quote]

IF IT HAS BEEN LIKE THIS FROM THE BEGINNING, AND YOU CLAIM YOU'VE TRIED SOME REMEDIES STILL NO SOLUTION.

I WOULD ADVISE
GET HIM 50MG VEGA PLUS AND OBSERVE THE EFFECT IF IT HELPS HIM THEN LET HIM USE IT ONCE IN A WHILE; LIKE 2ICE A WEEK. IF HE HAS WEIGHT LET HIM TAKE 100MG. BUT PLEASE THE FIRST DOSAGE SHOULD BE 50MG.

IF THIS DOESN'T WORK, THEN LET HIM STRENGTHEN THE MUSCLE THAT CONTROLS URINE; BY
NOT RUSHING TO WEE WHENEVER HE IS PRESSED
WEEING SLOWLY WHEN ITS TIME TO WEE AS IN ALLOW THE WEE TO FLOW THEN HOLD IT, ALLOW A LITTLE MORE THEN HOLD IT, CONTINUOUSLY, I BET YOU HE WILL START IMPROVING LITTLE BY LITTLE, UNTIL YOULL BE BEGGING HIM TO COME DOWN
THEN FOR YOU MONITOR HIS EXCITEMENT WHEN HE IS INSIDE YOU, STOP ROLLING YOU WAIST. AT THE BEGINNING TELL HIM IF HE FEELS LIKE EJACULATING, HE SHOULD STOP THRUSTING AND PULL OUT SLIGHTLY NOT COMPLETELY, WAIT FOR AWHILE AND CONTINUE. IF HE CAN PULL OUT ABOUT THREE TIMES THEM HE CAN STAY FOR ABOUT 30MINS
TRY THIS

Mouth action is a NO NO thing for me too, lasting in action has a solution, you both should think and work on that, don't let anything charter your home

Iyaebe:
Marriage is indeed complicated,this your story makes premarital sex looks important but however it's against God's commandments which brings the question on how do we know the sexual compatibility of a partner before marriage? I don't know what to say.

Marriage is a SCAM.

Iyaebe:
Premarital sex is not good but I'll device a means to know my partner's sexual ability, I can't keep myself this long while my partner starts behaving like ops partner in marriage.I want a partner that'll be active 24hrs and will overdose me,I don't want to ever have any yeye cravings inside marriage.My story will be what can I give my partner to reduce the too much urge for sex all the time.lol

Hmmmmmmmm.

What was your former username?

Klass99:
@ Maryliola, no judgment from me whatsoever.

Your fantasies/desires are valid and not out of place.

This your matter strong sha, seasoned married people will be in the best position to advise you.

But, know that you are not alone in this saga. My colleague has told me he knows a good number of married women in a similar situation.

Their hubbies don't do ora.l sex and they don't satisfy them in bed either. Sex starved people everywhere - it can't be a good thing in marriage. Sorry o!

do you like MouthAction

Advice taken. This may work, although I know I’m good in bed, just that he doesn’t last long at all. After two thrust he’s holding back his Cum. I’m just being honest here.

Icon79:
Well, sex is actually a two way street. If your husband isn’t doing something right, you can take charge and teach him a few things. You’re married, so there’s no need to play shy.

Try to kiss him as he’s never been kissed before. Next time tear off his undies, jump on top of him and give him the rides of his life. Trust me, he’ll try to improve once you begin to up your games. The problem with an average Naija woman is that they tend to be docile and expect the man to do all the work. It doesn’t work that way, babe.

Most men’s dream wife is a lady on the street and a slut in the bedroom. Go try it out and you’ll come back to thank me later.


O pari

dettolgel:
I have said it before that all Nigerians care about is sex. When it comes to issues that require using their brain they will disappear.

Just imagine the number of people viewing this thread more than 600

Shatap. Arent u also viewing and commented Hypocrite. Wetin u too find come this thread. Alabosi

Obiorahpcfg:
You are an idiot! A cursed human beings. How many men dt does MouthAction a millionaires ! Or are u not aware it's the cause of poverty in some men!!!

Oga be calming down with this your theory. I don't fancy mouth action (thanks to chidimma that talked me out if it) but, it's just another kink that is gaining ground in African homes. Perish that your poverty conspiracy superstitious theory

komanderz:
My dear, to start with you've insulted your husband by bringing this to the public with the 10 seconds talk that's absolutely wrong for a woman to say if she really wants to be with her husband, like you said you've never cheated on him and don't have the intention to do such.
You are to protect him and look for a solution privately.
Look for and mature and responsible lady and seek advise... Also your husband should avoid sugar.
Stick to him with time you'll enjoy him.

It is OK under anonymity

Eyinju112:
Y’all keep scaring me when you say your husband now looks like your brother to you after few years of marriage.... is that how it happens? I’m getting scared...

I can’t imagine him seeing me as a sister after marriage

That you on your DP?

Iyaebe:
Marriage is indeed complicated,this your story makes premarital sex looks important but however it's against God's commandments which brings the question on how do we know the sexual compatibility of a partner before marriage? I don't know what to say.

But many people who had pre-marital sex also have similar problems in their marriages!!

Iyaebe:
You'll have to like it if your wife wants it,she's clean and I read it's even cleaner than the mouth,it cleanses and purify itself except in cases of infection

What do you mean "you'll have to like it if your wife wants it"?
Why does he have to force himself to do something he finds disgusting and of course not enjoyable? Because his wife wants it??
Abeg gettat!

The truth has to be told. When the foundation is faulty what can the righteous do? The foundation of your home started when you as a single lady key into to the will of God first then God directs a man that is His (God) will for you with all compatible packages in full. Same applies to the man. But when we acted on Gods permissive will, the compatibility packages is not completely delivered. Eg sexuality you brought up. Now God can restore all things via faith I mean unity in faith( both of you) should agree then God will restore all things including 10 sec to 1hr as you desired and it will be unto you according to your faith. Please seek the face of God both of you. Plan to attend Shiloh you’ll testify later

Maryliola:
The thing is I don’t want to force him to do something that he feels is disgusting. Mentally it’s such a turn off. When you know your husband enjoys every minute of giving head, and craves it just as much as you, that in itself makes it amazing. To me sex is more of a mental thing than physical. The older I get the more sexual I’m becoming and I don’t know if my husband is keeping up.

I am a man.

I know how to talk to him and he will start doing it beyond what you even expect.

I have many married friends who now enjoy it after I encouraged them to do it.

I honestly pity any married lady that is not getting head cos it is like living in bondage.

And if you are a married man reading this and you don't give your wife I'm sorry to tell you that you are missing a lot.

That thing sweet die especially when you eat it and not just suck on it.

Your wife will be your sex slave if you can make her cvm or squi*t hard from just head.

I'm sorry I have to be this lewd cos sex is a vital thing in marriage and if you don't get it right then you may have problems in other areas.

MouthAction won't bring the spark you need, the fact that he doesn't agree to that, doesn't mean you can't try out other things to build your romantic lives.
Sometimes I and my partner just take a trip or do those things we did whilst dating. Go to the movies, go to nice restaurants, listen to romantic songs from the seventies, engage in more pre-intimacy before sex and all that. Please keep trying to seduce your husband, stop looking at him like your brother....... Don't bring in another man into your life to rain on your parade. Good luck to you.

My sister, it is not easy, if you don't tell him what he should know, it will not be solved. At least he should be the one to appreciate you.

My reason is this, if you dare test this thing outside, that is the end; you will not stop it again.

Maryliola:
to me it’s not all about sex. It’s the kissing, touching, things you say, all the things that build up to the sex that makes it worthwhile. My body is not a rock I have needs and feelings, I work hard and take care of my home. But I want to be satisfied.

Hi. I have read several good responses here already that will help improve your marriage sex life. Several of them are practical, workable, and effective.

Never consider cheating or any extramarital alternative. It may seem pleasing at the first instance, but it will come with a regret that can haunt you for life.

Stay with the marriage, borrow good clues here to improve your sex life, and you'll be glad you did.

ahnie:

Wallaihi fa.
You and MISSunderstand use the word 'fa' alot

Ahhhhh Mama Zeee.