Have you spoken to your husband about it?

Exercise patience with him

Maryliola:
nothing fake about this been on Nl for years but created this account to remain anonymous.

magnoliaa is that you?

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quote author=valdes00 post=107277785]
Sorry for quoting u
You are right, i also dont lik it but wifey likes it... I had to compromise and allow her teach me, now i even like it more.... [/quote]

most married women are starved

Maryliola:
Hey guys

I’m making this post because I don’t want to be judged and I can’t turn my on people in my real life because they may not understand. Well I’ve been married for 2 plus years I’m 27 with a son. I’m going to get personal so embrace yourself.

Myself and my husband have a good relationship, almost too good because I literally see him like my brother. This is to the point where our romantic/lover side of our relationship is kinda dead. I see him naked, it’s like looking at my brother naked. I don’t feel turned on, or excited. We talk and gist like friends, but romantically things are flat. Our sex life is mediocre I guess. He doesn’t do oralll sexxx and he ejaculates very fast. I’m talking 10 seconds, and it’s every single time despite taking different preventative measures. I know that I’m extremely clean as I’m very observant of myself and he also tells me all the time. Yet orall sexxx is disgusting to him and “dehumanising”. There’s no passion when we kiss, its forced most times.


Lately I’ve been finding myself fantasising about being touched by a man , almost every night . A man that will give me orall sexx a man that will turn me on and blow me away. I don’t want to be judged here, but this is genuinely how I’ve been feeling. I don’t want to put pressure on my husband as he has other things to worry about.
A man that will kiss me in all the right places and make me feel like a woman. Sometimes I believe I’m being delusional, or unrealistic. I’m trying to get rid of these thoughts, but I really don’t know how. I have never cheated on my husband and I don’t think I have the guts to do it. I really just want to know how married people cope when that spark is gone. When you begin to look at your spouse like a brother or sister, and romantically the vibes are not there.

Let me also say that I’ve addressed this to him many times, but he stands he’s not willing to compromise.

Help!

Mods, I need this on front page as I need help for people to see this.

If he is the one responsible for everything without assistant it likely he will be stressed and also observe through conversation if he has any challenge of finance, or any other things and also give him time to rest; there after do anything to show concerned you will be surprised to see change in his part.

Maryliola:
Hey guys

I’m making this post because I don’t want to be judged and I can’t turn my on people in my real life because they may not understand. Well I’ve been married for 2 plus years I’m 27 with a son. I’m going to get personal so embrace yourself.

Myself and my husband have a good relationship, almost too good because I literally see him like my brother. This is to the point where our romantic/lover side of our relationship is kinda dead. I see him naked, it’s like looking at my brother naked. I don’t feel turned on, or excited. We talk and gist like friends, but romantically things are flat. Our sex life is mediocre I guess. He doesn’t do oralll sexxx and he ejaculates very fast. I’m talking 10 seconds, and it’s every single time despite taking different preventative measures. I know that I’m extremely clean as I’m very observant of myself and he also tells me all the time. Yet orall sexxx is disgusting to him and “dehumanising”. There’s no passion when we kiss, its forced most times.


Lately I’ve been finding myself fantasising about being touched by a man , almost every night . A man that will give me orall sexx a man that will turn me on and blow me away. I don’t want to be judged here, but this is genuinely how I’ve been feeling. I don’t want to put pressure on my husband as he has other things to worry about.
A man that will kiss me in all the right places and make me feel like a woman. Sometimes I believe I’m being delusional, or unrealistic. I’m trying to get rid of these thoughts, but I really don’t know how. I have never cheated on my husband and I don’t think I have the guts to do it. I really just want to know how married people cope when that spark is gone. When you begin to look at your spouse like a brother or sister, and romantically the vibes are not there.

Let me also say that I’ve addressed this to him many times, but he stands he’s not willing to compromise.

Help!

Mods, I need this on front page as I need help for people to see this.

Did he marry you as a VIRGIN?

WHAT IS YOUR BODYCOUNT

IS HE AWARE THAT OTHER GUYS BEFORE HIM HAS RELEASED SPERM INTO YOUR VAGINA?
IF YES,
YOU DON'T HAVE A RIGHT TO DEMAND FOR MouthAction. IT IS VERY DEHUMANISING ESPECIALLY IF HE KNOWS THAT OTHER PEOPLE HAVE RELEASED SPERM INTO YOU BEFORE.
DO YOU WANT HIM TO BE EATING AND SWALLOWING THOSE SPERMS OR DO YOU THINK YOU CAN EVER WASH YOURSELF CLEAN?.


GOD FORBID THAT I PUT MY MOUTH IN A PLACE WHERE ANOTHER MAN HAS RELEASED SPERM.

RUBBISH

Kobojunkie:
What I would recommend is you work on ways to channel that extra energy into something else. If you no get passion or work, find yourself one. If you already have a job, find other hobbies to help reroute your mind back to that of benefit and away from that which is not of benefit to your marriage and life

As for the dynamics of your relationship, if seeing a psychiatrist for professional counseling will help, please do not hesitate at all. Also, you can engage your husband in more husband and wife -ish activities, maybe with other couples, to help you begin to see him more as a partner than as a brother.

As to the love-making, maybe you can both enroll is sex therapy together as well.

I read your story and I immediately thought of another story from a couple of weeks back..https://www.nairaland.com/6744817/quarrel-because-sex#105660528

How could u said those things she complained are not of important to marriage? Bro so many marriages have crashed due to these issues u are taking for granted. I can imagine a young woman not enjoying her romantic life due to the husbands ignorance.
I advice the OP to contact an expert who will convey this massage politely to the husband. If u can not last long in bed, the best way to drive ur wife crazy is to give her pure mouth action, to lick her under very well so that she can keep thinking of u. Small thing can take woman out of marriage.

Maryliola:
Hey guys

I’m making this post because I don’t want to be judged and I can’t turn my on people in my real life because they may not understand. Well I’ve been married for 2 plus years I’m 27 with a son. I’m going to get personal so embrace yourself.

Myself and my husband have a good relationship, almost too good because I literally see him like my brother. This is to the point where our romantic/lover side of our relationship is kinda dead. I see him naked, it’s like looking at my brother naked. I don’t feel turned on, or excited. We talk and gist like friends, but romantically things are flat. Our sex life is mediocre I guess. He doesn’t do oralll sexxx and he ejaculates very fast. I’m talking 10 seconds, and it’s every single time despite taking different preventative measures. I know that I’m extremely clean as I’m very observant of myself and he also tells me all the time. Yet orall sexxx is disgusting to him and “dehumanising”. There’s no passion when we kiss, its forced most times.


Lately I’ve been finding myself fantasising about being touched by a man , almost every night . A man that will give me orall sexx a man that will turn me on and blow me away. I don’t want to be judged here, but this is genuinely how I’ve been feeling. I don’t want to put pressure on my husband as he has other things to worry about.
A man that will kiss me in all the right places and make me feel like a woman. Sometimes I believe I’m being delusional, or unrealistic. I’m trying to get rid of these thoughts, but I really don’t know how. I have never cheated on my husband and I don’t think I have the guts to do it. I really just want to know how married people cope when that spark is gone. When you begin to look at your spouse like a brother or sister, and romantically the vibes are not there.

Let me also say that I’ve addressed this to him many times, but he stands he’s not willing to compromise.

Help!

Mods, I need this on front page as I need help for people to see this.

I would have asked for his number but this is a public space just wished I know him in person and we have small relationship. But my dear, marriage is a bit different from having a boyfriend you can also not expect to have it all from your husband.

Have you always seen him like a brother?

Has he always been a 10 seconds guy?

There is nothing to gain in fornication..... Appeal to your husband to atleast try to adjust a bit......

Maryliola:
that’s the thing, I still give him head even though he doesn’t give it to me. And I know he enjoys it because he cums extremely quick and he tells me I’m the best he’s had. So I don’t know why he can’t return the favour.

come and suck my dick.

Sterope:
Post their links here. We are waiting.

Sorry nur vex forget about it

Go and buy Samsu oil

Maryliola:
Hey guys

I’m making this post because I don’t want to be judged and I can’t turn my on people in my real life because they may not understand. Well I’ve been married for 2 plus years I’m 27 with a son. I’m going to get personal so embrace yourself.

Myself and my husband have a good relationship, almost too good because I literally see him like my brother. This is to the point where our romantic/lover side of our relationship is kinda dead. I see him naked, it’s like looking at my brother naked. I don’t feel turned on, or excited. We talk and gist like friends, but romantically things are flat. Our sex life is mediocre I guess. He doesn’t do oralll sexxx and he ejaculates very fast. I’m talking 10 seconds, and it’s every single time despite taking different preventative measures. I know that I’m extremely clean as I’m very observant of myself and he also tells me all the time. Yet orall sexxx is disgusting to him and “dehumanising”. There’s no passion when we kiss, its forced most times.


Lately I’ve been finding myself fantasising about being touched by a man , almost every night . A man that will give me orall sexx a man that will turn me on and blow me away. I don’t want to be judged here, but this is genuinely how I’ve been feeling. I don’t want to put pressure on my husband as he has other things to worry about.
A man that will kiss me in all the right places and make me feel like a woman. Sometimes I believe I’m being delusional, or unrealistic. I’m trying to get rid of these thoughts, but I really don’t know how. I have never cheated on my husband and I don’t think I have the guts to do it. I really just want to know how married people cope when that spark is gone. When you begin to look at your spouse like a brother or sister, and romantically the vibes are not there.

Let me also say that I’ve addressed this to him many times, but he stands he’s not willing to compromise.

Help!

Mods, I need this on front page as I need help for people to see this.

When did you begin to see your husband like your brother? Was it right from the beginning or into the marriage?

Second, have you always liked MouthAction performed on you, or you developed from watching pornography? Were you in a relationship before your marriage when someone performed MouthAction on you?

Third, when you fantasize, who do you fantasize about? Is there someone else remotely in the picture? Is there a neighbor, a co-worker, or someone (aside your husband) who is beginning to catch your fancy?

What have you done personally to sexually satisfy yourself? Have you considered masturbation, including with intimacy gadgets?

If you can provide answers to these questions, I will give you an instant solution to your problem.

Greystone:


...and if the babe is clean and keeps that place clean, the juice is very sweet

have you tasted squirt b4

Maryliola:
Hey guys

I’m making this post because I don’t want to be judged and I can’t turn my on people in my real life because they may not understand. Well I’ve been married for 2 plus years I’m 27 with a son. I’m going to get personal so embrace yourself.

Myself and my husband have a good relationship, almost too good because I literally see him like my brother. This is to the point where our romantic/lover side of our relationship is kinda dead. I see him naked, it’s like looking at my brother naked. I don’t feel turned on, or excited. We talk and gist like friends, but romantically things are flat. Our sex life is mediocre I guess. He doesn’t do oralll sexxx and he ejaculates very fast. I’m talking 10 seconds, and it’s every single time despite taking different preventative measures. I know that I’m extremely clean as I’m very observant of myself and he also tells me all the time. Yet orall sexxx is disgusting to him and “dehumanising”. There’s no passion when we kiss, its forced most times.


Lately I’ve been finding myself fantasising about being touched by a man , almost every night . A man that will give me orall sexx a man that will turn me on and blow me away. I don’t want to be judged here, but this is genuinely how I’ve been feeling. I don’t want to put pressure on my husband as he has other things to worry about.
A man that will kiss me in all the right places and make me feel like a woman. Sometimes I believe I’m being delusional, or unrealistic. I’m trying to get rid of these thoughts, but I really don’t know how. I have never cheated on my husband and I don’t think I have the guts to do it. I really just want to know how married people cope when that spark is gone. When you begin to look at your spouse like a brother or sister, and romantically the vibes are not there.

Let me also say that I’ve addressed this to him many times, but he stands he’s not willing to compromise.

Help!

Mods, I need this on front page as I need help for people to see this.

Change his diet , there fruits and food that can help

Maryliola:
Hey guys

I’m making this post because I don’t want to be judged and I can’t turn my on people in my real life because they may not understand. Well I’ve been married for 2 plus years I’m 27 with a son. I’m going to get personal so embrace yourself.

Myself and my husband have a good relationship, almost too good because I literally see him like my brother. This is to the point where our romantic/lover side of our relationship is kinda dead. I see him naked, it’s like looking at my brother naked. I don’t feel turned on, or excited. We talk and gist like friends, but romantically things are flat. Our sex life is mediocre I guess. He doesn’t do oralll sexxx and he ejaculates very fast. I’m talking 10 seconds, and it’s every single time despite taking different preventative measures. I know that I’m extremely clean as I’m very observant of myself and he also tells me all the time. Yet orall sexxx is disgusting to him and “dehumanising”. There’s no passion when we kiss, its forced most times.


Lately I’ve been finding myself fantasising about being touched by a man , almost every night . A man that will give me orall sexx a man that will turn me on and blow me away. I don’t want to be judged here, but this is genuinely how I’ve been feeling. I don’t want to put pressure on my husband as he has other things to worry about.
A man that will kiss me in all the right places and make me feel like a woman. Sometimes I believe I’m being delusional, or unrealistic. I’m trying to get rid of these thoughts, but I really don’t know how. I have never cheated on my husband and I don’t think I have the guts to do it. I really just want to know how married people cope when that spark is gone. When you begin to look at your spouse like a brother or sister, and romantically the vibes are not there.

Let me also say that I’ve addressed this to him many times, but he stands he’s not willing to compromise.

Help!

Mods, I need this on front page as I need help for people to see this.

Don't walk that line, but you can add me up for sexchats.

Simply put, you wan begin fok for outside and lalasticlala dey help you by putting this on front page. Las las it will end in premium tears

[quote author=JOACHINpedro post=107275974]
We're on this together, let's hold hands and get scared together [/quoteh]
Continue na so e take dey start. Subtle advances

Iyaebe:
That's an insult to the husband

. But the husband has insulted himself for not doing his special duty na. Anyman who cannot satisfied his wife both in materials things and sexually is like a dead person.

lusid:
come and suck my dick.

Meet that your "ACHI" babe make she do am for you as usual nah. This one don marry.

Fgwa:

How could u said those things she complained are not of important to marriage? Bro so many marriages have crashed due to these issues u are taking for granted. I can imagine a young woman not enjoying her romantic life due to the husbands ignorance.
I advice the OP to contact an expert who will convey this massage politely to the husband. If u can not last long in bed, the best way to drive ur wife crazy is to give her pure mouth action, to lick her under very well so that she can keep thinking of u. Small thing can take woman out of marriage.

Marriage is more than sex, sadly many of us go into it believing we are guaranteed the best sex experience in it.

The man, according to his wife, is a 10second man and hates to go down on her. Would she rather he force himself to go down on her simply to keep the marriage from crashing? I don't about you but I wouldn't like to be on giving or receiving end of such an act.

What I suggested, is as far as I know, the best there there for such things.

lusid:
have you tasted squirt b4

it is very very delicious and medicinal

Iyaebe:
She won't go out to have it but her husband must bend down to lick plate,its a must,he has no choice

She seems to have tried all she can to get her husband to compromise but not working at all...

She needs to get very busy to the point that after the days work, she will be too tired for sex sef not to talk of fantasies

juri:
Not wanting to mock you, but hoping others will learn a thin or two. Some important issues you raised are issues to have been addressed before marriage, such as MouthAction and whether a partner likes or detaste same.

Also, it is very important in a relationship that parties are sexually attracted to each other. Where this is absent in a relationship, there is no need going forward into a marital relationship with such a person. In a business or professional relationship, the romantic attraction will not be necessary and should be even Discouraged. It seems to me that the sexual attraction has not really been there from the start.

Giving you discription of sexual unatractivness, I also hope this person is not your blood relative like a brother etc that both of you may not yet even know. In our world today, this is very possible.

If you are sure the above is not true, backed with scientific evidence, then concerning your present situation, you need to stop the fantasizing, that is already infidelity on your part. There are natural ways your partner can be helped to last longer including the change of diets like stop taking suger, counting the number of trust/penetration as he pounds. For example, he does 10 shallow trust/penetrations with his cap/just the edge of the penis going inside only and then 1 full trust/penetration with the entire penis going in fully. Then 9 shallow trust followed by 2 full trust, then 8 shallow trust followed by 3 full trust, all in that revers order until you get to 10. You both need to discuss this and more options including exercises.

I believe a lot needs to be understood though. Like before you met him, what was your sexual past like. Bcs for example, someone who has slept with brick layer, several sexual drugs enhancement partners, in some cases even dogs or horses etc, should not expect her partner to match such a resume. I am just giving an instance here.

This ur last paragraph off me..lol

Iyaebe:
Premarital sex is not good but I'll device a means to know my partner's sexual ability, I can't keep myself this long while my partner starts behaving like ops partner in marriage.I want a partner that'll be active 24hrs and will overdose me,I don't want to ever have any yeye cravings inside marriage.My story will be what can I give my partner to reduce the too much urge for sex all the time.lol

If wishes were horses, beggars would ride

Iyaebe:
Because most of you are ready to condemn her but I won't let that happen. Go and learn how to lick plate,its one of the new criteria for choosing good husband

.

You be thief. I am sure you steal meat from you momma’s pot as a kid!

dheilaw1:
Are you in Ibadan? If yes, let's see what we can do together to help

This ur matter strong maybe u guys need to consult a doctor for the premature ejaculation as for the mouth action not every1 man can do that so please try and understand. Also no matter how clean u are ,that place get as e be . I advice u to encourage him in pre-intimacy also

Maryliola:
Hey guys

I’m making this post because I don’t want to be judged and I can’t turn my on people in my real life because they may not understand. Well I’ve been married for 2 plus years I’m 27 with a son. I’m going to get personal so embrace yourself.

Myself and my husband have a good relationship, almost too good because I literally see him like my brother. This is to the point where our romantic/lover side of our relationship is kinda dead. I see him naked, it’s like looking at my brother naked. I don’t feel turned on, or excited. We talk and gist like friends, but romantically things are flat. Our sex life is mediocre I guess. He doesn’t do oralll sexxx and he ejaculates very fast. I’m talking 10 seconds, and it’s every single time despite taking different preventative measures. I know that I’m extremely clean as I’m very observant of myself and he also tells me all the time. Yet orall sexxx is disgusting to him and “dehumanising”. There’s no passion when we kiss, its forced most times.


Lately I’ve been finding myself fantasising about being touched by a man , almost every night . A man that will give me orall sexx a man that will turn me on and blow me away. I don’t want to be judged here, but this is genuinely how I’ve been feeling. I don’t want to put pressure on my husband as he has other things to worry about.
A man that will kiss me in all the right places and make me feel like a woman. Sometimes I believe I’m being delusional, or unrealistic. I’m trying to get rid of these thoughts, but I really don’t know how. I have never cheated on my husband and I don’t think I have the guts to do it. I really just want to know how married people cope when that spark is gone. When you begin to look at your spouse like a brother or sister, and romantically the vibes are not there.

Let me also say that I’ve addressed this to him many times, but he stands he’s not willing to compromise.

Help!

Mods, I need this on front page as I need help for people to see this.

Buy unripe plantain, cook it without peeling of the back.

After cooking, leave the plantain to get cold. Say 2-3 hours,by then it’s gonna be very hard.

Let him eat and drink water,play with him and make him cum and then try you magic on him as the second rounds will take your to the biggest stadium.

If you get home first, make sure food and food is ready. Dress the way those girls wey want to seduce men dress.

Serve him like a pro, try 69 for the 1st 10 seconds like you said or give him head and wait for your penalty.the second round.


Make sure your give it to him like 2-3 times a week,na practice make Ronaldo wold best.

My little advice

Maryliola:
Hey guys

I’m making this post because I don’t want to be judged and I can’t turn my on people in my real life because they may not understand. Well I’ve been married for 2 plus years I’m 27 with a son. I’m going to get personal so embrace yourself.

Myself and my husband have a good relationship, almost too good because I literally see him like my brother. This is to the point where our romantic/lover side of our relationship is kinda dead. I see him naked, it’s like looking at my brother naked. I don’t feel turned on, or excited. We talk and gist like friends, but romantically things are flat. Our sex life is mediocre I guess. He doesn’t do oralll sexxx and he ejaculates very fast. I’m talking 10 seconds, and it’s every single time despite taking different preventative measures. I know that I’m extremely clean as I’m very observant of myself and he also tells me all the time. Yet orall sexxx is disgusting to him and “dehumanising”. There’s no passion when we kiss, its forced most times.


Lately I’ve been finding myself fantasising about being touched by a man , almost every night . A man that will give me orall sexx a man that will turn me on and blow me away. I don’t want to be judged here, but this is genuinely how I’ve been feeling. I don’t want to put pressure on my husband as he has other things to worry about.
A man that will kiss me in all the right places and make me feel like a woman. Sometimes I believe I’m being delusional, or unrealistic. I’m trying to get rid of these thoughts, but I really don’t know how. I have never cheated on my husband and I don’t think I have the guts to do it. I really just want to know how married people cope when that spark is gone. When you begin to look at your spouse like a brother or sister, and romantically the vibes are not there.

Let me also say that I’ve addressed this to him many times, but he stands he’s not willing to compromise.

Help!

Mods, I need this on front page as I need help for people to see this.

When will this gender stop exhibiting vain levels of fooolishness garnished with hogwash and garbage in public spectacle

***spits***

You are risking throat cancer if you don’t use dental dams. https://www.health.harvard.edu/blog/hpv-transmission-during-oral-sex-a-growing-cause-of-mouth-and-throat-cancer-201306046346

Godfather052:
This is the more reason people should consummate before marriage, I won't even marry a woman who don't like MouthAction, that is my best part in love making, I love to inhale that sexy aura of my woman and feast on her orally.