OriOko88:

Shatap. Arent u also viewing and commented Hypocrite. Wetin u too find come this thread. Alabosi

You couldn't even type one complete sentence without insult.

I talk am your brain can only process sexual urges

Iyaebe:
Exactly, men should learn and perfect the act of licking plate thoroughly like their life depends on it to avoid this kind of situation.

and you call yoursef a child of god

olabrinks:
I’m going to be real with you sis, you cannot find the solution you want unless you cheat on your husband. Your husband is stuck in his ways, he’s not willing to compromise or sacrifice his beliefs for your satisfaction. Let me tell you the truth my sister, most men just want to cum and sleep. All this extra gra gra is work for them, and like you said they have other things to worry about. This is how most married women feel, men especially become laid back once they are having sex with the same woman over and over again. Married woman to married woman.

My real advice to you is to satisfy yourself with your hands or a toy when you are Hot. Focus on your child and your career. Accept that you can never have it all in marriage. Your partner must lack in one department, it may be sex, finances, compassion, good looks, hygiene etc.. there’s always something. The easy thing to do is to look for that missing thing in someone else. The smart thing to do is to focus on the positives and try to enjoy your marriage the best way you can. You said you are like friends….go on adventures with him, go out clubbing, go to parties.. you will begin to overlook this missing void you’re feeling. This is feeling is temporary, good luck to you.

This thread shd've bn closed after ds post!!!
Any other comment na just jara.

Iyaebe:
Premarital sex is not good but I'll device a means to know my partner's sexual ability, I can't keep myself this long while my partner starts behaving like ops partner in marriage.I want a partner that'll be active 24hrs and will overdose me,I don't want to ever have any yeye cravings inside marriage.My story will be what can I give my partner to reduce the too much urge for sex all the time.lol

This is the story of my life. My partner trying to reduce...

Just want you to know such men exist.

Joezik:
Single PPL like us
Get future screening to do

All the screening in the world will not guarantee you that you will never have to work on your sex life after marriage.

Biglittlelois:



Brutal truth my dear, all you typed is a brutal reality.

do you like receiving head?

Didn't you know he doesn't like MouthAction before u married him? Didn't u study his sexual prowess befptr u married him? Didn't u see him naked before u married him? Didn't he feel like your brother before you married him? If u get to know he is fancying other women outside his marriage, will u feel good about it? In all honesty, I think you're looking for an excuse to cheat or leave the marriage..... If not, you will look for remedies and not dreaming about another man having sex with you..... If marriage Don tire u, divorse am make e marry woman wen go see am like husband rather than brother..... Go marry who go dey use tongue bath all parts of your body.......women of these days sha.... U still dey your husband house dey dream about another man knacking you..... Soon you go begin eye your male neighbor wen get six packs....... Before u know... U go get Belle and in 7 years time your husband go dey find how to run DNA because him head round but the pikin head flat....... Madam, if you're no longer in love with him, divorce him... You're not the first... U can even bake cake and celebrate it... And after that, marry someone who can oralize you from morning till morning......

I have a lasting solution for you and your husband... If only you will believe and contact me:

07044943661

Iyaebe:
You'll have to like it if your wife wants it,she's clean and I read it's even cleaner than the mouth,it cleanses and purify itself except in cases of infection

Sorry for quoting u
You are right, i also dont lik it but wifey likes it... I had to compromise and allow her teach me, now i even like it more....

Maryliola:
Can I ask why you find giving head disgusting? What is was like for you when you gave head that one time? A

See it this way, I am terribly disgusted at the sight of a cockroach. I cant even kill it as i feel like it will smear millions of bacteria on my foot or slippers. If I see a cockroach in a restaurant, i will not be able to eat the food they will set in front of me as my imaginations will go haywire.

The o'level biology i know and even the live vagina i see does not look pleasant for me to bring my mouth close. I have had nasty smelling VJ before, the thought is not pleasant till this day. Its not just my mouth, i dont want my nose to get close to it for fear of smelling anything foul. The thought that my mouth is an inch away from the anus is also not pleasant. I can go on and on and on. The truth is that, thats who i am. Hell, some girls dont even want fingering, my wife inclusive. Even the finger, I am still conscious of my hand so much so that the hand will become invalid during the entire course. Its as if when the hand touches the nipple and I suck the nipple, its same as i have given mouthaction.

Despite these, i recognize that I need to satisfy my woman, so if she asks, i will try my best to give it to her (except for anal sha). She has never asked sha.

ezugegere:
You both need to make conscious efforts to make your marriage work. I think the major problem here is his inability to last, which can be solved.
Don't try to pressure him into MouthAction since he finds it disgusting. I too don't like it. I don't think it's healthy.

.... My question to her is.... Didn't she know he didn't like MouthAction before she married him? If she thought she could cope then, why is it being an issue now??

Maryliola:
Hey guys

I’m making this post because I don’t want to be judged and I can’t turn my on people in my real life because they may not understand. Well I’ve been married for 2 plus years I’m 27 with a son. I’m going to get personal so embrace yourself.

Myself and my husband have a good relationship, almost too good because I literally see him like my brother. This is to the point where our romantic/lover side of our relationship is kinda dead. I see him naked, it’s like looking at my brother naked. I don’t feel turned on, or excited. We talk and gist like friends, but romantically things are flat. Our sex life is mediocre I guess. He doesn’t do oralll sexxx and he ejaculates very fast. I’m talking 10 seconds, and it’s every single time despite taking different preventative measures. I know that I’m extremely clean as I’m very observant of myself and he also tells me all the time. Yet orall sexxx is disgusting to him and “dehumanising”. There’s no passion when we kiss, its forced most times.


Lately I’ve been finding myself fantasising about being touched by a man , almost every night . A man that will give me orall sexx a man that will turn me on and blow me away. I don’t want to be judged here, but this is genuinely how I’ve been feeling. I don’t want to put pressure on my husband as he has other things to worry about.
A man that will kiss me in all the right places and make me feel like a woman. Sometimes I believe I’m being delusional, or unrealistic. I’m trying to get rid of these thoughts, but I really don’t know how. I have never cheated on my husband and I don’t think I have the guts to do it. I really just want to know how married people cope when that spark is gone. When you begin to look at your spouse like a brother or sister, and romantically the vibes are not there.

Let me also say that I’ve addressed this to him many times, but he stands he’s not willing to compromise.

Help!

Mods, I need this on front page as I need help for people to see this.

Talk and discuss about your sex life. You’re just incompatible for now.
You both need to find your own solution.
Talk talk talk

Maryliola:
Hey guys

I’m making this post because I don’t want to be judged and I can’t turn my on people in my real life because they may not understand. Well I’ve been married for 2 plus years I’m 27 with a son. I’m going to get personal so embrace yourself.

Myself and my husband have a good relationship, almost too good because I literally see him like my brother. This is to the point where our romantic/lover side of our relationship is kinda dead. I see him naked, it’s like looking at my brother naked. I don’t feel turned on, or excited. We talk and gist like friends, but romantically things are flat. Our sex life is mediocre I guess. He doesn’t do oralll sexxx and he ejaculates very fast. I’m talking 10 seconds, and it’s every single time despite taking different preventative measures. I know that I’m extremely clean as I’m very observant of myself and he also tells me all the time. Yet orall sexxx is disgusting to him and “dehumanising”. There’s no passion when we kiss, its forced most times.


Lately I’ve been finding myself fantasising about being touched by a man , almost every night . A man that will give me orall sexx a man that will turn me on and blow me away. I don’t want to be judged here, but this is genuinely how I’ve been feeling. I don’t want to put pressure on my husband as he has other things to worry about.
A man that will kiss me in all the right places and make me feel like a woman. Sometimes I believe I’m being delusional, or unrealistic. I’m trying to get rid of these thoughts, but I really don’t know how. I have never cheated on my husband and I don’t think I have the guts to do it. I really just want to know how married people cope when that spark is gone. When you begin to look at your spouse like a brother or sister, and romantically the vibes are not there.

Let me also say that I’ve addressed this to him many times, but he stands he’s not willing to compromise.

Help!

Mods, I need this on front page as I need help for people to see this.

if you're in Lagos hit me up I can suck that pussy all night, just shave well and you don't even have to pay.

BoomBucks:



Should I tell you who created this thread?


The creator is zzzzoooor.....Iyaaaaebeee

She's also the first commenter and she has taken over the thread in the first page.

Since she no more gets attention, she decided to create a thread just for the attention.

I declare this thread fake, null and void!!!

SMFH spits!!!

Ooh

Iyaebe is Zzor

I've always wondered what happened with Zzor!

ezugegere:
You both need to make conscious efforts to make your marriage work. I think the major problem here is his inability to last, which can be solved.
Don't try to pressure him into MouthAction since he finds it disgusting. I too don't like it. I don't think it's healthy.

How is Oralsexx unhealthy? It’s his wife we are talking about here. He needs to learn to satisfy her if not that marriage won’t work.

Michelle55:
No amount of advice given wee enter Op's head laidis.. She will do it laslas as be say the tin don dey hungry am.

If you can not satisfy your partner, just foggerrit.. Na away match dem go play next.

do you think its hygenic to lick the vagina?

If both of you are christians, i advise to meet your pastor or whosoever thats in charge of your spiritual issues for counceling, any other option you take out this will spell doom in your marriage. His problem might be as a result of poor knowledge of sex due to due sex abstainance life style he maintained during his barchalorhood period.

valdes00:

Sorry for quoting u
You are right, i also dont lik it but wifey likes it... I had to compromise and allow her teach me, now i even like it more....

This is what I'm saying, op come and read this.I can't be in a marriage and be asking "Marriage" how far? You be better husband

Mom007:
My dear, you are quarter to cheat already, its just opportunity that has not presented itself. Better begin to pray because the devil is knocking. You can do without MouthAction madam. There are other clean pleasures in the bedroom that a husband and wife can share. Beware oo...

so you dont suck dicks

lusid:
aren't you scare of germs?

Not from my sweet beautiful clean future wifey

Maryliola:
Hey guys

I’m making this post because I don’t want to be judged and I can’t turn my on people in my real life because they may not understand. Well I’ve been married for 2 plus years I’m 27 with a son. I’m going to get personal so embrace yourself.

Myself and my husband have a good relationship, almost too good because I literally see him like my brother. This is to the point where our romantic/lover side of our relationship is kinda dead. I see him naked, it’s like looking at my brother naked. I don’t feel turned on, or excited. We talk and gist like friends, but romantically things are flat. Our sex life is mediocre I guess. He doesn’t do oralll sexxx and he ejaculates very fast. I’m talking 10 seconds, and it’s every single time despite taking different preventative measures. I know that I’m extremely clean as I’m very observant of myself and he also tells me all the time. Yet orall sexxx is disgusting to him and “dehumanising”. There’s no passion when we kiss, its forced most times.


Lately I’ve been finding myself fantasising about being touched by a man , almost every night . A man that will give me orall sexx a man that will turn me on and blow me away. I don’t want to be judged here, but this is genuinely how I’ve been feeling. I don’t want to put pressure on my husband as he has other things to worry about.
A man that will kiss me in all the right places and make me feel like a woman. Sometimes I believe I’m being delusional, or unrealistic. I’m trying to get rid of these thoughts, but I really don’t know how. I have never cheated on my husband and I don’t think I have the guts to do it. I really just want to know how married people cope when that spark is gone. When you begin to look at your spouse like a brother or sister, and romantically the vibes are not there.

Let me also say that I’ve addressed this to him many times, but he stands he’s not willing to compromise.

Help!

Mods, I need this on front page as I need help for people to see this.

two years spark is off. Abeg pity that man and leave him. Go back to your streets where you belong.

generalwo:
.... My question to her is.... Didn't she know he didn't like MouthAction before she married him? If she thought she could cope then, why is it being an issue now??

we never spoke about these things before marriage funny enough I just thought it’s one thing we would obviously do along the line. We also got married quick as we had such a strong bond. The friendship I’m talking about. We got married 10 months after dating.

Godfather052:
This is the more reason people should consummate before marriage, I won't even marry a woman who don't like MouthAction, that is my best part in love making, I love to inhale that sexy aura of my woman and feast on her orally.

how do you eat?

ChocolateWine:
Have you tried giving the same thing you desire?

when last did you suck a dick?

Are you in Ibadan? If yes, let's see what we can do together to help

Maryliola:
Hey guys

I’m making this post because I don’t want to be judged and I can’t turn my on people in my real life because they may not understand. Well I’ve been married for 2 plus years I’m 27 with a son. I’m going to get personal so embrace yourself.

Myself and my husband have a good relationship, almost too good because I literally see him like my brother. This is to the point where our romantic/lover side of our relationship is kinda dead. I see him naked, it’s like looking at my brother naked. I don’t feel turned on, or excited. We talk and gist like friends, but romantically things are flat. Our sex life is mediocre I guess. He doesn’t do oralll sexxx and he ejaculates very fast. I’m talking 10 seconds, and it’s every single time despite taking different preventative measures. I know that I’m extremely clean as I’m very observant of myself and he also tells me all the time. Yet orall sexxx is disgusting to him and “dehumanising”. There’s no passion when we kiss, its forced most times.


Lately I’ve been finding myself fantasising about being touched by a man , almost every night . A man that will give me orall sexx a man that will turn me on and blow me away. I don’t want to be judged here, but this is genuinely how I’ve been feeling. I don’t want to put pressure on my husband as he has other things to worry about.
A man that will kiss me in all the right places and make me feel like a woman. Sometimes I believe I’m being delusional, or unrealistic. I’m trying to get rid of these thoughts, but I really don’t know how. I have never cheated on my husband and I don’t think I have the guts to do it. I really just want to know how married people cope when that spark is gone. When you begin to look at your spouse like a brother or sister, and romantically the vibes are not there.

Let me also say that I’ve addressed this to him many times, but he stands he’s not willing to compromise.

Help!

Mods, I need this on front page as I need help for people to see this.

it either you have been watching too much of porn movie or you are reading stuffs bout sex which you should not be doing. Let tell you if you are not careful you are bout to loss your marriage

Proverbs 31 vers 10, says who can find a Noble woman and the Bible says her husband and children will call her bless this is because of her being good wife and mother

Baba God, I beg u biko, may I not lick my destiny away in Jesus' Name, Amen!!!

Greystone:


Hubby already insulted himself by refusing to lick his wife to multiple orgasms.

Small head make he dey give Madam e no gree, now we are trying to encourage Madam not to cheat.

If na me, I go lick that my wife pussy clean till e shine like mirror...

In fact na 69 position go sweet pass...

Ngwa, begin d licking!
Dey lick dey gooooo!

You're just over 2yrs in your and you've started seeing your husband as your brother. My advice, try giving him BJ during pre-intimacy, if he gets excited at that point you stop and if requests for more, you condition him to do same to you first. You can also watch blues together so he can see it men doing it.

dettolgel:
I have said it before that all Nigerians care about is sex. When it comes to issues that require using their brain they will disappear.

Just imagine the number of people viewing this thread more than 600

What then are you doing here?
Maybe accidental I guess. People living in glass house should not throw stones.

Maryliola:
Hey guys

I’m making this post because I don’t want to be judged and I can’t turn my on people in my real life because they may not understand. Well I’ve been married for 2 plus years I’m 27 with a son. I’m going to get personal so embrace yourself.

Myself and my husband have a good relationship, almost too good because I literally see him like my brother. This is to the point where our romantic/lover side of our relationship is kinda dead. I see him naked, it’s like looking at my brother naked. I don’t feel turned on, or excited. We talk and gist like friends, but romantically things are flat. Our sex life is mediocre I guess. He doesn’t do oralll sexxx and he ejaculates very fast. I’m talking 10 seconds, and it’s every single time despite taking different preventative measures. I know that I’m extremely clean as I’m very observant of myself and he also tells me all the time. Yet orall sexxx is disgusting to him and “dehumanising”. There’s no passion when we kiss, its forced most times.


Lately I’ve been finding myself fantasising about being touched by a man , almost every night . A man that will give me orall sexx a man that will turn me on and blow me away. I don’t want to be judged here, but this is genuinely how I’ve been feeling. I don’t want to put pressure on my husband as he has other things to worry about.
A man that will kiss me in all the right places and make me feel like a woman. Sometimes I believe I’m being delusional, or unrealistic. I’m trying to get rid of these thoughts, but I really don’t know how. I have never cheated on my husband and I don’t think I have the guts to do it. I really just want to know how married people cope when that spark is gone. When you begin to look at your spouse like a brother or sister, and romantically the vibes are not there.

Let me also say that I’ve addressed this to him many times, but he stands he’s not willing to compromise.

Help!

Mods, I need this on front page as I need help for people to see this.

You should have known this in the first place that your husband is not really into sex before marrying him
It takes a lot of of energy for a woman to be sexually satisfied and it is only a man that is highly sexually active that can satisfy this women needs
That's why I think women enjoy sex better than the men do.They found themselves in different clouds when they are really enjoying the sex

1st off, cunninglingus increases the risk of mouth & throat CANCER by a lot! So please have him use a dental dam if he ever agrees to do it! If not, your pleasure is not worth a short life to him or any man!
Trust me, you WILL cheat on your man sooner than you think if you don’t quickly address this gap in your FRIENDLY marriage.
I have a question, has he ever lasted long enough to satisfy you in the past? If yes, what changed in your lives at the point where he became a 10sec man?! Both of you may need to see a psychologist or SEX THERAPIST to resolve this.
In the meantime, you may need to indulge in intimacy gadgets if you want to minimize the possibility of cheating, which I am sure will happen soon.

Maryliola:
Hey guys

I’m making this post because I don’t want to be judged and I can’t turn my on people in my real life because they may not understand. Well I’ve been married for 2 plus years I’m 27 with a son. I’m going to get personal so embrace yourself.

Myself and my husband have a good relationship, almost too good because I literally see him like my brother. This is to the point where our romantic/lover side of our relationship is kinda dead. I see him naked, it’s like looking at my brother naked. I don’t feel turned on, or excited. We talk and gist like friends, but romantically things are flat. Our sex life is mediocre I guess. He doesn’t do oralll sexxx and he ejaculates very fast. I’m talking 10 seconds, and it’s every single time despite taking different preventative measures. I know that I’m extremely clean as I’m very observant of myself and he also tells me all the time. Yet orall sexxx is disgusting to him and “dehumanising”. There’s no passion when we kiss, its forced most times.


Lately I’ve been finding myself fantasising about being touched by a man , almost every night . A man that will give me orall sexx a man that will turn me on and blow me away. I don’t want to be judged here, but this is genuinely how I’ve been feeling. I don’t want to put pressure on my husband as he has other things to worry about.
A man that will kiss me in all the right places and make me feel like a woman. Sometimes I believe I’m being delusional, or unrealistic. I’m trying to get rid of these thoughts, but I really don’t know how. I have never cheated on my husband and I don’t think I have the guts to do it. I really just want to know how married people cope when that spark is gone. When you begin to look at your spouse like a brother or sister, and romantically the vibes are not there.

Let me also say that I’ve addressed this to him many times, but he stands he’s not willing to compromise.

Help!

Mods, I need this on front page as I need help for people to see this.