Poster, I think you write very well by the way. Not many Nigerians (including myself) can narrate a story in good English.
I almost let go of my perfect girlfriend of 4 years cos of fear of my current financial status; thank God I got back to my senses on time.

Op try and call ur ex, if she is still available lucky you but i doubt.
Secondly, you well know you r not cool with this present bb fiancee's life style
and u know dat mariage is a life commitment.
You seem not to hav a mind of ur own talkin abt ur uncle feeling disappointed for trying to call off engagement
pls go for whom u r cool with. everyone makes mistakes sometimes we pay sometimes we dont, if you try working out with ur ex and it goes,happy u! if it doesnt life goes on and you learn ur lesson not listen to good for nothing friends who wud tell u there are many fishes in the river when it's not easy to catch the good ones and be optimistic about life no matter what situation you found urself.

Chei!! your ex sounds like a very expensive lady.Na igbo girl she be?

Now you know the meaning of WOMAN. I thank God for your life. Sorry!

i actually signed in to commment on ur post, y r u giving us d pathetic story?u 4got to tell us when u broke er heart,i ve a question 4 u,did it go down well with er?(i mean d break up), now u want to eat ur cake n have it,no dats nt goin to happen, y din't u pray to God then to make u as comfortable as u want with d love of ur life?4 all i care,stay put wit ur "aje bu",u deserve it!n 4 ur ex,i pray she gets sme1 else much more better than u n ur friend, move on with ur life!

U know bro dis happened to me too back in school. Dat i had a gurl who actually showed me dat she loves me a lot but was afraid to tell me. Cos back in school i was so naive and dumb. But i later realized what message she was trying to pass on. But d companies i kept den made d wrong choice for me. And i let go of d gurl her. But all other gurls i met after her were just after money, dey don't me phucking dem. But to me i am not after sex, but i wanted some1 dat i could get serious with. But by d time i wised up she has had a child for some other guy who maltreats her and plans on getting another wife. But i just can't get over her. We r getting back 2gether. But she still wants to be very well convinced dat i am now wise b4 she goes ahead with me. May be i'll tell ma victorious story at d end of dis all. Ma phone won't make me type better and faster but expect ma story very soon.

@Poster if u r convinced within u that u cant have a happy ending with ur fiancee cut off d engagement its better late than never feelings would be hurt but it would be worth it in the end. With regards to ur ex I want to believe u r not seeing faults in ur fiancee bcoz u want ur ex back. I'll advise you think about your life and happiness on the long run before making your decision about your fiancee without basing your judgement on whether ur ex would take u back or not as she might not. If she does goodluck for you if she does not u would meet some1 gd as well if u set ur priorities right when looking for a wife and stop chasing after figure 8. All d best

Naturally, we don't cherish our value moment until they become memories, one thing you should be glad of is that you are not married to the so called AJE BUTTER OF A GIRL. You can still call off the relationship, and re unite with your ex, NEXT TIME MAKE SURE YOU LOOK VERY WELL B4 U LEAP, COME TO THINK OF IT, WHY WOULD YOU BREAK UP WITH YOUR EX ?, U WERE NOT FINANCIALLY BUOYANT ENOUGH THEN IS NOT ENOUGH REASON TO HAVE DITCHED YOUR EX, NA GOD DEY GIVE POWER TO MAKE WEALTH, YOU KNOW KNOW ?, TRY AND GET YOUR EX BACK, WISH YOU ALL THE BEST.

Heavy,

I've been there, got advice from people and dumped my ex , and now I think she has been the best I dated. I have dreamt of returning to her but left it too late. By the time I went back she had moved on (she waited 3 years for me).

Dude don't leave in a broken home. Be a man, listen up and make the right decision for your future.

@OP
u never know the value of what u have til u lose it. There's no use crying over spilled milk, u either go ahead wiv ur fiancee or go back to ur EX. #shikena

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annita19 is the best thing that can happen to a man me

You are really tripping boy! You must bring her to come and pay obeisance to me if she really wants to get all the heart of 190 my Baby.

the story you just told us are all lies. why cant you guyz be real for once.

Re: I Have Been Stabbed In The Heart By My Very Own Friend!
« #108 on: June 16, 2011, 03:11 PM »

the story you just told us are all lies. why cant you guyz be real for once.
how do you know?that all what he has be saying?

Guys, your lives will be a lot better if you quit comparing exs and present. Oh this person does like this and this person doesn’t do this and that. Understanding and dialogue is key in any relationship.
@Poster

If don’t understand why she should spend N80 on her hair that’s a start…

But, have you sat down with your fiance to talk about you concerns, your fears, your incompatibilities? You can teach her your own values and she really loves you she will learn and change.

I will personally suggest that you GIVE IT TIME, whether it is going ahead with the marriage or the breaking off and make sure you are not making a mistake. Time has a way of bringing out people's true selves.

I bet you that as you are reminiscing about your fiance, there are certain things about her which when you discover, you won't like her any more.

Do what you will be comfortable with tomorrow without regrets.

Any update?

Heavy G, how far?