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Re: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by midnighter1(f): 1:52pm On Nov 16, 2021
Tales by moonlight undecided

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Re: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by Rastaramsey(m): 1:54pm On Nov 16, 2021
Mumu story

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Re: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by Arieljay(f): 1:54pm On Nov 16, 2021
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CsRockefeller:
Hmmmmm. Bad guys seems to be winning.

We good guys get nothing, even when we put our all for the other party. I know many ladies who were feeling fly in school but are today very single and searching, one was telling me over the weekend that she hopes to find love this December, she's tired.

It's well. Let's all carry our cross. I'm carrying mine without wining about it.
grin grin grin grin grin grin
Re: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by Rahkman: 1:55pm On Nov 16, 2021
Timekeeper:


Your bf said he want to do ritual and u supported him by going to herbalist place..


It shows how ill-trained you are...... They didn't train you well or u didn't learn from the training they taught you... Suffer your suffer.. Shebi una ladies love bad guys, yahoo Boys... Now see your life..


Thank God for ur baby sha..... God has. Given u a precious gift...... Move on
ohh boy na that ritual part shock me ooo grin

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Re: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by Nobody: 1:57pm On Nov 16, 2021
That is why I run from anything called man or with the color of man.

Men are as fake as chameleon. ( Not all though).

I like the life I'm living. Peaceful!

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Re: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by Arieljay(f): 1:58pm On Nov 16, 2021
Sorry for your ordeal, the Lord is your strength,please wise up, don't let anyone use you
Re: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by Jman06(m): 1:58pm On Nov 16, 2021
Fool!

He "deceived" you and got you pregnant or your long throat led you to him

Always shifting blames!

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Re: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by tradepunter: 1:58pm On Nov 16, 2021
When working class guy with roof over his head making use of public transport approach these girls, they look down on you like you wasting your life..

Na benz boys them like... Prefer to live in fantasy than in reality.... No questions whatsoever, intellectual conversation na sin to them....

Trying to encourage while finding avenue to sponsor their biz na sin...

Come see my estate for island lagos, na so so baby mamas day everywhere... Father's no where to be found, then they will be asking is it a sin to date a SINGLE MUM??

Anyways make everyone dy there lane....

To every genuine hard working man, none of these girls are worth it if you don't meet their fantasy.

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Re: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by nesgeeek(m): 2:01pm On Nov 16, 2021
debbydams:
can't u leave this lady alone, what do you want to gain from this? Learn to mind your business na
I wonder why she's attacking the lady.
Re: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by snoopz: 2:01pm On Nov 16, 2021
This one na fiction abeeg
You said you don't want anything sexual, @5am he started touching you and you can't remind him or shout at him until one thing led to another
Na children you think say dey here?

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Re: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by atgmicrot: 2:02pm On Nov 16, 2021
Sorry, God will help you
Re: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by nesgeeek(m): 2:02pm On Nov 16, 2021
Mercychen:
That is why I run from anything called man or with the color of man.

Men are as fake as chameleon. ( Not all though).

I like the life I'm living. Peaceful!
I thank God u said not all men are fake.
Re: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by syrup17(m): 2:02pm On Nov 16, 2021
I guess you've learned your lesson, so you are once bitten, twice ***. I guess you've moved on with your life... I will advise you to take the guy to justice court tv, I can assure you that you will get your child support from him. Pls be sure he is truly the father of the child oo. You can watch some of the cases on youtube before going there.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TQc-JgKumPs
Re: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by Etoo: 2:03pm On Nov 16, 2021
@Op, there is no sympathy here. If you had hammered with the yahoo guy and succeeded, this story would not see the light of the day.

Indeed, you deserve whatever befalls you or more.

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Re: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by debbydams(f): 2:04pm On Nov 16, 2021
nesgeeek:
I wonder why she's attacking the lady.
tthe lady has deactivated her account na..make everybody rest
Re: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by jyz200(m): 2:04pm On Nov 16, 2021
wish I didn't fell for him..I almost sacrificed my life for him to become somebody, sometime last year I was able to see his post Tru a friend,he was cashing out big time, clubbing, spending money, using expensive car, spending money, when I'm here nursing the child alone, I hustle to put my kid in school and recently I just got him text books, it has not been easy, I called his parents 2years ago the father shun me off on phone, after everything I did for this guy, I cried almost everyday wish I didn't fall for him..
Some guys just dy fk up
Imagine say na me see this type of opportunity
Re: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by Lastpharoah33: 2:05pm On Nov 16, 2021
Wait o, you saw his update where he was posting expensive cars, designers and all... you no reason am say baba don finally plus up?

Common sense they say...

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Re: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by Arsenate(m): 2:06pm On Nov 16, 2021
They don't even have the self awareness to understand the roles they play in their misfortunes. Seems perfectly convenient to blame the other party and narrate stories filled with half truths so they can garner fake sympathies from their colleagues in crime.

How are these ladies ever gonna grow and be better human beings when they are completely incapable of deep introspection?

Fckking waste of everyone's time.

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Re: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by dapadawee: 2:06pm On Nov 16, 2021
I created this acct today for single ladies to learn from my mistakes..

I finished from school some years back, after my final exams I decided to stay back because I was into little business, I sell ladies wears and bags.

On Thursday evening I was outside my hostel when guy pass we exchanged greetings, I fell for him I can't explain why ( I was single) the next evening he saw me we had a little chats, we exchanged numbers.

We became friends, after two weeks the feelings started growing and I fell in love with him( I wanted a serious relationship) I went to his house with my friend spent few minutes and left..the next day my friend had a guest so I decided to go to his place, I pleaded with him that I don't want any sexual itimacy he aggreed, around 5am he started touching me one thing led to the other..after two months I find out he has a gf, before then I dreamt about him it made me feel for him more deeply.

I was very down and I decided to move on I went to bear parlor I drank to stupor some people help me home..the next day he called, he started saying the lady is a cheat, we move on..after some months I relocated to another state I was hunting for job, I travelled to lagos, he calls me every day, we chat the love grows more, he was very broke, I sent him money, after some months I left lagos, on my back a man told me to avoid any relationship at the moment, wish I heed to his advice..

I went directly to his place, he was down, he den open up to me that he's in interested fraud( yahoo) and nothing is dropping, he told me he came to ilorin but he was asked to bring human parts but he can't, and his neighbor is cashing out, I told him I'll help because I really love him I spoke with my neighbor if she know any juju man that's very good, she introduced me to a man. I had close to 100k in my account, we both went to the man I did a lot of prayers, ate different types of things we spend more than 50k after some weeks nothing is dropping, and I'm feeding him, my account is red already, he spoke with his friend, his friend introduced him to another juju man den we are out of cash already.

He told me that he want to go home to hustle up, after some weeks he started posting the other girl pic I was very down after everything I did for him, I moved on but it was too late, I was pregnant my initial plan was to abort it when someone who doesn't even me told me she saw me in hospital in her dream

I insisted on aborting but every means I tried wasn't working until I was told not to abort the child.
Its not true that someone deieved you, you can only deceive yourself. Once beaten twice shy
Re: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by debbydams(f): 2:06pm On Nov 16, 2021
Jman06:
Fool!

He "deceived" you and got you pregnant or your long throat led you to him

Always shifting blames!
go back to the story where she said, she was the one taking the guy responsibility's
Re: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by Nobody: 2:09pm On Nov 16, 2021
I hope my ex girlfriend that dumped me recently is reading this undecided
Re: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by Cokahot: 2:09pm On Nov 16, 2021
Despite all his ogume did not work.shows that 99%of those fuki g herbalist na guymen wey des masquerade as herbalists with diff fake antiques on walls and scary fake idols. Hahhahahaha

Re: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by debbydams(f): 2:10pm On Nov 16, 2021
redstaarx:
I hope my ex girlfriend that dumped me recently is reading this undecided
why did she dump u?
Re: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by thedio(m): 2:11pm On Nov 16, 2021
the last I'll ever do, I don't depend on people, I've bn taking care of the baby alone with my mom for good 4 years, and if I decided to get married today the baby will definitely be with my mom, he's the source of joy to my mom, I can't take him away from her, I'm not asking for support for the child, I v a good mother, I posted this for people learn not to gain sympathy whatsoever...he's now a big boy tho
U av a gud mother but u r a bad daughter. U r a disgrace to ur gud mum,she just take heart as she has no other choice.
As I was reading ur post,I was shaking my head. U met an affluent big guy and fell for him without getting to know his source of income.
Perhaps u knew he is a yahoo boy,u supported him with body and money. He used and dumped u ,the way he did for his client. U reap what u sow my sister.Take gud care of that innocent boy

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Re: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by Nobody: 2:12pm On Nov 16, 2021
debbydams:
why did she dump u?

I wished I knew why too .. I'm moving on tho
Re: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by Tobest94: 2:13pm On Nov 16, 2021
Listen young lady, you can’t keep blaming yourself for the wrong you’ve done in the past, it’s over 4 years already. It’s time to clearly move on and look for a job since you’re done with school.. The only issue you’ve is money and you should work on making it enough for you and your baby.. But why did you take him to a juju man? Are you not scared of him using you or what
Re: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by nesgeeek(m): 2:14pm On Nov 16, 2021
I told him about it he insists I abort, I went to his parents, they supported him, in fact his mom and dad called all sort of names after everything I did for him cry, I find out he has a kid with another woman, hmm


I wanted commiting sucide my neighbor stood for me she was der Tru thick and thin, I started hunting for job I almost got used, after three months I was sick I had to travel to my mom she started taking care of me..
sorry for the pains, a lady almost ruin my life those days I was in school, I mean my girlfriend. she dumped me for another guy and the pains made me to have extra year in school. she moved on with her new boyfriend and graduated while I spend one additional year in school all because of her. but I thank God today I've graduated.

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Re: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by debbydams(f): 2:14pm On Nov 16, 2021
redstaarx:


I wished I knew why too .. I'm moving on tho
lol, maybe she don see better man or u did something to her,who knows.
Re: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by Jman06(m): 2:14pm On Nov 16, 2021
debbydams:
go back to the story where she said, she was the one taking the guy responsibility's
What initially got her hooked to the guy was clearly the flashy yahoo guy lifestyle.

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Re: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by bendike: 2:15pm On Nov 16, 2021
Ammishaddai:
[s][/s] You're really jobless sha...what a pity
Pls, can you leave this lady to share her story in peace? If you are not interested in the thread why not skip the page?
Re: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by debbydams(f): 2:17pm On Nov 16, 2021
Jman06:
What initially got her hooked to the guy was clearly the flashy yahoo guy lifestyle.
it is well
Re: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by tiffanyfan(f): 2:17pm On Nov 16, 2021
I got there I was very weak , I was given Injections and drips after 4 hours I gave birth to a baby boy, my baby is okay..

After 4 hours I started bleeding heavily cry it was God that revive me, my mom called his parents they refused to render any help till date, my baby is 4years

I lost my life because I fell for the wrong guy, I lost my career, I lost everything..im trying to bounce back I don't even know where to start from..






Start from anywhere, the mistake has been made already....if you have really learnt your lesson, move on and try harder, you will be fine at the end.

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