why should I ask for sex in a relationship, is been in a relationship not supposed to be because both of uifind yourself sexually attractive and mentally mature ?

Tell her you will buy her the phone but you you must have sex with her first, do that so you don't loose out and don't ever buy that phone. Bang her as many times as possible with the excuse you gonna buy it for her. Na she go de want you after and dish her later.

AlhajiNatty:
Are you a clown?
What have you been doing with the girl since?
Go and nyu your thing and stop asking for permission. Embarrassing mehn!

E no worth am na,it's not his 'thing' cos d gee never marry am,watz bad is bad

Sex outside marriage is a sin.Hence, sexual favours for pecuniary gains is also out of the equation and is 'manipulative' as much as d word in inverted comma connotes.Bro, leave the gal,count ur loses though painful,truth is I are in a situationship not a relationship,to attract the right kind of people u need to be or toe that line of life..
Don't follow d counsel of Ahitophel's ... Remain blessed...Mwanamume!!!

if bele enter hope you are ready to man up and take responsibility. When you want to go into a relationship tell the lady what you want from the start. If its sex and she doesn't go with it let her be. If she does fine. However be ready for whatever comes with it. Do not disguise under the cover of a serious relationship when you want something else.

Weak ass nigga!! Just let it slide if u don't know what to do

People are thinking of how to advance the world, these ones are thinking of something else. Ehn

wfjimmytobby:
I meet this girl around September we got so close and have always spent on her, going shopping and all that and always tell her how I feel.

She do make demand from me and have always responded..but I suspected that she has lots of suitors trying to get her and even her ex..cos she told me he is trying to get back so I decided to demand for sex so we can get serious but she refuse and said she is not ready and that I should wait but she keeps requesting for assistance and even wants me to get her a new phone cos her previous phone got spoilt and all..

So I need your advice should I wait for her to be ready to give me her body and keep on assisting her or should I just give up on the relationship cos she might actually be trying to scam me or something?

She is using you period. In 2021 I can't believe there are still stupid guys like you out there that have no sense of value for themselves despite the massive awareness going on how men must stop tolerating nonsense.

She is a typical 9ja girl that loves to take advantage and finese guys for money and other material gains. I bet you 100%..you aren't even the only one.

Oga receive sense because you are a complete mugulicious odoryor and stop allowing one liability girl deceive you.

A generation without the fear of God

Deborah98:
So na because of sex keep you for that relationship and because of material gain made her stay. She's obviously manipulating you into thinking she's with you,the moment she's satisfied from ripping you off your money na den your eyes go clear. Well I'm not a party to sex before marriage but I'll advice you as a good friend, if you guys aren't in the same page please let her go. Don't be coerced or manipulated to do things for her simply because you wanna take advantage of her based on the help. It's okay to help but don't be used.

Thank God na woman talk am..on how obvious it is that oga is been used.

Nonsense

I guess I’m not missing out on anything . It’s all money and sex now .
Lemme kuku remain in my single lane

The ops is correct. The least thing a girl that is in true love with a guy would love to give him is the connection and what else is connection if sex or intimacy is not involved?

InTheCloudySky:

You can be serious with her without sex. Or since when is sex used to gauge seriousness in a relationship?

Guy, no lady would be in true love and make you go bad. She is getting your sweet (money) and still not interested in making you feel relaxed and have intimacy with you! This the worst of things you would get from a lady that claim to love you.

wfjimmytobby:
I meet this girl around September we got so close and have always spent on her, going shopping and all that and always tell her how I feel.

She do make demand from me and have always responded..but I suspected that she has lots of suitors trying to get her and even her ex..cos she told me he is trying to get back so I decided to demand for sex so we can get serious but she refuse and said she is not ready and that I should wait but she keeps requesting for assistance and even wants me to get her a new phone cos her previous phone got spoilt and all..

So I need your advice should I wait for her to be ready to give me her body and keep on assisting her or should I just give up on the relationship cos she might actually be trying to scam me or something?

Thesaint141:
I nor get wetin to tell u for now, make I go drink water first.

First case of reverse perspective in fine art�

My brother you are a mumu man, na unna type dey spoil map give boys. 2 months, haba now. Is she your family member...? Me Wea dey use knacking take start relationship, I am that Calabar man, if you know you know.

Boogyman557:
Holly Gram OP NA people like u de make me BLAST pesin left leg wit my KALA 4 free. WAITING DE WORRY U... Woman never give u KUNTUS, Una don de go SHOPPING. Na Jah know how much RUBBERZ wey u don spend on top dat BANI head. WAITING DE WORRY U. U NO GO WISE UP. WTF MAN

I never read when I don like your comment. E be like that OP self get as e dey package himself.

aimmoney9:
People sex the same day they meet you are here talking about 2 whole months you can wait for a year mine is same week no time....

Hahahaha. Bro, me na 2 days ooo.

No japa ,give her more goodies and wait like a zombie for sex next year.MUMU.
if them tell una to swallow red pill ,una go say no

wfjimmytobby:
my wetin man go do..shey make I japa or wait I dey confused you know has girls be this days

Most girls are experts in Using guys heads. The only females you can do anything free for is you Sisters, your Mother, your daughter and your cousin sisters...

I can do all these for a girl without expecting anything from her if she is a Virgin, but if she is not, she gets give the damn cochie.

wfjimmytobby:
I meet this girl around September we got so close and have always spent on her, going shopping and all that and always tell her how I feel.

She do make demand from me and have always responded..but I suspected that she has lots of suitors trying to get her and even her ex..cos she told me he is trying to get back so I decided to demand for sex so we can get serious but she refuse and said she is not ready and that I should wait but she keeps requesting for assistance and even wants me to get her a new phone cos her previous phone got spoilt and all..

So I need your advice should I wait for her to be ready to give me her body and keep on assisting her or should I just give up on the relationship cos she might actually be trying to scam me or something?

A sick generation of rebels that Satan has built his evil throne in their hearts.
No more shame for sexual sin. No more sense of right and wrong.
Breaking God's laws means nothing to them.
Repent before it is too late.
Jesus stands ready to set you free from your servitude to Satan and sins.
Shalom.

Boogyman557:
Holly Gram OP NA people like u de make me BLAST pesin left leg wit my KALA 4 free. WAITING DE WORRY U... Woman never give u KUNTUS, Una don de go SHOPPING. Na Jah know how much RUBBERZ wey u don spend on top dat BANI head. WAITING DE WORRY U. U NO GO WISE UP. WTF MAN

Gospel2Day:


A sick generation of rebels that Satan has built his evil throne in their hearts.
No more shame for sexual sin. No more sense of right and wrong.
Breaking God's laws means nothing to them.
Repent before it is too late.
Jesus stands ready to set you free from your servitude to Satan and sins.
Shalom.

Gospel2Day:


A sick generation of rebels that Satan has built his evil throne in their hearts.
No more shame for sexual sin. No more sense of right and wrong.
Breaking God's laws means nothing to them.
Repent before it is too late.
Jesus stands ready to set you free from your servitude to Satan and sins.
Shalom.

Gospel2Day:


A sick generation of rebels that Satan has built his evil throne in their hearts.
No more shame for sexual sin. No more sense of right and wrong.
Breaking God's laws means nothing to them.
Repent before it is too late.
Jesus stands ready to set you free from your servitude to Satan and sins.
Shalom.

First ask your self what else can she offer in the relationship apart from the sex . Guess , she is not a virgin .. she de Bleep someone else perioddddt

You still dey ask

wfjimmytobby:
my wetin man go do..shey make I japa or wait I dey confused you know has girls be this days

Use ur Head very Fast! she is fucking her ex very well & they are both using u to catch cruise...

wfjimmytobby:
I meet this girl around September we got so close and have always spent on her, going shopping and all that and always tell her how I feel.

She do make demand from me and have always responded..but I suspected that she has lots of suitors trying to get her and even her ex..cos she told me he is trying to get back so I decided to demand for sex so we can get serious but she refuse and said she is not ready and that I should wait but she keeps requesting for assistance and even wants me to get her a new phone cos her previous phone got spoilt and all..

So I need your advice should I wait for her to be ready to give me her body and keep on assisting her or should I just give up on the relationship cos she might actually be trying to scam me or something?

Boogyman557:
Holly Gram OP NA people like u de make me BLAST pesin left leg wit my KALA 4 free. WAITING DE WORRY U... Woman never give u KUNTUS, Una don de go SHOPPING. Na Jah know how much RUBBERZ wey u don spend on top dat BANI head. WAITING DE WORRY U. U NO GO WISE UP. WTF MAN

It's because he probably doesn't have abundance... If you know. You know.

InTheCloudySky:

You can be serious with her without sex. Or since when is sex used to gauge seriousness in a relationship?

Since billing is involve sex should be introduced. Love is plain no Bill no sex

Don't leave her without smashing ooh.. make sure you do it real hard to recover all that the Vaca and catarpilar has eaten up.

czarr:
I can't believe that with all the information around there are still jonzing guys like this.

You have to be under 20

Modafuvka simps can never finish bro!!

Before i can advise you based on experience.
I have few questions

1. Is she a lagosian (island babe)?
2. Is she the type that dye her hair or make hair?
3. Is she the type that run her own business? and
4. Is she an over 30 or under 30 babe?


Answer all these and i will give you the perfect and honest answer asper experience.

Stay safe✌️