King44:
Just make sure that you have a job that keep you busy almost 24 hours and you drop money regularly cos if you dey house on a steady you may seem crazy, that could even be the end of your friendship with her.

With men it could be crazy
With women na another level of craziness

Above all, no dey house, get busy and assist her with money to make up for your absence.

tellwisdom:


Na by force to work for island??...come make I give you work for site...Come de offload cement.

Timekeeper:


Money for what.. She is nt my gf...... I can only assist if I av, I'm nt obligated too.
And we will be paying the rent together

Timekeeper:
Advice Needed. I Have An Issue Bothering My Soul And Life..

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King44:
She doesn't have to be your gf. Just treat her the same way you would treat your girl, you can drop money once a while cos always could give her entitlement mentality.

Those her my 2 cents women are complicated.

An when you begin live with people you go know their true nature, doing that doesn't make you a simp but shows that you also care about running the house.

kaywhy09:


Do what you have to do.

Timekeeper:


How and where..money creates alternatives..

When there is no money, no much alternatives

Timekeeper:


And the price is like how much..

If I had much, I wunt consider staying

Babara1994:
If I were you, I'll increase my options by resuming work first, hoping I get a place at work or someone at work who could render a better alternative. If you work in a manufacturing/engineering firm, there is a strong possiblity that you'd find a place to stay until weekends.

You can also find a co-worker who might give you one help or the other regarding ease of transportation or a much better accommodation.




Now, if you have exhausted all the above possibilities, you can now consider staying with her, but you should remember this saying from the Bible:
"Better to dwell on the top of the roof than to live with a contentious woman."

For your own good, I hope the lady you're staying with isn't a contentious woman. E get why

Timekeeper:



Thank you bro... I appreciate.. She trust me bcox of our history and she knows how nice and responsible I am. So she doesn't have any problem with me..

I am jsut scared of women sumtyms

Timekeeper:


Sir.. Do u pray or wish that ur brother or sis to carry cement for site after graduating from school ??

Anyways, I don do laborer B4.. Carry cement, Carry block and that was then..


Now I am a graduate and God will not let me go back to site carrying cement again.. I went to school so as not to carry cement or block in site.. I did all and hustle to make a good grade not to carry cement.


I will soar high despite the difficulties.

Thanks

Styluss:
begin first.... Your Co workers should be able to help

tellwisdom:


You cannot offload cement in Nigeria but when asked to do same abroad, u go rush am. No be so??

Ok, what’s your result; to start with??

ThickSharon123:


3k-20k a week or you can extend it, but you'll be staying with people. If you've been to the university, you'll have no problem with it.

Mariangeles:


I no vex nah.
Yes, aja means dog.



Maybe it's hyped because it's the city that never sleeps.

Timekeeper:


If we pay together, even if anyone must leave, certainly it can't be me... Las las she will take her properties away and I will try getting another one... Dt is the worst Dt can happen if we have paid

Timekeeper:


Sir... God will d sumtin good for me.... It is nt my desire to do such again.. I asked if u can wish ur bro or sis after struggling to go to school and graduate well to go back to site and Carry cement, u didn't give me a reply.

National Diploma upper credit.

Bsc 2nd Class upper....

Timekeeper:


If I must get another place, money for rent, agreement ń commission especially now Dt things are too hard.. I can't afford it


Most people are saying I should get a place.. The truth is that it's nt easy... Even my brother place Dt I stay temporarily, I am planning to leave bcox the place don dey choke....

We agreed to pay 1 year which is 30k each but I opted for 6 months.. I am hoping miracle can happen and God will take me to next level....
I am trying... But she said we need to pay the rent this weekend so landland wunt come and harass her.... It is really closing in on me.... Infact I am currently sourcing for my own part of the money

I can't reject the job and stay jobless.... I am not the type Dt loves staying home and doing nothing while others are at work. So this change Dt I got, I want to make use of it .


Attention: if there is any guy here staying on the island Dt I can squat with, I will really appreciate.. I am of good behavior and a Christian... I don't drink nor smoke, I mind my business..... I am an active person Dt seeks opportunities and my drive for success is unending...

https://www.nairaland.com/6865390/need-anyone-staying-island-lekki

janzguy:
LOLZ!!! Guy, women dont operate like that oh!! She could make a drastic turn at you overnight and they are not as considerate as men. If you must stay then I suggest you make the full payment yourself.

Trojan8:
Baba forget all these people saying you should rent a place or anything like that.
Stay with the babe, focus your Monday to Friday on work. Weekend, you do football and other things to keep yourself busy. Before you know it, six months has come and gone.

Na you know how be for you, no matter how woman matter hard reach its better than that mainland to Island stress. Life na in stages

God bless you!

chaloskyx:
YOU ARE A MUMU THE GIRL WANTS TO USE YOU TO HANDLE HER RENT AND YOU TOO ARE FALLING FOR IT I KNOW YOU ARE NOT THINKING STRAIGHT CAUS EYOU FEEL YOU STAYING WITH HER AND HAVING ACCESS TO HER WOULD MEAN FREE NACKS BUT USE YOUR HEAD SHES THE ONE ACTUALLY USING YOU NOT THE OTHER WAY AROUND.

Timekeeper:


I don't av the money to pay full ooo... Except we share. Money no dey.. Bro

chaloskyx:
YOU ARE A MUMU THE GIRL WANTS TO USE YOU TO HANDLE HER RENT AND YOU TOO ARE FALLING FOR IT I KNOW YOU ARE NOT THINKING STRAIGHT CAUS EYOU FEEL YOU STAYING WITH HER AND HAVING ACCESS TO HER WOULD MEAN FREE NACKS BUT USE YOUR HEAD SHES THE ONE ACTUALLY USING YOU NOT THE OTHER WAY AROUND.

Timekeeper:


E no fit work bro.. Tfare alone has killed me


Not possible bro imagine 1500 to 1800 plus hold up and stress... Daily

Compared to 300 to 400 daily..