tellwisdom:

Please expanciate, What were you insinuating here madam??

paraphase:

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Yes you are right but at most times there is need to be careful and selective on what we learn and who we learn from.i mean advice from people like monkeyleg could harm one's live for eternity.

[b]Haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa . . .  that one is serious then, but if you think about what he/she is saying too, some people cant handle keeping secret, it eventually eat them up so bad . . . .  but just that the person might have to go to www.keepsecretforlive.itisgoodforyou.dontbedumb.org  , especially if it will hurt the other person

ronkebp:

I wonder what the 'stress' about the husband getting angry and probably working out of the relationship, if he does that because the wife confessed to him, then he is the biggest fool, why the woman no vex commot for house, i know say, na because she herself is in the same game, that is why the matter of him cheating died down like that.meanwhile, e dey love-vendor another woman of two, outside his matrimonial home, abeg, I strongly believe that she should tell him, instead of living a lie with her hubby, if heaven wan fall make e fall,

paraphase:

Monkeyleg is the most annoying human being on this thread .Please stop telling her to tell her husband mehn. Things you cant even do yourself,how i wish i can remove those fingers you use in typing the most silly post on internet.I will kick my wife(whom i love so much) out of my house if she confesses she cheated on me.I think you should go and sleep becos you are not making any sense.

logica:

For the women competing with men, continue and you'll end up pissing on your hands like women who want to piss like men do. When (not if) the marriage breaks up, the woman is still the bigger loser (hopefully this is happening in Nigeria and not the US or UK or any of those sorry places where men will be scared to divorce a whoring wife). Take it or leave it.

paraphase:


and see where you are directing the issue.who is talking about fhucking his brothers wife. She said she doesnt want to lose her husband and she is not ready for a divorce(cant you get it dumbest a.s.s?).she is ready to make her marriage work again. Telling her husband brings the possibility of the marriage success to 0%. I dont even know if you are a man or woman,I bet you cant tell your gay partner you cheated on him.

mallorca:

women will never change

paraphase:


Its more than serious,its monkey leg we are talking about here 

hooklover:

na wa oh wonders shall never end. So u bleep outside marriage, for the slightest marriage , God go help we men oh u c wetin young babes go dey reason, its a normal thing we can do it and conceal it,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,but one day monkey go go market e no go come back,


when u say he was crying and sobing then u agreed for him to perfom cleansing [/b]on u, i laugh cos its clear that u reason with your [b]p.u.s.sY NOT your HEAD AND SEX IS your MAIN MOTIVATIONS, IF I HAD A CANE I WOULD HAVE GIVEN U 20 STROKES OF THE CANE SO U CAN REASON WITH your HEAD [/b]ALWAYS.

IN ANY CASE ALOT OF LADIES REASON THI[b]S WAY AND BLAME IT ON THE CRYING AND SOBING OF THE gUY.


BUT TIME WILL EXPOSE ALL OF THEM ONE BY ONE,

WELL THEY SAY A WOMANS MIND IS LIKE A DEEP OCEAN FULL OF MANY DIRTY SECRETS, I KNOW MANY LADIES READING THIS ARE GUILTY OF THIS/

CONFESS TO your HUSBAND AND GET A GOOD START ELSE your PRAYERS WILL BE HINDERED AND LIFE MAY BECOME DIFFICULT FOR BOTH OF U.

VERY IMPORTAND IF U GO TO CHURCH ELSE U JUST WARMING THE CHAIRS COS U ARE A STUMBLING BLOCK TO your HUSBAND,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

IF U IGNORE THIS ADVISE  PREPARE FOR DIFFICULT TIME AHEAD ,MONEY WISE AND FAMILWISE, .CONFESS CONFESS CONFESS

Fhemmmy:


It is sad when i see a man talking like this.
In any divorce the man is the biggest loser.
Yes, in Africa the man chase the woman out and the kids suffer and all that, but that dont make the man a better man

logica:

Sad for who? You I guess. Whether he's a better man or not, as long as he comes out in better shape. So go ahead and piss on your hand.

paraphase:


maybe we need to counsel the poster to confess and be prepared to move in with MONKEYLEG

LadyT:

There is way too much holier than thou going on in this topic.

I really think you are being unrealistic Monkeyleg all this truth truth truth.

I really dont think the best solution is to go about blabbing without thinking.  She knows her husband best and she knows the situation she is in.  

Its ok for a man to have an affair it doesnt destroy them or their families infact if a woman makes too much noise they will tell her to sit down and shut up.

Now if a woman has an affair God save her she will be disgraced sent packing and have her life made hell.

Even if she tells him, now is not the right time she should solve the issues they have now before saying "oh by the way I have been haing mindblowing sex for months"

Fhemmmy:

A man is not any better than the woman, nor the woman better than the man, we are all same