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Re: Some MEN Are Just Babies With Big Muscle by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 9:33am On Dec 20, 2021 |
Hathor5:It's terrible that they think that being a man means you must control and be aggressive 2 Likes |
Re: Some MEN Are Just Babies With Big Muscle by Magnoliaa(f): 9:34am On Dec 20, 2021 |
Mide1data: Woww. But when some of us Nigerians say 'mind your business', we're insulted as being woke. So you like white people's style now?? 1 Like |
Re: Some MEN Are Just Babies With Big Muscle by Coldplay007(f): 9:34am On Dec 20, 2021 |
LikeAking: Lol.. trust him, he knows what he is doing? He is clueless, and obviously if there is no intervention, those children are heading for perdition .. 1 Like |
Re: Some MEN Are Just Babies With Big Muscle by kingslj: 9:35am On Dec 20, 2021 |
Goodlyhrt: TRAIN the child the way he/she should go ....and he will not depart from it (bible Verse) spare the rod and spoil the child. The trend is there already ,God will not come physically to train and correct your child. Please use your head. 1 Like |
Re: Some MEN Are Just Babies With Big Muscle by brain54(m): 9:35am On Dec 20, 2021 |
Magnoliaa:Sorry for your pain... 2 Likes |
Re: Some MEN Are Just Babies With Big Muscle by Hathor5(f): 9:36am On Dec 20, 2021 |
Ladyhippolyta88: Very sad and damaging too. The results are visible in the way the society operates as a whole. 2 Likes |
Re: Some MEN Are Just Babies With Big Muscle by akpunda86: 9:36am On Dec 20, 2021 |
JackDaAlienz: Born your own and train dem like a super woman.just a few days u condem ur uncle. |
Re: Some MEN Are Just Babies With Big Muscle by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 9:36am On Dec 20, 2021 |
Hathor5: Nor mind am,any parent that wants to be besties with their children will form that relationship with them from birth and not age 16 when the child is past puberty and exiting adolescence. Imagine after being strict with your kids and forming macho you want them to open up to you when they are almost done growing up . Sometimes being strict on children draws them away from us 1 Like |
Re: Some MEN Are Just Babies With Big Muscle by stanliwise(m): 9:36am On Dec 20, 2021 |
Goodlyhrt:There is no hard and fast rule on when to advice an adult or when not to. Advice ain't even the word even when they seem to ask for it. To "make aware(bring to light)" is better of. Meaning to discuss with an adult an issue you think, if he/she is open, you too can discuss it out. If he see sense in it he/she would act. And discussion between adult I guess should happen often. It is really a matter of interest if you want to discuss an issue with someone or not. Sometimes because it concerns you, other times because of it may benefit either of you. it is that complicated |
Re: Some MEN Are Just Babies With Big Muscle by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 9:37am On Dec 20, 2021 |
Hathor5: It is sad that broken adults think beating,spanking and being authoritarian with kids is a form of discipline. The results are banditry, terrorism and the rest 2 Likes |
Re: Some MEN Are Just Babies With Big Muscle by Prime1(m): 9:38am On Dec 20, 2021 |
motymop: lol...i don laugh die...No mind OP. OP is a type of man that women flog on social media. He wants to remove a spike from one of his uncle's eyes while he himself have spikes in both eyes. |
Re: Some MEN Are Just Babies With Big Muscle by Corea4king(m): 9:38am On Dec 20, 2021 |
I think the op is 100% right.Africa is not Europe. I am having the same issue right now.Do you that whenever my nephew and niece are not watching firms, especially cartoon is when there is no power supply. Their Dad will put firm for them from 6am and they will be watching till 2 pm .The annoying part of it is that ,their parent will be complaining that their children are not smart,intelligent and hardworking like their age mate. I hardly seeing them reading their book.I have tried to make their parent understand the implication it might cause the children in future, but is like I am wasting my time and sometimes it generate tension between us. I have mind my business because the more I put my eyes on their children, the more I get misunderstanding with their parent.But now they are trying to understand that they are spoiling these children COURTESY BY THIS BUHARI GOVT. 1 Like |
Re: Some MEN Are Just Babies With Big Muscle by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 9:38am On Dec 20, 2021 |
talktimi: |
Re: Some MEN Are Just Babies With Big Muscle by Nnamaka1: 9:38am On Dec 20, 2021 |
It's easy to talk like you, I presume you have never had kids of your own yet. I use to think I was tough till I had my own kids, Damn! That's when I realized the big difference between my own kids and other people kids |
Re: Some MEN Are Just Babies With Big Muscle by Hathor5(f): 9:39am On Dec 20, 2021 |
Ladyhippolyta88: Being too strict only teaches them how to hide bad behavior. The aim must be to make them understand to differentiate between right and wrong and choose to do right even when nobody is looking. It's done with love, empathy and patience and intellectual stimulation, not control, fear and brutality. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Some MEN Are Just Babies With Big Muscle by Hathor5(f): 9:39am On Dec 20, 2021 |
Ladyhippolyta88: Exactly! 1 Like |
Re: Some MEN Are Just Babies With Big Muscle by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 9:40am On Dec 20, 2021 |
od501: He is SIMPle and happy and maybe loved by his family. You that was raised by both parents who loves you? Na OP I blame wey carry this nonsense come nairaland dey make faceless person dey insult him uncle family. 2 Likes |
Re: Some MEN Are Just Babies With Big Muscle by Johel(m): 9:40am On Dec 20, 2021 |
JackDaAlienz: I guess your uncle has stayed abroad for many years...His children are his world...no drink panadol ontop another man headache....His children will grow successful and will love their dad regardless. |
Re: Some MEN Are Just Babies With Big Muscle by Magnoliaa(f): 9:40am On Dec 20, 2021 |
brain54: Omo. The comments here are really hilarious to me sha. Everybody go dey alright las las oh. I'm sha glad 'women as the natural nurturer kinikan' are missing the missiles on this one. Shebi women are bad ni, now that we're demanding more men become active in their children's lives, make we see watin dem go raise naa. We go see. 1 Like |
Re: Some MEN Are Just Babies With Big Muscle by kingslj: 9:40am On Dec 20, 2021 |
Pumpumking: And that is why kids are carrying guns and shooting people in london. check yourself before your hurt yourself. i dont believe discipline is out of place for kids. |
Re: Some MEN Are Just Babies With Big Muscle by Benprass(m): 9:41am On Dec 20, 2021 |
Pumpumking: What you people won't allow to happen to your own children that is what you want others to experience in thier home! Now I see why most children of this generation are nothing to write about. Forget is how you raise your children up that will determine how far the next generation will look like. Like i always say if you aint ready to take care of children dot bring them to this life. 1 Like |
Re: Some MEN Are Just Babies With Big Muscle by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 9:41am On Dec 20, 2021 |
Hathor5: Exactly 1 Like |
Re: Some MEN Are Just Babies With Big Muscle by Coalhill23(m): 9:41am On Dec 20, 2021 |
motymop: Damn!.. that guy is an idiot. What a big hypocrite he is. |
Re: Some MEN Are Just Babies With Big Muscle by Magnoliaa(f): 9:42am On Dec 20, 2021 |
brain54: You don't have to apologise. I'll deal with it. |
Re: Some MEN Are Just Babies With Big Muscle by brain54(m): 9:43am On Dec 20, 2021 |
Magnoliaa:Truth to God... I have no idea the point you are trying to make..! |
Re: Some MEN Are Just Babies With Big Muscle by Panda7(m): 9:43am On Dec 20, 2021 |
oga how many kids you self get?? |
Re: Some MEN Are Just Babies With Big Muscle by Web2020: 9:43am On Dec 20, 2021 |
JackDaAlienz:The world has gone beyond sticks and rod on a child. The intimidation and bullying we subject our children to in Africa make them to grow up and become fearful, not bold in the public. |
Re: Some MEN Are Just Babies With Big Muscle by brain54(m): 9:44am On Dec 20, 2021 |
Magnoliaa:Ok... |
Re: Some MEN Are Just Babies With Big Muscle by nnamdiosu(m): 9:46am On Dec 20, 2021 |
I'm surprised many people read this and are saying OP should mind his business, for God's sake these is his family too, and they are his biz. It's too bad that 'open eye' and modernization has made us forget that one reason why kids of olden days were well behaved is because a child was everybody's child. That way, a child got maximum discipline, even if his parents weren't around. But these days, it's a case of don't touch my children...etc. or mind your business. Now it has led us to where secondary school students join cults and bully.othwrs to join Or where secondary school girls are smoking etc. In as much as training a child is just by God's grace, we should still play our part. OP as it seems you tried your best but it isn't good enough, just gold your peace. God knows you tried. The parents are the first authority (phyisical and spiritual) of a child. Since they won't give you permission, just do the little you can that won't bring confrontation with the parents. They next generation of children, will survive by just the grace of God. It's well. Amen 1 Like |
Re: Some MEN Are Just Babies With Big Muscle by stanliwise(m): 9:47am On Dec 20, 2021 |
JackDaAlienz:While things seem this way is tied to so many things. But in asmuch as it is, you have to understand that there is no rule on how well it is to train a child. This parent are not the only determining factor for the well being of a child and this children can also learn right as they grow older too. So baba calm down first. That said don't think he is doing the full parenting the wrong way, instead like you did up there, just point out what you think seem awkward and say it when you have the opportunity. Your uncle is doing so much right more than thousands and millions of father out there aren't doing. So also find a way to see the good in his parenting style while you just point out what you feel is wrong. Calling out his ways as totally wrong and he is a baby is just you see everything as dark without no light in the tunnel and if it was that bad, it means there is no reason you should even bother because nothing can be done to start with. |
Re: Some MEN Are Just Babies With Big Muscle by Magnoliaa(f): 9:48am On Dec 20, 2021 |
JackDaAlienz: Eyaaa. Sorry ehn. Based on the responses of this thread, e be like say 90% of the men here are simps, as they do not see reasons with you. Perhaps if you had posted it in the redpill thread, you might have gotten the kind of responses you sought. brain54: Okay. 1 Like |
Re: Some MEN Are Just Babies With Big Muscle by halfbloodprince(m): 9:49am On Dec 20, 2021 |
You allow someone into your home in the name of family, and end up getting judged gossiped about. Well good lesson for me in the future. We move. |
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