Haryhomyidhey:
Guys i really want to make something very clear. To have a celebrity crush doesn't mean u want to Bleep the person. You might just like the person naturally nd might not have anything bad in mind

Emphasis on MIGHT...!. if that guy cross her part na 50:50 ,, leave talk

Haryhomyidhey:
Yeah that's true, its a normal thing. Well other couples may not like it tho. Wow, i thought you said your crush was kim Tae hyung actually?

Na today u knw dat babe? She dey change like weather!!! Tomorrow, na RONALDO she go crush on. I never see where WOMEN dey crush on POOR MEN before!!!

Magnoliaa:
All I know is, there are couples (dating or married) who have celebrity crushes and they are okay, and fine with it and joke about it.

A crush can be nothing more than an admiration, in fact, crushing simply means admiration or likeness or attraction ESPECIALLY for someone older and that you can't get. Wanting to fk a còck or pùssay is lust. And other things. Other things that ain't crushes. Because it means nothing. Someone from way back in time, that you briefly see on TV and ... what? You want to be fighting your spouse over that?

You singu pringus do the most.

Your SO will have likes o, and obsessions and 'sweet tooths', quirks/peculiarities, 'indulgences,' just basically something they are dedicated to- boya you will goan start fighting with every thing that filled up their life to make their personality something you found attractive.

If it doesn't get in the way of you two 'coupling' or is not likely to result in cheating/divorce, leave it be.

antar laniyan is my wife's crush and we joke over it.

ezebunafo:
antar laniyan is my wife's crush and we joke over it.

Exactly what I was talking about and what I had in mind.

Enny2013:

Lol... Only myself understand dis statement.
He was d only one guaranteed to pay n he paid.
He wouldn't be my husband if he couldn't pay. Yep!

K

franciskaine:
and men don't tame theirs? Biased statement.

This isn't a bias statement at all. It's a clear cut fact.

babavik:

But is it right?

It isn't bad

Haryhomyidhey:
I don't see anything wrong if a married man or woman has a celebrity crush. The name is actually what is confusing most people. Celebrity crush can be someone who is a celebrity that you like. I have a celebrity crush and my husband knows. This has not caused any fight or misunderstanding.

one day you will see someone that looks very much like him..... That's a loop hole for the devil to exploit. He that thinks he stands let him take hid less he falls.

As a married woman, it's wrong to have a crush whether it's a celebrity or not. You should focus your attention to your husband.

Emdebby2:
As a married woman, it's wrong to have a crush whether it's a celebrity or not. You should focus your attention to your husband.

Are u kidding me?

Emdebby2:
As a married woman, it's wrong to have a crush whether it's a celebrity or not. You should focus your attention to your husband.

Different strokes for different folks jarey. It's a big deal to some people and no deal to others.

I dump my ex bcoz she was screaming I love you on 20th of December to davido at Asaba

uptownemmygee:
I dump my ex bcoz she was screaming I love you on 20th of December to davido at Asaba

Which Year is dis?

2021?

Beebah2000:
To me, it is a normal thing.

Besides, I am crushing on this guy

Everyone is crushing on him.

lucky4west:
it is not normal for a married woman to crush on some one else outside your husband, that is lust being coded as crush....meaning if they come in contact with that guy they will go all the way with him, so if your husband is not your crush what are doing married to him? it also means your husband is not your ideal man and that alone is a recipe for trouble.

Stop pretending that you won't be attracted to other people when you're married, just because the topic involves a woman. So what if your wife or husband isn't your ideal person? There's no full package person—take it to the bank. Your spouse isn't the only person in the world. Accept it.

If people were only attracted to their spouses there would be no cheating in this world.

BRATISLAVA:


Stop pretending that you won't be attracted to other people when you're married, just because the topic involves a woman. So what if your wife or husband isn't your ideal person? There's no full package person—take it to the bank. Your spouse isn't the only person in the world. Accept it.

If people were only attracted to their spouses there would be no cheating in this world.

Nor mind am, I quoted him earlier today he is fond of having unrealistic opinions

Everyday we admire new people and could be attracted to them for one thing or the other that is reality but then it takes discipline to choose to be committed and faithful to one out of millions of persons. And you made perfect sense because no one is perfect but we have chosen or decided to see our partners or other halves as perfect.

It is the act(commitment and desire) to stick to one person that is the main thing not that once you get married or in a relationship your crush or ability to be attracted and like people automatically dies or closes,it does not some people have been able to discipline themselves and pass the test while others have chosen to fail which leads to infidelity.

As long as we are humans and we have blood running through our veins there would always be attraction but our desire to respect and commit to our partners out of love should be enough to fight/resist such unholy thoughts that lead to infidelity

Emdebby2:
As a married woman, it's wrong to have a crush whether it's a celebrity or not. You should focus your attention to your husband.

A Married man nkoor?

thats a personal thing

i have Harry kane as my crush and hubby has ireti doyle as his crush,

if u are scared of crushes then u dont know who you married.

i come in peace.

AmazonTopaz:


Nor mind am, I quoted him earlier today he is fond of having unrealistic opinions

Everyday we admire new people and could be attracted to them for one thing or the other that is reality but then it takes discipline to choose to be committed and faithful to one out of millions of persons. And you made perfect sense because no one is perfect but we have chosen or decided to see our partners or other halves as perfect.

It is the act(commitment and desire) to stick to one person that is the main thing not that once you get married or in a relationship your crush or ability to be attracted and like people automatically dies or closes,it does not some people have been able to discipline themselves and pass the test while others have chosen to fail which leads to infidelity.

As long as we are humans and we have blood running through our veins there would always be attraction but our desire to respect and commit to our partners out of love should be enough to fight/resist such unholy thoughts that lead to infidelity

You've summed it all up!

The reaction is probably because it's a woman who is crushing.

Crushing is simply that. It doesn't mean someone is loose. Because no matter how beautiful or handsome and intelligent ones spouse is, there is always someone more than that. It's ones conscious decision to stay faithful rather than lying to themselves that their SO is the all in all.

Beebah2000:
To me, it is a normal thing.
Besides, I am crushing on this guy

Lol. The witcher

Vinnie2000:
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Which Year is dis?

2021?

Yeap

Stargurl20:

Just as being married do not stop men from being attracted to other women and even going as far as frolicking, it's exactly the same with women, just that most women are able to tame their attraction towards opposite gender because they respect their marriages.

Did you just say that?

MrSly:

Did you just say that?

Yes, sir.