alphaNomega:
Guyman borrowed 10k from you, he will give the babe 5k and pocket 5k as a sharp man.

Babara1994:
There is this lady I liked. We met three months ago. Recently, she asked me to lend her 5k, adding that the money will be returned back in a week's time.

I had the money, but I knew from experience that lending females money, especially the ones you're crushing on is a waste of money. I declined and told her I wasn't interested in her any longer.

4 hours later, one of my male friends asked me to lend him 10k, stating that he would repay in two weeks' time. I sent him the money immediately.

Did I do wrong?

Raychee:
So you just came here for validation on such a pointless topic. Nobody cares who you give your money to.

Raychee:


Most are kids and others are forming fake macho online. We know their types. Take them seriously at your own detriment. The real ones don't have time for stupid talks like these. Others are busy with productive things and one person is asking if giving 5k or 10k to one person is wrong.

l0uie:
You did absolutely well but questioning yourself by asking if you did wrong is WRONG!

Babara1994:
There is this lady I liked. We met three months ago. Recently, she asked me to lend her 5k, adding that the money will be returned back in a week's time.

I had the money, but I knew from experience that lending females money, especially the ones you're crushing on is a waste of money. I declined and told her I wasn't interested in her any longer.

4 hours later, one of my male friends asked me to lend him 10k, stating that he would repay in two weeks' time. I sent him the money immediately.

Did I do wrong?

Babara1994:


4 hours later, one of my male friends asked me to lend him 10k, stating that he would repay in two weeks' time. I sent him the money immediately.

Did I do wrong?

alphaNomega:
Guyman borrowed 10k from you, he will give the babe 5k and pocket 5k as a sharp man.

Comedian2019:

It's your money. You can decide to do whatever you want.
Mind you, that your male friend would rather give a woman his money than give you a dime. Think about that too. Men are not too good to men.
I'll advise you to give her if you still have, but make it clear that it's a biz transaction, nothing more.

benqo01:


Guys hardly help guys,and its becoming something else.........girls dey enjoy no b small

alphaNomega:
Guyman borrowed 10k from you, he will give the babe 5k and pocket 5k as a sharp man.

chronique:


Abeg, this is a poverty induced topic. Nothing like red piling here. Na who never see money de always shout I can never give a girl xyz. When you make money and meet the class of girls who deserve it, you won't even remember your red piling. Red piling on top 5k na better jonzing. Poverty induced jonzing.

Beebah2000:
LEARN HOW TO GIVE OR LEND YOUR FELLOW GENDER MONEY.
THAT IS WHAT NIGERIAN MEN SHOULD LEARN HOW TO DO.
STOP BEING STINGY TO YOUR FELLOW GENDER.

YOU DID WELL DEAR

Beebah2000:
LEARN HOW TO GIVE OR LEND YOUR FELLOW GENDER MONEY.
THAT IS WHAT NIGERIAN MEN SHOULD LEARN HOW TO DO.
STOP BEING STINGY TO YOUR FELLOW GENDER.

YOU DID WELL DEAR

Mustiboy:


You no get talk abeg

lkillbrokehoes:
You are pained, op you did the right thing. kudos!

Mecka:
raycheebabe I have a crush on you

grossintel:
Sense no go kill you, I was faced with the same situation some 3 months ago. But I wasn’t crushing on this one in anyway. Ending of the month turned to next month end, next month end turned to another next month end, na so we don enter new year with 65k dept. Truth is the money is something I can forget but I won’t! She had this intention of not paying back and I will make it clear to her next time I call her.

Ajimusty2:
Na my sister I even do this one to,mama called me that she needed money urgently for something. Meanwhile she don call house people say she wan carry her boyfriend comot.gbam the next thing she saw was WhatsApp update where I was burning the 10k with my guyz.

flokii:
@OP Yes you did very wrong.. she asked you to lend her, not dash her the 5k. Atleast give people the benefit of doubt first before knowing next step to take on their matter.

What is the assurance that your guy will pay back the 10k (×2 of what she asked) in stipulated time? that's if he ever pays and not come up with stories that touch the kidneys.

jimcaddy:
This thing has become a normal occurrence for Naija babes now. You start talking to them. The first day like this, they will ask for credit or they want to eat shawarma and drink ice cream. Or then need financial assistance.. It's like every Naija babe does this. Meanwhile if a guy asks them for sex on the first day of talking, they will block him and say he is disrespectful blah blah blah.

Babara1994:
There is this lady I liked. We met three months ago. Recently, she asked me to lend her 5k, adding that the money will be returned back in a week's time.

I had the money, but I knew from experience that lending females money, especially the ones you're crushing on is a waste of money. I declined and told her I wasn't interested in her any longer.

4 hours later, one of my male friends asked me to lend him 10k, stating that he would repay in two weeks' time. I sent him the money immediately.

Did I do wrong?

Babara1994:
There is this lady I liked. We met three months ago. Recently, she asked me to lend her 5k, adding that the money will be returned back in a week's time.

I had the money, but I knew from experience that lending females money, especially the ones you're crushing on is a waste of money. I declined and told her I wasn't interested in her any longer.

4 hours later, one of my male friends asked me to lend him 10k, stating that he would repay in two weeks' time. I sent him the money immediately.

Did I do wrong?