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Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by wirinet(m): 1:14pm On Jan 04, 2022 |
UyaiIncomparabl: Resaearch has shown again and again that married men live longer and healthier life than single men. Married men with active sex lives are less prone to prostrate cancer that single men or men with less active sex lives. 3 Likes
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Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by LofP(m): 1:17pm On Jan 04, 2022 |
Good plan. But a few things to note. 1. Carry the burden of the vacation alone. 2. Daily items like milk, sugar etc. were listed, transportation wasn't resolved. If you are in Lagos, transport is a major cost. In Abuja it might be less serious. I am guessing you have not bought a vehicle yet. 3. Health insurance should be captured too. People who talk are forgetful that women in the western world also work and they support their spouses. It is greed when a woman looks at 300k as big without trying to contribute no matter how small to the marriage other than "labour room" talk. The same labour room that ALL WOMEN have gone through and it is a natural process either you are RICH or POOR, you must suffer the same fate. They depict themselves as victims of childbirth, well giving birth to children is a personal choice, so live with your CHOICE. |
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by Ladycewhy(f): 1:21pm On Jan 04, 2022 |
franchasng:This one na suicide mission. Op na those type wey dey think say dem dey all knowing and wise such people dey hard to deal with. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by BigBashiru: 1:27pm On Jan 04, 2022 |
NigeriaIsGreat: Define "education".... and what is the difference between university education which you crave and other forms of education. Una go just dey talk....anyway I'm done wichu.... Nigerians believe until uve reached university dat u never go school this believe is flawed.... Abroad most ppl don't go to university some just do college or learn a trade..... 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by Nobody: 1:29pm On Jan 04, 2022 |
Nyascobar1414:What is this one saying? Did the girl ask the guy for money or did she tell him how much he should spend from his money? You better read the post from the beginning and understand before you be jumping into incoherent conclusions. Which women go see shege? Except the ones wey no dey work, na dem go see shege because you cannot tell a working class lady how much she should be spending from her own salary. 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by Swissheart(f): 1:35pm On Jan 04, 2022 |
Biggie2000:I asked this same question before I got married, I was a single mother who singlehandedly raise a fine boy, paid my rent, fed my family, started a building project and all. The question was, did I need to get married. Apparently no, if everything were about money. Money making isn't peculiar to men only, Women do too. Infact women are becoming richer by the day. Why should I marry when I could take care of myself and my son. I did because of companionship, friendship, partnership and I wanted a real family with a special person. I went for him. It wasn't about his money. The icing on the cake now is that I don't spend my money again. For you as a single father to 2 beautiful kids that you have trained, bringing in a correct person is your call. You aren't bringing in an empty jezebel who would scatter an already existing structure. She is bringing in friendship partnership to you and the kids and she is completing the family. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by BigBashiru: 1:35pm On Jan 04, 2022 |
Simran94: If you cannot tell a working class lady how much she should be spending from her own salary then likewise for the guy... This takes us back to: 1. Let the man live in his own house. 2. Let the woman live in her own house. Then they both visit themselves and stay over in each others houses some nights.... dats it. Since everyone wants to do selfish and tough. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by Nyascobar1414: 1:35pm On Jan 04, 2022 |
weaseloo: cos say I married you I should pay you.. She go follow pay for being her husband nii. |
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by NigeriaIsGreat: 1:36pm On Jan 04, 2022 |
BigBashiru:acquiring university degree isn't synonymous to richness or making money If you are a Man, it is expected of you to shoulder the financial responsibility provided you chose to get married. If otherwise, it is expected of you to remain single and chaste. No crime in doing that The dick inbetween our legs isn't just for fun but RESPONSIBILITY 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by Shokoloko(f): 1:36pm On Jan 04, 2022 |
lavamaestro:You are absolutely brilliant! 3 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by Nobody: 1:40pm On Jan 04, 2022 |
BigBashiru:What kind of reasoning do you NL guys have? What happened to sit your GF down and talk about your intentions to make a financial plan for your marriage and both of you should make inputs together as to how much each of you would be contributing monthly? Thereby having intensive talks on what works for each of you? Why should the guy be the only one making that kind of decision? 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by Nobody: 1:44pm On Jan 04, 2022 |
NigeriaIsGreat:You need to stop responding to that person. He is the type that sees women as slaves for marriage 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by Nobody: 1:46pm On Jan 04, 2022 |
Biggie2000:Then you really don't know what marriage is about. Because from what you just pointed out, you need a slave/maid as a wife. This is one of the reasons why marriages are failing 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by Nyascobar1414: 1:48pm On Jan 04, 2022 |
Simran94: Better.. If a man makes the rule and a woman does not obey the rules.. The marriage starts crumbling.. A man look unto God a woman look unto a man.. When God say no, a man must accept the no and not do otherwise .. When a man says yes to a woman the woman must accept the yes if not, the marraige becomes a fairy tale.. Thats why the rate by which men will be marrying will really crumble, they will instead go for baby mam's.. And some women will attain menostop(menopause).. And that when you will know who should submit to a man.. And who will meet the consequences in high demand. |
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by MuchAdo: 2:03pm On Jan 04, 2022 |
levi2: It doesn't mean she can't assist them from time to time especially when called upon. |
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by MuchAdo: 2:07pm On Jan 04, 2022 |
francisgodstime: Men do too. But a man's primary responsibility is his immediate family. Everybody understands that. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by MuchAdo: 2:11pm On Jan 04, 2022 |
francisgodstime: The Bible made the law. 1 Timothy 5:8 But if any provide not for his own, and specially for those of his own house, he hath denied the faith, and is worse than an infidel. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by ukaface(f): 2:13pm On Jan 04, 2022 |
Nyascobar1414:why can't you be rational in your reasoning The lady's salary is far less lower than his, how much can you estimate his transport and masculine stuff? Subtract it from his and do same for the woman, who is at a greater loss? How can you compare someone earning 300k and 80k ,haba! No be matter of ' this generation' even you suppose reason am Na . Someone no fit talk again, small thing dem go say ' generation of females...mtcheeeew 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by Nyascobar1414: 2:22pm On Jan 04, 2022 |
ukaface: öhh I see. Then let her make upto 200k b4 she thinks bout marriage.. Women suppose make money b4 they think bout marriage.. But this 21st century they think its all about being a woman.. Did you know what the man went through b4 making that 300k, struggles in school,and other hustling b4 getting a job that pays such amount.. So, cos of marriage he should deny himself right of enjoying his labour all those years? Thats why I say this marriage stuff benefit women.. A kinda business. |
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by safarigirl(f): 2:22pm On Jan 04, 2022 |
BigBashiru: They clearly are not meant for each other if one person is not willing to discuss and negotiate, abi? Compatibility also has to do with conflict resolution. Just because you really like someone and vibe with them does not mean you are compatible. There are Nigerian women that will take that agreement, because once again, this is based on an individual. So, he just needs to find that someone, and let her find her own person. If I approach the average Nigerian man, he will never accept sex before marriage, but does that mean no Nigerian man will accept it? No. Imagine I come here and start ranting about Nigerian men because of that. Find your person, someone whose values align with yours. Na so life be. 3 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by safarigirl(f): 2:23pm On Jan 04, 2022 |
Nyascobar1414:Yes, women suppose make money before marriage. Anybody wey wan marry suppose get money, but Nigerians will tell you it is not necessary. |
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by Nobody: 2:24pm On Jan 04, 2022 |
Nyascobar1414: The fact that you even brought God into this discussion... If we are going to follow what God actually said, The MAN should be the one providing for the family(financially included) while the woman takes care of giving birth and taking care of them. God made MAN the head of the family and as thus it is the duty of the Head to provide for the family 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by lexman200(m): 2:27pm On Jan 04, 2022 |
bigpicture001:God don save your life my bro you didn’t ask too much from her. husband/wife are supposed to split bills it happens in some Europe countries. |
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by Nobody: 2:41pm On Jan 04, 2022 |
bigpicture001: My father never for once Obligated my mother to contribute financially to the family. My mom still contributes money too even though sometimes he will tell her to keep her money and use it for herself. When my dad was building his second home, my mom asked him if he needed money so she could give him but my dad said no she shouldn't that he can take care of it. I know a few men who do this with their wives, they don't force them or tell them how much to drop in the family, their wives just do it at will. I really don't know where this coercion is coming from. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by Nyascobar1414: 2:41pm On Jan 04, 2022 |
UyaiIncomparabl: 5years from now your beauty will begin to dwindle, not a big deal. Women age like milk.. Enjoy the attention while its last |
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by Nyascobar1414: 2:52pm On Jan 04, 2022 |
Ladycewhy: Does a man still have any business with her parent after paying her bride price... Must he buy festive gifts to her family with his own money.. Did her parents train him?... He should only buy gifts to his parents and the lady should buy gifts to her own parents with her own money... Thats why I say marriage benefits ladies.. But Oops, If only you are married, you will escape the generation of this men, but if not una wey be single ladies una go see shege oo. |
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by Jeferious: 2:55pm On Jan 04, 2022 |
patoski39:Seriously. You don talk am finish |
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by Nyascobar1414: 2:57pm On Jan 04, 2022 |
Simran94: Yes I love that.. Provide for the family.. That means her hair, makeup and pad and all her expenses should be footed by the woman alone with her own money.. Then the man will provide for the family which is the children only.. Cos its the children that even gave them a reason to be together likewise the child is the bond that keeps them. The woman should provide for herself and the man will provide for himself and the kids.. No problem with that... And I'll see who's gonna be pained. |
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by Tbaba001: 2:58pm On Jan 04, 2022 |
Mariangeles: This lady is definitely a parasitic leach... I mean the lady in question is only contributing 30k+ per month and you spitting thrash here... If 30k is too much how much do you think is appropriate for a woman to contribute in a marriage 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by Misterdhee1(m): 3:06pm On Jan 04, 2022 |
dmostcheerful:LOL, so your husband works every month and dumps the rewards for his Hardwork into your account Some men need serious lashing I swear. |
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by Ladycewhy(f): 3:08pm On Jan 04, 2022 |
Nyascobar1414:lol, shege unto say ? I am glad it is no longer the era of women being told never to return to their father's house after marriage , neither is having a child outside marriage considered sacrilegious. Infact Ini Edo is the typical modern woman every girl who thinks marriage is not for her should emulate . Las las everybody go dey alright. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by Nobody: 3:12pm On Jan 04, 2022 |
Nyascobar1414: This is a personal expense, the woman should foot these bills with her own money except the man wants to do that for her because we have cases of men taking care of their wives. But when it comes to the general welfare of the family, like food, rent and other expenses, the man should be in charge except the woman wants to willingly contribute. |
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