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Re: Having A Male Child by We4all: 12:40pm On Jan 10, 2022
FORWARDEVERLY:




See Bro..
Many people in this generation are forming Woke nonsense.. but they forgot that we are not whites and can not be like them even in the next 100 yrs to come.. becos of poverty, ethnic sentiment, tribalism , corruption etc..

Any one that wants to live his life in Nigeria here based on the standard abroad would be shocked and regret in due time..

E get one time wey I dey inside (family)house on Vacation.. two able bodied men came and Brought a missing child to our house and assumed that my mom is the parent of the kid, they started lashing out at my mom, using rude and disparaging words etc..
My elder bro came out and not long I followed suit to see who the Baztards was, immeidiately they saw us and me in particular, wetin commot for their mouth na Bros Good afternoon.. (people wey senior me for age oo) when Dem see my Abs, muscles etc no be person tell them to comport and start apologizing that it was a case of mistaken identity, that they taught my mom was the careless mother that let her child wander away.. I was just laughing..

Another example was some village idiots that wanted to exceed our father's land boundary (you know how stupid some igbos can be when it comes to land)..
When me and my brothers pounced on them and nearly sent them to Hell.. it ended in apology from them..

My brother, the list is endless... I can go on and on..
Any man in Nigeria forming Woke, claiming male child is not a priority, copying Canada lifestyle for naija, e go shock am.. when he and his family would be intimidated by any slightest reason and most times the intimidation starts when the man is dead, na d wife and female children left go suffer am..


My dad died when all of us where in primary school.. guess what, we are three boys and a girl..
No type of Juju , intimidation and harrasment wey em uncle no give my mom, so that she would be scared and run away, so that they can inherit my father's property and the family would be in disarray..
Guess what my mom said Years later.. that she soldiered on cos she know she has male children and people adviced her too to hold on cos his sons would become men soon and take over...
As I speak, my father's uncle is still alive he have grand children sef.. but all of them both him, his children and grandchildren children dey fear us..
When we talk , nobody coughs but we don't interfer in their business too..
Cos Dem know say we dn become Men and the naturr of our profession would also make life miserable for them just with a phone call..

I pity any man wey say Male child isn't a priority in a family.. E go shock am.. em go know say na Africa.. Nigeria be this.. no be canada or US..


Money is the koko and not any stupid male child. Do you know the type of respect that the likes of Linda Ikeji commands?

You’re talking cos probably your mom birthed responsible and able men.

What about a scenario where the male kids are useless? Are you saying if that were the case, the family will cease to exist?

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Re: Having A Male Child by ademasta(m): 12:41pm On Jan 10, 2022
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Re: Having A Male Child by JOACHINpedro: 12:41pm On Jan 10, 2022
ImoleNaija:


This same 2005 NL?
Some people no Sabi lie with conscience

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Re: Having A Male Child by chrizzyace: 12:42pm On Jan 10, 2022
okine4real:
Fathers and Mothers. Pls ohh. Myself and my wife, we trying to have a child this year, and we want a Male child. Male Child or nothing else. In fact i just Pray this time it works because trouble FIT dey.

Now my question is, as anybody in the house every tried the method of making love to you wife on the day of her Ovulation and the sex happens to be a Male child?

I have read to much article and the one that got my attention the most was, IF YOU WANT A MALE CHILD, MAKE LOVE TO YOUR WIFE A DAY TO HER OVULATION DAY OR ON HER EXACT OVULATION DAY. Please whom have tired this method and what is the success rate? I nor get money for IVF, so dont tell me say make i go do am ohh, because i heard its not cheap.

Regards

Abeg help save this marriage.

I’ve been hearing stories like this, and I have refused to believe them. I am shocked that I am actually seeing this for real here. Wow really? There would be trouble if you don’t have a male child? What’s so special about a male child than a female one? Unless you have some traditions that is backing this your desperation for a male child otherwise my brother you no get talk abeg.
Re: Having A Male Child by phemmyfour: 12:43pm On Jan 10, 2022
okine4real:
Fathers and Mothers. Pls ohh. Myself and my wife, we trying to have a child this year, and we want a Male child. Male Child or nothing else. In fact i just Pray this time it works because trouble FIT dey.

Now my question is, as anybody in the house every tried the method of making love to you wife on the day of her Ovulation and the sex happens to be a Male child?

I have read to much article and the one that got my attention the most was, IF YOU WANT A MALE CHILD, MAKE LOVE TO YOUR WIFE A DAY TO HER OVULATION DAY OR ON HER EXACT OVULATION DAY. Please whom have tired this method and what is the success rate? I nor get money for IVF, so dont tell me say make i go do am ohh, because i heard its not cheap.

Regards

Abeg help save this marriage.
What's wrong with the other gender
Re: Having A Male Child by Bigfish121(m): 12:43pm On Jan 10, 2022
You nor go blame the op.na because of the way girls dey behave for this our generation na make am tire am.
Re: Having A Male Child by ENIGMATIC2023(m): 12:44pm On Jan 10, 2022
You and your wife are mad.
Re: Having A Male Child by frozen70(f): 12:45pm On Jan 10, 2022
okine4real:
Fathers and Mothers. Pls ohh. Myself and my wife, we trying to have a child this year, and we want a Male child. Male Child or nothing else. In fact i just Pray this time it works because trouble FIT dey.

Now my question is, as anybody in the house every tried the method of making love to you wife on the day of her Ovulation and the sex happens to be a Male child?

I have read to much article and the one that got my attention the most was, IF YOU WANT A MALE CHILD, MAKE LOVE TO YOUR WIFE A DAY TO HER OVULATION DAY OR ON HER EXACT OVULATION DAY. Please whom have tired this method and what is the success rate? I nor get money for IVF, so dont tell me say make i go do am ohh, because i heard its not cheap.

Regards

Abeg help save this marriage.

God is the only scientist that determines every sex or gender of a child

Any child given to us must be appreciated no matter the gender

But for ovulation calculations, why not try every alternate days

What if you as a man, you count is low, what do you do at that point

So hand everything to God, he knows best
Re: Having A Male Child by Lorenzo4949(m): 12:46pm On Jan 10, 2022
Oga, up tight ur game. No come dey put ur wife into unnecessary pressure
Re: Having A Male Child by okine4real: 12:51pm On Jan 10, 2022
descarado:

You are right.
To be on the safe side, not just the first day of her ovulation but when her ovary just released the egg. That is the koko. Sometimes women release egg from the two ovaries one after the other and they don't know except they have ovulation pain both sides for those who normally have that.

A member of my family had this problem. 3 girls and the man went rabid. I was very close to the wife and this lady tell me everything. I got to know about this through her. When she used kit the first time and it worked( bought her kit from Holland), she told everybody she knew about it who had the same problem and all got pregnant with baby boy. Alternativey, if you are sure of your ovulation, no need for kit, as soon as you release the egg, have sex immediately even if it's midnight.

Unconsciously because of cultural norms of some tribes, women try to be safe by following this rule as long as conception isn't the issue.



Pls what kit are you talking about?
Re: Having A Male Child by Queensss(f): 12:51pm On Jan 10, 2022
Ishilove:
Save which marriage? Oga na you dey fire the female children inside her belle and na wetin you deposit she go give you.

Yeye dey smell

grin grin

I find it very hilarious. Like, is this not suppose to be simple Biology.
Re: Having A Male Child by Nobody: 12:52pm On Jan 10, 2022
RoyalBoutique:
okine4real, Lemme post something I used to get a male child.

This book worked well on both male and female.

I have 3 males and 1 female.

I'm going for 2 more females to make it 3 males and 3 females.

The males came are 1st, 2nd and 3rd borns.

The female is the 4th born.

You need to read the whole book to understand most things, but I'll post the part you're looking for.

Ok, so in the pictures below :

1. The name of the book
2. The chapter you need
3. How to get a female
4. How to get a male


Can you help me with any amount of money?
Re: Having A Male Child by Teerach: 12:52pm On Jan 10, 2022
Na so my neighbor take find male pikin that year wey send am to his early grave. The boy is a full blown cultist. The dad is dead. The girls are the family's saving Grace now. Nobody's saying you shouldn't have a male child. Male kids are good. But not this kind of desperation.

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Re: Having A Male Child by caesymore(m): 12:53pm On Jan 10, 2022
Darkseidxx:
Bleep her anal and when you wan cum
Cum on her pussy
That's the solution

grin
Re: Having A Male Child by Nobody: 12:54pm On Jan 10, 2022
okine4real:
Fathers and Mothers. Pls ohh. Myself and my wife, we trying to have a child this year, and we want a Male child. Male Child or nothing else. In fact i just Pray this time it works because trouble FIT dey.

Now my question is, as anybody in the house every tried the method of making love to you wife on the day of her Ovulation and the sex happens to be a Male child?

I have read to much article and the one that got my attention the most was, IF YOU WANT A MALE CHILD, MAKE LOVE TO YOUR WIFE A DAY TO HER OVULATION DAY OR ON HER EXACT OVULATION DAY. Please whom have tired this method and what is the success rate? I nor get money for IVF, so dont tell me say make i go do am ohh, because i heard its not cheap.

Regards

Abeg help save this marriage.

Not a guaranteed fix, what if Oga lacks Y chromosomes?
Re: Having A Male Child by Dextre(m): 12:56pm On Jan 10, 2022
okine4real:
Fathers and Mothers. Pls ohh. Myself and my wife, we trying to have a child this year, and we want a Male child. Male Child or nothing else. In fact i just Pray this time it works because trouble FIT dey.

Now my question is, as anybody in the house every tried the method of making love to you wife on the day of her Ovulation and the sex happens to be a Male child?

I have read to much article and the one that got my attention the most was, IF YOU WANT A MALE CHILD, MAKE LOVE TO YOUR WIFE A DAY TO HER OVULATION DAY OR ON HER EXACT OVULATION DAY. Please whom have tired this method and what is the success rate? I nor get money for IVF, so dont tell me say make i go do am ohh, because i heard its not cheap.

Regards

Abeg help save this marriage.


Oga nothing like that. Who gives you people advices sef, my God!!
Re: Having A Male Child by marsup: 12:56pm On Jan 10, 2022
Some questions are not worth answering. Women should stop marrying men with low IQ.

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Re: Having A Male Child by AtoningBlood(m): 12:58pm On Jan 10, 2022
okine4real:
You see if you are Yoruba, You would not understand where am coming from. Am not mocking Yourba's but most Yoruba's dont place priority on Male children. Its there culture and an individual thing. Its just like some people, after building just one house, then its okay for them, they will kill there hustling spirit because they are contempted. In my case i have A boy and the Girls. I dont know how i was able to do it the first time, but i want to have another boy. I have tired having a boy right from when i wanted to have my third child, it came out to be a babe, third babe. So when i seek advice, i was told about this Ovulation day of a thing. As a matter of fact, I love my babes very very well. In fact my First Daughter is more Academically sound than my son. I would train all my girls minimum to B.Sc level, but the reality is, in a family setting, there are role for guys and for babes. Personally i dont like putting all my eggs in one basket, having only one son, would result in me spoiling my son, indirectly i would be pampering him because i would be scared because he is all i got. Also when you have more than one son, you confuse your enemy.

Something happened to me on the 1st of this year. i was to load lots of appliance into a Truck on 1st of Jan, 2022, Nor Aboki was avail around 5pm, the truck came early, when the truck driver told he was close to where the appliance was, i woke my younger brother and we proceed to the said location where the items where. It took myself and my younger bro about 45mins to load the appliance, items where gates, AC,Pumping machine etc after loading those items, we then proceed to where i leave again to load the second bash, after loading i followed the truck to where i would be off loading the appliance. While we where moving, something came to mine mind, i have only a son, if it was my son that wanted to move this items, will he start knocking on his friends door at around 5am for them to come help him, then i decided that i really need to have a second son. Besides my son has been begging his mom to give him a brother.

So for you all shouting, its what you give is what you get, agreed, but remember on this same thread, someone said, his father had 6 girls and was looking for a male child, when his father met his mother, she gave him 3 male child because his mother understood the Ovulation thing. So for the ladies dont every tell your husband that, its what he gives he would get, if he then goes outside and meets a woman that understand the way this ovulation thing works, then you would have yourself to blame.

It was my friend that advised me about the Ovulation thing, but i was not sure, so i decided to bring it here.

@bolded is the reason why children love their parents more. How do you think you will be more responsible if your wife failed to give you one more son and you go out to impregnate another woman? My brother, do you know how much school fees is? Four children and you are still looking for more sons? We've passed the dispensation of son or nothing. In my village, men now look for girls, because na them dey take care of their father. Think well and think for tomorrow. Take care of your children, enough is enough, those girls will take care of you well tomorrow. Do not discriminate, my father can tell the difference between a girl and a boy now.

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Re: Having A Male Child by okine4real: 12:59pm On Jan 10, 2022
ibechris:




U have to meet a gynecologist to help you out on this,it's not expensive at all.
I had my two children expecting at least a boy but it never came before we proceeded for the third child which the gyno really helped seriously,after the drug and injection and he gave us a date and the third pregnancy brought our only son.
Though the experience was hilarious and positive.



Please share your experience.
Re: Having A Male Child by AtoningBlood(m): 1:01pm On Jan 10, 2022
chrizzyace:


I’ve been hearing stories like this, and I have refused to believe them. I am shocked that I am actually seeing this for real here. Wow really? There would be trouble if you don’t have a male child? What’s so special about a male child than a female one? Unless you have some traditions that is backing this your desperation for a male child otherwise my brother you no get talk abeg.

If you read his other post, he actually has 1 male child already ooo, 1 boy and 3 girls. He wants more sons!!!!

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Re: Having A Male Child by Annwrites: 1:02pm On Jan 10, 2022
okine4real:
Fathers and Mothers. Pls ohh. Myself and my wife, we trying to have a child this year, and we want a Male child. Male Child or nothing else. In fact i just Pray this time it works because trouble FIT dey.

Now my question is, as anybody in the house every tried the method of making love to you wife on the day of her Ovulation and the sex happens to be a Male child?

I have read to much article and the one that got my attention the most was, IF YOU WANT A MALE CHILD, MAKE LOVE TO YOUR WIFE A DAY TO HER OVULATION DAY OR ON HER EXACT OVULATION DAY. Please whom have tired this method and what is the success rate? I nor get money for IVF, so dont tell me say make i go do am ohh, because i heard its not cheap.

Regards

Abeg help save this marriage.


This one is simple now. Simply go for IVF, pay extra to pick the sex of the child.
Re: Having A Male Child by TechSpecialist(m): 1:02pm On Jan 10, 2022
FERNANDEZISBACK:
What kind?
marriage, seeking a life partner, career, etc
Re: Having A Male Child by Dminister(m): 1:04pm On Jan 10, 2022
Do this and thank God later. Prepare for your wife’s ovulation period by eating enough groundnut, break two raw eggs inside a cup and mix it with milk and drink it. On the very first day of your wife’s ovulation period, sleep with her from the back. make sure you fire her from the back very well. You are sure of male child.
Re: Having A Male Child by okine4real: 1:05pm On Jan 10, 2022
AtoningBlood:


@bolded is the reason why children love their parents more. How do you think you will be more responsible if your wife failed to give you one more son and you go out to impregnate another woman? My brother, do you know how much school fees is? Four children and you are still looking for more sons? We've passed the dispensation of son or nothing. In my village, men now look for girls, because na them dey take care of their father. Think well and think for tomorrow.

i know how much school fee be. I understand the country is hard. The Truth is, i have lots of in-laws that dont care regards the sex of there child. But remember, we are all different. I hard for me to conclude that, na only one Son i go get, its scary i swear. Its possible to have a son, i know there are methods because i have read about it, but the Ovulation day thing is the most common one i have read about, so i just want to be sure.
Re: Having A Male Child by FERNANDEZISBACK: 1:06pm On Jan 10, 2022
TechSpecialist:
marriage, seeking a life partner, career, etc
Why me? there are many doctors and counselors out there.. except you have something else on your mind.. undecided
Re: Having A Male Child by kansoboy: 1:07pm On Jan 10, 2022
Oga, go to scan and monitor Ur wife ovulation, it will only cost u 10k or their about to do it,(good scan around u oo, no be all scan na scan)
Boy child:
On the day of ovulation have sex an u will have boy, don't have sex before the ovulation day(Result 98%

Girl child:
have sex 3 days before the ovulation date, after that don't have sex again. (Result 98%

I am talking from personal experience..my first child is boy, my wife is pregnant for second child now and have done 2 different scan to determine d sex and it all showed girl(XX)

I am not a medical practitioner, but with Google , every person is a doctor.


If u don't want to do scan, as Ur wife her circle days and us Google to get the rest result.

Good luck and still tell God to grant Ur request




quote author=okine4real post=109239748]Fathers and Mothers. Pls ohh. Myself and my wife, we trying to have a child this year, and we want a Male child. Male Child or nothing else. In fact i just Pray this time it works because trouble FIT dey.

Now my question is, as anybody in the house every tried the method of making love to you wife on the day of her Ovulation and the sex happens to be a Male child?

I have read to much article and the one that got my
attention the most was, IF YOU WANT A MALE CHILD, MAKE LOVE TO YOUR WIFE A DAY TO HER OVULATION DAY OR ON HER EXACT OVULATION DAY. Please whom have tired this method and what is the success rate? I nor get money for IVF, so dont tell me say make i go do am ohh, because i heard its not cheap.

Regards

Abeg help save this marriage.[/quote]
Re: Having A Male Child by osuofia2(m): 1:09pm On Jan 10, 2022
Ishilove:
Save which marriage? Oga na you dey fire the female children inside her belle and na wetin you deposit she go give you.

Yeye dey smell

Lies
Re: Having A Male Child by 7pages(m): 1:10pm On Jan 10, 2022
You're ungrateful Op, I dont mind having my kids as female



I grow up in a boring family because we are all Male, who knows if I've a female elder sister I won't be suffering like this, my immediate elder bro is doing well but no effect in the family

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Re: Having A Male Child by Johnsown1(m): 1:11pm On Jan 10, 2022
Allow her to be for a year or two before before you hit her hard.

But seriously life no balance at all, a friend of mine is begging the opposite because she have 4 male children currently. The husband comes back home from abroad once in 2years to impregnate her.
Re: Having A Male Child by ibechris(m): 1:14pm On Jan 10, 2022
okine4real:




Please share your experience.


I can't share my experience here,I have told u little of it and take action if u really want to. Pls,it is all your responsibility to work it out.
Re: Having A Male Child by AtoningBlood(m): 1:19pm On Jan 10, 2022
okine4real:


i know how much school fee be. I understand the country is hard. The Truth is, i have lots of in-laws that dont care regards the sex of there child. But remember, we are all different. I hard for me to conclude that, na only one Son i go get, its scary i swear. Its possible to have a son, i know there are methods because i have read about it, but the Ovulation day thing is the most common one i have read about, so i just want to be sure.

See, if you ask me, enjoy sex and stop anything called having more children. what you have is more than enough, give them the best education and you will never regret it. We have one 2 kids and anytime I mention having more kids to hubby he'd say you go pay their school fees oo.

But if you insist, the ovulation thing is surest, it worked for a friend to have a baby girl cos she already had 2 boys and wanted a girl to close. Please buy the ovulation test kit, you may get the clearblue own not those cheap once that won't predict well. Don't guess when her ovulation is oo cos it might land you a girl (If you think it's today and you hit it, it will remain there and slowly walk to meet the eggs 3 days later if she did not ovulate on the day you hit her and prolly ovulated after 3 days) so it is important you know the exact day. Having ovary pains is not the best way to know you are ovulating as well, cos the pains comes before the ovulation day, even the mucus discharge isn't the best test. See the jumia link to buy the clearblue ovulation kit - https://www./advanced-digital-ovulation-test-kit-clearblue-10-sticks-clear-blue-mpg1581376.html you see the price is now more than 27k, it used to be 5k when I just got married, person when go born more pikins must ready now.

Buy the ovulate kit and start testing 5 days after her menstrual flow. Both of you may start 4 days after sha to be sure you don't miss as some women ovulate earlier. Read instructions from the manual on how to test or watch some youtube videos. Above all, ask God for what you want, He is a Giver

@okine4real

Goodluck!

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Re: Having A Male Child by Diorjo123: 1:20pm On Jan 10, 2022
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