Animegirl:


Because they're lazy, don't want more responsibilities.

Are responsibilities something someone should derive joy from doing? when someone is not a slave.
If responsibilities are that good, why don't women embrace it? or they don't like it? why do women run out of marriage or relationships at the slight evidence of hardship? because they are far too lazy to carry a fraction of those responsibilities

MadamVanessa:



There's nothing in marriage. Lately, our women have been doing as if their survival is tied down to marriage or if you don't marry, you're a failure. Stupid mindset. Have your baby or babies with a man then live your life independently. It's foolishness to live under a detect of a man.

If you can't deal with sexual urge, there's no harm in having sex gadgets of all type and satisfy yourself if need arises or you look for one hot hansom guy that is matured and use as sex slave.

Bleep marriage

Lol

you actually think sex is the reason they are desperate? a dick is not a problem for women.
They are scared of the FUTURE sis. Most ladies are not prepared for the future.
Life in the late 30's upward is a different life totally. it is a life of responsibilities - building your house, car etc and securing your old age.
A woman knows it is better she marry a man that will atleast put her in a 2 bedroom flat (comfort) than she staying alone in a self contain or face you i slap you.

vickydevoka:

It's normal thing. Ever since I traveled abroad ladies having chasing me up n down despite my wugly look. Lol. That's to tell you ladies are the main Yahoo yahoo looking for maga that will pay In exchange of pussy

Truvelisback:
Good day, Fellas. Why are guys losing interest in settling down?

Because GOD did not marry.....

JESUS did not marry....

Even devil self no marry.....

U Sabi pass Dem.....

gforce5:
To add to my earlier post, a lot of guys keep raving about our parents getting married when they had nothing and growing as a unit. Most people here tend to forget that the cost and standard of living in our parents time is different from now. The realities of a young man in 1982 is completely different from what men in 2022 are facing. There was no social media, no android phone, no laptop and cars aren't as expensive as they are now. Back then, having a telephone in your house was a big deal. Mercedes 300 was for the few 'big boys'. Expectations were low. Furthermore, education was still free or at least very cheap. Can you compare that time to now where everyone wants to send their ward to private school as public schools have gone to blazes? Back in the day, having your own place and a car made a big boy. Today, that's the barest minimum to have as a man. Life as a young man in 2022 is not beans. This coupled with the fact that most women in this country have very unrealistic expectations on what a man should do for them is one of the many reasons why many men prefer to remain single as marriage is more beneficial to women than men.

Bro you said it correctly, the rate of inflation from 1980 to 1990 was very small. Dollar rate to Naira was small too. Our parents never had all this problems we had, in 8 years 200k salary earners are now poor. The struggle is too real now, too real. Even Abacha's economy was 100 times better.

There was a thread of a guy on Twitter who was earning 200k from 2014 and use to drive a nice Toyota, he his complaining bitterly that he can no longer find life bearable. Now he his planning to JAPA. The problem with Japa is that it takes all your funds & makes you poor for at least 2 years, imagine spending 10Million or more you have saved for years just to Japa to Canada or USA. When I read his thread I felt for him because this was my predicament back in 2016 where I suddenly realised I was poor with my Gross salary. After removing transport, expenses and family black tax, I was left with very little.

The economy is the biggest thing preventing men from settling down, I don't know why people cannot just see this.

emmaodet:


Are responsibilities something someone should derive joy from doing? when someone is not a slave.
If responsibilities are that good, why don't women embrace it? or they don't like it? why do women run out of marriage or relationships at the slight evidence of hardship? because they are far too lazy to carry a fraction of those responsibilities

My brother, I tire. They say all men bring to the table is money. Once they carry the mantle, they start complaining. Did you see that thread on Family section of a lady who is doing well financially but husband being letargic? All the women who use to talk rubbush saying Men should help out more in chores bla bla bla and they would be appreciated fully by their women suddenly had a change of mouth. Honestly social experiments are good because it shows us the hypocrisy of all of us. They kept asking if the husband was helping out in chores, she said yes. Now they said ehn, his role is to provide, So you all knew that men's role was provision right? So why keep saying all we bring is FUNDS?

Like GIRRRRRRL, you don't want FUNDSSS?

truthsayer009:


My brother, I tire. They say all men bring to the table is money. Once they carry the mantle, they start complaining. Did you see that thread on Family section of a lady who is doing well financially but husband being letargic? All the women who use to talk rubbush saying Men should help out more in chores bla bla bla and they would be appreciated fully by their women suddenly had a change of mouth. Honestly social experiments are good because it shows us the hypocrisy of all of us. They kept asking if the husband was helping out in chores, she said yes. Now they said ehn, his role is to provide, So you all knew that men's role was provision right? So why keep saying all we bring is FUNDS?

Like GIRRRRRRL, you don't want FUNDSSS?

Yes bro, i saw the thread. I was just laughing going through the thread and seeing ladies comments.

At the bolded - This is my area of concern tbh. Since we all know and agree that men are designed to provide, then why are we empowering women? why are we blocking the chances of the REAL PROVIDER thereby making life harder and more miserable for him at the expense of those who are not ready to take the mantle.
For every woman you see at a job place, equal amount of men are displaced.

emmaodet:


Yes bro, i saw the thread. I was just laughing going through the thread and seeing ladies comments.

At the bolded - This is my area of concern tbh. Since we all know and agree that men are designed to provide, then why are we empowering women? why are we blocking the chances of the REAL PROVIDER thereby making life harder and more miserable for him at the expense of those who are not ready to take the mantle.
For every woman you see at a job place, equal amount of men are displaced.

The answer to this question is actually straight forward, every human who puts in the same amount of work should recieve the same amount of compensation, also there are families who have women as offspring, they are also responsible for feeding their old parents & siblings, so your sister should be able to do their part in your house hold financially and need to be empowered too, else they venture into modern day prostitution. Besides some men deliberately leave their kids to suffer & abscond. So the women need to take up the challenge by fire by force. So that one no be the issue!

The real issue here is admitting that they aren't interested in providing in a marital union. They should boldly admit it and let's all move on.

gforce5:


5. Transactional relationships. Most women in this country see relationships as a mere transaction. They don't understand the concept of being in a relationship. They will bill you in exchange for sex. What kind of mentality is that? Sex is a mutual act that is beneficial to both parties. It's not only the men that enjoy sex. When you are engaged in this act, you are no different from a prostitute. At least prostitutes and escorts are blunt about what they are.

This is arguable to be honest, but the explanation is so long that I wish we had a space like Twitter where people can share their thoughts.

The short answer is that we think different from women & it might be easier if men understand how women think. Sex is like a product to women, whether she is mummy G.O or the lady in the club, the morality doesn't matter. Most times, the idea that sex is mutual is only in the man's head.

Nothing special about getting married. Most are unhappy people