GoooodHardDick:


You dey give your hope. Since your life is so wonderful, then while waiting for a man you'll become a liability and parasite to? Are you okay? What exactly can you offer that man in a relationship apart from your over used pussy? Sense fall on you there. No man wants a liability and a parasite. You better get rid of this entitlement mentality of yours.

Blablamalala:


It is only a foolish man and poor that regrets after spending on women.

dangoteinlaw:
Had one girl like that, within 2weeks dating her my account went down by 150k, what I bought or spent it on idk .. Imagine a young single guy in that kind of spending spree in this present economy. Nigeria girls are thieves!!

Rubyjade:
They don't want to be responsible

Animegirl:


Because they're lazy, don't want more responsibilities.

kiddkash:

not entirely true.
A lot of men spend so much time trying to make money because no one wants their family to suffer while time is going,
also when men spend so much time with other single men for so long, they love the free life,
getting sex from random girls or prostitutes, they are satisfied.
lastly, the bad news they hear from married people, they wonder if it is worth it, they don't want to go through the same thing.

GoooodHardDick:


Werey. There's a massive difference between responsibility and burden. Instead of blaming all men, why can't you deal with yourself and get a life. Make yourself responsible and leave the men alone, coz a man is supposed to be responsible for his own actions not to be responsible to a liability.

Truvelisback:
The responsibilies in marriage is damn heavy and very expensive. Sadly, nowadays ladies aren't helping matters with what they are earning, some of them are even idle(no job) and have become liability to guys. I guess guys are trying to avoid a senerio like this.

GoooodHardDick:


You dey give your hope. Since your life is so wonderful, then while waiting for a man you'll become a liability and parasite to? Are you okay? What exactly can you offer that man in a relationship apart from your over used pussy? Sense fall on you there. No man wants a liability and a parasite. You better get rid of this entitlement mentality of yours.

Loud Am sir!

SandraIkuboR:
Probably Cos they are scared

Fuckaniza:


This one off local man!

WoundedLamb:
Lol... When guys don't want to settle down, they're said to be losing interest. When a ladies don't want to settle down, they're simply olosho. In both cases, only one gender takes the blame as usual. Many will say they're fleeing from liabilities (a convenient term for 'responsibilities') but our fathers still got married even when women weren't even expected to do anything other than take care of the home. So what excuse does this generation have?

The truth is, regardless of the term we use to refer to it, people are beginning to realize that marriage, as beautiful as it is, is not necessarily a do-or-die affair like society paints it. It could be argued to be some sort of irresponsibility but even that would be debatable. This change isn't gender specific. It might be more apparent with men cause we seem to have the financial power and the ability to easily pull that off without judgement. But some women would rather be baby mamas too.

Truvelisback:
Mehn! What a life! And to even find a financially supportive lady is damn hard. The other day, a guy said in his thread here that, the moment he told a lady he was wooing online that he was a School teacher, the lady blocked him immediately.

Rubyjade:
stop giving excuses

Gerrard59:
I think it's your circle or environment. For instance, almost every girl/lady I know is getting married. The ones who aren't married are either in a committed relationship or have many admirers. BTW, these ladies aren't dating or marrying fellow females but men. Also, it depends on your age group. That's, if you are in your 30s or move with men who are in their 30s, you will certainly get wedding invitations here and there.

When I read people rant (at this point, it's all rants) about folks not marrying, I laugh as it's largely your environment or peer group. Nigerians are largely conservative people who will always desire to marry regardless of what woke culture or social media spew.

Truvelisback:
I remembered those days that they used to say that marriage is not for boys, but nowadays, men aren't finding it funny at all.

VicUkegbu:
So what is the way forward for men?
Should men focus solely on amassing wealth and jettison emotions & intimate relationships...
I think we all should pray for good partners because I believe in as much as there are tons of bad eggs... there's also good ones regardless of how social media or whatever depicts it.
Let's try and make our relationships work even if we see & hear otherwise in today's world.. it takes maturity & understanding.

VicUkegbu:

Is it that we focus on the bad... don't we have or hear news from people whose marriages are working?

MadamVanessa:



There's nothing in marriage. Have your baby or babies with a man then live your life independently. It's foolishness to live under a detect of a man.


Bleep marriage