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Re: Things You Wish You Did Before Getting Married by sekundosekundo: 2:47pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
Hydronium: There are two things that sustains marriage especially here in Africa. 1 Money 2 Children. Though some have it enough and still the marriage didn't work. 2 Likes |
Re: Things You Wish You Did Before Getting Married by springlex: 2:50pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
I wish I had relocated abroad.Now much responsibilities wan kill me... |
Re: Things You Wish You Did Before Getting Married by faithfull18(f): 3:18pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
sophirebenitez:What is good for the goose is equally good for the gander. 3 Likes |
Re: Things You Wish You Did Before Getting Married by twosquare(m): 3:19pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
Who can verify this? I believe the first is to save for a land and work to build the house....it is relative sha...not for those who are in metropolis. Anfieldboss: 1 Like |
Re: Things You Wish You Did Before Getting Married by Mom007(f): 3:32pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
Nothing really. I lived my single years... Was a bit of a workaholic but it was fulfilling. Now I'm married and I have nothing I think I missed out on. 3 Likes |
Re: Things You Wish You Did Before Getting Married by Hydronium(m): 3:36pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
Whynow: Incidentally, not all relationships /partners are shams. Need to learn to look on the bright side. Besides, like begets like, so the only reason you get wrong partners is because you're wrong yourself. Try reorienting to being the right person you're expecting and see wonders. So... I have nothing to be afraid of. |
Re: Things You Wish You Did Before Getting Married by freshalien: 3:48pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
faithfull18: Story for the gods. |
Re: Things You Wish You Did Before Getting Married by Hydronium(m): 3:50pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
faithfull18: By all means. Let's stop segregating society |
Re: Things You Wish You Did Before Getting Married by Nobody: 3:50pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
Hydronium: Good idea especially if you have both agreed on it. Good luck. 2 Likes |
Re: Things You Wish You Did Before Getting Married by Mariangeles(f): 4:18pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
Hydronium: You’re going to need advice from the experts on how to prevent that, since you’re both novices in that department. From what I’ve noticed, if care is not taken, they’d come back to back before you know what’s up. Na una type dey born twins as first sef. 2 Likes |
Re: Things You Wish You Did Before Getting Married by adewaleadeyemi8(m): 4:50pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
i am getting married in 2 weeks time and honestly i am already thinking of all the drama i am currently facing if this is what i will be facing till forever 1 Like |
Re: Things You Wish You Did Before Getting Married by Hydronium(m): 5:24pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
Mariangeles: Hehehe lol So I'm open to learning. How do I go about it |
Re: Things You Wish You Did Before Getting Married by Hydronium(m): 5:27pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
sekundosekundo: True about money. But honestly, there were certain key values that stood out for each of us when we were entering the relationship. The lack thereof indicated that we were not compatible each other. So our values had to align first before other things, that is, values before money/children. |
Re: Things You Wish You Did Before Getting Married by Hydronium(m): 5:28pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
Mom007: Awesome happy for you Perhaps there are some survival (day to day) tips you can share then |
Re: Things You Wish You Did Before Getting Married by Emmanuel30a: 5:33pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
Hydronium:Some of the truth is that, your marriage is your marriage and nobody may be able to talk to you about your marriage and how to handle and manage your marriage. One of the important things is knowing the basic things of marriage and in marriage... Every other thing are a result of your timing, priorities and purposes. Love is the fulfilment of law. Not a bad idea to be asking for experience... The experience you had and things you learnt when living with your parent would be invaluable too as it may guide you while making some decision. Farewell and bon voyage... Essentially, the fear of GOD is the begining of wisdom... "Iwe ofin yii ni mo pamo ni okan mi ki emi oma baa se si o" . Experience is evolving&continual &sometimes, it is good to have first hand experience just like when... first hand information. 3 Likes |
Re: Things You Wish You Did Before Getting Married by Emmanuel30a: 5:43pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
faithfull18:Naturally, nobody need to learn how to copulate in marriage... Because people are fornicators... They have invented and adopted various ways to copulate... Some are also recording themselves while fornicating and committing adultery, sending and selling for others to watch... We have billions of porn and sex movies, viral sex videos,etc showing and propagating different sex styles and position... You can imagine them inventing missionary style... Or whatsoever...Missionary suppose to relate to sex? Maybe there would soon be seminary style. Adam&eve don't learn how to have sex... 1 Like |
Re: Things You Wish You Did Before Getting Married by Mom007(f): 5:47pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
Hydronium:My biggest tip is that one should be happy as a single person. Enjoy your own company, not every time hang out, hang out. If you are happy single, you will he happier married because you won't be too needy and clingy when your spouse is not around. Spend your own money on yourself! Not every time beggi beggi. It will help you appreciate the value of money and appreciate gifts if someone is kind enough to give you any. Take yourself out. I learnt that from my big sis. Do nice things for yourself. That 2k u will spend on sharwama or pepper chicken and icecream for yourself will not kill you. Have at least 3 days in the month where you just switch off your phone and toss it under your pillow and just go about your day! It may seem like the world will end if you do but its a lie. You will not miss anything and nobody will miss you. It helps us know that rush rush life is not it. Nothing is that important. Finally, seek God and have a personal relationship with Him when you are still single! Its easier to maintain a relationship you have already started than starting one when you are married as too many distractions! You see some people, they become born again after marriage, its because marriage is not a bed of roses o... You really need the grace of God and the spirit of wisdom and understanding to be successful in marriage but its hard to find the time to commit to God, read your bible, pray etc when you are married and having so many added responsibilities but when you have started it since your single years, its easier to manage. 5 Likes |
Re: Things You Wish You Did Before Getting Married by Emmanuel30a: 6:04pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
Sex is not for pleasure, it is like an infrastructure to obtain GODS' treasure which is the baby or the child. No amount of sexual pleasure with pressure can give you GODS treasure. You are not assure to get GODS treasure if all your pressure is to have sex as pleasure... Ensure and be sure not to have sex as pleasure so you can obtain GODS treasure... The culture of sex is not to have pleasure but to obtain a treasure with GODS nature... Not all treasure from GOD would have GODS nature, especially when the culture of sexual intercourse is to have pleasure... Sexual intercourse should not be a culture of pleasure adventure or an adventure of pleasure... It should be a culture (not a culture of pleasure adventure or adventure of pleasure) when you are mature to receive a treasure that is mature in and with GODS nature. 1 Like |
Re: Things You Wish You Did Before Getting Married by Offpoint1: 6:51pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
Hydronium:you'll be disappointed 1 Like |
Re: Things You Wish You Did Before Getting Married by Hathor5(f): 6:57pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
Nothing. Ok, maybe saved a lil bit more. 2 Likes |
Re: Things You Wish You Did Before Getting Married by Aaay: 8:43pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
Hmmm |
Re: Things You Wish You Did Before Getting Married by Hydronium(m): 9:03pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
Mom007: Wow. A truckload of wise sayings |
Re: Things You Wish You Did Before Getting Married by Hydronium(m): 9:05pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
Re: Things You Wish You Did Before Getting Married by Offpoint1: 9:07pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
Hydronium:Not interested in update, you'll create a thread when it's time. 1 Like |
Re: Things You Wish You Did Before Getting Married by faithfull18(f): 9:13pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
Offpoint1:Offpoint, you will surely be disappointed, you need to change your circle. In Nigeria alone, there are about 200million people and virgins still abound. Smh. 2 Likes |
Re: Things You Wish You Did Before Getting Married by MadamOk(f): 9:26pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
God bless you, more wisdom Munzy14: 1 Like |
Re: Things You Wish You Did Before Getting Married by MadamOk(f): 9:28pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
Nice one, your head oil full am Mom007: |
Re: Things You Wish You Did Before Getting Married by MadamOk(f): 9:31pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
Whatever make you happy do it |
Re: Things You Wish You Did Before Getting Married by 24brains(m): 11:46pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
PastorMIsBack:what of a man marrying a single mother with 3 kids already? |
Re: Things You Wish You Did Before Getting Married by 24brains(m): 11:50pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
Hydronium:marriage na scam jare. |
Re: Things You Wish You Did Before Getting Married by Offpoint1: 8:42am On Mar 30, 2022 |
faithfull18:I don't keep no circles sweetheart and I ain't saying there ain't no virgins... But I've been around enough to detect one. |
Re: Things You Wish You Did Before Getting Married by DonroxyII: 8:50am On Mar 30, 2022 |
Hydronium:Lol, I no dey charge nor collect money. How I wish the entire world can be full of Blissfulness without Issues but they say that's for Heaven ... Oya assignment for you as I don help you wellwell: Focus Your Brain Moderately overtime on how to Satisfy Your Wife and Let your wonderful Brain take you through the world in search for answers: You can use the above tip for anything: I for teach you but I no wan too spoil You, You be Man Na ... Oya enter Bush carry Antelope come home Na! 2 Likes |
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