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Re: Who would you marry? The one you love or the one who loves you. by Allisgud: 7:42pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
I will marry the one who love me,she go dey adore me and I will be feeling like a king,but I wount take her for granted,so it will balance 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Who would you marry? The one you love or the one who loves you. by Kaymansion(m): 7:42pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
The one who loves me because to even cheat on you, will be like she wanted to commit suicide 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Who would you marry? The one you love or the one who loves you. by Nobody: 7:42pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
Nebes: Wisdom.. too much. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Who would you marry? The one you love or the one who loves you. by Oceanjagaban: 7:45pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
The two of them dey crase |
Re: Who would you marry? The one you love or the one who loves you. by luminouz(m): 7:45pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
UyaiIncomparabl: Even without seeing me in real life at all? You must a Grand Witch o. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Who would you marry? The one you love or the one who loves you. by tolajay: 7:46pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
Intrinsically, women are unable to love (in the context of amorous relationship). They simply mirror and respond to acts and words of love from their male chasers. Sad truth! Look around, who does most of chasing in a relationship? Who does most of the giving? In fact, structurally (actually biologically) women are the receivers...pun. Mind you, the man is often pleased to be the giver (intrinsically and egotistically), all things being equal. Spiritually, there's a reason the Bible commanded men to love their wives. Because it knew that women can only respond to love (they can't give). However, the response of the woman is meant to be submission. Read Ephesians 5. The woman's love is wrapped in her submission. This is the sequence: Man submits to Christ (as Christ submitted to God) > Man loves his wife (as Christ loves the church and died for it) > Wife submits to man (as Christ submitted to God). It therefore tells you that everyone in the family is submitted to Christ either directly or by proxy. Submission is actually both ways and all rounder in the Christian family. When these scriptural commandments are obeyed to the latter, no storm or satan can break the family. I have noticed that it is easier for a man who truly loves a woman to tell say "I love you" than it is for the woman. Do you know it's harder for a woman to stay in a love-less relationship than it is for man to keep up with an obstinate woman? Summary 1: It's the man's responsibility to LOVE. Summary 2: Christ is the premise for a happy life and a successful marriage. God instituted marriage and it can't be operated with mere human psychology or theology. Jesus is the way! Toks2008: 2 Likes |
Re: Who would you marry? The one you love or the one who loves you. by Nobody: 7:46pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
The one who loves me jare |
Re: Who would you marry? The one you love or the one who loves you. by Nobody: 7:50pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
I don't like you, I don't care how you feel about me, just bear me kids. |
Re: Who would you marry? The one you love or the one who loves you. by AdeniyiA(m): 7:51pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
Karleb: You have failed even before you started bro... Afidipotemole 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Who would you marry? The one you love or the one who loves you. by showafrica(m): 7:52pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
Tonytonex: Na so e be bro, talking from experience. Go for the one wey love you genuinely for nothing. That one you love, will keep you miserable forever. I repeat, go for the woman wey love you more, find a way to love her back and mean it. But make e be say her love big pass your own. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Who would you marry? The one you love or the one who loves you. by Avast(m): 7:53pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
I married the one that loves me dearly. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Who would you marry? The one you love or the one who loves you. by kayperry: 7:53pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
Nebes: Bro you are entitled to your opinion and respect your decision buh consider this a chit chat. based on the popular scripture in the bible[b] "22 Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands" [/b]while "25 Husbands, love your wives," For years it bugged my mind why the word "submit" was used instead of love, a quote like "women love your husband and husband love your wife could have made perfect sense buh with time i got to realize a woman can't love a man, highest is respect cos a woman's love is subtly reserved for her offsprings. what this literally means is that, women carry a deficit towards men but the good signs to look out for is; "if she respect you well enough thats her own true love" As a man its not your job to love a woman, its a conditional responsibility, a man's love can be ascribed as "REWARD therefore as a man it is best to marry a woman that loves(respect) you more, @least that will alway cover up for the deficit in her nature. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Who would you marry? The one you love or the one who loves you. by Nobody: 7:54pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
hopexter: You all keep getting it wrong. Love may make a woman faithful but it's not love that makes a woman or anyone for that matter faithful but their values/ principles as a person. Integrity, honesty, respect, contentment and stability. My point is, you need not be in love to respect your spouse and be faithful to them. It's values that count when it comes to choosing a partner. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Who would you marry? The one you love or the one who loves you. by Richarlison640(m): 7:55pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
I will prefer someone who loves me my peace of mind matter more to me |
Re: Who would you marry? The one you love or the one who loves you. by Tonytonex(m): 7:59pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
showafrica:okay. Thank you so much. 1 Like |
Re: Who would you marry? The one you love or the one who loves you. by MadamOk(f): 8:04pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
I concur to this point, you are real niggar of Nlanders slawormiir: |
Re: Who would you marry? The one you love or the one who loves you. by kayperry: 8:05pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
tolajay: woof ! if i had seen your comment i for no waste my hard earn ink Buh i have heard guyz say they love "challenges".. so i'm like can a woman give respect and still give challenge or how does it work |
Re: Who would you marry? The one you love or the one who loves you. by Ebakere: 8:08pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
The one who loves me cos I will fall in love immediately I finds out you love me Honey where are you � |
Re: Who would you marry? The one you love or the one who loves you. by Revolva(m): 8:08pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
The one who truly.love me |
Re: Who would you marry? The one you love or the one who loves you. by frankson1(m): 8:09pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
luminouz: |
Re: Who would you marry? The one you love or the one who loves you. by luminouz(m): 8:13pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
[quote author=frankson1 post=111741405][/quote] Please quote me properly next time. Yes I am a man. If you doubt it, PM me to see me na. Frankson1, don't waste your money on women who don't love you. It always ends in premium lager Tears!!! |
Re: Who would you marry? The one you love or the one who loves you. by ikorodureporta: 8:19pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
That's why you shl chase that person that u're interested in... Before she starts feeling that you don't love her the way she loves you 1 Like |
Re: Who would you marry? The one you love or the one who loves you. by Lima98(f): 8:25pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
Toks2008:thats reality |
Re: Who would you marry? The one you love or the one who loves you. by badbros(m): 8:30pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
slawormiir: would love to light one with you some day and catch cruise, you dey Yarn correct 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Who would you marry? The one you love or the one who loves you. by stasius: 8:30pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
The one who loves me |
Re: Who would you marry? The one you love or the one who loves you. by Emdebby2: 8:32pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
Hard to decide. |
Re: Who would you marry? The one you love or the one who loves you. by Nebes: 8:34pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
kayperry: From my experience and learning, love is not equal to respect. A man's love for a woman softens him towards her. But if you rely on a woman's love, don't be surprised when she scolds and disrespects you even while confessing her love for you. 2 Likes |
Re: Who would you marry? The one you love or the one who loves you. by sirp9898(m): 8:36pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
But we Nigerians dont love ourselves Y are we one? Pls explain no insults |
Re: Who would you marry? The one you love or the one who loves you. by Berankis: 8:37pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
Simply the one who loves me. |
Re: Who would you marry? The one you love or the one who loves you. by Gkemz: 8:40pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
As a man, marry who loves you. Though she may not be attractive to you. It's your duty to make her attractive. Just as you p.i.m.p your car you cherish, so you can p.i.m.p her to look as good as you wanted, but so long as she's worthy of such. 1 Like |
Re: Who would you marry? The one you love or the one who loves you. by frankson1(m): 8:41pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
luminouz: I don't waste money on women neither do I give them money in exchange for love. Besides, I have more male 'friends' who tries to take advantage of me than the female friends. The problem with lots of guys when it comes to giving to ladies is that they always expect something in return which is nothing more than sex. And when the lady turn them down, they become cry babies. How many of the guys in this group help a fellow guy when in distress With your comment, I thought it's a taboo for you to assist ladies who genuinely need your assistance. HELP THOSE WHO GENUINELY NEED YOUR HELP WITHOUT EXPECTING SOMETHING IN RETURN BECAUSE IT WON'T MAKE YOU BECOME WEAK. Please, how did I quote wrongly so I can correct it next time |
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