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Re: Should I Sell My Late Mother's House With Her Grave To Fund My Masters In UK? by Kaybex007(m): 12:25pm On Apr 27, 2022 |
selling your mother's house for master in UK doesn't guarantee you a better life, it can only increase your chances of having a better life, don't you have tenants in the house, if not, look for who to lease it to. what if you finish your study and you don't get a job there after the two years grace given to you by the government, then you come back home to nothing. it's not a good decision and will never be, so many people have sold their properties all in the name of traveling and at the end of the day they come back to meet nothing and also come along with nothing. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Sell My Late Mother's House With Her Grave To Fund My Masters In UK? by ultimatekint(m): 12:32pm On Apr 27, 2022 |
The woman is dead ,dust had been given to dust, ; pack some sand and bury her in another location. And go and face your future. No big deal in that. Nigeria doesn't worth staying ooooooo! |
Re: Should I Sell My Late Mother's House With Her Grave To Fund My Masters In UK? by sherlock229(m): 12:32pm On Apr 27, 2022 |
Pay people to exhume her body and bury her in a cemetery like normal people... This is done everywhere else in the world, no ghost is gonna haunt anywhere it's all superstition |
Re: Should I Sell My Late Mother's House With Her Grave To Fund My Masters In UK? by ogwuche4u(m): 12:38pm On Apr 27, 2022 |
I rather suffer and strive for better days than sell my mom's house. Don't be deceived, uk is not as rossy as they paint it to be. From all you have Said, you are not financially capable to study in the UK. How do you plan to survive after paying all bills? 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Sell My Late Mother's House With Her Grave To Fund My Masters In UK? by purejustice36: 12:39pm On Apr 27, 2022 |
Never sell that house That house holds so many memories which money can’t buy That grave of ur mom holds so many memories which money can’t buy What’s the essence of selling the house in order to pursue a better life in the Uk only to regret later when you’ve made it ? Go to the bank you’re banking with Get a loan from them and use the house as a collateral , it’s that simple |
Re: Should I Sell My Late Mother's House With Her Grave To Fund My Masters In UK? by chigoizie7(m): 12:47pm On Apr 27, 2022 |
Kelechi20007: Why not take a soft loan using the property as a collateral? |
Re: Should I Sell My Late Mother's House With Her Grave To Fund My Masters In UK? by Johnsown1(m): 12:48pm On Apr 27, 2022 |
Is that the only property that you inherited from her and how are you sure that you will be successful abroad after selling the said property because if not; therefore you will become homeless. So I suggest you think well,plan well and execute well. The sound that coconut makes doesn't guarantee it's sweetness. Don't cross the ocean with two legs at once. Why don't you seek financial support from peers and families. In other news I wish you success in your survival pursuit because this country is not funny. |
Re: Should I Sell My Late Mother's House With Her Grave To Fund My Masters In UK? by Montaque(m): 12:52pm On Apr 27, 2022 |
Lease it nau. 10/15 years lease will help you in the long run |
Re: Should I Sell My Late Mother's House With Her Grave To Fund My Masters In UK? by 1Sharon(f): 12:53pm On Apr 27, 2022 |
If this story is real. Does it mean you didnt like your mother when alive? No crime in that but if you did like her, why wouldn't you want to be able to visit her grave? If you sell the house, how would you be able to visit her grave? And also, who would want to buy a house with a grave? You know how fearful our people are about death. |
Re: Should I Sell My Late Mother's House With Her Grave To Fund My Masters In UK? by SILVERLINES: 12:53pm On Apr 27, 2022 |
Kelechi20007:buddy we understand your plight, we selling your mother's grave is a no no |
Re: Should I Sell My Late Mother's House With Her Grave To Fund My Masters In UK? by freddie009(m): 12:54pm On Apr 27, 2022 |
Una when they say hustle in Nigeria, I know people doing well with their own house and solid business relocating their family to the UK, even those with good careers relocating to Canada. They there they hustle. |
Re: Should I Sell My Late Mother's House With Her Grave To Fund My Masters In UK? by demoBaba: 1:01pm On Apr 27, 2022 |
Kelechi20007: Getting admission in UK is the first step...... it's not all student that got admission in UK that got visa approval. So get your visa first before considering selling that house. Talking from experience bro. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Sell My Late Mother's House With Her Grave To Fund My Masters In UK? by seyenko(m): 1:02pm On Apr 27, 2022 |
Please sell and move your mum to a private gated cemetery, leave Nigeria and don't come back Kelechi20007: |
Re: Should I Sell My Late Mother's House With Her Grave To Fund My Masters In UK? by Zeezenho: 1:02pm On Apr 27, 2022 |
Kelechi20007: Sell am joor no be you be the first.one Igbo man go buy am. then you dig up your mum for your afonja brothers to harvest for 50k. Las las na we go buy una ancestors grave. Shameless people your mama wey no go secondary school,she hustle born and train you to university even build house join.now you wey get degree shamelessly want to sell her grave. All this sophisticated skullers sef. Let me give you finance 101 lecture. Use the house as collateral for loan that you need for your studies and little rehab on the property then rent it out to new tenant the fresh cash plus the money you will be making while you work in uk will be enough to pay off the loan. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Sell My Late Mother's House With Her Grave To Fund My Masters In UK? by 1Sharon(f): 1:04pm On Apr 27, 2022 |
pembisco: You're spot on. As soon as they've given her the masters, they'll hurry her out of the country. The rules have changed. Students can no longer stay after studying. |
Re: Should I Sell My Late Mother's House With Her Grave To Fund My Masters In UK? by 1Sharon(f): 1:07pm On Apr 27, 2022 |
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Re: Should I Sell My Late Mother's House With Her Grave To Fund My Masters In UK? by 1Sharon(f): 1:10pm On Apr 27, 2022 |
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Re: Should I Sell My Late Mother's House With Her Grave To Fund My Masters In UK? by SilvanusII(m): 1:11pm On Apr 27, 2022 |
Nigga, I'm sorry about your loss, but I doubt that even she would want you to remain in this country. I only need to you to be sure that you have gained the admission before you start dropping money for two reasons - so you don't dip hands into the money unnecessarily and to ascertain you are not scammed. God bless you. May your mother's orí guide you |
Re: Should I Sell My Late Mother's House With Her Grave To Fund My Masters In UK? by 1Sharon(f): 1:16pm On Apr 27, 2022 |
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Re: Should I Sell My Late Mother's House With Her Grave To Fund My Masters In UK? by idu1(m): 1:23pm On Apr 27, 2022 |
Don't sale the house on wild goose chase. |
Re: Should I Sell My Late Mother's House With Her Grave To Fund My Masters In UK? by tomju2(f): 1:33pm On Apr 27, 2022 |
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Re: Should I Sell My Late Mother's House With Her Grave To Fund My Masters In UK? by emmanuelpopson(m): 1:43pm On Apr 27, 2022 |
Nackzy: listen to this advice. its better not to incur generational curses kos of paper doc that doesnt have anything to do with sucess but Grace and chance.. UK OR NOT.. IF U WANNA SUCCEED, U WILL 1 Like |
Re: Should I Sell My Late Mother's House With Her Grave To Fund My Masters In UK? by emmanuelpopson(m): 1:53pm On Apr 27, 2022 |
Kelechi20007: U called your mum sweat dilapidated building abi. which one have u built?? see ee. not everyone that travels abroad, school abroad makes it. also you jjst assumed the UK is the place u can make money stressfree.. well. this is a bad precedent for u.. what have you been doing? teaching abi. we have seen people who have no parents, families or anything to fall back on but they work there heads up and are successful.. u have been cinditioned to think UK MASTERS will make u successful and selling your mums house is the key.. U are a complete f00l.. how must you think this way. get your brains active, ransack the web, develop yourself mentally and socially.. get engaged in other skills.. u dont have to sell what doesnt belong to u.. |
Re: Should I Sell My Late Mother's House With Her Grave To Fund My Masters In UK? by drnoel: 2:09pm On Apr 27, 2022 |
Kelechi20007: What happened with exhuming the remains and moving it to a more suitable location |
Re: Should I Sell My Late Mother's House With Her Grave To Fund My Masters In UK? by itu404(m): 2:18pm On Apr 27, 2022 |
i am not in a profession that proffer solution to this kind of dilemma. Am a christian apologist. from your question you have made up your mind to go for it. Judging from the way you framed your problem; rosy picture of UK and a dismal situation here in Nigeria and the only option is selling that house. these are factors to consider one, your spiritual background and influence of familiar spirit. One man sells his mother's furniture to start a printing business and became the publisher of the famed Ebony magazine and its subsidiaries. Another tried something similar and ended up committing suicide. One woman commits adultery and nothing happens to her or her husband, . Another did the same thing. She had to confess otherwise her children would have died and her husband, too. If you come from the later kind of family, familiar spirit would hunt you till you occupy the lowest ladder in degeneration in UK. Majek Fashek made it in Nigeria, but ended up miserable in the street of new york. Two, you are an only child you have no qualms in selling where your mother is buried? THREE UK is no bed of roses, indeed, no country is. [the poor you would have with you always, said Our lord Jesus] SOLUTION empty yourself relax, cool down and forget it all. Then allow the holy spirit to talk to you. where your destiny lies. |
Re: Should I Sell My Late Mother's House With Her Grave To Fund My Masters In UK? by SocialJustice: 2:23pm On Apr 27, 2022 |
Kelechi20007:I just saw this, have you sold it? Relocate her grave elsewhere if you want or just sell. Be wise how you use money though, do not go and pay your school fees in full. Ask the school the minimum you can pay and pay that. You will pay balance gradually when you get there from working. Try to retain as much money from the sale to get you there. I wish you the best. |
Re: Should I Sell My Late Mother's House With Her Grave To Fund My Masters In UK? by adubam(m): 2:26pm On Apr 27, 2022 |
1Sharon: No Ma. The new rule is that you can stay up to 2 years after study to look for jobs. |
Re: Should I Sell My Late Mother's House With Her Grave To Fund My Masters In UK? by 1Sharon(f): 2:31pm On Apr 27, 2022 |
adubam: Only 2? |
Re: Should I Sell My Late Mother's House With Her Grave To Fund My Masters In UK? by adubam(m): 2:40pm On Apr 27, 2022 |
1Sharon: Off course before the end of the 2 years he would definitely get a job and have his stay extended by work permit |
Re: Should I Sell My Late Mother's House With Her Grave To Fund My Masters In UK? by kokomilala(m): 2:40pm On Apr 27, 2022 |
Remove her remains. Get a motor hearse. Also,get a makeshift coffin to park her remains. Book a grave at a cemetery. Then,do the reburial. That was what I did to years ago for my late dad's remains.It was effortless. I got a motor hearse from General Hospital,I bought a grave at Mowo,along Badagry Expressway. I had got a digger ready to do most of the work on a Saturday night. The following day,a Sunday,during the lockdown,May 2020,we (myself and another person) had left Ikotun before 6 AM. At Igando,some policemen on the road delayed us,citing curfew rules. I had to leave,as the motor hearse was already wating for me some 50 meters away. When we got to Ojo,I exhumed his remains in no time. We got to Mowo and reburied him. We had reburied him before the person held by the policemen at Igando arrived. So,it's not a difficult thing,as my experience has shown. |
Re: Should I Sell My Late Mother's House With Her Grave To Fund My Masters In UK? by bizzibodi(m): 2:44pm On Apr 27, 2022 |
Hmm!let me see take a white cockerel to her kill it for her,then tell her your intentions,level the grave moves the stones away nobody will even know a grave is there. Then sell it but give me my commission. |
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