yassinattah:


Thank you,at least I give charity in her name,celebrate her post humous birthday and go to pray for her in her grave which is enough.

As for you,I ll advice you take up a job as a mortuary attendant in a grave yard close to you,so u empathize and cry with the dead very well,who knows you may lay with a male corpse that is still having erection so you honour the corpse by copulating with it out of your share sympathy and gesture of good faith.

Na the devil in human form wey we dey talk be this

Kelechi20007:
I recently got admission in a university in uk for my Masters. The challenge I have is that I can't fund it. The only way to to do so is by selling my mom house.

I'm her only child and another difficult challenge is that she was buried in the yard of the house 5 years ago.

I don't have a good job, I have been teaching in a private for a long time, I need a better future for myself, I'm seeing a chance here for a better life by furthering my education in uk.

It's a difficult decision for me selling the house with her grave in it. Please guys put yourself in my shoes, what will you do in this kind of situation?

Laren24:


No matter how much you think you are wise, you're still very stupid for insulting thinking you're giving him advice. Again, if you don't have better things to tell the guy don't insult him. Bastard!

Kelechi20007:
I recently got admission in a university in uk for my Masters. The challenge I have is that I can't fund it. The only way to to do so is by selling my mom house.

I'm her only child and another difficult challenge is that she was buried in the yard of the house 5 years ago.

I don't have a good job, I have been teaching in a private for a long time, I need a better future for myself, I'm seeing a chance here for a better life by furthering my education in uk.

It's a difficult decision for me selling the house with her grave in it. Please guys put yourself in my shoes, what will you do in this kind of situation?

Kelechi20007:
I recently got admission in a university in uk for my Masters. The challenge I have is that I can't fund it. The only way to to do so is by selling my mom house.

I'm her only child and another difficult challenge is that she was buried in the yard of the house 5 years ago.

I don't have a good job, I have been teaching in a private for a long time, I need a better future for myself, I'm seeing a chance here for a better life by furthering my education in uk.

It's a difficult decision for me selling the house with her grave in it. Please guys put yourself in my shoes, what will you do in this kind of situation?

Kelechi20007:
I recently got admission in a university in uk for my Masters. The challenge I have is that I can't fund it. The only way to to do so is by selling my mom house.

I'm her only child and another difficult challenge is that she was buried in the yard of the house 5 years ago.

I don't have a good job, I have been teaching in a private for a long time, I need a better future for myself, I'm seeing a chance here for a better life by furthering my education in uk.

It's a difficult decision for me selling the house with her grave in it. Please guys put yourself in my shoes, what will you do in this kind of situation?

Kelechi20007:
Nobody is saying anything, I will be going with the option of selling the property. The hope of having a better future in a better country is far better than being in a dilapidating building that can not be repaired when something spoils. It's crystal clear that graduates have no hope of good future in Nigeria. I only hope and pray that I don't offend my mum's spirit when I finally do. Cheers �

Lightorder:
so the only sin your late mum committed was leaving a house for you. Why not assume that you don’t have such property to sell. Why is it that people in Lagos do this a lot. Behind my own house, they sold part of their family house. Their mum was buried in a tenant’s bedroom. People knew when they sold part of the living room and carved out the rented bedroom. Where I come from , it is never done

Kelechi20007:
I recently got admission in a university in uk for my Masters. The challenge I have is that I can't fund it. The only way to to do so is by selling my mom house.

I'm her only child and another difficult challenge is that she was buried in the yard of the house 5 years ago.

I don't have a good job, I have been teaching in a private for a long time, I need a better future for myself, I'm seeing a chance here for a better life by furthering my education in uk.

It's a difficult decision for me selling the house with her grave in it. Please guys put yourself in my shoes, what will you do in this kind of situation?

LilMissFavvy:
You have just described the things you do in secret'. Your imaginations' and comments' speaks volumes of who you are....a Yahoo.boy. If your mother didn't leave property for you, you would have ended up as a broke' loser' for life. As for me, we are doing well, we don't need to sell where our precious dad's grave yard before we can make it. Even after selling your mom's grave..yard you have still turned out as a yahoiboy/loser'. You know the things you described in this comment I quoted, are the things I read you broke' losers' do with corpse' to get rich'. Maybe the spirit' of your mom' is truly after you'. Cursed'' son'.

Ebubu:


Meet your church and talk to them. If they can say a prayer to sooth her spirit. Or can do a conjuring so you can talk to her and apologize and you both embrace. Or you dig up the grave and carry it and bury in your new house in UK.

buygala:
What shall it profit you that you sell the house to fund your Masters and then come back to Nigeria and be homeless?


Note that the doing Masters in the UK doesn't guarantee that you will be allowed to work there after studies.. They will mostly collect your money, give you an MSC, and put you back on the plane to Murtala Muhammed Airport


From your statement that you are teaching in a private school, I guess it is safe to assume that your course of study isn't very marketable like the Medical sciences or Engineering... Or that you are not brilliant enough or lucky enough for well-paying companies to employ you.. The fact that you are not even on any kind of scholarship for your Masters give credence to the fact say you no too sabi book or your course of study is...well...not much in demand..


My point is... Don't sell your mother's house and grave site on a directionless whim... Do your research and be sure you have at least an 80% chance of being allowed to work in the abroad before you commit yourself... Because you will understand real wahala when you come back to Nigeria with a piece of paper that many other people have and are still jobless, and still end up being homeless.. .

splashbaby:
Oloriburuku ni e to think your name sound Yoruba even make it worst to think your dysfunctional upbringing can be brought out in the open in this manner. What is insulting to tell him the truth.

A person with proper home training will not consider selling his or her parents property with their grave in it...here the mother failed. The action is the reflection of training the parent gave him, which obviously is terrible for moulding a man to that state. A mad man like you will never find it even more insultive for a proper man to think this way.

May your children sell you and your grave when you are dead. Eranko, ole. Stupid generation without home training....You still wonder why many of you die prematurely this days.

maths1000:
U will never be successful even if u go to America for masters... If u do that.. Yiur children will do worse to u when u die... Are u even normal... With her grave in it.... U want to sell it... Can't yiu work and buikd yours ratger than selling your mother's sweat... Lazy bastard.. Eveb the masters u will not get it

dake40:
Selling the house with your mom's grave doesn't sound too pleasant IMH.

- Have you thought of taking a loan from the bank with the house documents as collateral?
- Do you have any skill or business in mind?. If you mention this, maybe someone will come up with a better idea. Remember, the grass is not always green on the other side
Do you such bank that can give loan with landed properties as collateral? Pls let me know if you do. Most banks this days only give loan to people with regular cash flow in their account without collateral. So we with small business without big income can not collect tangible loan.



Well, if selling the house is the only option.

Be sure the course you're going to study is worth it and put all your efforts to get better grades

Goto your mum's grave and pour out your heart to her (this will you feel better) . Promise her you'd put the money into good use. Be sure you're going to use it to further your education and strive hard to get a better future for yourself, this is the only way you your Mind/spirit won't taunt you in the future

All the best

Laren24:


From your write up shows the kind of person you are. Im still telling you just thinking you sound rational but you're not. You're still a very stupid individual, with a malfunctioning brain to bring insult to the topic in the first place while the OP was just asking of humble opinion on what to do on the issue. But what do you do? You brought insult to the topic and still continue doing so. That's to show you're a mentally deranged person. If you can't give an opinion, you don't need to carry and start bullcrap. Mr unwoke bastard. Shut the F up! Bastard!

Kelechi20007:
Nobody is saying anything, I will be going with the option of selling the property. The hope of having a better future in a better country is far better than being in a dilapidating building that can not be repaired when something spoils. It's crystal clear that graduates have no hope of good future in Nigeria. I only hope and pray that I don't offend my mum's spirit when I finally do. Cheers �

olumzzz:

Oga C&B, there's a 2 year postgraduate work permit for international students that study in UK.
That's what peeps use to settle in

buygala:


Is that work permit granted as a matter of course?

If na so e easy, why do so many Nigerian students come back home and starr trekking around Lagos jobhunting?


Face issue on ground